{"id":293589,"date":"2024-09-05T16:29:56","date_gmt":"2024-09-05T20:29:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/?post_type=sexual-wholeness&#038;p=293589"},"modified":"2024-11-11T16:34:42","modified_gmt":"2024-11-11T21:34:42","slug":"preteens","status":"publish","type":"sexual-wholeness","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/sexual-wholeness\/preteens\/","title":{"rendered":"Preteens"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-592ff853 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\" fetchpriority=\"high\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-e9c56de3\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-57cdb7fd\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">TALKING TO PRETEENS ABOUT SEX<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-10778ce8\"><h3 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">Romance and sex can begin between 11 and 14 \u2013 and 4 out of 10 teens feel pressured to have sex from sex-ed classes.<\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-8d6eb369\"><h3 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">In an increasingly sexualized world, you might be surprised at what your preteen needs to know.<\/h3><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-ffd425b9\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-e653b40a alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-29842637\"><p class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/\">FamilyLife<\/a>&nbsp; &gt; &nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/sexual-wholeness\/home\/\">Talking to Kids About Sex <\/a>&nbsp; &gt; &nbsp;<a href=\"#\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Preteens<\/span><\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-9ec3e04b alignfull 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How does that fact influence who we are? Clinical psychologist and author Dr. Juli Slattery encourages parents to talk to their children about God&#8217;s design for sexuality, even if the conversation is awkward.<\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/web.familylifetoday.com\/fl2018-08-23.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-0b2671be\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3d8232c3 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-b6594edb\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-btn__default-btn uagb-btn-tablet__large-btn uagb-btn-mobile__default-btn uagb-block-8e5ef540\"><div class=\"uagb-buttons__wrap uagb-buttons-layout-wrap \">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons-child uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-block-71d872ee wp-block-button\"><div class=\"uagb-button__wrapper\"><a 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width=\"508\" height=\"508\" title=\"rethinking-sexuality-2-508x508\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-7ae2ee31\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-88f8ede5\"><p class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/changing-our-thinking-about-human-sexuality\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">On Changing Our Thinking About Human Sexuality<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-e157114a\"><p class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><strong>with Juli Slattery<\/strong><br>August 24, 2018<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-0db64743 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-0de8e374\"><p class=\"uagb-heading-text\">Dr. Juli Slattery, author of &#8220;ReThinking Sexuality,&#8221; explains what it means when parents sexually disciple their children on the biblical view of sex.<\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/web.familylifetoday.com\/fl2018-08-24.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-d7be331b\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-b248a833 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-d1394e77\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-btn__default-btn uagb-btn-tablet__large-btn uagb-btn-mobile__default-btn uagb-block-48f0e8e8\"><div class=\"uagb-buttons__wrap uagb-buttons-layout-wrap \">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons-child uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-block-008fa6c2 wp-block-button\"><div class=\"uagb-button__wrapper\"><a class=\"uagb-buttons-repeater wp-block-button__link\" 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class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"http:\/\/d2c17sq0nj1f7e.cloudfront.net\/flw2019-05-04.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3c9e821d alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-266ca709\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-793e9b2d\"><h3 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">ADDITIONAL<\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-cc8dfb0b\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">RESOURCES<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-d9268099\"><h3 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/additional-resources-on-discipling-the-next-generation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">FROM AUTHENTICINTIMACY.COM<\/a><\/h3><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading 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Their vision is represented by two words that are rarely put together: sexual discipleship\u00ae.<\/h2><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-31d6e3be\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-c55cfd0b\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/additional-resources-on-discipling-the-next-generation\/#460\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How To Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality With Your Kids<\/a><\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-8f6f26d1\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">How do you talk to young kids about sex? Keep conversations small and have them often. 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In this episode, Juli is joined by friends from Axis.org to help you understand how Gen Z perceives gender, and how to walk alongside a young person you love who is struggling.<\/h2><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-1ac154fa\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-228b8684\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-585c1639\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.authenticintimacy.com\/additional-resources-on-discipling-the-next-generation\/#335\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Teaching Our Kids a Biblical Worldview of Sexuality<\/a><\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-52fcc443\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">We used to say, \u201cIf you don\u2019t talk to your kids about sex, someone else will.\u201d These days, there is no more \u201cif\u201d about it! 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