{"id":84831,"date":"2019-06-19T10:02:27","date_gmt":"2019-06-19T15:02:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/?p=84831"},"modified":"2019-06-19T10:02:27","modified_gmt":"2019-06-19T15:02:27","slug":"teen-vogue-fashionably-frames-sex-as-suitable-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/articles\/topics\/life-issues\/challenges\/cultural-issues\/teen-vogue-fashionably-frames-sex-as-suitable-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Teen Vogue Fashionably Frames Sex as Suitable Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\" fetchpriority=\"high\"><\/div><p style=\"padding-top: 30px\"><em>Teen Vogue<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.teenvogue.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">touts its publication<\/a> as \u201cthe young person\u2019s guide to conquering (and saving) the world.\u201d I don\u2019t know how many of their 3.3 million followers are actually teenagers, but teens are the audience they claim to be for.<\/p>\n<p>Before I say more, let me be clear about some things I\u2019m for. I\u2019m for compassion. I\u2019m for understanding. I\u2019m for healthy debate and dialogue. I\u2019m for showing love to all people, on all sides of the walls that are being built between us these days, even when we disagree.<\/p>\n<p>I am <em>for<\/em> people.<\/p>\n<p>But loving and being for people does not mean loving or being for their ideology. And as the father of a 13-year-old girl, when <em>Teen Vogue<\/em> moves from popping pimples to pushing pimps, I need to raise my hand and say, \u201cUm, yeah. I\u2019m not for this.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Irresponsibility<\/h2>\n<p><em>Teen Vogue<\/em> recently published \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.teenvogue.com\/story\/why-sex-work-is-real-work\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Why Sex Work Is Real Work<\/a>.\u201d Dr. Tlaleng Mofokeng bookends her thoughts with two ideas. First, she claims that it\u2019s \u201cnot right or just that people who exchange sexual services for money are criminalized, and I am not [criminalized] for what I do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Citing her work as a doctor, she writes that helping people with their sexual issues is no different than other sexual services. She ends the article by saying, \u201cEvidence, not morality, should guide law reforms and sex work policy for full sex work decriminalization.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Although I don\u2019t agree with her, I\u2019m not against Dr. Tlaleng for writing this piece. I\u2019m for free speech, which I obviously value even as I write this now.<\/p>\n<h2>Sad but true<\/h2>\n<p><em>Vogue<\/em> could have published this piece in any of their 23 editions. But they intentionally published it to their teenage audience. An audience that likely includes minors who have been, or have the potential to be, harmed and abused physically, psychologically, and emotionally by the sex trade in its many forms.<\/p>\n<p>Here are <a href=\"https:\/\/arkofhopeforchildren.org\/child-trafficking\/child-trafficking-statistics\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">some statistics<\/a> to ponder.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>600,000 to 800,000 women, children, and men are bought and sold across international borders every year and exploited for forced labor or commercial sex, says a source from the U.S. Government.<\/li>\n<li>Up to 300,000 Americans under 18 are lured into the commercial sex trade every year.<\/li>\n<li>50% of those victims are estimated to be children.<\/li>\n<li>It is estimated that 76% of transactions for sex with underage girls start on the internet.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Vogue<\/em> is seeking to normalize sex work to the very demographic targeted by predators.<\/p>\n<p>I can imagine the insecure 13-year-old, being groomed by a sexual predator in person or online. And here\u2019s a source she has grown to trust. Making it feel fashionable, telling her it\u2019s normal to exchange her body for pay.<\/p>\n<p>This propaganda rips her from understanding her value. It robs her of the healthy expectation that she, along with others, should respect her body.<\/p>\n<div class=\"fl-article-cta\"><div class=\"fl-article-cta-wrapper\"><a class='fl-article-cta-button' style='margin-top: 15px; visibility: visible; background-color: #f3bd48 !important;' target='_blank' href='https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/prayers-for-parents\/' data-color-override='false' data-hover-color-override='false' data-hover-text-color-override='#fff'><span>Download a free 30-day guide to praying for your children.<i class='fa fas fa-arrow-circle-right'><\/i><\/span> <\/a> <\/div> <\/div>\n<h2>Our social responsibility<\/h2>\n<p>I don\u2019t expect <em>Vogue<\/em> to share my values. But I do expect them to be socially responsible to the audience they claim to be suited for. It\u2019s not uncommon for them to paint sex as whimsical, dismissing the pain and consequences that accompany casual sexual experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Sarah and I educated our kids about sex at a far younger age than I was comfortable with. But with publications like <em>Teen Vogue<\/em> disguising themselves as youth friendly, we have to take responsibility for our children\u2019s sexual education. And get with the times.<\/p>\n<p>Be candid, be open, <a href=\"\/articles\/topics\/parenting\/parenting-challenges\/sexual-purity\/have-you-talked-to-your-kids-about-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">teach your kids about sex<\/a> in the beautiful context in which it was created, before someone else can be so irresponsible with such an important issue.<\/p>\n<p>Use your voice. Don\u2019t shy away from telling <em>Vogue<\/em> that you\u2019re not okay with them marketing their brand to youth, while pushing explicit and extreme sexual content.<\/p>\n<p>When you see something irresponsible, stop being afraid to say something. There are real people behind these publications, so speak the truth in love. Be respectful and exercise thoughtfulness, but don\u2019t be afraid to hold them accountable.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>Copyright \u00a9 2019 Matt Hammitt. All rights reserved.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Matt Hammitt is Grammy nominated musical artist, speaker, and author. His book\u00a0<em>Lead Me: Finding Courage to Fight for Your Marriage, Children and Faith,<\/em> releases February 2020. Find him on Twitter and Instagram @matthammitt.\u00a0 And online at <a href=\"http:\/\/matthammitt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Matthammitt.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the dad of a 13-year-old girl, when Teen Vogue moves from popping pimples to pushing pimps, I need to raise my hand and say, &#8220;I\u2019m not for this.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14950,"featured_media":84967,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"As the dad of a 13-year-old girl, when Teen Vogue moves from popping pimples to pushing pimps, I need to raise my hand and say, &quot;I\u2019m not for 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