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We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nBrad Griffin: \u201cWhere Do I Fit In?\u201d\u2014Unlocking Teen Belonging &amp;amp; Community\r\n\r\nGuest:Brad Griffin\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Brad Griffin &amp;amp; Kara Powell: 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager (Day 2 of 3)\r\n\r\nAir date:May 14, 2026\r\n\r\nBrad (00:04):\r\n\r\nIn the teenage years, one of the reasons that maybe we end up not liking our kids is that we just get stuck in the everyday. We lose the wonder and the curiosity of who they are and who they're becoming. And I think sometimes when a parent ends up not liking their kid, it can be because we've stopped being curious about them.\r\n\r\nDave (00:31):\r\n\r\nWelcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:37):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm Ann Wilson, and you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave (00:51):\r\n\r\nI remember in eighth grade the day I felt like I belonged.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:54):\r\n\r\nOh, what happened?\r\n\r\nDave (00:56):\r\n\r\nI got invited to Steve Lishawa's house after basketball practice. He was the kid who hit puberty before all of us, so he was six two, he was the man.\r\n\r\nAnn (01:06):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (01:06):\r\n\r\nAnd he invited me to his house, and I'd never been invited there. And I remember walking in and all the guys that were in the group, that I wasn't really in yet, were sitting in his parents' family room and the parents were gone. And as I walked in, they all looked at me and Steve said, \"Hey, grab a beer out of the fridge.\"\r\n\r\nAnn (01:25):\r\n\r\nAnd you were in the eighth grade.\r\n\r\nDave (01:27):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm in eighth grade. And I'm like, \"What?\" I'd never had a beer. And my dad and mom were alcoholics, so I was like, \"I don't do that stuff.\" But I remember feeling like that was the day I was in, because I was in Lishawa's group. And what we're talking about in this segment is so important for families and parents, because every kid\u2014whether it's eighth grade, sixth grade, 12th grade\u2014and every adult wants to know where\/where do I fit?\u2014where I belong.\r\n\r\nAnn (01:58):\r\n\r\nWell, we're specifically talking about teens today because they are asking that question, where do I fit?\r\n\r\nDave (02:03):\r\n\r\nYeah. We've even got a book called 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager. And we've got the author in the studio with us today, Brad Griffin. Thanks for being back.\r\n\r\nBrad (02:10):\r\n\r\nOh, it's so fun to be here. I love this conversation. \r\n\r\nDave (02:12):\r\n\r\nYeah. I see you over there smiling the whole time. What's that smile about?\u2014about the refrigerator.\r\n\r\nBrad (02:17):\r\n\r\nI have a really similar story from middle school. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nDo you? \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nThere was a kid, Matt Mahone, and he invited me to his house in between school and the dance, whatever the middle school dance was. There weren't very many of them, but they were traumatic. But I went to his house to hang out and get ready to go to the dance, to slick back our hair. It was the late '80s, early '90s. There was a lot of moose involved, if you remember moose. And I just thought, \u201cWow, he's actually my friend.\u201d I mean, I spent a lot of time in my elementary and middle school years, belonging was the question that was out in front for me. And I always felt a little bit or a lot on the outside. And when he invited me to his house, I thought, okay, that's it. I'm actually this kid's friend and he was a cool kid. He was a cool kid. And that mattered. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nYou wanted to be in that group. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nThat social status, yeah, it mattered.\r\n\r\nDave (03:18):\r\n\r\nWell, the interesting thing is, as we talked about previously with you and Kara about your book and really your study with teenagers, because you both work at the Fuller Youth Institute. And more importantly, like I said, you're married, three teenagers in the home.\r\n\r\nBrad (03:33):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nDave (03:34):\r\n\r\nSo you're living exactly this, but you interview these teenagers and you ask them all kinds of research questions, and you discovered what you believe are the three big questions. I know we've already said it, but remind our listener, what are the three big questions, because we just talked about one of them that our teens are asking.\r\n\r\nBrad (03:50):\r\n\r\nYeah. So that question of belonging, where do I fit? It is a huge one for many teenagers. It is the question that's out in front. The other two, the big question of identity, who am I? And the big question of purpose. What difference can I make? How will my life matter in the world?\r\n\r\nDave (04:10):\r\n\r\nYeah. And we talked even yesterday about it. They're similar questions we ask as adults. Here's the real question. How are they answering? Pick any one of those. Let's talk identity. How are they answering the identity question of who am I?\r\n\r\nBrad (04:23):\r\n\r\nSo we spent a lot of time listening. And to give you a picture for that, in the interview phase of our research, we sat down with teenagers one-on-one with an interviewer, and we met with them for up to six hours over the course of three interviews. So not six hours all at once, and we spaced them out a little bit, a couple weeks in between. And part of the purpose was to really to listen and then go back and listen again. And then go back and listen again. And through that practice, we heard a lot and we heard a lot of stories. And when it came to identity, one of the big themes we heard was about pressure and expectation. And so the dominant narrative we heard from teenagers was, \"I am what other people expect me to be. Other people have these versions of me that I need to live into and live up to often.\u201d\r\n\r\n(05:20):\r\n\r\n\u201cMy parents have a lot of expectations.\u201d \u201cSometimes it's people at church, my pastors.\u201d It's \u201cMy friends have certain expectations,\u201d \u201cMy teachers,\u201d \u201cMy coaches,\u201d and \u201cEverywhere I go, I just feel this pressure to be.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn (05:33):\r\n\r\nWhat I'm guessing too, that creates pressure and anxiety.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:37):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:38):\r\n\r\nAnd that's\u2014I mean, a lot of teens, a majority of teens, even are experiencing that. And you think that's why?\r\n\r\nBrad (05:44):\r\n\r\nI think it's a big part of it.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:46):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:47):\r\n\r\nAnd anxiety is a word that this generation uses to define themselves.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:52):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:52):\r\n\r\nAnd it's one of the words we think is just an overlay. They're anxious. There's a lot to be anxious about in teenage experience anyway, just developmentally. You wonder, am I as good as other people? You wonder, is my body changing in all the right ways? You have no idea what's going on. There's so much to worry about. You get into high school and then you worry about your future and all of that. But this generation, it feels like has a whole other layer of pressure. Some of that's about social media and expectations. We can get back into that later. Some of that I think is about our parenting and the pressure and the expectations that we put on our kids to quite honestly perform to our expectations. And that all builds up.\r\n\r\nDave (06:42):\r\n\r\nAs a parent, because parents are listening, what do we do?\r\n\r\nBrad (06:45):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (06:45):\r\n\r\nHow do we step into that?\r\n\r\nBrad (06:46):\r\n\r\nWell, I'll start with one thing not to say\u2014and this is going to be counterintuitive, okay\u2014I think we should stop saying, \"Well, just be yourself.\" Now, on the surface, that sounds like a really great thing to say, right?\r\n\r\nAnn (07:00):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (07:00):\r\n\r\nIt actually, to a teenager, it can sound like more pressure. It can feel like more pressure. Because here's the thing, they don't know who they are. That just be myself, what do you mean? Well, when I'm with my friends at school, I have to be this way. In class, I have to be this way. At home, I have to be this way. By the way, I'm trying on new versions of myself all the time; because that's what adolescence is. That's normal, developmentally normal. And I don't know that I like who I am. And most days\u2014 \r\n\r\nAnn (07:34):\r\n\r\nOr other people may not like me.\r\n\r\nBrad (07:34):\r\n\r\nOther people may not like who I am. There's all these different pieces. And so to just be yourself, it actually feels like a standard they can't live up to. And so we're giving them a whole other layer of something that they don't feel like they can achieve.\r\n\r\nAnn (07:47):\r\n\r\nSo Brad, what do we do when our kids come back like, \"Well, I'm failing in school. I have no friends. I just posted this thing on Instagram. I have two likes. I don't feel like I am enough to anybody else. Maybe to you, but you're you and Mom and you have to love me.\"\r\n\r\nBrad (08:03):\r\n\r\nThat's right.\r\n\r\nAnn (08:04):\r\n\r\nYeah. How do you respond to that when they don't feel like they are enough?\r\n\r\nBrad (08:08):\r\n\r\nSo in that moment, where my mind jumps to is, I want to fix it.\r\n\r\nAnn (08:12):\r\n\r\nYes, me too. Let me tell you.\r\n\r\nBrad (08:15):\r\n\r\nYeah, I want to fix it. I want to jump in with, \"Oh no, no, no. You're so awesome and you're amazing and look at all your talents.\u201d And \u201cWho cares if they don't like your picture? I think it's amazing. Look, I put it on my phone lock screen.\u201d I mean, I want to fix. And that impulse is there because we don't want our kids to experience the discomfort that they're feeling. We want them to feel better. I think what they need is to know that they're heard. So one of our colleagues said that being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they're the same thing. \r\n\r\nDave (08:55):\r\n\r\nYeah, I read that in your book, and I highlighted that like, oh my goodness, that is so well said. \r\n\r\nBrad (09:01):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (09:01):\r\n\r\nSo talk about that. I mean, that's true for us as adults, but especially for a teenager.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:05):\r\n\r\nIsn\u2019t it. So for that kid in that situation, I actually think what could be most helpful sometimes is for us to just reflect back. \u201cWow. That sounds really tough.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn (09:15):\r\n\r\n\u201cThat's a lot.\u201d\r\n\r\nBrad (09:16):\r\n\r\nYeah. \u201cIt sounds like you're really just feeling a lot of pressure right now, huh?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (09:21):\r\n\r\nAnd you say in your book, \"Memorize these three words. Tell me more.\" So that's what you're modeling right now.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:26):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nDave (09:27):\r\n\r\nTell me more.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:28):\r\n\r\nI love those words. I had a friend and a pastor who said, \"I think those might be the three most loving words that we can offer another person.\" \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nWow. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\n\u201cTell me more about that. Tell me more about what it feels like when that happens.\u201d \u201cHelp me understand;\u201d that's another really good on. I love this, wondering language. \u201cI wonder.\u201d \u201cI wonder what that's like.\u201d Even the kid who won't tell us\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (09:51):\r\n\r\nRight, what they're feeling.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:52):\r\n\r\n\u2014what they're feeling.\r\n\r\nDave (09:53):\r\n\r\nI got to just say this. As I'm listening to this, I just got to add this. By the way, husbands, this works really well when you're communicating with your wife. And I'm sure it's the other way for a wife with a husband. But Ann has told me so many times, \"Just ask me. Don't fix it. Don't solve it.\" \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nJust get in it with me. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nTell me more. Tell me, what did that feel like? I mean, I'm listening to you say that about us with our teenagers but let me ask you this. As a dad or as a mom, how do we stop ourselves from saying, \"Yeah, but ... \" Because they're going to say things that we know are wrong. We know they should think\u2014and there's a part of us that go, \"Yeah, I hear you. I hear you, but ... \" And then we go right to the answer, the solution, the judgment, whatever.\r\n\r\n(10:31):\r\n\r\nHow do we stay away from that? Because that's a tendency for all of us to do as parents.\r\n\r\nRon (10:38):\r\n\r\nHey friends, Ron Deal here. Did you know that for 50 years FamilyLife has been working around the world and in your backyard to teach couples, parents, and families how to love God and love one another? And thousands of churches utilize a FamilyLife resource to teach biblical principles for life and love in their community. And thanks to people like you, this work continues to help people pursue the relationships that matter most with God and with others. Become a FamilyLife Partner today because right now every new monthly gift is matched for an entire year. Double your gift at FamilyLifeToday.com or call us at 1-800-FLToday. That's 1-800-FLToday.\r\n\r\nBrad (11:26):\r\n\r\nSomebody told me this secret and I love it. I have a bottle of water right here in the studio with us. And one tip that this parent said was, when you're tempted to jump in with an answer, with a response, with a fix, just take a drink, take a sip, swallow, take a breath, right? Whatever that is, just interrupt yourself. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nI actually think it's a discipline. Whether it's water, whether it's taking a breath, whatever that is, the discipline of pausing and asking ourselves, why am I going to respond right now? And what does this kid actually need right now? And sometimes in that pause, sometimes the pause is long enough for the kid to actually say the next thing, where we might normally jump in with a fix or an answer. I got to tell you, I wish I was better at this. I mean, I actually, I love having the answer.\r\n\r\n(12:21):\r\n\r\nI love it.\r\n\r\nAnn (12:25):\r\n\r\nI was getting teary when you were talking because I thought this is my greatest parenting mistake. Because when they start expressing their pain or their feelings of not belonging, not knowing who they are, not feeling like they fit in anywhere, I get so fearful in my heart, and I love them so much that I want to fix them right away. This is the truth. That's wrong thinking. This is right thinking. And I'm passionate out of my love for them, but that's not what they're needing right now. That's been\u2014that right there\u2014if our listeners, and parents, youth leaders could do that right there, it would change our relationship with our kids. And you're right, it's such a discipline instead of just jumping in to fix it. It's hard. I like that step of take a breath, take a drink. And I would add, say a prayer.\r\n\r\nBrad (13:15):\r\n\r\nYes. \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\n\u201cJesus, give me wisdom. You promise to do that in James. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God who gives generously.\u201d God hears that. He'll give us wisdom of just being able to then to ask, take a pause. And I think it's hard with kids that don't open up.\r\n\r\nDave (13:32):\r\n\r\nAnd I would add this, because I think there may be some wired like me, which would, the advice would be stay engaged. Because there's a part of me that when it goes there with, even with Ann, but with a son or daughter, they're going sort of deep. They're going messy. And I just like, \"Okay, I'm out.\" Part of me is like, \"I'm just going to go work out. I'm just not going to ... \" It's like I'm uncomfortable. And I know there's moms and dads that are like, \"Yeah, that's me too.\" And \u201cI just bail.\u201d Don't bail. Stay engaged. You don't have to answer their question. You just need to live with them and walk with them in that journey, right?\r\n\r\nBrad (14:12):\r\n\r\nYes. And to be okay with not resolving everything in the conversation. Because the other thing is, I want it to be fixed now. I want the answer to come by the end of our conversation, or I want that kid to walk away feeling whatever, or for this conflict to be resolved if it's conflict.\r\n\r\nDave (14:30):\r\n\r\nAnd I would add this, because we said this in our No Perfect Parents book. A lot of times as parents, we think our goal is that we have teenagers that walk with God with no sin, with no disobedience.\r\n\r\nBrad (14:43):\r\n\r\nSure. Perfect kids. \r\n\r\nDave (14:43):\r\n\r\nThat's not the goal. I mean, the goal is something bigger than that. It's like, man, I hope that when my son or daughter is 30 years old, they're following Jesus. And you know what? It may take some really bad choices in their teen years for that goal to actually happen. I'm not saying that's the only way it happens, but often we like, \"Oh no, we can't let anything that's that negative happen or let them wrestle with doubt and struggle in those teenage years. We want to fix it right there.\" And sometimes we need to step back and say, \"God's going to work in this.\" And what they need right now is a mom or dad just comes alongside, is the stable force they need, but lives with them in the journey. Something like that?\r\n\r\nAnn (15:23):\r\n\r\nLet's play a clip; because this is another thing that can happen with teenagers. We recently interviewed Bev Hendricks Godby and she was talking about sometimes you really don't like your teenagers. And so Brad, we want you to listen to this and maybe respond.\r\n\r\nBev (15:42):\r\n\r\nIdeally, you don't want to start in adolescence trying to like your child. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nGood point. \r\n\r\nBev:\r\n\r\nThat's not the most optimal time to do that. I feel like we lose the magic of childhood so quickly.\r\n\r\n(15:58):\r\n\r\nWhen we first find out that we're having a baby, when we first have them, it's just all joy and just, \"Oh, this is amazing.\" And so quickly it just kind of flattens out. And I would really encourage parents, wherever you are, try to get back into the joy, receive the gift, unwrap the gift. It's right in front of you. It's happening, but it's like you can delight in that gift if you choose to and figure out what's right with this child in front of me. And they'll help you out with that because they can't not be this person.\r\n\r\nBrad (16:34):\r\n\r\nI love that. The word that comes to mind for me is curiosity, cultivating curiosity. In the teenage years, one of the reasons that maybe we end up not liking our kids is that we just get stuck in the everyday. It's logistics. And some of those logistics are not very fun. I have said that I kind of get stuck asking my kids the same handful of questions over and over again.\r\n\r\nAnn (17:00):\r\n\r\nWhich are?\r\n\r\nBrad (17:01):\r\n\r\nWell: how was your day? Do you have homework? Are you going to practice? Do you have your stuff? Did you do laundry? I mean, it's the ridiculous, did you unload the dishwasher? And those are not very fun questions to live with. They're not fun to ask and they're not fun to answer. And they don't cultivate curiosity. They don't actually help me get to know my kid. They don't help us cultivate a fun relationship or anything of substance. And of course they're necessary. I mean, there's this layer of life that is just, we have to function and we have to learn how to function as a family. But I think that's where we lose our teenagers is we lose the wonder and the curiosity of who they are and who they're becoming. And I think sometimes when a parent ends up not liking their kid, it can be because we've stopped being curious about them.\r\n\r\n(17:56):\r\n\r\nSo maybe a way to get back into that is just to start asking our kids some different questions to say, \"Hey, I wonder what you're into these days? I don't feel like I know what kind of music you like right now, or I don't understand the music you listen to. Tell me about it.\"\r\n\r\nAnn (18:12):\r\n\r\nThat's good. Even I was thinking even on social media, if they have social media, who are you following? Tell me about them. Why do you like to follow them or what are you listening to that you resonate with? Those are good questions. I like that.\r\n\r\nBrad (18:25):\r\n\r\nYeah. I judge a lot. So this is a discipline for me too. As a parent withholding judgment is one of my biggest downfalls. Well, it's a discipline I have to practice to withhold it because my downfall is to judge. And when we hear something that we don't like or we don't know if we like it or we're not so sure, we just jump straight to judgment.\r\n\r\nAnn (18:48):\r\n\r\nWell, especially if it's just pure trash. You know what I mean? We know what we think. I made the mistake of that too. I was listening to his song\u2014this is back in the CD days\u2014like, \"Are you kidding me? This is what you're listening to.\" I take it out of his CD player. I throw it into the trash can. That really opens up conversation. Like \u201cMy mom's insane,\u201d That's what he's thinking. But I mean, there's some music out, the lyrics are crazy, like bad, in terms of what we're thinking. So another time, this could be, take a breath, tell me\u2014\r\n\r\nDave (19:19):\r\n\r\nTake a drink of water.\r\n\r\nAnn (19:22):\r\n\r\nYeah, and you're asking questions about that.\r\n\r\nBrad (19:24):\r\n\r\nYeah. Tell me what you like. I think it helps too to remember some of what we actually listened to and watched. And I certainly remember looking back now. I mean, even sometimes I'll hear something, a song from when I was a teenager and think, \"Oh, I actually listened to that.\" I knew all the words to that song.\r\n\r\n(19:46):\r\n\r\nThat wasn't very edifying. That wasn't very whatever. And so under the surface, sometimes, a kid wants to listen to music because they want to belong. To take it back to the three questions, we actually heard this in our interviews. One young woman talked about\u2014I remember this one\u2014she said, \"Okay, so sometimes I remember in middle school especially\u201d\u2014she said\u2014\"when I knew a song and I knew the lyrics to a song, I fit in. And then a new song would come out and I didn't know. And suddenly it felt like I didn't belong anymore with these people, and I didn't understand how that worked.\u201d And music is one of those undercurrents of teenage life. And actually, it can be a marker of belonging\u2014and a particular in, sort of subgroups and clusters of kids who listen to particular music. And so all of that, it's part of it.\r\n\r\n(20:39):\r\n\r\nIt can be part of identity. \u201cWell, which\u2014am I an eclectic music person? Am I a country music person? What kind of music am I? What does that say about who I am?\u201d And kids are processing that. They may not even be able to be consciously aware of it, but it might be about who I am. It might be about where do I belong? And to us as parents, it's just like, oh, that's trash. Are you kidding me?\r\n\r\n(21:06):\r\n\r\nEven we listen to lyrics. Kids don't necessarily even listen to lyrics. I mean, for some kids it's like, oh, this is just fun to dance to. Well, did you hear what they're saying? No.\r\n\r\nDave (21:17):\r\n\r\nAnd yet I think at the end of the day, as you think about the three questions, identity and belonging and purpose, if anybody is going to be the one to speak truth about those, it's us as parents. And again, we talked about it. We have to be very careful how we do it. We need to listen. We need to empathize. We need to ask questions. But I also think\u2014and Ann has shared many of her mistakes\u2014she was the best, and still is, at speaking words of life and true Christ-identity into our boys. Even now as men, she constantly reminds them, in an appropriate way\u2014not in a mom, \"Hey, you got to...\"\u2014but just because they're not hearing this anywhere else. And I think we as parents need to make sure, and I would say even an action point for today\u2014what if today's the day they heard from you, mom or dad, the truth about who they are, and where they belong, and what their purpose is in an appropriate, regular, consistent way. They need to hear it.\r\n\r\nAnn (22:16):\r\n\r\nDave, I would add too, one of the things we did, and I would do this every night is I would put my hands on them\u2014their shoulder, their leg, their foot\u2014and pray for them at night. And I'm praying those things over them. \u201cGod, thank you that they're a part of our family. Thank you for the gifts.\u201d And I would name some of the things I see in them. And I would even say, \u201cThey may not see it, Lord, but I do, and you do, Jesus.\u201d And just praying that over them because they might not always receive but just praying that over them and thanking God for them.\r\n\r\nBrad (22:45):\r\n\r\nI was thinking prayer when you said that, as you started to say that Ann. One thing I was thinking about is sometimes we tuck something away and come back to it later,\r\n\r\n(22:54):\r\n\r\nLike, \"Hey, this conversation, this may not be the moment to correct, but I'm going to tuck that away and come back to it.\" And one of the ways we can come back to it is prayer. And I'm a big fan of praying for my kids at night. \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nYeah, me too. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nWe do. And it's just a practice we started when they were babies and we keep doing it, even though they're teenagers and they haven't asked us to stop and we're not going to stop. Right. But praying for your kids at night can be one of those contexts where you can reinforce truth. I just text my kids things sometimes.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:21):\r\n\r\nSo good.\r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nThat\u2019s good.\r\n\r\nBrad (23:22):\r\n\r\nAnd I have a college student now. The other day I just sent her a link to a song and it's just the Lord bless you and keep you. And the Lord make his face shine on you. And I just said, \"Hey, just a Tuesday blessing for you. \" And it's little things like that where we can speak truth to our kids in incremental ways over time and not in the heat of a argument. I wasn't in that text, I wasn't disagreeing with her about music or about fashion, just a whole other thing we haven't even talked about or whatever. It's just a, \"Hey, I just want to bless you today.\" \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nThat's good. Because I love you. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nGod loves you and I love you. Yeah.\r\n\r\nDave (24:05):\r\n\r\nWell, that was another great conversation with Brad Griffin about teenagers, and everybody wants help with teenagers.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:11):\r\n\r\nWell, I feel like this topic is just so critical. And as parents of teens, you're always looking for new stuff. So again, his book is written with Kara Powell, so it's Brad Griffin and Kara Powell, and their book is called 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager: Making the Most of Your Conversations and Connections.\r\n\r\nDave (24:30):\r\n\r\nAnd you can get it at FamilyLifeToday.com. Just click on the link there in the show notes, and guess what? We get to talk about this again tomorrow. One more day. \r\n\r\nFamilyLife Today is a donor-supported production of FamilyLife\u00ae, a Cru\u00ae Ministry, celebrating 50 years of God's faithfulness as marriages grow stronger and families flourish in Him.\r\n\r\nIf you\u2019ve benefited from the FamilyLife Today transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs of producing them and making them available online?\r\n\r\nCopyright \u00a9 2026 FamilyLife. 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do I fit in?\u201d Brad Griffin and Kara Powell join Dave and Ann Wilson to help you guide teens toward the soul-deep belonging they\u2019re hunting for,","meta_box":{"show_notes":"\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/donate.familylife.com\/may-2026\/\">Become a monthly partner with FamilyLife Today<\/a> \u2014 your gift is matched for a full year (double your impact!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr>\n<ul>\n<li>Thanks to the Christian Standard Bible for sponsoring this episode. 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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nBrad Griffin: \u201cWhere Do I Fit In?\u201d\u2014Unlocking Teen Belonging &amp;amp; Community\r\n\r\nGuest:Brad Griffin\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Brad Griffin &amp;amp; Kara Powell: 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager (Day 2 of 3)\r\n\r\nAir date:May 14, 2026\r\n\r\nBrad (00:04):\r\n\r\nIn the teenage years, one of the reasons that maybe we end up not liking our kids is that we just get stuck in the everyday. We lose the wonder and the curiosity of who they are and who they're becoming. And I think sometimes when a parent ends up not liking their kid, it can be because we've stopped being curious about them.\r\n\r\nDave (00:31):\r\n\r\nWelcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:37):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm Ann Wilson, and you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave (00:51):\r\n\r\nI remember in eighth grade the day I felt like I belonged.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:54):\r\n\r\nOh, what happened?\r\n\r\nDave (00:56):\r\n\r\nI got invited to Steve Lishawa's house after basketball practice. He was the kid who hit puberty before all of us, so he was six two, he was the man.\r\n\r\nAnn (01:06):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (01:06):\r\n\r\nAnd he invited me to his house, and I'd never been invited there. And I remember walking in and all the guys that were in the group, that I wasn't really in yet, were sitting in his parents' family room and the parents were gone. And as I walked in, they all looked at me and Steve said, \"Hey, grab a beer out of the fridge.\"\r\n\r\nAnn (01:25):\r\n\r\nAnd you were in the eighth grade.\r\n\r\nDave (01:27):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm in eighth grade. And I'm like, \"What?\" I'd never had a beer. And my dad and mom were alcoholics, so I was like, \"I don't do that stuff.\" But I remember feeling like that was the day I was in, because I was in Lishawa's group. And what we're talking about in this segment is so important for families and parents, because every kid\u2014whether it's eighth grade, sixth grade, 12th grade\u2014and every adult wants to know where\/where do I fit?\u2014where I belong.\r\n\r\nAnn (01:58):\r\n\r\nWell, we're specifically talking about teens today because they are asking that question, where do I fit?\r\n\r\nDave (02:03):\r\n\r\nYeah. We've even got a book called 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager. And we've got the author in the studio with us today, Brad Griffin. Thanks for being back.\r\n\r\nBrad (02:10):\r\n\r\nOh, it's so fun to be here. I love this conversation. \r\n\r\nDave (02:12):\r\n\r\nYeah. I see you over there smiling the whole time. What's that smile about?\u2014about the refrigerator.\r\n\r\nBrad (02:17):\r\n\r\nI have a really similar story from middle school. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nDo you? \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nThere was a kid, Matt Mahone, and he invited me to his house in between school and the dance, whatever the middle school dance was. There weren't very many of them, but they were traumatic. But I went to his house to hang out and get ready to go to the dance, to slick back our hair. It was the late '80s, early '90s. There was a lot of moose involved, if you remember moose. And I just thought, \u201cWow, he's actually my friend.\u201d I mean, I spent a lot of time in my elementary and middle school years, belonging was the question that was out in front for me. And I always felt a little bit or a lot on the outside. And when he invited me to his house, I thought, okay, that's it. I'm actually this kid's friend and he was a cool kid. He was a cool kid. And that mattered. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nYou wanted to be in that group. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nThat social status, yeah, it mattered.\r\n\r\nDave (03:18):\r\n\r\nWell, the interesting thing is, as we talked about previously with you and Kara about your book and really your study with teenagers, because you both work at the Fuller Youth Institute. And more importantly, like I said, you're married, three teenagers in the home.\r\n\r\nBrad (03:33):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nDave (03:34):\r\n\r\nSo you're living exactly this, but you interview these teenagers and you ask them all kinds of research questions, and you discovered what you believe are the three big questions. I know we've already said it, but remind our listener, what are the three big questions, because we just talked about one of them that our teens are asking.\r\n\r\nBrad (03:50):\r\n\r\nYeah. So that question of belonging, where do I fit? It is a huge one for many teenagers. It is the question that's out in front. The other two, the big question of identity, who am I? And the big question of purpose. What difference can I make? How will my life matter in the world?\r\n\r\nDave (04:10):\r\n\r\nYeah. And we talked even yesterday about it. They're similar questions we ask as adults. Here's the real question. How are they answering? Pick any one of those. Let's talk identity. How are they answering the identity question of who am I?\r\n\r\nBrad (04:23):\r\n\r\nSo we spent a lot of time listening. And to give you a picture for that, in the interview phase of our research, we sat down with teenagers one-on-one with an interviewer, and we met with them for up to six hours over the course of three interviews. So not six hours all at once, and we spaced them out a little bit, a couple weeks in between. And part of the purpose was to really to listen and then go back and listen again. And then go back and listen again. And through that practice, we heard a lot and we heard a lot of stories. And when it came to identity, one of the big themes we heard was about pressure and expectation. And so the dominant narrative we heard from teenagers was, \"I am what other people expect me to be. Other people have these versions of me that I need to live into and live up to often.\u201d\r\n\r\n(05:20):\r\n\r\n\u201cMy parents have a lot of expectations.\u201d \u201cSometimes it's people at church, my pastors.\u201d It's \u201cMy friends have certain expectations,\u201d \u201cMy teachers,\u201d \u201cMy coaches,\u201d and \u201cEverywhere I go, I just feel this pressure to be.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn (05:33):\r\n\r\nWhat I'm guessing too, that creates pressure and anxiety.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:37):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:38):\r\n\r\nAnd that's\u2014I mean, a lot of teens, a majority of teens, even are experiencing that. And you think that's why?\r\n\r\nBrad (05:44):\r\n\r\nI think it's a big part of it.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:46):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:47):\r\n\r\nAnd anxiety is a word that this generation uses to define themselves.\r\n\r\nAnn (05:52):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (05:52):\r\n\r\nAnd it's one of the words we think is just an overlay. They're anxious. There's a lot to be anxious about in teenage experience anyway, just developmentally. You wonder, am I as good as other people? You wonder, is my body changing in all the right ways? You have no idea what's going on. There's so much to worry about. You get into high school and then you worry about your future and all of that. But this generation, it feels like has a whole other layer of pressure. Some of that's about social media and expectations. We can get back into that later. Some of that I think is about our parenting and the pressure and the expectations that we put on our kids to quite honestly perform to our expectations. And that all builds up.\r\n\r\nDave (06:42):\r\n\r\nAs a parent, because parents are listening, what do we do?\r\n\r\nBrad (06:45):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (06:45):\r\n\r\nHow do we step into that?\r\n\r\nBrad (06:46):\r\n\r\nWell, I'll start with one thing not to say\u2014and this is going to be counterintuitive, okay\u2014I think we should stop saying, \"Well, just be yourself.\" Now, on the surface, that sounds like a really great thing to say, right?\r\n\r\nAnn (07:00):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad (07:00):\r\n\r\nIt actually, to a teenager, it can sound like more pressure. It can feel like more pressure. Because here's the thing, they don't know who they are. That just be myself, what do you mean? Well, when I'm with my friends at school, I have to be this way. In class, I have to be this way. At home, I have to be this way. By the way, I'm trying on new versions of myself all the time; because that's what adolescence is. That's normal, developmentally normal. And I don't know that I like who I am. And most days\u2014 \r\n\r\nAnn (07:34):\r\n\r\nOr other people may not like me.\r\n\r\nBrad (07:34):\r\n\r\nOther people may not like who I am. There's all these different pieces. And so to just be yourself, it actually feels like a standard they can't live up to. And so we're giving them a whole other layer of something that they don't feel like they can achieve.\r\n\r\nAnn (07:47):\r\n\r\nSo Brad, what do we do when our kids come back like, \"Well, I'm failing in school. I have no friends. I just posted this thing on Instagram. I have two likes. I don't feel like I am enough to anybody else. Maybe to you, but you're you and Mom and you have to love me.\"\r\n\r\nBrad (08:03):\r\n\r\nThat's right.\r\n\r\nAnn (08:04):\r\n\r\nYeah. How do you respond to that when they don't feel like they are enough?\r\n\r\nBrad (08:08):\r\n\r\nSo in that moment, where my mind jumps to is, I want to fix it.\r\n\r\nAnn (08:12):\r\n\r\nYes, me too. Let me tell you.\r\n\r\nBrad (08:15):\r\n\r\nYeah, I want to fix it. I want to jump in with, \"Oh no, no, no. You're so awesome and you're amazing and look at all your talents.\u201d And \u201cWho cares if they don't like your picture? I think it's amazing. Look, I put it on my phone lock screen.\u201d I mean, I want to fix. And that impulse is there because we don't want our kids to experience the discomfort that they're feeling. We want them to feel better. I think what they need is to know that they're heard. So one of our colleagues said that being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they're the same thing. \r\n\r\nDave (08:55):\r\n\r\nYeah, I read that in your book, and I highlighted that like, oh my goodness, that is so well said. \r\n\r\nBrad (09:01):\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nDave (09:01):\r\n\r\nSo talk about that. I mean, that's true for us as adults, but especially for a teenager.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:05):\r\n\r\nIsn\u2019t it. So for that kid in that situation, I actually think what could be most helpful sometimes is for us to just reflect back. \u201cWow. That sounds really tough.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn (09:15):\r\n\r\n\u201cThat's a lot.\u201d\r\n\r\nBrad (09:16):\r\n\r\nYeah. \u201cIt sounds like you're really just feeling a lot of pressure right now, huh?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (09:21):\r\n\r\nAnd you say in your book, \"Memorize these three words. Tell me more.\" So that's what you're modeling right now.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:26):\r\n\r\nYes.\r\n\r\nDave (09:27):\r\n\r\nTell me more.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:28):\r\n\r\nI love those words. I had a friend and a pastor who said, \"I think those might be the three most loving words that we can offer another person.\" \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nWow. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\n\u201cTell me more about that. Tell me more about what it feels like when that happens.\u201d \u201cHelp me understand;\u201d that's another really good on. I love this, wondering language. \u201cI wonder.\u201d \u201cI wonder what that's like.\u201d Even the kid who won't tell us\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (09:51):\r\n\r\nRight, what they're feeling.\r\n\r\nBrad (09:52):\r\n\r\n\u2014what they're feeling.\r\n\r\nDave (09:53):\r\n\r\nI got to just say this. As I'm listening to this, I just got to add this. By the way, husbands, this works really well when you're communicating with your wife. And I'm sure it's the other way for a wife with a husband. But Ann has told me so many times, \"Just ask me. Don't fix it. Don't solve it.\" \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nJust get in it with me. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nTell me more. Tell me, what did that feel like? I mean, I'm listening to you say that about us with our teenagers but let me ask you this. As a dad or as a mom, how do we stop ourselves from saying, \"Yeah, but ... \" Because they're going to say things that we know are wrong. We know they should think\u2014and there's a part of us that go, \"Yeah, I hear you. I hear you, but ... \" And then we go right to the answer, the solution, the judgment, whatever.\r\n\r\n(10:31):\r\n\r\nHow do we stay away from that? Because that's a tendency for all of us to do as parents.\r\n\r\nRon (10:38):\r\n\r\nHey friends, Ron Deal here. Did you know that for 50 years FamilyLife has been working around the world and in your backyard to teach couples, parents, and families how to love God and love one another? And thousands of churches utilize a FamilyLife resource to teach biblical principles for life and love in their community. And thanks to people like you, this work continues to help people pursue the relationships that matter most with God and with others. Become a FamilyLife Partner today because right now every new monthly gift is matched for an entire year. Double your gift at FamilyLifeToday.com or call us at 1-800-FLToday. That's 1-800-FLToday.\r\n\r\nBrad (11:26):\r\n\r\nSomebody told me this secret and I love it. I have a bottle of water right here in the studio with us. And one tip that this parent said was, when you're tempted to jump in with an answer, with a response, with a fix, just take a drink, take a sip, swallow, take a breath, right? Whatever that is, just interrupt yourself. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nYeah.\r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nI actually think it's a discipline. Whether it's water, whether it's taking a breath, whatever that is, the discipline of pausing and asking ourselves, why am I going to respond right now? And what does this kid actually need right now? And sometimes in that pause, sometimes the pause is long enough for the kid to actually say the next thing, where we might normally jump in with a fix or an answer. I got to tell you, I wish I was better at this. I mean, I actually, I love having the answer.\r\n\r\n(12:21):\r\n\r\nI love it.\r\n\r\nAnn (12:25):\r\n\r\nI was getting teary when you were talking because I thought this is my greatest parenting mistake. Because when they start expressing their pain or their feelings of not belonging, not knowing who they are, not feeling like they fit in anywhere, I get so fearful in my heart, and I love them so much that I want to fix them right away. This is the truth. That's wrong thinking. This is right thinking. And I'm passionate out of my love for them, but that's not what they're needing right now. That's been\u2014that right there\u2014if our listeners, and parents, youth leaders could do that right there, it would change our relationship with our kids. And you're right, it's such a discipline instead of just jumping in to fix it. It's hard. I like that step of take a breath, take a drink. And I would add, say a prayer.\r\n\r\nBrad (13:15):\r\n\r\nYes. \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\n\u201cJesus, give me wisdom. You promise to do that in James. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God who gives generously.\u201d God hears that. He'll give us wisdom of just being able to then to ask, take a pause. And I think it's hard with kids that don't open up.\r\n\r\nDave (13:32):\r\n\r\nAnd I would add this, because I think there may be some wired like me, which would, the advice would be stay engaged. Because there's a part of me that when it goes there with, even with Ann, but with a son or daughter, they're going sort of deep. They're going messy. And I just like, \"Okay, I'm out.\" Part of me is like, \"I'm just going to go work out. I'm just not going to ... \" It's like I'm uncomfortable. And I know there's moms and dads that are like, \"Yeah, that's me too.\" And \u201cI just bail.\u201d Don't bail. Stay engaged. You don't have to answer their question. You just need to live with them and walk with them in that journey, right?\r\n\r\nBrad (14:12):\r\n\r\nYes. And to be okay with not resolving everything in the conversation. Because the other thing is, I want it to be fixed now. I want the answer to come by the end of our conversation, or I want that kid to walk away feeling whatever, or for this conflict to be resolved if it's conflict.\r\n\r\nDave (14:30):\r\n\r\nAnd I would add this, because we said this in our No Perfect Parents book. A lot of times as parents, we think our goal is that we have teenagers that walk with God with no sin, with no disobedience.\r\n\r\nBrad (14:43):\r\n\r\nSure. Perfect kids. \r\n\r\nDave (14:43):\r\n\r\nThat's not the goal. I mean, the goal is something bigger than that. It's like, man, I hope that when my son or daughter is 30 years old, they're following Jesus. And you know what? It may take some really bad choices in their teen years for that goal to actually happen. I'm not saying that's the only way it happens, but often we like, \"Oh no, we can't let anything that's that negative happen or let them wrestle with doubt and struggle in those teenage years. We want to fix it right there.\" And sometimes we need to step back and say, \"God's going to work in this.\" And what they need right now is a mom or dad just comes alongside, is the stable force they need, but lives with them in the journey. Something like that?\r\n\r\nAnn (15:23):\r\n\r\nLet's play a clip; because this is another thing that can happen with teenagers. We recently interviewed Bev Hendricks Godby and she was talking about sometimes you really don't like your teenagers. And so Brad, we want you to listen to this and maybe respond.\r\n\r\nBev (15:42):\r\n\r\nIdeally, you don't want to start in adolescence trying to like your child. \r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nGood point. \r\n\r\nBev:\r\n\r\nThat's not the most optimal time to do that. I feel like we lose the magic of childhood so quickly.\r\n\r\n(15:58):\r\n\r\nWhen we first find out that we're having a baby, when we first have them, it's just all joy and just, \"Oh, this is amazing.\" And so quickly it just kind of flattens out. And I would really encourage parents, wherever you are, try to get back into the joy, receive the gift, unwrap the gift. It's right in front of you. It's happening, but it's like you can delight in that gift if you choose to and figure out what's right with this child in front of me. And they'll help you out with that because they can't not be this person.\r\n\r\nBrad (16:34):\r\n\r\nI love that. The word that comes to mind for me is curiosity, cultivating curiosity. In the teenage years, one of the reasons that maybe we end up not liking our kids is that we just get stuck in the everyday. It's logistics. And some of those logistics are not very fun. I have said that I kind of get stuck asking my kids the same handful of questions over and over again.\r\n\r\nAnn (17:00):\r\n\r\nWhich are?\r\n\r\nBrad (17:01):\r\n\r\nWell: how was your day? Do you have homework? Are you going to practice? Do you have your stuff? Did you do laundry? I mean, it's the ridiculous, did you unload the dishwasher? And those are not very fun questions to live with. They're not fun to ask and they're not fun to answer. And they don't cultivate curiosity. They don't actually help me get to know my kid. They don't help us cultivate a fun relationship or anything of substance. And of course they're necessary. I mean, there's this layer of life that is just, we have to function and we have to learn how to function as a family. But I think that's where we lose our teenagers is we lose the wonder and the curiosity of who they are and who they're becoming. And I think sometimes when a parent ends up not liking their kid, it can be because we've stopped being curious about them.\r\n\r\n(17:56):\r\n\r\nSo maybe a way to get back into that is just to start asking our kids some different questions to say, \"Hey, I wonder what you're into these days? I don't feel like I know what kind of music you like right now, or I don't understand the music you listen to. Tell me about it.\"\r\n\r\nAnn (18:12):\r\n\r\nThat's good. Even I was thinking even on social media, if they have social media, who are you following? Tell me about them. Why do you like to follow them or what are you listening to that you resonate with? Those are good questions. I like that.\r\n\r\nBrad (18:25):\r\n\r\nYeah. I judge a lot. So this is a discipline for me too. As a parent withholding judgment is one of my biggest downfalls. Well, it's a discipline I have to practice to withhold it because my downfall is to judge. And when we hear something that we don't like or we don't know if we like it or we're not so sure, we just jump straight to judgment.\r\n\r\nAnn (18:48):\r\n\r\nWell, especially if it's just pure trash. You know what I mean? We know what we think. I made the mistake of that too. I was listening to his song\u2014this is back in the CD days\u2014like, \"Are you kidding me? This is what you're listening to.\" I take it out of his CD player. I throw it into the trash can. That really opens up conversation. Like \u201cMy mom's insane,\u201d That's what he's thinking. But I mean, there's some music out, the lyrics are crazy, like bad, in terms of what we're thinking. So another time, this could be, take a breath, tell me\u2014\r\n\r\nDave (19:19):\r\n\r\nTake a drink of water.\r\n\r\nAnn (19:22):\r\n\r\nYeah, and you're asking questions about that.\r\n\r\nBrad (19:24):\r\n\r\nYeah. Tell me what you like. I think it helps too to remember some of what we actually listened to and watched. And I certainly remember looking back now. I mean, even sometimes I'll hear something, a song from when I was a teenager and think, \"Oh, I actually listened to that.\" I knew all the words to that song.\r\n\r\n(19:46):\r\n\r\nThat wasn't very edifying. That wasn't very whatever. And so under the surface, sometimes, a kid wants to listen to music because they want to belong. To take it back to the three questions, we actually heard this in our interviews. One young woman talked about\u2014I remember this one\u2014she said, \"Okay, so sometimes I remember in middle school especially\u201d\u2014she said\u2014\"when I knew a song and I knew the lyrics to a song, I fit in. And then a new song would come out and I didn't know. And suddenly it felt like I didn't belong anymore with these people, and I didn't understand how that worked.\u201d And music is one of those undercurrents of teenage life. And actually, it can be a marker of belonging\u2014and a particular in, sort of subgroups and clusters of kids who listen to particular music. And so all of that, it's part of it.\r\n\r\n(20:39):\r\n\r\nIt can be part of identity. \u201cWell, which\u2014am I an eclectic music person? Am I a country music person? What kind of music am I? What does that say about who I am?\u201d And kids are processing that. They may not even be able to be consciously aware of it, but it might be about who I am. It might be about where do I belong? And to us as parents, it's just like, oh, that's trash. Are you kidding me?\r\n\r\n(21:06):\r\n\r\nEven we listen to lyrics. Kids don't necessarily even listen to lyrics. I mean, for some kids it's like, oh, this is just fun to dance to. Well, did you hear what they're saying? No.\r\n\r\nDave (21:17):\r\n\r\nAnd yet I think at the end of the day, as you think about the three questions, identity and belonging and purpose, if anybody is going to be the one to speak truth about those, it's us as parents. And again, we talked about it. We have to be very careful how we do it. We need to listen. We need to empathize. We need to ask questions. But I also think\u2014and Ann has shared many of her mistakes\u2014she was the best, and still is, at speaking words of life and true Christ-identity into our boys. Even now as men, she constantly reminds them, in an appropriate way\u2014not in a mom, \"Hey, you got to...\"\u2014but just because they're not hearing this anywhere else. And I think we as parents need to make sure, and I would say even an action point for today\u2014what if today's the day they heard from you, mom or dad, the truth about who they are, and where they belong, and what their purpose is in an appropriate, regular, consistent way. They need to hear it.\r\n\r\nAnn (22:16):\r\n\r\nDave, I would add too, one of the things we did, and I would do this every night is I would put my hands on them\u2014their shoulder, their leg, their foot\u2014and pray for them at night. And I'm praying those things over them. \u201cGod, thank you that they're a part of our family. Thank you for the gifts.\u201d And I would name some of the things I see in them. And I would even say, \u201cThey may not see it, Lord, but I do, and you do, Jesus.\u201d And just praying that over them because they might not always receive but just praying that over them and thanking God for them.\r\n\r\nBrad (22:45):\r\n\r\nI was thinking prayer when you said that, as you started to say that Ann. One thing I was thinking about is sometimes we tuck something away and come back to it later,\r\n\r\n(22:54):\r\n\r\nLike, \"Hey, this conversation, this may not be the moment to correct, but I'm going to tuck that away and come back to it.\" And one of the ways we can come back to it is prayer. And I'm a big fan of praying for my kids at night. \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nYeah, me too. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nWe do. And it's just a practice we started when they were babies and we keep doing it, even though they're teenagers and they haven't asked us to stop and we're not going to stop. Right. But praying for your kids at night can be one of those contexts where you can reinforce truth. I just text my kids things sometimes.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:21):\r\n\r\nSo good.\r\n\r\nDave:\r\n\r\nThat\u2019s good.\r\n\r\nBrad (23:22):\r\n\r\nAnd I have a college student now. The other day I just sent her a link to a song and it's just the Lord bless you and keep you. And the Lord make his face shine on you. And I just said, \"Hey, just a Tuesday blessing for you. \" And it's little things like that where we can speak truth to our kids in incremental ways over time and not in the heat of a argument. I wasn't in that text, I wasn't disagreeing with her about music or about fashion, just a whole other thing we haven't even talked about or whatever. It's just a, \"Hey, I just want to bless you today.\" \r\n\r\nAnn:\r\n\r\nThat's good. Because I love you. \r\n\r\nBrad:\r\n\r\nGod loves you and I love you. Yeah.\r\n\r\nDave (24:05):\r\n\r\nWell, that was another great conversation with Brad Griffin about teenagers, and everybody wants help with teenagers.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:11):\r\n\r\nWell, I feel like this topic is just so critical. And as parents of teens, you're always looking for new stuff. So again, his book is written with Kara Powell, so it's Brad Griffin and Kara Powell, and their book is called 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager: Making the Most of Your Conversations and Connections.\r\n\r\nDave (24:30):\r\n\r\nAnd you can get it at FamilyLifeToday.com. Just click on the link there in the show notes, and guess what? We get to talk about this again tomorrow. One more day. \r\n\r\nFamilyLife Today is a donor-supported production of FamilyLife\u00ae, a Cru\u00ae Ministry, celebrating 50 years of God's faithfulness as marriages grow stronger and families flourish in Him.\r\n\r\nIf you\u2019ve benefited from the FamilyLife Today transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs of producing them and making them available online?\r\n\r\nCopyright \u00a9 2026 FamilyLife. 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