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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nFaith and Mental Health: Helping Children Talk About Trauma and Shame\r\n\r\nGuest:Ed Welch\r\n\r\nFrom the series:What\u2019s God Think About My Anxiety?  (Day 1 of 1)\r\n\r\nAir date:February 2, 2026\r\n\r\nEd (00:04):\r\n\r\nWhat are the kinds of things we should be asking of our children? It might be to say to our children: \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are so, so important,\u201d and \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are really, really hard and hopeless; and we know it's hard for you to say those things. What can we do that would invite you to be able to speak those things?\u201d \u201cWhat have we done that has made it hard to speak of these things?\u201d \u201cWhat can we do that would make it easier to speak those things?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (00:46):\r\n\r\nWelcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:52):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm Ann Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave (01:05):\r\n\r\nYou've met with more teenage, college-aged girls recently than I can remember in the last 20 years about\u2014I don't know\u2014depression, trauma, shame,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (01:17):\r\n\r\n\u2014anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-harm. And I've met with a lot of those moms as well. They're scared; they're scared for their daughters. They're scared because they're wondering: \u201cWhat's causing this? Is it social media?\u201d \u201cHow can I help her?\u201d I think a lot of parents\u2014not only of daughters, but of sons\u2014that are fearful. We live in a culture, and day and age, where there's so much going on that feels fearful. I think there's a part of us, as parents, that want to just hide our kids away.\r\n\r\nDave (01:51):\r\n\r\nOr we want to help, like, \u201cOkay, how do I parent in this culture and this generation?\u201d I don't know if it's heightened. Is it a lot more heightened than it was 50 years ago?\u2014it sure feels like it, and I think it probably is. \r\n\r\nWe've got an expert in here to tell us if we're on the right path or not. Ed Welch, welcome back. You're a doctor of psychology. You've written; you've taught; you're a dad and a husband; you've got kids. You've lived all this stuff out. As you hear us talk about this, and you live in this culture, where do we start?\r\n\r\nEd (02:21):\r\n\r\nYou can go to a manual that has every single psychiatric disorder in it; and we would have a similar conversation, where they're all increasing more than ever before: depression; anxiety, the various kinds of anxieties we've talked about\u2014panic attacks, where they're commonplace; where they were so rare before\u2014suicide; suicidal ideation; suicidal thoughts. It's affecting more people, and it's affecting more younger people. \r\n\r\nI\u2019m sort of painting a large picture first; and it raises the question, \u201cWell, why is this?\u201d I don't know. It seems too easy to say social media has contributed it, but it has contributed to it; I don't think there's any question. I have observed that with my very own eyes with my grandchildren, when they have been bad on social media, and gone to places they shouldn't; and their phones are taken away. They are different kinds of kids; we have different kinds of conversations with them. So certainly, social media is part of it. \r\n\r\n\u201cWhat else is part of it?\u201d Here's the nice thing with being a Christian: we don't have to know all the reasons for it to be able to be helpful for our children. I think the important thing, at this point, is: \u201cHow can we create a context in our home, where children can speak openly?\u201d That's the challenge. If our children are accustomed to being rebuked quickly, or corrected quickly, it doesn't take many of those occasions for a child to say, \u201cWell, there's certain things you're not allowed to talk about here\u201d; and so we don't talk about these things. \r\n\r\n\u201cHow can we, as parents, and how can we, as churches, create a place where people can speak from their hearts?\u201d That's been one of our themes, together, where we're trying to do what we can to imitate the nature of the kingdom of heaven. The kingdom of heaven is: \u201cWho is the real you?\u201d and \u201cSpeak it,\u201d\u2014that's not the totality of it; but that's, certainly, essential to the kingdom of heaven. \"How can we have our homes, where we invite those kinds of things?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (04:36):\r\n\r\nYou're getting, obviously, into the kingdom of heaven. If we could live it out in our homes, or in our society, it would be: fully known, fully loved, is that sort of like I\u2019m not?\r\n\r\nEd (04:45):\r\n\r\n\u2014increasingly known; increasingly known.\r\n\r\nDave (04:46):\r\n\r\nI\u2019m not going to be afraid to hide myself; but as I do, I'm going to feel grace.\r\n\r\nEd (04:51):\r\n\r\nAnd my own sense of what we can do, as parents, is to speak of things that are difficult in our own lives. One of the things in the New Testament, it's obvious: we're sinners. And so yeah, the Lord's Prayer: we ask forgiveness. It's the kind of thing we do consistently: we ask forgiveness, and we forgive others. As a father, my kids didn't have to be with me that long to see my own sin\u2014to simply confess my sin; it could have been something with my wife that the kids overheard\u2014say, \u201cKids, I'm so sorry. This is what I did, and this is the wrongness of it. It's the wrongness that you observe; but it's before God, and before Him and Him alone. Would you pray for me?\u201d \r\n\r\nNow, something\u2014a scenario like that might not work in our homes\u2014but could you imagine moving towards something like that? Could you imagine speaking about your anxieties, in the course of a day, in going to a passage of Scripture: \u201cLet's pray this Scripture for\/could you pray for me? And by the way, we all struggle these things, so I'll pray for all of us.\u201d That is one of the things we know that there are things our children struggle with that they feel like they have no venue for them except with their own peers. \u201cHow can we create an environment in our homes where children speak openly?\u201d; that's the beginning of it.\r\n\r\nAnn (06:16):\r\n\r\nI remember when our kids were little\u2014I think a lot of parents have done this\u2014we'd ask that question: \u201cWhat was a good part of your day?\u201d; and then, \u201cWhat were some of the hard things today?\u201d I remember, with boys\u2014I remember saying\u2014\u201cYou have to attach a feeling word with it.\u201d That was like pulling teeth with these teenage boys at times. \r\n\r\nI think our kids want to be able to share what's going on, and they don't need us to judge it. Man, as soon as we judge something about it, they're out. And yet, it's really hard not to do that. I can remember\u2014I've said this before\u2014our son was talking about this one boy at school. I said, \u201cOh, is that that bad kid who smokes pot all the time?\u201d And he said, \u201cIs he bad because he smokes pot, Mom?\u201d I was so convicted: \u201cIs that makes him a bad kid?\u201d It was like Jesus just spoke to me.\r\n\r\nEd (07:15):\r\n\r\nI want to go give your son a hug. \r\n\r\nAnn (07:17):\r\n\r\nYes!\r\n\r\nEd: He was a wise person. \r\n\r\nAnn: I remember saying to him, \u201cOh, you're so right! That's such a wrong judgment for me to make. Thank you for teaching me.\u201d\r\n\r\nI think our conversations are really important. I like that you said: we have to model and confess our own frailty, and wrongness, and misjudgments, and even our own things that we're struggling with. I should have said to the boys\u2014I didn't share what, a lot of times, what my hard things were that day\u2014and I wish I would have.\r\n\r\nDave (07:51):\r\n\r\nThat creates a feeling of safety in the home if mom or dad's going to share it. \r\n\r\nEd, if you've got a daughter or a son that maybe shows signs\u2014or says some things that make you think: \u201cMan, they're really struggling with suicidal thoughts,\u201d or \u201cThe shame they're carrying is much heavier than I've been able to see before,\u201d\u2014what do you do, as a parent?\r\n\r\nEd (08:15):\r\n\r\nProbably the natural way through would be you call up somebody who seems to have some wisdom about that; perhaps, they\u2019ve gone through things like that with their children.\r\n\r\nDave (08:24):\r\n\r\nWe call Ed Welch; that's who we call. That\u2019s who we call.\r\n\r\nEd (08:26):\r\n\r\nAnd some people will call me, but I will call other people as well. It's just the nature of the body of Christ, that we rely on each other. We have the Spirit, and the Spirit typically works through other people. \r\n\r\nIf we have no idea what to say, we say, \u201cLord, help.\u201d Then we get on our phone, and we look for help. Obviously, you can go on the internet; and you can find things that are Christian and non-Christian that can be helpful in the way we continue those conversations. \r\n\r\nBut you see what I'm saying? It's not so much: \u201cI have no idea what to do. The professional has to deal with this.\u201d Well, my experience, the professional\u2014if the parents aren't going to be able to help\u2014a lot of times, the professional isn't going to be able to help.\r\n\r\nAnn (09:13):\r\n\r\nThat just made a lot of parents worry, right there.\r\n\r\nEd (09:18):\r\n\r\nThe Lord seems to specialize in using ordinary people, who don't feel like they have a lot to give; but they love, and they pray, and they want to know their kids. So if you don't know what to say, you get help; and then, you try the help that you've been given:\r\n\r\nIt might be a particular question. \r\n\r\nIt depends on the school; it might be talking to a teacher at school or a principal at school. \r\n\r\nIt might be asking somebody at school: \u201cWhat are the kinds of things we should be asking of our children?\u201d \r\n\r\nIt might be to say to our children: \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are so, so important; and we know that there are things in your heart that are really, really hard and hopeless. We know it's hard for you to say those things. What can we do that would invite you to be able to speak those things?\u201d \u201cWhat have we done that has made it hard to speak of these things?\u201d \u201cWhat can we do that would make it easier to speak those things?\u201d\r\n\r\n(10:33) Now, imagine how something like that would be for us to engage that kind of conversation with our children. That seems, in some ways, like a next step to getting at the good stuff, the important stuff. We are doing the good stuff; we are saying, \u201cHere's a place where we love you, and we're going to grow in how we love you; we desperately desire to do that together,\u201d\u2014to identify: \u201cThat's the kind of home that we want you to be part of, that is moving into the shame, or the guilt, or the hopelessness.\u201d For them to see the spark of life\u2014the life of Christ\u2014ultimately, in our home. It will give them some kind of hope. It's not just a step; it is actually treatment as well.\r\n\r\nAnn (11:14):\r\n\r\nAnd Ed, I think the thing for us, as parents, to remember is our kids' friends are needing this from us too. I know that, at our table\/at our island, I'd have so many teenagers sitting in my house. I'd be asking them, \u201cTell me: \u2018What's going on? How are you doing?\u2019\u201d Some of the things that came out were heartbreaking. \r\n\r\nFor me, it was, sometimes, easier for me to not be as emotional with our kids' friends than with my kids. I can remember crying with them; I can remember laying my hands on them, and praying over them, giving them Scripture; and asking, \u201cJust read the Scripture. Tell Jesus everything you're thinking, and hoping, and your fears\u2014all of it\u2014tell Him everything.\u201d And then, I would say, \u201cAnd thank you for telling me.\u201d \r\n\r\n(12:32) This one, boy\u2014I've shared a little of this before\u2014he was a track runner; so gifted. He'd get so anxious before these track meets. I'd give him this little stone, this little rock; and I'd put Scripture on it. Years later\u2014maybe, 15 years later\u2014he came up to me; and he said, \u201cHey, Mrs. Wilson,\u201d\u2014he pulls out that rock, and the Scripture is basically worn out. He said, \u201cThis got me through every track meet.\u201d And then, he played college football; he goes, \u201cI hold this in my pocket still,\u201d which was amazing. I thought it was nothing; and yet, for him, it was a lifeline to Jesus.\r\n\r\nEd (12:48):\r\n\r\nWhat a beautiful story, isn't it? That's a precious story. Yet, it's a small thing. \r\n\r\nAnn: Small. \r\n\r\nEd: It's a small thing. Invitations to speak: what we demonstrate is compassion. Where compassion is: \u201cI am affected by you. I am different as a result of what you've just shared,\u201d\u2014which, for a young woman or man, who feels utterly isolated, and utterly alone, and distant from love\u2014for them to hear such a thing\u2014it's a small thing, but it is this intrusion of hope and opportunities to pray for a child whom we would've never had  otherwise. That's a beautiful story.\r\n\r\nDave (13:31):\r\n\r\nAnd it's beautiful that it's\u2014you said it earlier\u2014it's God, and it's also people; you have both. \r\n\r\nI remember\u2014I don't know what book [by] Max Lucado\u2014years ago, I shared it in a sermon, where he said this tornado hit in this Texas town. This little five-year-old boy runs into his daddy's bedroom, and grabs his leg. They're standing, looking out the window. The dad's trying to comfort the five-year-old son, and says, \u201cHey, you can go back to bed. God's here; He's got you. You're safe.\u201d And the boy looks up at his dad, and doesn't let go of his leg, and says, \u201cYeah, I know that, Dad; but right now, I need someone with skin on.\u201d \r\n\r\nI've never forgotten that illustration. That's true\u2014we know the Father, and we can pour out our hearts\u2014but there's times where like Ann was [acting on behalf of] the Father to Joe in that situation. It's like that's what we can be in our home\u2014[to] our wife, [to] our kids\u2014[to] people. They incarnate the love of the Father, often, to us.\r\n\r\nEd (14:27):\r\n\r\nAnd that kind of story is exactly what we should expect. The church is called the household of God. As Paul gets the knack of it\u2014some of his later letters\u2014that's what he says, \u201cIt's the household of God.\u201d We, together, are a household. Those are the best of stories when parenting is shared by other people, who love the child. \r\n\r\nMaybe, just one important point that you're identifying in this: that we can be quick to fix a person; we can be quick to rebuke a person. Those things are not necessarily wrong, but there's a time for them. I think what we're identifying here is to know the child\u2014to know the child and to not skip compassion\u2014to be moved by the things that are on the child's heart. If the child is really struggling, with the kind of depression and thinking that life would be better over rather than continuing, there are hard things in that child's heart. We want to stick with knowing that child until we are moved by the child. And then, perhaps the question would be: \u201cAlright, Sweetie, what can we do next? What can we do to help?\u201d It's not a matter of having all the answers. It's the more ordinary features of love that are going to be part of the rescue. They're going to be central to the rescue of our children.\r\n\r\nDave (15:50):\r\n\r\nYou've said before: it's, in some ways, simple to have the conversation. I grew up in a home, where there was a trauma\u2014my dad leaving; and then, my little brother dies within several months after, and a move from one state to another. My mom\u2014now, a single mom\u2014trying to keep this family together, basically said, \u201cWe don't talk ever about Craig's death, the divorce.\u201d My sister came home from high school. The priest walks out of the house; said, \u201cYour brother's just died.\u201d My sister said, \u201cWe never talked about it after I walked in the house.\u201d You talk about trauma and a family that never discussed any of that stuff: I did not know I carried that into my teenage years and into my adulthood. \r\n\r\nHow does a family process that kind of trauma? You write about it a little bit in your book. How would you help us understand: \u201cWhere do we go? Is it talking as well? Or is there more to it?\u201d\r\n\r\nEd (16:50):\r\n\r\nWell, I'd be interested in asking you that question; because you certainly have thought about it. It\u2019s, at least, knowing this: \u201cThe culture we grew up in was not the culture God called it to be,\u201d and \u201cWhat He's doing is something that is different, and new, and good.\u201d \r\n\r\nAgain\u2014I know I've said it before\u2014but it's the litmus test for me of Scripture: \u201cIt's got to sound good,\u201d \u201cIt's got to sound good,\u201d \u201cIf it doesn't sound good, then we're not on it.\u201d Even if we're talking about sin, it should sound really good; because the deal with our sin is one of the ways we grow closer to Jesus. So it's good; it's discarding these little features of death that tend to hang on us. \r\n\r\nWhat is this new culture? It seems like what we've been saying is: \u201cSpeak about these things,\u201d \u201cSpeak about these things,\u201d and \u201cDon't you dare try to minimize it,\u201d \u201cDon't you dare try to minimize it.\u201d It's a typical way people deal with suffering: \u201cThere are people who have it worse than me.\u201d But again, the diabolic feature of minimizing is that we never talk to Jesus about it; because it's not that big a deal: \u201cI should be able to handle this myself.\u201d We don't handle anything by ourself; we're dependent creatures. By definition, we are dependent on the Lord; and we are also interdependent on each other. \r\n\r\nThat's simply the way that the Lord has made us; so indeed, for us to speak; to know the compassion of Christ for you; and then, to see what doors that opens to see that Christ Himself is the One who is moved by these things. Then what? Then it opens Scripture to all kinds of things. It moves the Scripture to perhaps your own guilt, where inevitably, if things like that happened when you were that young, you were going to feel responsible for it in some way. \u201cSo what are the things that you believe that you did wrong that somehow was part of that?\u201d Those are the things we bring to the Lord.\r\n\r\nDave (18:56):\r\n\r\nYeah. I love how every question we've asked you: there's a blend of the psychiatric, and the expertise, and the study, and the knowledge of almost the science of the soul; and yet, you always bring God, and the spiritual, and the Scripture together\u2014that isn't often done, that I've seen\u2014explain what that journey's been like for you.\r\n\r\nEd (19:21):\r\n\r\nI think just identifying the journey is most important, where: \u201cHere we are; we're struggling with\u201d\u2014whatever it might be\u2014\"suicidal thoughts,\u201d \u201c\u2026trauma from the past. What do we do with that?\u201d\r\n\r\nWell, what we're trying to do, as Christians, you say, \u201cI don't know what to do with that, but I do know that we have a God who knows us inside and out. We do have a God who never minimizes anything. Trauma is about death; death has come close to us,\u201d\u2014it was literal death for you. Sometimes, it can be sort of the deathly acts of people, who are doing shameful and disgraceful things against us; but it's death all the same. We know He is life. Okay, now the question is: \u201cHow do we get there? How do we get from being utterly overwhelmed by this particular struggle to\u201d\u2014well, I'll use Paul\u2019s phrase\u2014Paul said, \u201cI've determined to know nothing but Christ and Him crucified.\u201d Somehow, that is the summary of God's self-understanding, the way He communicates to us. \r\n\r\nI think, a lot of times, it's simply: \u201cAre we asking the right question? Are we saying, \u2018Okay, Lord, what do You say?\u2019\u201d And if we don't know what He says, \u201cWell, what do you think Scripture says?\u201d We keep asking around until people can open the doors of Scripture, so Scripture comes alive for us. \r\n\r\nI'm not really answering your question. I'm saying that the question is so important: \u201cHow do we get from the struggles of life that seem compartmentalized and unrelated to Christ? We have a God who cares about hairs on heads. And if He cares about hairs on heads; then, He certainly cares about these kinds of things. If He speaks life, and compassion, and comfort, He certainly speaks life, and compassion, and comfort to these things. I have no idea how He does it, but that's where I'm going to head.\u201d \r\n\r\n(21:06) And then, perhaps if we don't have anybody who's walking with us, we become that importunate woman, who says, \u201cLord, You got to give me something here. You have to break through. Here's the struggle that I have. I don't even hear what You're saying; it seems like You're playing hard to get. I know that's not the case. You have to speak through Your people, through Your Word, directly through Your speaking; You got to do it.\u201d\r\n\r\nAgain, it's not answering your question. It's saying that the question\u2014\u201cHow do we get from our daily struggle to the person of Jesus?\u201d\u2014that is our shared question; it's our shared privilege. It's this hopeful question, because we know that He's the God who will speak. He will speak exactly what we need in our hearts. We can be sure of that.\r\n\r\nDave (22:05):\r\n\r\nYeah; I love Psalm 34: \u201cThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and He saves those\u201d\u2014listen to this phrase\u2014\u201cwho are crushed in spirit,\u201d\u2014devastated, traumatic. He's close; He will save. It's a good word.\r\n\r\nEd (22:20):\r\n\r\nAnd sometimes, what we're left with is: \u201cLord, I know that's in Scripture. It doesn't seem like it's relevant to me, because You're not speaking to me. But where else can I turn? There's no other words of life, so I'm going to keep at it.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (22:49):\r\n\r\nSo what are your thoughts of sitting with Dr. Ed Welch? He was sort of like a counselor for us and everybody who listened.\r\n\r\nAnn (22:55):\r\n\r\nSometimes, I just get sad that we're listening, and gleaning, and learning so much at this stage of life. I'm like, \u201cOh, I wish we would've heard this when our kids were younger!\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (23:09):\r\n\r\nWell, the good thing is our listeners are younger.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:10):\r\n\r\nThat's true.\r\n\r\nDave (23:11):\r\n\r\nAnd they're getting to hear it when we wish we would've heard it. The good news is they're hearing it, and they get to apply stuff we never got to apply when we were in our 20s, and 30s, and 40s.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:21):\r\n\r\nI know. I hope, as a listener, you'll send these out to even your kids or friends, who are struggling with this. These are issues that every family is facing.\r\n\r\nDave (23:32):\r\n\r\nAnd I'll say, \u201cThank you\u201d; there's quite a few FamilyLife Today listeners who give financially to make this happen. You're letting other families benefit from people, like Ed Welch. I\u2019ll just say this: \u201cWhen he said, \u2018Create an environment in your home, where your wife, your spouse, your kids feel like they're invited to pour out their honest, vulnerable thoughts, and feelings, and struggles, and trauma, and shame.\u2019\u201d That was worth\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (24:04):\r\n\r\nSo good.\r\n\r\nDave (24:04):\r\n\r\n\u2014everything, just to say, \u201cI felt like he did that with us. It's like you felt so heard, and seen,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and safe.\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014invited into a conversation, not just with him, but with Jesus.\u201d That was beautiful.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:16):\r\n\r\nYeah; his book is called I Have a Psychiatric Diagnosis: What Does the Bible Say?\r\n\r\nDave (24:21):\r\n\r\nYou can get it now by going to the link in the show notes at FamilyLifeToday.com.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:26):\r\n\r\nI don't know about you; but I need parenting help, not just sometimes, but most of the time. Maybe, you feel like that, too. We have resources to help you, as a parent. 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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nFaith and Mental Health: Helping Children Talk About Trauma and Shame\r\n\r\nGuest:Ed Welch\r\n\r\nFrom the series:What\u2019s God Think About My Anxiety?  (Day 1 of 1)\r\n\r\nAir date:February 2, 2026\r\n\r\nEd (00:04):\r\n\r\nWhat are the kinds of things we should be asking of our children? It might be to say to our children: \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are so, so important,\u201d and \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are really, really hard and hopeless; and we know it's hard for you to say those things. What can we do that would invite you to be able to speak those things?\u201d \u201cWhat have we done that has made it hard to speak of these things?\u201d \u201cWhat can we do that would make it easier to speak those things?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (00:46):\r\n\r\nWelcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn (00:52):\r\n\r\nAnd I'm Ann Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave (01:05):\r\n\r\nYou've met with more teenage, college-aged girls recently than I can remember in the last 20 years about\u2014I don't know\u2014depression, trauma, shame,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (01:17):\r\n\r\n\u2014anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-harm. And I've met with a lot of those moms as well. They're scared; they're scared for their daughters. They're scared because they're wondering: \u201cWhat's causing this? Is it social media?\u201d \u201cHow can I help her?\u201d I think a lot of parents\u2014not only of daughters, but of sons\u2014that are fearful. We live in a culture, and day and age, where there's so much going on that feels fearful. I think there's a part of us, as parents, that want to just hide our kids away.\r\n\r\nDave (01:51):\r\n\r\nOr we want to help, like, \u201cOkay, how do I parent in this culture and this generation?\u201d I don't know if it's heightened. Is it a lot more heightened than it was 50 years ago?\u2014it sure feels like it, and I think it probably is. \r\n\r\nWe've got an expert in here to tell us if we're on the right path or not. Ed Welch, welcome back. You're a doctor of psychology. You've written; you've taught; you're a dad and a husband; you've got kids. You've lived all this stuff out. As you hear us talk about this, and you live in this culture, where do we start?\r\n\r\nEd (02:21):\r\n\r\nYou can go to a manual that has every single psychiatric disorder in it; and we would have a similar conversation, where they're all increasing more than ever before: depression; anxiety, the various kinds of anxieties we've talked about\u2014panic attacks, where they're commonplace; where they were so rare before\u2014suicide; suicidal ideation; suicidal thoughts. It's affecting more people, and it's affecting more younger people. \r\n\r\nI\u2019m sort of painting a large picture first; and it raises the question, \u201cWell, why is this?\u201d I don't know. It seems too easy to say social media has contributed it, but it has contributed to it; I don't think there's any question. I have observed that with my very own eyes with my grandchildren, when they have been bad on social media, and gone to places they shouldn't; and their phones are taken away. They are different kinds of kids; we have different kinds of conversations with them. So certainly, social media is part of it. \r\n\r\n\u201cWhat else is part of it?\u201d Here's the nice thing with being a Christian: we don't have to know all the reasons for it to be able to be helpful for our children. I think the important thing, at this point, is: \u201cHow can we create a context in our home, where children can speak openly?\u201d That's the challenge. If our children are accustomed to being rebuked quickly, or corrected quickly, it doesn't take many of those occasions for a child to say, \u201cWell, there's certain things you're not allowed to talk about here\u201d; and so we don't talk about these things. \r\n\r\n\u201cHow can we, as parents, and how can we, as churches, create a place where people can speak from their hearts?\u201d That's been one of our themes, together, where we're trying to do what we can to imitate the nature of the kingdom of heaven. The kingdom of heaven is: \u201cWho is the real you?\u201d and \u201cSpeak it,\u201d\u2014that's not the totality of it; but that's, certainly, essential to the kingdom of heaven. \"How can we have our homes, where we invite those kinds of things?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (04:36):\r\n\r\nYou're getting, obviously, into the kingdom of heaven. If we could live it out in our homes, or in our society, it would be: fully known, fully loved, is that sort of like I\u2019m not?\r\n\r\nEd (04:45):\r\n\r\n\u2014increasingly known; increasingly known.\r\n\r\nDave (04:46):\r\n\r\nI\u2019m not going to be afraid to hide myself; but as I do, I'm going to feel grace.\r\n\r\nEd (04:51):\r\n\r\nAnd my own sense of what we can do, as parents, is to speak of things that are difficult in our own lives. One of the things in the New Testament, it's obvious: we're sinners. And so yeah, the Lord's Prayer: we ask forgiveness. It's the kind of thing we do consistently: we ask forgiveness, and we forgive others. As a father, my kids didn't have to be with me that long to see my own sin\u2014to simply confess my sin; it could have been something with my wife that the kids overheard\u2014say, \u201cKids, I'm so sorry. This is what I did, and this is the wrongness of it. It's the wrongness that you observe; but it's before God, and before Him and Him alone. Would you pray for me?\u201d \r\n\r\nNow, something\u2014a scenario like that might not work in our homes\u2014but could you imagine moving towards something like that? Could you imagine speaking about your anxieties, in the course of a day, in going to a passage of Scripture: \u201cLet's pray this Scripture for\/could you pray for me? And by the way, we all struggle these things, so I'll pray for all of us.\u201d That is one of the things we know that there are things our children struggle with that they feel like they have no venue for them except with their own peers. \u201cHow can we create an environment in our homes where children speak openly?\u201d; that's the beginning of it.\r\n\r\nAnn (06:16):\r\n\r\nI remember when our kids were little\u2014I think a lot of parents have done this\u2014we'd ask that question: \u201cWhat was a good part of your day?\u201d; and then, \u201cWhat were some of the hard things today?\u201d I remember, with boys\u2014I remember saying\u2014\u201cYou have to attach a feeling word with it.\u201d That was like pulling teeth with these teenage boys at times. \r\n\r\nI think our kids want to be able to share what's going on, and they don't need us to judge it. Man, as soon as we judge something about it, they're out. And yet, it's really hard not to do that. I can remember\u2014I've said this before\u2014our son was talking about this one boy at school. I said, \u201cOh, is that that bad kid who smokes pot all the time?\u201d And he said, \u201cIs he bad because he smokes pot, Mom?\u201d I was so convicted: \u201cIs that makes him a bad kid?\u201d It was like Jesus just spoke to me.\r\n\r\nEd (07:15):\r\n\r\nI want to go give your son a hug. \r\n\r\nAnn (07:17):\r\n\r\nYes!\r\n\r\nEd: He was a wise person. \r\n\r\nAnn: I remember saying to him, \u201cOh, you're so right! That's such a wrong judgment for me to make. Thank you for teaching me.\u201d\r\n\r\nI think our conversations are really important. I like that you said: we have to model and confess our own frailty, and wrongness, and misjudgments, and even our own things that we're struggling with. I should have said to the boys\u2014I didn't share what, a lot of times, what my hard things were that day\u2014and I wish I would have.\r\n\r\nDave (07:51):\r\n\r\nThat creates a feeling of safety in the home if mom or dad's going to share it. \r\n\r\nEd, if you've got a daughter or a son that maybe shows signs\u2014or says some things that make you think: \u201cMan, they're really struggling with suicidal thoughts,\u201d or \u201cThe shame they're carrying is much heavier than I've been able to see before,\u201d\u2014what do you do, as a parent?\r\n\r\nEd (08:15):\r\n\r\nProbably the natural way through would be you call up somebody who seems to have some wisdom about that; perhaps, they\u2019ve gone through things like that with their children.\r\n\r\nDave (08:24):\r\n\r\nWe call Ed Welch; that's who we call. That\u2019s who we call.\r\n\r\nEd (08:26):\r\n\r\nAnd some people will call me, but I will call other people as well. It's just the nature of the body of Christ, that we rely on each other. We have the Spirit, and the Spirit typically works through other people. \r\n\r\nIf we have no idea what to say, we say, \u201cLord, help.\u201d Then we get on our phone, and we look for help. Obviously, you can go on the internet; and you can find things that are Christian and non-Christian that can be helpful in the way we continue those conversations. \r\n\r\nBut you see what I'm saying? It's not so much: \u201cI have no idea what to do. The professional has to deal with this.\u201d Well, my experience, the professional\u2014if the parents aren't going to be able to help\u2014a lot of times, the professional isn't going to be able to help.\r\n\r\nAnn (09:13):\r\n\r\nThat just made a lot of parents worry, right there.\r\n\r\nEd (09:18):\r\n\r\nThe Lord seems to specialize in using ordinary people, who don't feel like they have a lot to give; but they love, and they pray, and they want to know their kids. So if you don't know what to say, you get help; and then, you try the help that you've been given:\r\n\r\nIt might be a particular question. \r\n\r\nIt depends on the school; it might be talking to a teacher at school or a principal at school. \r\n\r\nIt might be asking somebody at school: \u201cWhat are the kinds of things we should be asking of our children?\u201d \r\n\r\nIt might be to say to our children: \u201cWe know that there are things in your heart that are so, so important; and we know that there are things in your heart that are really, really hard and hopeless. We know it's hard for you to say those things. What can we do that would invite you to be able to speak those things?\u201d \u201cWhat have we done that has made it hard to speak of these things?\u201d \u201cWhat can we do that would make it easier to speak those things?\u201d\r\n\r\n(10:33) Now, imagine how something like that would be for us to engage that kind of conversation with our children. That seems, in some ways, like a next step to getting at the good stuff, the important stuff. We are doing the good stuff; we are saying, \u201cHere's a place where we love you, and we're going to grow in how we love you; we desperately desire to do that together,\u201d\u2014to identify: \u201cThat's the kind of home that we want you to be part of, that is moving into the shame, or the guilt, or the hopelessness.\u201d For them to see the spark of life\u2014the life of Christ\u2014ultimately, in our home. It will give them some kind of hope. It's not just a step; it is actually treatment as well.\r\n\r\nAnn (11:14):\r\n\r\nAnd Ed, I think the thing for us, as parents, to remember is our kids' friends are needing this from us too. I know that, at our table\/at our island, I'd have so many teenagers sitting in my house. I'd be asking them, \u201cTell me: \u2018What's going on? How are you doing?\u2019\u201d Some of the things that came out were heartbreaking. \r\n\r\nFor me, it was, sometimes, easier for me to not be as emotional with our kids' friends than with my kids. I can remember crying with them; I can remember laying my hands on them, and praying over them, giving them Scripture; and asking, \u201cJust read the Scripture. Tell Jesus everything you're thinking, and hoping, and your fears\u2014all of it\u2014tell Him everything.\u201d And then, I would say, \u201cAnd thank you for telling me.\u201d \r\n\r\n(12:32) This one, boy\u2014I've shared a little of this before\u2014he was a track runner; so gifted. He'd get so anxious before these track meets. I'd give him this little stone, this little rock; and I'd put Scripture on it. Years later\u2014maybe, 15 years later\u2014he came up to me; and he said, \u201cHey, Mrs. Wilson,\u201d\u2014he pulls out that rock, and the Scripture is basically worn out. He said, \u201cThis got me through every track meet.\u201d And then, he played college football; he goes, \u201cI hold this in my pocket still,\u201d which was amazing. I thought it was nothing; and yet, for him, it was a lifeline to Jesus.\r\n\r\nEd (12:48):\r\n\r\nWhat a beautiful story, isn't it? That's a precious story. Yet, it's a small thing. \r\n\r\nAnn: Small. \r\n\r\nEd: It's a small thing. Invitations to speak: what we demonstrate is compassion. Where compassion is: \u201cI am affected by you. I am different as a result of what you've just shared,\u201d\u2014which, for a young woman or man, who feels utterly isolated, and utterly alone, and distant from love\u2014for them to hear such a thing\u2014it's a small thing, but it is this intrusion of hope and opportunities to pray for a child whom we would've never had  otherwise. That's a beautiful story.\r\n\r\nDave (13:31):\r\n\r\nAnd it's beautiful that it's\u2014you said it earlier\u2014it's God, and it's also people; you have both. \r\n\r\nI remember\u2014I don't know what book [by] Max Lucado\u2014years ago, I shared it in a sermon, where he said this tornado hit in this Texas town. This little five-year-old boy runs into his daddy's bedroom, and grabs his leg. They're standing, looking out the window. The dad's trying to comfort the five-year-old son, and says, \u201cHey, you can go back to bed. God's here; He's got you. You're safe.\u201d And the boy looks up at his dad, and doesn't let go of his leg, and says, \u201cYeah, I know that, Dad; but right now, I need someone with skin on.\u201d \r\n\r\nI've never forgotten that illustration. That's true\u2014we know the Father, and we can pour out our hearts\u2014but there's times where like Ann was [acting on behalf of] the Father to Joe in that situation. It's like that's what we can be in our home\u2014[to] our wife, [to] our kids\u2014[to] people. They incarnate the love of the Father, often, to us.\r\n\r\nEd (14:27):\r\n\r\nAnd that kind of story is exactly what we should expect. The church is called the household of God. As Paul gets the knack of it\u2014some of his later letters\u2014that's what he says, \u201cIt's the household of God.\u201d We, together, are a household. Those are the best of stories when parenting is shared by other people, who love the child. \r\n\r\nMaybe, just one important point that you're identifying in this: that we can be quick to fix a person; we can be quick to rebuke a person. Those things are not necessarily wrong, but there's a time for them. I think what we're identifying here is to know the child\u2014to know the child and to not skip compassion\u2014to be moved by the things that are on the child's heart. If the child is really struggling, with the kind of depression and thinking that life would be better over rather than continuing, there are hard things in that child's heart. We want to stick with knowing that child until we are moved by the child. And then, perhaps the question would be: \u201cAlright, Sweetie, what can we do next? What can we do to help?\u201d It's not a matter of having all the answers. It's the more ordinary features of love that are going to be part of the rescue. They're going to be central to the rescue of our children.\r\n\r\nDave (15:50):\r\n\r\nYou've said before: it's, in some ways, simple to have the conversation. I grew up in a home, where there was a trauma\u2014my dad leaving; and then, my little brother dies within several months after, and a move from one state to another. My mom\u2014now, a single mom\u2014trying to keep this family together, basically said, \u201cWe don't talk ever about Craig's death, the divorce.\u201d My sister came home from high school. The priest walks out of the house; said, \u201cYour brother's just died.\u201d My sister said, \u201cWe never talked about it after I walked in the house.\u201d You talk about trauma and a family that never discussed any of that stuff: I did not know I carried that into my teenage years and into my adulthood. \r\n\r\nHow does a family process that kind of trauma? You write about it a little bit in your book. How would you help us understand: \u201cWhere do we go? Is it talking as well? Or is there more to it?\u201d\r\n\r\nEd (16:50):\r\n\r\nWell, I'd be interested in asking you that question; because you certainly have thought about it. It\u2019s, at least, knowing this: \u201cThe culture we grew up in was not the culture God called it to be,\u201d and \u201cWhat He's doing is something that is different, and new, and good.\u201d \r\n\r\nAgain\u2014I know I've said it before\u2014but it's the litmus test for me of Scripture: \u201cIt's got to sound good,\u201d \u201cIt's got to sound good,\u201d \u201cIf it doesn't sound good, then we're not on it.\u201d Even if we're talking about sin, it should sound really good; because the deal with our sin is one of the ways we grow closer to Jesus. So it's good; it's discarding these little features of death that tend to hang on us. \r\n\r\nWhat is this new culture? It seems like what we've been saying is: \u201cSpeak about these things,\u201d \u201cSpeak about these things,\u201d and \u201cDon't you dare try to minimize it,\u201d \u201cDon't you dare try to minimize it.\u201d It's a typical way people deal with suffering: \u201cThere are people who have it worse than me.\u201d But again, the diabolic feature of minimizing is that we never talk to Jesus about it; because it's not that big a deal: \u201cI should be able to handle this myself.\u201d We don't handle anything by ourself; we're dependent creatures. By definition, we are dependent on the Lord; and we are also interdependent on each other. \r\n\r\nThat's simply the way that the Lord has made us; so indeed, for us to speak; to know the compassion of Christ for you; and then, to see what doors that opens to see that Christ Himself is the One who is moved by these things. Then what? Then it opens Scripture to all kinds of things. It moves the Scripture to perhaps your own guilt, where inevitably, if things like that happened when you were that young, you were going to feel responsible for it in some way. \u201cSo what are the things that you believe that you did wrong that somehow was part of that?\u201d Those are the things we bring to the Lord.\r\n\r\nDave (18:56):\r\n\r\nYeah. I love how every question we've asked you: there's a blend of the psychiatric, and the expertise, and the study, and the knowledge of almost the science of the soul; and yet, you always bring God, and the spiritual, and the Scripture together\u2014that isn't often done, that I've seen\u2014explain what that journey's been like for you.\r\n\r\nEd (19:21):\r\n\r\nI think just identifying the journey is most important, where: \u201cHere we are; we're struggling with\u201d\u2014whatever it might be\u2014\"suicidal thoughts,\u201d \u201c\u2026trauma from the past. What do we do with that?\u201d\r\n\r\nWell, what we're trying to do, as Christians, you say, \u201cI don't know what to do with that, but I do know that we have a God who knows us inside and out. We do have a God who never minimizes anything. Trauma is about death; death has come close to us,\u201d\u2014it was literal death for you. Sometimes, it can be sort of the deathly acts of people, who are doing shameful and disgraceful things against us; but it's death all the same. We know He is life. Okay, now the question is: \u201cHow do we get there? How do we get from being utterly overwhelmed by this particular struggle to\u201d\u2014well, I'll use Paul\u2019s phrase\u2014Paul said, \u201cI've determined to know nothing but Christ and Him crucified.\u201d Somehow, that is the summary of God's self-understanding, the way He communicates to us. \r\n\r\nI think, a lot of times, it's simply: \u201cAre we asking the right question? Are we saying, \u2018Okay, Lord, what do You say?\u2019\u201d And if we don't know what He says, \u201cWell, what do you think Scripture says?\u201d We keep asking around until people can open the doors of Scripture, so Scripture comes alive for us. \r\n\r\nI'm not really answering your question. I'm saying that the question is so important: \u201cHow do we get from the struggles of life that seem compartmentalized and unrelated to Christ? We have a God who cares about hairs on heads. And if He cares about hairs on heads; then, He certainly cares about these kinds of things. If He speaks life, and compassion, and comfort, He certainly speaks life, and compassion, and comfort to these things. I have no idea how He does it, but that's where I'm going to head.\u201d \r\n\r\n(21:06) And then, perhaps if we don't have anybody who's walking with us, we become that importunate woman, who says, \u201cLord, You got to give me something here. You have to break through. Here's the struggle that I have. I don't even hear what You're saying; it seems like You're playing hard to get. I know that's not the case. You have to speak through Your people, through Your Word, directly through Your speaking; You got to do it.\u201d\r\n\r\nAgain, it's not answering your question. It's saying that the question\u2014\u201cHow do we get from our daily struggle to the person of Jesus?\u201d\u2014that is our shared question; it's our shared privilege. It's this hopeful question, because we know that He's the God who will speak. He will speak exactly what we need in our hearts. We can be sure of that.\r\n\r\nDave (22:05):\r\n\r\nYeah; I love Psalm 34: \u201cThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and He saves those\u201d\u2014listen to this phrase\u2014\u201cwho are crushed in spirit,\u201d\u2014devastated, traumatic. He's close; He will save. It's a good word.\r\n\r\nEd (22:20):\r\n\r\nAnd sometimes, what we're left with is: \u201cLord, I know that's in Scripture. It doesn't seem like it's relevant to me, because You're not speaking to me. But where else can I turn? There's no other words of life, so I'm going to keep at it.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (22:49):\r\n\r\nSo what are your thoughts of sitting with Dr. Ed Welch? He was sort of like a counselor for us and everybody who listened.\r\n\r\nAnn (22:55):\r\n\r\nSometimes, I just get sad that we're listening, and gleaning, and learning so much at this stage of life. I'm like, \u201cOh, I wish we would've heard this when our kids were younger!\u201d\r\n\r\nDave (23:09):\r\n\r\nWell, the good thing is our listeners are younger.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:10):\r\n\r\nThat's true.\r\n\r\nDave (23:11):\r\n\r\nAnd they're getting to hear it when we wish we would've heard it. The good news is they're hearing it, and they get to apply stuff we never got to apply when we were in our 20s, and 30s, and 40s.\r\n\r\nAnn (23:21):\r\n\r\nI know. I hope, as a listener, you'll send these out to even your kids or friends, who are struggling with this. These are issues that every family is facing.\r\n\r\nDave (23:32):\r\n\r\nAnd I'll say, \u201cThank you\u201d; there's quite a few FamilyLife Today listeners who give financially to make this happen. You're letting other families benefit from people, like Ed Welch. I\u2019ll just say this: \u201cWhen he said, \u2018Create an environment in your home, where your wife, your spouse, your kids feel like they're invited to pour out their honest, vulnerable thoughts, and feelings, and struggles, and trauma, and shame.\u2019\u201d That was worth\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn (24:04):\r\n\r\nSo good.\r\n\r\nDave (24:04):\r\n\r\n\u2014everything, just to say, \u201cI felt like he did that with us. It's like you felt so heard, and seen,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and safe.\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014invited into a conversation, not just with him, but with Jesus.\u201d That was beautiful.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:16):\r\n\r\nYeah; his book is called I Have a Psychiatric Diagnosis: What Does the Bible Say?\r\n\r\nDave (24:21):\r\n\r\nYou can get it now by going to the link in the show notes at FamilyLifeToday.com.\r\n\r\nAnn (24:26):\r\n\r\nI don't know about you; but I need parenting help, not just sometimes, but most of the time. Maybe, you feel like that, too. We have resources to help you, as a parent. 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