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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nNavigating the Realities of Marriage in 2025\r\n\r\nGuests:Ron and Nan Deal, Jared and Becky Wilson, \r\n\r\nand Trent and Andrea Griffith\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Navigating the Realities of Marriage in 2025 (Day 1 of 1)\r\n\r\nAir date:June 18, 2025\r\n\r\nNan:I started praying, \u201cLord, help build this bridge of trust back.\u201d It's been five years, and I've seen Him faithfully do that. It was not a one-and-done; it wasn't an overnight. The Lord kept saying to me: \u201cI need you to stay in your lane and do your work with Me, regardless of how he responds.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn:And I'm Ann Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave:Alright; today, we've got another message from the Love Like You Mean It cruise from last February.\r\n\r\nAnn:And this is actually a panel that we had with some great people\u2014probably, some of your favorites: Ron and Nan Deal, whom we all love; Jared and Becky Wilson; and Trent and Andrea Griffith\u2014who were pretty great on this panel.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah, I mean there's something about panels\u2014you get different opinions, different perspectives\u2014and you can see yourself in one of these couples, sitting on a panel. It's going to be a great day. And by the way, this is from the cruise from last February. We're going sailing, again, this February\u2014February 14th through 21st, 2026\u2014on a brand-new MSC World America boat.\r\n\r\nAnn:But here's the thing\u2014we're 90 percent full\u2014so now is the time. This is the chance; this is the last chance to sign up.\r\n\r\nDave:You get the best price until June 30 if you sign up. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com, and sign up for the cruise. If you'd rather call us, you can call us at 800-358-6329 and get more information. But the special pricing ends June 30; so I'll tell you: \u201cDo it now; and then, jump back in and listen to this panel with the Deals, the Wilsons, and the Griffiths.\u201d\r\n\r\n[Love Like You Mean It Panel Discussion]\r\n\r\nRon:Well, okay, so let's jump in. We've got a bunch of questions here, and these have been submitted from some of you. Let's jump in with the first one: \u201cHow do you have a conversation about in-laws when it is a tender subject in your marriage?\u201d The in-laws\/outlaws question.\r\n\r\nAndrea:I can start. Mine's just real practical, so it might not be the best place to start. We've just tried to live by the rule that, if you are the child of those parents, you are the one who brings the issue. So not the daughter-in-law, not the son-in-law; but you\u2014being the biological, now adult, child\u2014you are the one who talks to the in-laws. You guys talk first [husband and wife] and kind of get the same game plan; and then, that child talks to the mom and dad because you know the ins and outs of your family\u2014you know how you work; you know how they work\u2014and you're going to be able to present it in such a kinder way, and a way with a depth of understanding, that maybe the new spouse doesn't quite know yet.\r\n\r\nTrent:I would just add to that: it's a conversation about expectations. We all bring an expectation into the marriage of what the role of mom and dad, mother- and father-in-law are going to have. \r\n\r\nThe expectation [for me]: I'm an only child. I moved away from home when I was 21 years old. I said goodbye to Mom and Dad, thinking, \u201cI'll see them a couple of times a year, maybe.\u201d Andrea is from a larger family. She just had the vision that Mom and Dad would be very much a part of our lives, and her brother and sister, and the nieces and nephews. That was something we had some [conversation] about. \r\n\r\nWe ended up moving, geographically, far away from her family. I didn't know, for a decade, that that was hard for her. I'd been away from my mom and dad for a long time, and that wasn't hard for me; I thought that was the expectation. So you have to have the talk.\r\n\r\nRon:I'll just add a little bit different angle. To Andrea's point: \u201cWhat if the biological child doesn't want to talk to their parent?\u201d or \u201c\u2026you don't have the same opinion?\u201d\u2014if she's talking to me about something related to my parents, and I don't agree with that; or we can't find unity. Or maybe, we're unified; but I just don't have the courage to go and talk to my parent. That comes down to: \u201cWhat is it, in me, that is held up or paralyzed about talking to my parents?\u201d I often find that that's really tied to some stuff we talked about on Day One: \u201cWhat's my baggage?\u201d \u201cWhat am I afraid of?\u201d \u201cWhat's it going to cost me to bring this up with my parents?\u201d That's something I got to do some deep diving about and try to figure out what that is in me; because whatever that thing is, it's paralyzing me. It's going to paralyze me for a really, really long time, whatever the subject might be.\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nYou may have to really wrestle with that part of you to be able to get to a place, where you can say, \u201cOkay, I'm in agreement. This is a conversation we need to have; but I need to find a way to do that and maintain my own sense of self in the presence of my parents.\u201d That's a growing-up moment\u2014is what I call that. \r\n\r\nLeave and cleave doesn't stop when you get married. It's pretty much, every day, the rest of your life\u2014leaving who you were with your parents; leaving what legacy they left in your heart that is lingering and holding you up in life\u2014we're still leaving that stuff, no matter what age we are. I think it's sort of this ongoing process of examining ourselves, trying to figure out: \u201cWhat's in the way?\u201d\r\n\r\nJared:Making the decision to honor your spouse\u2014not dishonoring your parents\u2014but honoring your spouse above all others, putting them before all others. So coming to that place, as you said, identifying: \u201cWhat is it that I'm protecting?\u201d \u201cWhat is it that I'm afraid of?\u201d \u201cWhat is it that's keeping me from addressing this?\u201d\u2014\"from speaking to my parents?\u201d et cetera\u2014is the thing that's keeping me from honoring my spouse, actually. That's a huge hurdle to overcome, sometimes.\r\n\r\nRon:Okay. I mentioned leaving and cleaving earlier. Let's start with this, because we had another question: \u201cAt what point does leaving and cleaving begin?\u201d and \u201cWhat does that look like in a healthy marriage?\u201d\r\n\r\nLet's not assume everybody's on the same page. Somebody just kind of describe what leaving and cleaving is referring to; and then, let's just think out loud about: \u201cWhen does it begin?\u201d \u201cWhat does it look like?\u201d\r\n\r\nTrent:Genesis 2:24 is where those terms come from: \u201cA man shall leave his father and mother; cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one.\u201d The reality, when you read Scripture, there's only one permanent lifelong covenant relationship that's described. It's not the parent-child relationship. The reality is: the parent-child relationship is a temporary secondary relationship; the primary covenant relationship [is between] mom and dad. So you always have to prioritize your marriage over your children; that's Step One. \r\n\r\nWe raise our children to leave. Psalm 1:27 says: \u201cLike arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth.\u201d If you think about that, God says, \u201cChildren are like arrows. Parents are like warriors in the hand of God. Children are like arrows in the hand of a parent; parents are like warriors in the hand of God. The reality is: our job, as a parent, is to straighten the arrow because how many of you have discovered the arrows arrive bent?\u2014they don't fly straight. Your job is a 20-year process of straightening that arrow\u2014through instruction, and discipline, and encouragement, and prayer, and all those different things\u2014so you straighten the arrow. \r\n\r\nThen you sharpen the arrow because you want that tip to be sharp when it arrives; it's meant to do damage to the powers of darkness. You straighten; you sharpen; and then, you send the arrow. You are raising them to leave. I used to say, \u201cYou straighten; you sharpen; you shoot,\u201d\u2014but that didn't translate well\u2014\"You straighten your children; you sharpen your children; you shoot your children there.\u201d [Laughter] I've met some parents who wanted to do that, so don't tweet that. \r\n\r\nWe send them now, but it really is: \u201cWe're training you to, not live independently\u2014but to live independently from Mom and Dad\u2014dependent upon the Lord. Interdependent, not codependent\u2014interdependent, as husband and wife for the season\u2014that now, you've got the legs to stand on your own.\u201d You take the position back, as mom and dad, as a coach; you're shouting encouragement from the sideline; you're not in the game.\r\n\r\nRon:Leaving, to me, is that emotional process, where we become our own person. In the ancient world, by the way, it had nothing to do with physical leaving; because when a young man grew up, and took a wife, he moved into the house with the parents. You can live on the same property\u2014add a room onto the house\u2014and still, emotionally, leave your parents. It's: \u201cI'm my own person. We're making our new covenant relationship,\u201d\u2014as Trent talked about\u2014\"and we are leading forth, out of this relationship, rather than directly under the authority, if you will, of my parents.\u201d It's the growing-up process. \r\n\r\nI really think that is a lifelong process. Some of you heard us talk the other day. I'm still learning little residue on my heart from my childhood; things that I do now that I'm not sure I want to choose to do that anymore. It's still me learning how to leave that stuff and be the person that God has called me to be, today, in this relationship. It's an ongoing journey of recognizing who we are and having our autonomy, I think, in relationship with the Lord.\r\n\r\nNan:Next question?\r\n\r\nRon:Sure.\r\n\r\nNan:Alright: \u201cHow do you reestablish trust? My spouse makes promises that are not kept.\u201d\r\n\r\nJared:I sense the question is asked from someone whose trust has been violated. They are, in a way, asking, \u201cHow do I learn to trust someone who has proven themself untrustworthy?\u201d The difficult answer is: \u201cPerhaps, you can\u2014you can't control how your spouse behaves\u2014you can try; you can try to manage that behavior.\u201d \r\n\r\nI think the question comes from the reality of\u2014if we\u2019re assuming the best about the question\u2014\"My spouse has proven to be someone who doesn't keep their promises, and so the trust is broken. How do I trust them?\u201d And the answer likely is that: \u201cYou can't.\u201d Underneath the question is: \u201cHow, then, can I feel safe?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel cared for?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel cherished?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel like I'm in a world that can be trusted if the climate of my home is not a trustworthy place?\u201d The resource for that, always, is the Lord Jesus Christ, the God who will never disappoint us, the God who will never fail us.\r\n\r\nEvery spouse, in some way\u2014even the best spouse\u2014cannot approximate the perfection of Jesus. Every opportunity of disappointment\u2014unmet expectations, trust broken, whether it's a big trust or just a little trust\u2014they forgot to pick up the thing at the grocery store. \u201cThat is such a habit. It's not that they cheated on me or anything. It's not a huge trust; it's just these little things that just seem to kind of add up and irritate.\u201d \r\n\r\nEven those things\u2014all of those\u2014are opportunities; and certainly, the big failures of trust: adultery and other immorality, or financial untrustworthiness\u2014things that create instability or a lack of safety, a feeling of safety. All of those are opportunities for us to lean into the reliability of Christ. The Lord is using that opportunity in some way\u2014that can be inscrutable; that's mysterious\u2014to help us trust Him more and to rely on the bridegroom, who never fails, who never lets us down. I know that's not an easy answer. What we want is: \u201cHow do I make them a trustworthy person?\u201d You might not be able to.\r\n\r\nNan:I think, after being the not-trustworthy person for a decade in our marriage, when the Lord took me through this confessional season, He helped me make a list. He said, \u201cI need you to start with Ron.\u201d After I had surrendered to Him, I came to Ron; and I humbly just told him everything. I was out with all of it. \r\n\r\nI saw, on his face, \u201cOkay; well, thank you for sharing.\u201d I had blown out the bridge of trust; I had put him through a lot of pain. It took time. I started praying, \u201cLord, help build this bridge of trust back.\u201d It's been five years, and I've seen Him faithfully do that. It was not a one-and-done; it wasn't an overnight. The Lord kept saying to me, \u201cI need you to stay in your lane. Do your work with Me, regardless of how he responds. I just need you to walk faithfully with Me. I will show you the way.\u201d \r\n\r\nI kept faithfully praying that prayer. I continued to pray that prayer; because it was like an Indiana Jones bridge in one of those movies, where those boards were just breaking. It was just everybody was falling off of it. The Lord has been faithful; and I've had to stay in my lane\u2014and not to do penance\u2014but to get right with God, like you said.\r\n\r\nRon:I'll add the personal side to what she just said in a second. \r\n\r\nI really like the way\u2014the little three steps you guys talked about the other day\u2014the gospel, plus safety, plus time:\r\n\r\nSafety is, in this case, Nan becoming safe after not being safe; being trustworthy after not being trustworthy. \r\n\r\nIf you're the person, who has caused the offense,\u2014if I could say it that way; whatever that means\u2014it is your job to stay in your lane, as she said, and work out a new track record of safety, of trustworthiness. \r\n\r\nAt the end of the day, this person [injured party] is working on forgiveness; and then, trying to trust you again. Those are two different things; I'm going to come back to that. \r\n\r\nBut in the meantime, you've got to walk that path of repentance and showing yourself to be trustworthy. At some point\u2014maybe, depending on the size of the offense\u2014at some point, maybe, this person [injured party] will be able to move back towards you again.\r\n\r\nNan:And if it's so overwhelming that you can't do it, as a couple\u2014definitely get a mentor; definitely go to a pastor; definitely go to a counselor\u2014and get some help for it. Don't stay in it alone, or isolate in that pain; get some help. Those are just hard seasons and hard spaces to be in, I think. \r\n\r\nRon:They are. That's a good word; the counselor kind of helps give you\u2014both of you\u2014perspective on what's happening; and how you can move forward, gently and slowly. When you're frustrated with how the other person is responding, or not responding, they can help sort of head that off. So if you try it, and you feel like you're still stuck, get somebody else in there who can help.\r\n\r\n[Studio]\r\n\r\nAnn:We're Dave and Ann Wilson, and this is FamilyLife Today. We are listening to a panel that was actually on the Love Like You Mean It cruise.\r\n\r\nDave:And I'll tell you what: we're going to go right back to it, because they were only halfway done. You want to be on it [the ship] next year; we'll tell you how in a little bit.\r\n\r\n[Love Like You Mean It Panel Discussion]\r\n\r\nRon:Is there more to that? I'm sure there's more to that trust\/forgiveness thing.\r\n\r\nJared:Can I ask Becky?\r\n\r\nRon:Yeah, please.\r\n\r\nJared:I know it was a long process, but what are maybe one or two things that you feel like I did that helped you see me as a trustworthy person?\r\n\r\nBecky:Yeah; I mean, for me, you've all kind of touched on this. But for me, the very first step was, while I had been sinned against, for sure, I had forgotten that I was, also, a sinner. I had to deal with my own sin first. I had to get on my face before the Lord; and I had to say, \u201cYou are the only One who can rebuild this thing. I need You to forgive me; I need to know that You have forgiven Jared; and then, I need You to help me to forgive him. And then, I need You to show me ways that I can trust him again.\u201d\r\n\r\nThe Lord loves you, and He is for you; and He is for your marriage. I'm not a prosperity gospel; I can't promise you exact responses. But I will tell you that He wants to answer that prayer if you will faithfully ask the Lord to change their heart, to change your heart, to reconcile you. I just have to believe He will do it. 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They start putting expectations on: \u201cWhen you should forgive me,\u201d \u201cWhen you should let me off the hook,\u201d \u201cWhen are you not going to bring this up anymore?\u201d \u201cHow is it\u2014why do you think you have the right to look at my phone?\u201d\u2014\"to tell me what I'm doing?\u201d\u2014or \u201cto whom I'm talking to?\u201d\u2014or whatever the thing is? You don't have the right to dictate any of that; you made your bed. Isn't that what Mama told us?\u2014\"You made your bed; you get to lie in it.\u201d That's a super important part of earning the new track record of trustworthiness. \r\n\r\nIf you're unwilling to subject yourself to that, I'm not sure you're really repentant. I think that's a good sign that you're not truly humbled in this; and therefore, the other partner shouldn't trust you. That's super important because I think\u2014and I'm kind of putting on my hat here for the church\u2014because I think we have done an injustice to partners when we've said to them, \u201cWell, but he means well; so just forgive him, and get on with it.\u201d We put all this pressure on the offended partner when the offender hasn't really done their work. They really haven't changed; and then, we just create a vulnerability for people who then get hurt over, and over, and over again. I think we need to really unwind that. \r\n\r\nThree weeks ago\/four weeks ago, Nan and I had a little moment; we were having breakfast. I said something that triggered a pain in her that brought up stuff\u2014I don\u2019t know, 10\/20 years ago\u2014the old Ron. I said something, and it triggered what the old Ron would've done and was doing. That was in the context\u2014at all, three weeks ago\u2014but it sure triggered it in her. To her credit, she took a minute; she did her four steps\u2014something we're going to talk about tomorrow in our breakout\u2014and she worked through it, and found a different path out, rather than going to blame, shame, control, or escape. \r\n\r\nI, on the other hand, recognized very quickly, \u201cWow; this taps something deep. I'm not sure what it was. I need to just shut my mouth and wait.\u201d And then, when she began to talk, I own that. Those three words: \u201cI own that.\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:I love those words.\r\n\r\nRon:\u201cI own that.\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:I love them; say them again.\r\n\r\nRon:There's a part of me\u2014\r\n\r\nNan:\u201cI own that\u2026\u201d\r\n\r\nRon:\u201cI own that.\u201d There's a part of me that wants to say, \u201cThat was me, 20 years ago; I am not that guy anymore. What in the world are we doing?!\u201d Okay, that's that sort of prideful, self-justifying part of me that wants to be out from under who I was and doesn't want to see any pain in her eyes. But here it is, 20 years later; and I'm seeing that pain, I can't do that; I have to own the fact that I did things that abandoned her in our relationship, that made her feel like she wasn't important and cherished in our relationship, 20 years ago. The consequences still show up today; I own that\u2014not \u201cI own that, but\u2026\u201d\u2014\u201cI own that; period.\u201d \r\n\r\nI let her work through; I let her manage herself. I don't have to manage her; it's not my job. Remember: I don't get rid of her bags; she deals with her bags. But I got to own mine; I own that. So sometimes, even when you've worked through whatever the offense was, and moved well past it, life triggers; and it comes up again. It's okay; take a deep breath; own it. Find your way through this particular moment. \r\n\r\nLet's do another one: \u201cHow do I get my husband to prefer me over Facebook?\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:That was a Facebook reel.\r\n\r\nRon:Facebook reels; Instagram. \r\n\r\nNan:And those are fun. \r\n\r\nRon:They're hilarious; they\u2019re lots of fun. \r\n\r\nBy the way, there's a new term we've been talking about\u2014I feel like I've been talking about this for three or four years now\u2014called phubbing. You guys know the word, \u201cphubbing?\u201d\u2014P-H-U-B-B-I-N-G; it's phone partner snubbing\u2014it's when you snub your partner for the phone, or the screen, or the whatever. You prefer an Instagram reel and time with. \r\n\r\nYou've seen it: people go to dinner, and they sit down; nobody talks to anybody. 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A little discipline goes a long way. \r\n\r\nJared:Some applause there.\r\n\r\nRon:Yeah. Would you, in fact\u2014speaking of applause\u2014would you thank our panel tonight for being with us? \r\n\r\nNan:Yes; thank you, panel.\r\n\r\nRon:Thanks, everybody.\r\n\r\n[Studio]\r\n\r\nDave:We\u2019re Dave and Ann Wilson. This is FamilyLife Today. I'll tell you what: I don't think I could leave my phone in the car.\r\n\r\nAnn:I was just thinking that: they left their phones in the car.\r\n\r\nDave:I don't know if I could do that for a couple hours. \r\n\r\nAnn:Let's do that! I don't know if you could either.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah, well, I'm definitely taking my phone on the cruise next year in February. \r\n\r\nAnn:Oh, whatever!\r\n\r\nDave:How's that for a transition, to say: \u201cYou need to be on the cruise with us, February 14th through 21st, of 2026,\u201d\u2014the kind of stuff you just heard happens every day, every night. There's workshops; there's keynote talks like that. There's bands; there's comedians; there's sunshine; the whole boat is nobody but us.\r\n\r\nAnn:It's so fun. And listen to this: Dennis Rainey and Barbara are going to be back; Bob Lepine will be there. That's going to really be fun to have them.\r\n\r\nDave:It's going to be great. Here's how you can sign up: go to FamilyLifeToday.com and sign up there. Or you can give us a call at 800-358-6329; get more information. You don't need more information; you got everything you need to know. Just sign up; you won't regret it. It'll be a week that will literally change your life, change your marriage, change your legacy. \r\n\r\nAnd by the way, the special pricing that you can get right now ends \r\n\r\nJune 30, so I'd make the call. 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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nNavigating the Realities of Marriage in 2025\r\n\r\nGuests:Ron and Nan Deal, Jared and Becky Wilson, \r\n\r\nand Trent and Andrea Griffith\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Navigating the Realities of Marriage in 2025 (Day 1 of 1)\r\n\r\nAir date:June 18, 2025\r\n\r\nNan:I started praying, \u201cLord, help build this bridge of trust back.\u201d It's been five years, and I've seen Him faithfully do that. It was not a one-and-done; it wasn't an overnight. The Lord kept saying to me: \u201cI need you to stay in your lane and do your work with Me, regardless of how he responds.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Dave Wilson.\r\n\r\nAnn:And I'm Ann Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave:Alright; today, we've got another message from the Love Like You Mean It cruise from last February.\r\n\r\nAnn:And this is actually a panel that we had with some great people\u2014probably, some of your favorites: Ron and Nan Deal, whom we all love; Jared and Becky Wilson; and Trent and Andrea Griffith\u2014who were pretty great on this panel.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah, I mean there's something about panels\u2014you get different opinions, different perspectives\u2014and you can see yourself in one of these couples, sitting on a panel. It's going to be a great day. And by the way, this is from the cruise from last February. We're going sailing, again, this February\u2014February 14th through 21st, 2026\u2014on a brand-new MSC World America boat.\r\n\r\nAnn:But here's the thing\u2014we're 90 percent full\u2014so now is the time. This is the chance; this is the last chance to sign up.\r\n\r\nDave:You get the best price until June 30 if you sign up. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com, and sign up for the cruise. If you'd rather call us, you can call us at 800-358-6329 and get more information. But the special pricing ends June 30; so I'll tell you: \u201cDo it now; and then, jump back in and listen to this panel with the Deals, the Wilsons, and the Griffiths.\u201d\r\n\r\n[Love Like You Mean It Panel Discussion]\r\n\r\nRon:Well, okay, so let's jump in. We've got a bunch of questions here, and these have been submitted from some of you. Let's jump in with the first one: \u201cHow do you have a conversation about in-laws when it is a tender subject in your marriage?\u201d The in-laws\/outlaws question.\r\n\r\nAndrea:I can start. Mine's just real practical, so it might not be the best place to start. We've just tried to live by the rule that, if you are the child of those parents, you are the one who brings the issue. So not the daughter-in-law, not the son-in-law; but you\u2014being the biological, now adult, child\u2014you are the one who talks to the in-laws. You guys talk first [husband and wife] and kind of get the same game plan; and then, that child talks to the mom and dad because you know the ins and outs of your family\u2014you know how you work; you know how they work\u2014and you're going to be able to present it in such a kinder way, and a way with a depth of understanding, that maybe the new spouse doesn't quite know yet.\r\n\r\nTrent:I would just add to that: it's a conversation about expectations. We all bring an expectation into the marriage of what the role of mom and dad, mother- and father-in-law are going to have. \r\n\r\nThe expectation [for me]: I'm an only child. I moved away from home when I was 21 years old. I said goodbye to Mom and Dad, thinking, \u201cI'll see them a couple of times a year, maybe.\u201d Andrea is from a larger family. She just had the vision that Mom and Dad would be very much a part of our lives, and her brother and sister, and the nieces and nephews. That was something we had some [conversation] about. \r\n\r\nWe ended up moving, geographically, far away from her family. I didn't know, for a decade, that that was hard for her. I'd been away from my mom and dad for a long time, and that wasn't hard for me; I thought that was the expectation. So you have to have the talk.\r\n\r\nRon:I'll just add a little bit different angle. To Andrea's point: \u201cWhat if the biological child doesn't want to talk to their parent?\u201d or \u201c\u2026you don't have the same opinion?\u201d\u2014if she's talking to me about something related to my parents, and I don't agree with that; or we can't find unity. Or maybe, we're unified; but I just don't have the courage to go and talk to my parent. That comes down to: \u201cWhat is it, in me, that is held up or paralyzed about talking to my parents?\u201d I often find that that's really tied to some stuff we talked about on Day One: \u201cWhat's my baggage?\u201d \u201cWhat am I afraid of?\u201d \u201cWhat's it going to cost me to bring this up with my parents?\u201d That's something I got to do some deep diving about and try to figure out what that is in me; because whatever that thing is, it's paralyzing me. It's going to paralyze me for a really, really long time, whatever the subject might be.\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nYou may have to really wrestle with that part of you to be able to get to a place, where you can say, \u201cOkay, I'm in agreement. This is a conversation we need to have; but I need to find a way to do that and maintain my own sense of self in the presence of my parents.\u201d That's a growing-up moment\u2014is what I call that. \r\n\r\nLeave and cleave doesn't stop when you get married. It's pretty much, every day, the rest of your life\u2014leaving who you were with your parents; leaving what legacy they left in your heart that is lingering and holding you up in life\u2014we're still leaving that stuff, no matter what age we are. I think it's sort of this ongoing process of examining ourselves, trying to figure out: \u201cWhat's in the way?\u201d\r\n\r\nJared:Making the decision to honor your spouse\u2014not dishonoring your parents\u2014but honoring your spouse above all others, putting them before all others. So coming to that place, as you said, identifying: \u201cWhat is it that I'm protecting?\u201d \u201cWhat is it that I'm afraid of?\u201d \u201cWhat is it that's keeping me from addressing this?\u201d\u2014\"from speaking to my parents?\u201d et cetera\u2014is the thing that's keeping me from honoring my spouse, actually. That's a huge hurdle to overcome, sometimes.\r\n\r\nRon:Okay. I mentioned leaving and cleaving earlier. Let's start with this, because we had another question: \u201cAt what point does leaving and cleaving begin?\u201d and \u201cWhat does that look like in a healthy marriage?\u201d\r\n\r\nLet's not assume everybody's on the same page. Somebody just kind of describe what leaving and cleaving is referring to; and then, let's just think out loud about: \u201cWhen does it begin?\u201d \u201cWhat does it look like?\u201d\r\n\r\nTrent:Genesis 2:24 is where those terms come from: \u201cA man shall leave his father and mother; cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one.\u201d The reality, when you read Scripture, there's only one permanent lifelong covenant relationship that's described. It's not the parent-child relationship. The reality is: the parent-child relationship is a temporary secondary relationship; the primary covenant relationship [is between] mom and dad. So you always have to prioritize your marriage over your children; that's Step One. \r\n\r\nWe raise our children to leave. Psalm 1:27 says: \u201cLike arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth.\u201d If you think about that, God says, \u201cChildren are like arrows. Parents are like warriors in the hand of God. Children are like arrows in the hand of a parent; parents are like warriors in the hand of God. The reality is: our job, as a parent, is to straighten the arrow because how many of you have discovered the arrows arrive bent?\u2014they don't fly straight. Your job is a 20-year process of straightening that arrow\u2014through instruction, and discipline, and encouragement, and prayer, and all those different things\u2014so you straighten the arrow. \r\n\r\nThen you sharpen the arrow because you want that tip to be sharp when it arrives; it's meant to do damage to the powers of darkness. You straighten; you sharpen; and then, you send the arrow. You are raising them to leave. I used to say, \u201cYou straighten; you sharpen; you shoot,\u201d\u2014but that didn't translate well\u2014\"You straighten your children; you sharpen your children; you shoot your children there.\u201d [Laughter] I've met some parents who wanted to do that, so don't tweet that. \r\n\r\nWe send them now, but it really is: \u201cWe're training you to, not live independently\u2014but to live independently from Mom and Dad\u2014dependent upon the Lord. Interdependent, not codependent\u2014interdependent, as husband and wife for the season\u2014that now, you've got the legs to stand on your own.\u201d You take the position back, as mom and dad, as a coach; you're shouting encouragement from the sideline; you're not in the game.\r\n\r\nRon:Leaving, to me, is that emotional process, where we become our own person. In the ancient world, by the way, it had nothing to do with physical leaving; because when a young man grew up, and took a wife, he moved into the house with the parents. You can live on the same property\u2014add a room onto the house\u2014and still, emotionally, leave your parents. It's: \u201cI'm my own person. We're making our new covenant relationship,\u201d\u2014as Trent talked about\u2014\"and we are leading forth, out of this relationship, rather than directly under the authority, if you will, of my parents.\u201d It's the growing-up process. \r\n\r\nI really think that is a lifelong process. Some of you heard us talk the other day. I'm still learning little residue on my heart from my childhood; things that I do now that I'm not sure I want to choose to do that anymore. It's still me learning how to leave that stuff and be the person that God has called me to be, today, in this relationship. It's an ongoing journey of recognizing who we are and having our autonomy, I think, in relationship with the Lord.\r\n\r\nNan:Next question?\r\n\r\nRon:Sure.\r\n\r\nNan:Alright: \u201cHow do you reestablish trust? My spouse makes promises that are not kept.\u201d\r\n\r\nJared:I sense the question is asked from someone whose trust has been violated. They are, in a way, asking, \u201cHow do I learn to trust someone who has proven themself untrustworthy?\u201d The difficult answer is: \u201cPerhaps, you can\u2014you can't control how your spouse behaves\u2014you can try; you can try to manage that behavior.\u201d \r\n\r\nI think the question comes from the reality of\u2014if we\u2019re assuming the best about the question\u2014\"My spouse has proven to be someone who doesn't keep their promises, and so the trust is broken. How do I trust them?\u201d And the answer likely is that: \u201cYou can't.\u201d Underneath the question is: \u201cHow, then, can I feel safe?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel cared for?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel cherished?\u201d \u201cHow can I feel like I'm in a world that can be trusted if the climate of my home is not a trustworthy place?\u201d The resource for that, always, is the Lord Jesus Christ, the God who will never disappoint us, the God who will never fail us.\r\n\r\nEvery spouse, in some way\u2014even the best spouse\u2014cannot approximate the perfection of Jesus. Every opportunity of disappointment\u2014unmet expectations, trust broken, whether it's a big trust or just a little trust\u2014they forgot to pick up the thing at the grocery store. \u201cThat is such a habit. It's not that they cheated on me or anything. It's not a huge trust; it's just these little things that just seem to kind of add up and irritate.\u201d \r\n\r\nEven those things\u2014all of those\u2014are opportunities; and certainly, the big failures of trust: adultery and other immorality, or financial untrustworthiness\u2014things that create instability or a lack of safety, a feeling of safety. All of those are opportunities for us to lean into the reliability of Christ. The Lord is using that opportunity in some way\u2014that can be inscrutable; that's mysterious\u2014to help us trust Him more and to rely on the bridegroom, who never fails, who never lets us down. I know that's not an easy answer. What we want is: \u201cHow do I make them a trustworthy person?\u201d You might not be able to.\r\n\r\nNan:I think, after being the not-trustworthy person for a decade in our marriage, when the Lord took me through this confessional season, He helped me make a list. He said, \u201cI need you to start with Ron.\u201d After I had surrendered to Him, I came to Ron; and I humbly just told him everything. I was out with all of it. \r\n\r\nI saw, on his face, \u201cOkay; well, thank you for sharing.\u201d I had blown out the bridge of trust; I had put him through a lot of pain. It took time. I started praying, \u201cLord, help build this bridge of trust back.\u201d It's been five years, and I've seen Him faithfully do that. It was not a one-and-done; it wasn't an overnight. The Lord kept saying to me, \u201cI need you to stay in your lane. Do your work with Me, regardless of how he responds. I just need you to walk faithfully with Me. I will show you the way.\u201d \r\n\r\nI kept faithfully praying that prayer. I continued to pray that prayer; because it was like an Indiana Jones bridge in one of those movies, where those boards were just breaking. It was just everybody was falling off of it. The Lord has been faithful; and I've had to stay in my lane\u2014and not to do penance\u2014but to get right with God, like you said.\r\n\r\nRon:I'll add the personal side to what she just said in a second. \r\n\r\nI really like the way\u2014the little three steps you guys talked about the other day\u2014the gospel, plus safety, plus time:\r\n\r\nSafety is, in this case, Nan becoming safe after not being safe; being trustworthy after not being trustworthy. \r\n\r\nIf you're the person, who has caused the offense,\u2014if I could say it that way; whatever that means\u2014it is your job to stay in your lane, as she said, and work out a new track record of safety, of trustworthiness. \r\n\r\nAt the end of the day, this person [injured party] is working on forgiveness; and then, trying to trust you again. Those are two different things; I'm going to come back to that. \r\n\r\nBut in the meantime, you've got to walk that path of repentance and showing yourself to be trustworthy. At some point\u2014maybe, depending on the size of the offense\u2014at some point, maybe, this person [injured party] will be able to move back towards you again.\r\n\r\nNan:And if it's so overwhelming that you can't do it, as a couple\u2014definitely get a mentor; definitely go to a pastor; definitely go to a counselor\u2014and get some help for it. Don't stay in it alone, or isolate in that pain; get some help. Those are just hard seasons and hard spaces to be in, I think. \r\n\r\nRon:They are. That's a good word; the counselor kind of helps give you\u2014both of you\u2014perspective on what's happening; and how you can move forward, gently and slowly. When you're frustrated with how the other person is responding, or not responding, they can help sort of head that off. So if you try it, and you feel like you're still stuck, get somebody else in there who can help.\r\n\r\n[Studio]\r\n\r\nAnn:We're Dave and Ann Wilson, and this is FamilyLife Today. We are listening to a panel that was actually on the Love Like You Mean It cruise.\r\n\r\nDave:And I'll tell you what: we're going to go right back to it, because they were only halfway done. You want to be on it [the ship] next year; we'll tell you how in a little bit.\r\n\r\n[Love Like You Mean It Panel Discussion]\r\n\r\nRon:Is there more to that? I'm sure there's more to that trust\/forgiveness thing.\r\n\r\nJared:Can I ask Becky?\r\n\r\nRon:Yeah, please.\r\n\r\nJared:I know it was a long process, but what are maybe one or two things that you feel like I did that helped you see me as a trustworthy person?\r\n\r\nBecky:Yeah; I mean, for me, you've all kind of touched on this. But for me, the very first step was, while I had been sinned against, for sure, I had forgotten that I was, also, a sinner. I had to deal with my own sin first. I had to get on my face before the Lord; and I had to say, \u201cYou are the only One who can rebuild this thing. I need You to forgive me; I need to know that You have forgiven Jared; and then, I need You to help me to forgive him. And then, I need You to show me ways that I can trust him again.\u201d\r\n\r\nThe Lord loves you, and He is for you; and He is for your marriage. I'm not a prosperity gospel; I can't promise you exact responses. But I will tell you that He wants to answer that prayer if you will faithfully ask the Lord to change their heart, to change your heart, to reconcile you. I just have to believe He will do it. It'll take time and a lot of work; but I just think that He will honor that prayer in your marriage, over time.\r\n\r\nJared:I would say one of the things\u2014just a practical thing that I think may be applicable widely\u2014is: in the early days, when I experienced my turnaround, I didn't have\u2014genuinely, I did not have a desire for pornography anymore\u2014but she couldn't trust that simply because I said, \u201cGod fixed me.\u201d She was like, \u201cWell, this has not been the pattern of our life.\u201d\r\n\r\nOne of the things I did, which is what a lot of men do, is I had accountability software on my devices\u2014Covenant Eyes and X3watch\u2014and I'm sure there's a bunch of other ones out there now. I installed those on there. \r\n\r\nWell, one thing that guys do is they tend to get another guy as their accountability partner. That might be good; but a lot of times, it's guys who all struggle with the same thing, kind of keeping each other \u201caccountable\u201d: \u201cHey, man, I fell,\u201d \u201cYeah, me too,\u201d \u201cAlright, sorry about that.\u201d \r\n\r\nI made Becky my accountability partner, so she got the reports of what I was looking at online. That wasn't so much accountability, in one sense, because I didn't have a desire to go places I shouldn't go. It was, in some ways, on my part, a desire to show her: \u201cThis is what I'm looking at online.\u201d As much transparency as I could create, she could ask me any question: \u201cWhere were you?\u201d \u201cWhat were you looking at?\u201d\u2014anything like that. I had to be an open book for as long as it took and not begrudge that.\r\n\r\nRon:So very important what he just said. So many people will sabotage the recovery process when they're the offender. They start putting expectations on: \u201cWhen you should forgive me,\u201d \u201cWhen you should let me off the hook,\u201d \u201cWhen are you not going to bring this up anymore?\u201d \u201cHow is it\u2014why do you think you have the right to look at my phone?\u201d\u2014\"to tell me what I'm doing?\u201d\u2014or \u201cto whom I'm talking to?\u201d\u2014or whatever the thing is? You don't have the right to dictate any of that; you made your bed. Isn't that what Mama told us?\u2014\"You made your bed; you get to lie in it.\u201d That's a super important part of earning the new track record of trustworthiness. \r\n\r\nIf you're unwilling to subject yourself to that, I'm not sure you're really repentant. I think that's a good sign that you're not truly humbled in this; and therefore, the other partner shouldn't trust you. That's super important because I think\u2014and I'm kind of putting on my hat here for the church\u2014because I think we have done an injustice to partners when we've said to them, \u201cWell, but he means well; so just forgive him, and get on with it.\u201d We put all this pressure on the offended partner when the offender hasn't really done their work. They really haven't changed; and then, we just create a vulnerability for people who then get hurt over, and over, and over again. I think we need to really unwind that. \r\n\r\nThree weeks ago\/four weeks ago, Nan and I had a little moment; we were having breakfast. I said something that triggered a pain in her that brought up stuff\u2014I don\u2019t know, 10\/20 years ago\u2014the old Ron. I said something, and it triggered what the old Ron would've done and was doing. That was in the context\u2014at all, three weeks ago\u2014but it sure triggered it in her. To her credit, she took a minute; she did her four steps\u2014something we're going to talk about tomorrow in our breakout\u2014and she worked through it, and found a different path out, rather than going to blame, shame, control, or escape. \r\n\r\nI, on the other hand, recognized very quickly, \u201cWow; this taps something deep. I'm not sure what it was. I need to just shut my mouth and wait.\u201d And then, when she began to talk, I own that. Those three words: \u201cI own that.\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:I love those words.\r\n\r\nRon:\u201cI own that.\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:I love them; say them again.\r\n\r\nRon:There's a part of me\u2014\r\n\r\nNan:\u201cI own that\u2026\u201d\r\n\r\nRon:\u201cI own that.\u201d There's a part of me that wants to say, \u201cThat was me, 20 years ago; I am not that guy anymore. What in the world are we doing?!\u201d Okay, that's that sort of prideful, self-justifying part of me that wants to be out from under who I was and doesn't want to see any pain in her eyes. But here it is, 20 years later; and I'm seeing that pain, I can't do that; I have to own the fact that I did things that abandoned her in our relationship, that made her feel like she wasn't important and cherished in our relationship, 20 years ago. The consequences still show up today; I own that\u2014not \u201cI own that, but\u2026\u201d\u2014\u201cI own that; period.\u201d \r\n\r\nI let her work through; I let her manage herself. I don't have to manage her; it's not my job. Remember: I don't get rid of her bags; she deals with her bags. But I got to own mine; I own that. So sometimes, even when you've worked through whatever the offense was, and moved well past it, life triggers; and it comes up again. It's okay; take a deep breath; own it. Find your way through this particular moment. \r\n\r\nLet's do another one: \u201cHow do I get my husband to prefer me over Facebook?\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:That was a Facebook reel.\r\n\r\nRon:Facebook reels; Instagram. \r\n\r\nNan:And those are fun. \r\n\r\nRon:They're hilarious; they\u2019re lots of fun. \r\n\r\nBy the way, there's a new term we've been talking about\u2014I feel like I've been talking about this for three or four years now\u2014called phubbing. You guys know the word, \u201cphubbing?\u201d\u2014P-H-U-B-B-I-N-G; it's phone partner snubbing\u2014it's when you snub your partner for the phone, or the screen, or the whatever. You prefer an Instagram reel and time with. \r\n\r\nYou've seen it: people go to dinner, and they sit down; nobody talks to anybody. Whole families are all staring at a screen\u2014that's phubbing\u2014and there is definitely something happening in that moment. \r\n\r\nThis is a confrontation; is that your word?\r\n\r\nNan:Yeah, that's my word: confrontation.\r\n\r\nRon:Yeah, where you\u2019d say, \u201cYou know what I know about me?\u2014is I'm feeling really disconnected from you right now. What I normally do is just yell, and scream at you, and call you an idiot; because you're looking at the phone instead of talking to me when we're out on a date. But I'm not going to do that right now\u2014the truth is you're just distracted by that thing\u2014and I think you love me; I know you love me; but right now, that's a distraction. What I'm going to do is: \u2018Can I just ask you to set that down so we can have some time? I just really am looking forward to connecting with you right now.\u2019\u201d\r\n\r\nThat's a little process that allows you to say what you need to say, and ask for what you need to ask for. It gives the benefit of the doubt to the other person, who of course, needs to have earned that benefit of the doubt; and hopefully, you have. It's a way of saying, \u201cI want to connect. Can you please set that aside?\u201d\r\n\r\nOf course, the flip side of this is if you're the one getting distracted by phones, and screens, and whatever\u2014ESPN; that's my personality type by the way\u2014that was a joke: ESPN. Alright, nobody got it. \r\n\r\nIf you're that person, then yeah, learning the discipline of putting the phone down\u2014turning the TV off, whatever it is\u2014that's a really important thing to be able to do.\r\n\r\nNan:What do y'all think?\u2014real quick.\r\n\r\nJared:\u2014with 14 seconds left.\r\n\r\nNan:Yes.\r\n\r\nJared:That was a really good answer. My immediately thought was: \u201cMaybe, start an account: \u2018I\u2019ll watch you on the reels.\u2019\u201d\r\n\r\nNan:Oh, he's getting creative. \r\n\r\nJared:\u201cYou can't beat them; join them.\u201d That's a terrible answer. \r\n\r\nTrent:Nice, nice.\r\n\r\nJared:Go with Ron's answer; it's much better. \r\n\r\nRon:Anybody else? Final thought?\r\n\r\nBecky:My real quick thing was just going to be\u2014this is what I always recommend to young couples\u2014\"Whatever the offending thing is that you're struggling with, set however many times a month it can't be\u201d\u2014I know, especially if you have young kids or whatever, you can't do it every week\u2014\"but maybe, once a month\/twice a month, there's going to be one night of none of whatever the offense is. If it's the phone: we're going to have a date night once a month; and there is no phone coming with us; it's left in the car.\u201d\r\n\r\nRon:Wow; nice. A little discipline goes a long way. \r\n\r\nJared:Some applause there.\r\n\r\nRon:Yeah. Would you, in fact\u2014speaking of applause\u2014would you thank our panel tonight for being with us? \r\n\r\nNan:Yes; thank you, panel.\r\n\r\nRon:Thanks, everybody.\r\n\r\n[Studio]\r\n\r\nDave:We\u2019re Dave and Ann Wilson. This is FamilyLife Today. I'll tell you what: I don't think I could leave my phone in the car.\r\n\r\nAnn:I was just thinking that: they left their phones in the car.\r\n\r\nDave:I don't know if I could do that for a couple hours. \r\n\r\nAnn:Let's do that! I don't know if you could either.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah, well, I'm definitely taking my phone on the cruise next year in February. \r\n\r\nAnn:Oh, whatever!\r\n\r\nDave:How's that for a transition, to say: \u201cYou need to be on the cruise with us, February 14th through 21st, of 2026,\u201d\u2014the kind of stuff you just heard happens every day, every night. There's workshops; there's keynote talks like that. There's bands; there's comedians; there's sunshine; the whole boat is nobody but us.\r\n\r\nAnn:It's so fun. And listen to this: Dennis Rainey and Barbara are going to be back; Bob Lepine will be there. That's going to really be fun to have them.\r\n\r\nDave:It's going to be great. Here's how you can sign up: go to FamilyLifeToday.com and sign up there. Or you can give us a call at 800-358-6329; get more information. You don't need more information; you got everything you need to know. Just sign up; you won't regret it. It'll be a week that will literally change your life, change your marriage, change your legacy. \r\n\r\nAnd by the way, the special pricing that you can get right now ends \r\n\r\nJune 30, so I'd make the call. 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