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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.<\/p>\n<p>The Toxic War on Masculinity Part 2<\/p>\n<p>Guest:Nancy Pearcey<\/p>\n<p>From the series:The Toxic War on Masculinity (Day 2 of 3)<\/p>\n<p>Air date:June 12, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. Most of us probably think, the sixties or something with the feminist movement. Second wave. No, no, no. You have to go all the way back to the Industrial Revolution.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Ann Wilson.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And I'm Dave Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:When we first got married, you would often say, \u201cI never want to be like my dad, ever!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That was like a mission of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:It was a mission, because\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u201cI will not become like\u2014\"<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014\"a womanizer\u201d\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014an alcoholic, womanizer, divorce, selfish, money, idol.\u201d I mean, there were some good things about my dad, but that was\u2014he walked out when I was seven, so I was on a quest: \u201cI will never become that man.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But when I was a junior in college, I looked in the mirror one day, and I thought, \u201cI am my dad. I wasn't a Christian yet, and I was scared. I was going to parties and drinking. I was the college quarterback, so I had women. It was just\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And money was at the top.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Oh! I was like\u2014I picked my major\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:He was always thinking about money. money.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014based on how much money can I make? And then I come to Christ and Jesus starts transforming my life. I read the Bible, and I'm like, \u201cIf I don't do something, I'm going to become my dad, even though I don't want to be. It's going to happen.\u201d And one of my quests was: \u201cI\u2019ve got to find out what a godly man looks like because I don't know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you know what? You have become that. Really, honestly, I look at you and think, \u201cYou're an amazing man of God.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Well, that's nice.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And we're going to talk about this. We have Nancy Pearcey back with us. Nancy, welcome back to FamilyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Thank you. Thanks for having me.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And this is a great topic today because you've written many books. You're a college professor. You've written a book called The Toxic War on Masculinity. We talked about it yesterday, and we ended our segment talking about this toxic masculinity and what's happening to the view of men in our culture. Is it just United States or is it happening worldwide?\u2014of this negative opinion of men.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Well, I think it's worldwide, just because whatever happens in the United States spreads. But yes, we ended the last program on the hostile rhetoric; because you asked me, why did I write the book? Part of it was because I was so blown away by how hostile the rhetoric is today; how acceptable it is to say things negatively. There are books out now with titles like: I Hate Men, and No Good Men, and Are Men Necessary? You can get published with titles like that.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And even on TV, you see the man is the dummy. They're always dumbing him down, or he is the joke of the program. It never used to be like that. I don't know if it was healthy in the past; but now, it's we're at a whole different place.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And even men\u2014this was part of the surprise for me\u2014I looked at a news article where James Cameron, the director of Avatar, said, \u201cTestosterone is a toxin\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yes!<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014\u201cand you have to work it out of your system.\u201d Or there's a bestselling science-fiction writer, Hugh Howey, who said, \u201cTestosterone is the problem. Women should be in charge of everything.\u201d Another book author said, \u201cTalking about healthy masculinity is like talking about healthy cancer.\u201d And so then\u2014these are men! These are even male writers.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you're reading these things and getting a little riled up about it.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes; I'm thinking, \u201cWell, where does this come from?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That's my question, where does it come from?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Let me start where I start in the book. I wanted to start with the good news, because the bad news is pretty depressing. The good news is that evangelical men are doing very well. Christian men are, in fact, doing very well. Most Christians don't even know this. In fact, the reason they don't know it is because there's a lot of criticism of them as well. So let me give you a few quotes. It's very easy to find these online: \u201cConservative Protestant gender ideology can clearly lead to abuse, both physical and emotional.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another quote: \u201cIt's no secret that abuse is prevalent in conservative churches that embrace headship theory.\u201d Another quote: \u201cThe theology of male headship feeds the rape culture that we see permeating American Christianity today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The problem with these accusations is that they ignore the data from the social sciences. The studies have found that evangelical family men\u2014meaning husbands and fathers\u2014who attend church regularly are the most loving husbands and the most engaged fathers. So compared to the average American family man, evangelical men are the most loving to their wives. And yes, they do interview the wives separately. That's important because women wouldn't necessarily be honest.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The women report the highest levels of being happy with the way their husbands treat them, with feeling loved and appreciated. They are the most engaged with their children, both in shared activities, like sports and church youth group, and in discipline, like setting screen time or setting bedtime. They are the least likely to divorce of any group in America\u2014and here's the real stunner\u2014they have the lowest rates of domestic violence of any major group in America.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I tell people this; and everyone always sits back, kind of like, \u201cWhat?! How come we don't know this?\u201d The reason you don't know this is it's all buried in the academic literature. I had to read mostly academic sociological journals to pull this out.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:But it was there.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It was there. Sociologists have been doing these studies, partly because they wanted to find out, \u201cWhat is the data?\u201d They read these accusations, and they say, \u201cYeah, but where's the evidence? Where's the evidence?\u201d So they go back, and they do the studies. They found that evangelical men actually are the most loving and engaged husbands and fathers of any group in America. We don't know that. In fact, don't we hear that Christians divorce at the same rate as the rest of society?<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And that's not true, and it's never been true.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:But it is\u2014what I found out in my research\u2014it's one of the most widely cited statistics by Christian leaders. But what happened is the sociologists went back to the data then, and they divided out truly committed Christian men, who do attend church regularly. That's a fairly reliable correlate of whether they are truly committed Christians\u2014authentic Christians versus nominal\u2014that's the dividing line, versus nominal. I have to tell my students they don't know that word nominal means in name only because N-O-M is Latin for name, so nominal. Nominal Christians are men who might identify as evangelical, they might use that label.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:But they're not going to church, like you even said in the book, three times a month\u2014they're going less: maybe once; maybe not\u2014right?\u2014nominal.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Barely, if at all, right? It's mostly a family background; it's a cultural background.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The differences between these groups are absolutely devastating.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I mean, am I right in what I read? You saying that the difference is if you're a practicing evangelical man, all the things you just said are true. If you're nominal, you're worse than a secular man.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That\u2019s what I concluded.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:This was shocking.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That was scary.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It is. It was shocking when I first read it; yes. On all those numbers: first, their wives are the least happy with how their husbands treat them; they're the least engaged with their children in terms of shared activities and discipline. They have the highest level of divorce, higher than secular men. and they have the highest level of domestic violence of any group in America, higher than secular men. This is what the church is up against, then, because they are claiming to be Christian.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I only found one study that gave them the sizes. You and I probably hang out mostly with very committed Christian men.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So we think, \u201cOh, those nominals: it's probably a small group,\u201d right? No, they're about the same size. In America where there's so much cultural Christianity, they're about the same size. That means if you meet somebody who claims to be a Christian, or even an evangelical, there's about a 50 percent chance that it's actually a nominal Christian who tests out worse than secular men. This is really what young women need to know this when they're dating.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Seriously!<\/p>\n<p>Dave:So you're saying a single girl that's dating a guy, she should say, \u201cHey, how many times did you go to church this month?\u201d And he says, \u201cOnce,\u201d she should say, \u201cSee you later\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'd say\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u201cYou're going to be worse to me than that guy over there, who says he doesn't believe in God.\u201d That is a little scary.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm thinking they need to identify them by their fruit.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:You're looking for the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience\u2026 \u2014 because they may be saying that they're a Christian, but by the fruit, it doesn't look like they are.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Some people ask me, \u201cWell, why are they worse than secular men?\u201d It seems to be\u2014I mean, sociologists are number crunchers, so they don't always tell you why, but apparently, they hang around the Christian world enough to get the language of headship and submission, and then they insert secular meaning of dominance, control, entitlement and so on. But they've picked up the language that makes them feel more justified in those kinds of attitudes, and so they end up actually being worse than secular men.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, I wanted to read you this one quote\u2014my go-to sociologist here; the one who did the largest study; his name is Brad Wilcox. He is at the University of Virginia, and he's considered one of the top marriage researchers in the nation, and so he gets quoted in places like the New York Times. So he was quoted in the New York Times for Valentine's Day. The New York Times had published an article saying that progressive marriages are the happiest marriages because they are at least trying to be more egalitarian.<\/p>\n<p>So Brad Wilcox writes a response, and he says, \u201cYou know, you're right, progressive marriages are actually better than the run of the mill marriage because they are more intentional about their relationship.\u201d And then he says, \u201cBut let me show you my evangelicals.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Oh really?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It's a J curve. Evangelical goes way up; let me read you the numbers. He says, \u201cIt turns out that the happiest wives in all America\u201d\u2014by the way, they emphasize the wives because the assumption is that if there's any notion of headship of authority that it's going to be oppressive to the woman, abusive to the woman. So they usually phrase it in terms of the wives\u2014\"it turns out that the happiest wives of all wives in America are religious conservatives. Fully 73 percent of wives who hold conservative gender values and attend religious services regularly with their husbands have high quality marriages.\u201d So this is amazing. I can't believe the New York Times printed this.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Me neither.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:What was the response? Did people push back on that?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:We'll have to go online and read the reader responses. I just pulled out the quote because even Christians don't know this, we don't have the confidence that we are doing so well compared to the rest of the culture. You asked me in the earlier section, what was your ultimate motivation for writing? It was when I read these statistics that I said, we need to get these statistics out there. Brad Wilcox is not the only one. There's\u2014I have about a dozen different sociologists and psychologists that I quote in my book, but nobody knows about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you're saying this is hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It is very hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:This is hopeful news, and it's good news when you're talking about and hearing about so much toxic masculinity. There's good news in the midst.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Isn\u2019t it? It's so encouraging. And how do we get men to behave better? Tell them where they're doing a good job. Tell them where they're doing great stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:There's your book. That's the book she's writing next is how a woman can influence a man in the positive.<\/p>\n<p>But think about this. I was one of those pastors that didn't know the data on divorce in the church. I had heard what we all heard, and I'd said from the stage, I'm sure I said it more than a few times, \u201cHey, the divorce rate in the world is 50 percent. Divorce rate in the church is the same. It's 50 percent. It was always not true. Shaunte Feldhahn in her book of happy marriages said \u201cNo, the actual divorce rate in the church of practicing church going couples is less than 25 percent.\u201d So I think it's 23 percent a few years back. But here's the thing, if you're sitting in church and your pastor up there says, \u201cThe divorce rate here is the same as there,\u201d that is not hopeful. You think, \u201cOkay, we might as well get divorced. We're not working out. I'm in church. The couple sitting beside me is getting divorced just like anybody that doesn't believe in God.\u201d But if you hear what you just said, men are better, wives are happier, they're more emotionally engaged, the violence in the home is so less\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:It's so hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014when you are regularly practicing your faith, this is one of the results that inspires people to say, \u201cI am going to get serious about my faith,\u201d that's good news.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly. Most of the numbers put these two groups together. I like your word, practicing. If practicing evangelical men do better than secular men, but nominal Christian men do worse than secular men, if you put these two groups together\u2014which is what most surveys do, right? Most surveys just, \u201cOh, are you an evangelical? Okay, we'll put you in this box.\u201d\u2014obviously, the numbers are going to be completely skewed. So that's where most of our statistics get it wrong because they put these two groups together.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Well, let's talk about how the script turned to toxic\u2014this revolution of\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Do you really want to go toxic?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah, I do.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I love this good news. I just want to live here.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Because I thought it was really interesting, of just how this played out over our history. And you laid that out, so take us back in time.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I really wanted to understand where this is coming from because you can't really effectively counter something if you don't know where it's coming from and how it developed. It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. Most of us probably think, the sixties or something with the feminist movement, second wave. No, no, no. You have to go all the way back to the Industrial Revolution. Prior to the Industrial Revolution, the Colonial Age, men and women worked side by side; husband and wife worked side by side\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014farming.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014on the family farm, the family industry, the family shop. So the husband and wife have a partnership, day in and day out; plus, men are working with their children all day. They're the ones who are teaching them, training them, and teaching them adult skills. Men were expected, fathers were expected, to be just as involved with their children as mothers were. So the social expectation at the time was much more that men were in the caretaking role, and they were supposed to be, not only fathers of their families\u2014but a very common phrase back then was \u201cfathers of the community\u201d\u2014they were supposed to bring that caretaking role into the community.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:In a very loving way.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly; exactly. One of my historians that I quote\u2014not Christian\u2014said that in the Colonial Age, the masculine role was defined in terms of duty, duty to God and man. That\u2019s how he put it. That was the phrase back then. You were to look out for the common good. The concept of authority was not, \u201cHey, I'm in charge. I get to do what I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:So it wasn't domineering.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The concept of authority was very clear. This was in the literature of the time. It means you are responsible for the common good. I look out for my good. You look out for what's good for you, but who looks out for the common good of our marriage, of our family? That's what authority was for; to look out for the common good.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yeah. When I read that, I was like, \u201cMan, that man is so different than the man today.\u201d Even the fact that cooking books were written for men; they were very comfortable in the kitchen. Again, I'm not saying that's not true today, but it was like that was what a man's role was in a home. He was a nurturer of his family, of his kids. And we live in a culture now that's like, \u201cThat's a woman's job, not a man's job.\u201d And that was never true.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I love reading some of these historians. That was one of the quotes in the book, is that \u201cMen were as comfortable in the kitchen as women were,\u201d\u2014was a direct quote from one of the historians.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The Colonial Era\u2014and of course it was mostly Christian back then. I'm happy that I was able to start with early America because that gives you kind of a Christian concept of masculinity too. When I talk about the Puritans with my students, they say, \u201cI never heard anything good about the Puritans before.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Exactly; right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And I have some beautiful quotes on their marriages. Their marriages were incredibly affectionate. Their respect for their wives permeates all these quotes from the Puritans at the time. The view of marriage and the view of masculinity in the Colonial Era was extremely positive, and so it gives us a baseline that we can compare to.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And then came\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014the Industrial\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014the Industrial Revolution.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014Revolution, and work is taken out of the home. That seems like a fairly simple thing; but what happens is, of course, men have to follow their work out of the home into factories and offices. For the first time, they're not working with people that they love and have a moral bond with. They're working as an individual man in competition with other men, and that's where you see the script start to change. It was protested at first, by the way. People protested that: \u201cOur men are changing!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Really?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:In the industrial workplace, it seemed like men had to be much more self-assertive, aggressive, look out for number one, egocentric, make it financially. The language at the time was: \u201cOur men are losing the Christian ethos that they used to have.\u201d The language becomes more negative, but not in condemnation, but in protests, protesting that men are becoming more secular.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, it's more secular. That was part of it too. So as a public square becomes large with factories, and offices, and banks, academia, and so on. These large public institutions grow up; people began to say, \u201cWell, they should be run by scientific principles,\u201d by which they meant value-free. We need to keep your personal morality out of the public realm, which is what we hear today. Well, that's when it started. \u201cDon't bring your personal values into the public square; keep those at home.\u201d So men were being socialized into a secular worldview through their education and the workplace much sooner than women were.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:What was happening with the women in that time?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So somebody had to stay home with the kids. But if values don't belong in the public square, well, people still wanted to maintain values like love, and altruism, and self-sacrifice, and religious devotion, and so on. So who's going to be in charge of them? If they're at home, women are in charge of them. So for the first time ever in human history, women started being held up as morally superior to men. All the way back to the Ancient Greeks, the insight between right and wrong was seen as a rational insight, and men were thought to be more rational; and therefore, men are more moral. \u201cMen are morally stronger than women.\u201d In fact, the word virtue, do you know what its root is? V-i-r is Latin for \u201cman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Oh.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So virtue had overtones of masculine strength and honor. So men were thought to be more virtuous. In the 19th century, for the first time ever, you see culture shifting and saying women are more virtuous; women are more spiritually stronger, more morally\u2014 Men are out in that rough and tumble, amoral, secular realm of the marketplace in commerce and politics; and at night they come home to be reformed and refined by their morally superior wives. That's where you get the double standard. What was \u201cme too\u201d all about? Women are more virtuous, and we can call these men to account. So we still have that double standard, and this is when it began.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm thinking about the attendance in a church, and I don't know if this is true, I'd have to research it, but most churches I go into, generally speaking, have more women than men. And I'm wondering\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Still true, statistically.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:That's what I'm saying, but I'm wondering: back before the Industrial Age, if you would've gone into a church, would it have been more even?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Different historians have different opinions on this, so I couldn't quite get a clear count. Today, the average church has 60 percent women, 40 percent men. That's David Murrow\u2019s statistic. But in the early church too\u2014there's a historian; he's a sociologist, but he studies a history of religion. His name is Roddy Stark. He says, from the beginning, women were more drawn to the Christian church because they were given such higher status in the church than they were in the surrounding Roman culture. Women had very low status in the culture. So when they went into the Christian church, they had much higher status and much more honor. He says, all the way from the beginning, we see evidence that there were more women than men because women were so much more honored and respected in the Christian church.<\/p>\n<p>I forget, there was one of the church fathers who complains that \u201cWe have so many Christian maidens\u201d\u2014that's his ancient word\u2014\"we have so many Christian maidens that we're having trouble finding husbands for all of them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And that's why 1 Peter talks about: \u201cWhat do you do if your husband's not a Christian?\u201d That was so common.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It appears that Christianity, to some degree, has always attracted more women than men; but it did grow worse in America, especially after the First and Second Great Awakenings. The Great Awakenings, in many ways, are what framed\/gave us evangelicalism. And they did a great deal of good work. A lot of people came to Christianity or restored to their faith through the Great Awakenings, but the problem with them was that they had some negative baggage. They tended to focus on an intense emotional conversion experience. And who was thought to be more emotional? Women!<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Women.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So that did seem to put religion into the sphere of women.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So yes, if you look at engravings made at the time of some of the revivals, they almost always show more women than men. The women would often be in the center, swooning and falling over, and having these great emotional experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So yes, evangelicalism has had a greater problem, even than historic Christianity, in terms of attracting more women.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:One of the things I thought when I read through your chapter on the Industrial Revolution\u2014and obviously, there was lot of good things: industry\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014commerce.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I mean, we're not saying it was a bad thing. It was just the net result on men and the family.<\/p>\n<p>One of your quotes that was a letter to the editor in The Independent\u2014I'm just going to read it. It said, \u201cThe American man\u201d\u2014this was during this Industrial Revolution time\u2014\"the American man, in gaining the world, is losing his own soul. He prostitutes his energy, vigor, and courage to one soul end, materialistic success. Mammonology, the idolatry of mammon or money, is the great American religion.\u201d As I read that, I thought, \u201c \u2026 even today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And I want to say to the men listening: we are still prone, centuries later, but we are prone\u2014and I'm not saying women aren't as well.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I think we are, too, in this day, Dave. We're pulled\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:We are prone to mammonology.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Women too.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I've never even heard that term before. I'm like, \u201cWe worship money and success.\u201d I'm not blaming the Industrial Revolution, but it brought that in\u2014higher success rates, money, prosperity; you name it!\u2014all beautiful things; but the American church is plagued by that as well.<\/p>\n<p>And I just want to say to a man. That is not our call. Our call is to serve our wife. Our call is to serve our children. Our call is to be the leader of the community, like it was in the Colonial Age. I mean, not that that was Utopia, but we've lost a lot of that. And I think we are easy as men today, and it becomes toxic because we become obsessed with the wrong things. And that hurts our women. It hurts our families. It hurts our kids.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014our society.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Part of me, when I read your book, and it revitalized my own soul to say \u201cThat's what a man's called to! Not idolatry, but a worship of God.\u201d And when I as a man and as a husband and as a dad live that out in surrender to Jesus, the women and children in my home and in our culture thrive. You don't need feminists. There's nobody wanting to be one because they're celebrating a man who lives as Christ did, loving them and serving them. Am I right? I mean, it brings life to everyone around you.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm clapping my hands because I think we, as women, are longing for that. We're longing for men to step into\u2014and we, as women, are called to step into our identity as women of who God has made us. But culturally speaking, I look at you, and I think we need men to step into that loving, sacrificial, protecting in a beautiful way and serving their families, their wives, and their community. We need it, as a culture and a community.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And part of me wants to say, \u201cGuys, just live as Jesus lived. You want an image? There it is.\u201d And I'll remind you: \u201cYou can't\u2014you can't apart from Christ. If He isn't giving you the power to do that, you'll never do it. But if you do, trust me, your marriage, your home, your city, your neighborhood, your church will thrive.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:We're Ann and Dave Wilson, and this is FamilyLife Today, and we've had a great conversation with Nancy Pearcey.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I'm just laughing at how I ended that thing. Just live like Jesus. Oh, and you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:It's true. You cannot. Nobody can. But we have the resurrected power of Jesus living in us. So He does empower us to live a life, especially in this area of masculinity that draws women, that draws people to this image of God because it's God in us reflecting Jesus to the world. So I want to say, \u201cDo it again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And her book is called The Toxic War on Masculinity. And you can order your copy online. Get the link in the show notes at FamilyLifeToday.com.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:FamilyLife Today is a donor-supported production of FamilyLife\u00ae, a Cru\u00ae Ministry. Helping you pursue the relationships that matter most.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve benefited from the FamilyLife Today transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs of producing them and making them available online?<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2025 FamilyLife. 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and professor Nancy Pearcey explores sociological data to uncover why it\u2019s open season on masculinity\u2014and the surprising role of Christian men.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nancypearcey.com\/\">Learn more about Nancy Pearcey at her website.<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/men\/\">Get more resources about masculinity on our website<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Find Nancy's book <a href=\"https:\/\/shop.familylife.com\/product\/the-toxic-war-on-masculinity-how-christianity-reconciles-the-sexes\/\">The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li>Find resources from this podcast at <a href=\"https:\/\/shop.familylife.com\/product-category\/radio-resources\/\">shop.familylife.com<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/shop.familylife.com\/product-category\/past-radio-resources\/\">See resources from our past podcasts.<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Find more content and resources on the 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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.<\/p>\n<p>The Toxic War on Masculinity Part 2<\/p>\n<p>Guest:Nancy Pearcey<\/p>\n<p>From the series:The Toxic War on Masculinity (Day 2 of 3)<\/p>\n<p>Air date:June 12, 2025<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. Most of us probably think, the sixties or something with the feminist movement. Second wave. No, no, no. You have to go all the way back to the Industrial Revolution.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Ann Wilson.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And I'm Dave Wilson. And you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:When we first got married, you would often say, \u201cI never want to be like my dad, ever!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That was like a mission of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:It was a mission, because\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u201cI will not become like\u2014\"<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014\"a womanizer\u201d\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014an alcoholic, womanizer, divorce, selfish, money, idol.\u201d I mean, there were some good things about my dad, but that was\u2014he walked out when I was seven, so I was on a quest: \u201cI will never become that man.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But when I was a junior in college, I looked in the mirror one day, and I thought, \u201cI am my dad. I wasn't a Christian yet, and I was scared. I was going to parties and drinking. I was the college quarterback, so I had women. It was just\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And money was at the top.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Oh! I was like\u2014I picked my major\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:He was always thinking about money. money.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014based on how much money can I make? And then I come to Christ and Jesus starts transforming my life. I read the Bible, and I'm like, \u201cIf I don't do something, I'm going to become my dad, even though I don't want to be. It's going to happen.\u201d And one of my quests was: \u201cI\u2019ve got to find out what a godly man looks like because I don't know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you know what? You have become that. Really, honestly, I look at you and think, \u201cYou're an amazing man of God.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Well, that's nice.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And we're going to talk about this. We have Nancy Pearcey back with us. Nancy, welcome back to FamilyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Thank you. Thanks for having me.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And this is a great topic today because you've written many books. You're a college professor. You've written a book called The Toxic War on Masculinity. We talked about it yesterday, and we ended our segment talking about this toxic masculinity and what's happening to the view of men in our culture. Is it just United States or is it happening worldwide?\u2014of this negative opinion of men.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Well, I think it's worldwide, just because whatever happens in the United States spreads. But yes, we ended the last program on the hostile rhetoric; because you asked me, why did I write the book? Part of it was because I was so blown away by how hostile the rhetoric is today; how acceptable it is to say things negatively. There are books out now with titles like: I Hate Men, and No Good Men, and Are Men Necessary? You can get published with titles like that.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And even on TV, you see the man is the dummy. They're always dumbing him down, or he is the joke of the program. It never used to be like that. I don't know if it was healthy in the past; but now, it's we're at a whole different place.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And even men\u2014this was part of the surprise for me\u2014I looked at a news article where James Cameron, the director of Avatar, said, \u201cTestosterone is a toxin\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yes!<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014\u201cand you have to work it out of your system.\u201d Or there's a bestselling science-fiction writer, Hugh Howey, who said, \u201cTestosterone is the problem. Women should be in charge of everything.\u201d Another book author said, \u201cTalking about healthy masculinity is like talking about healthy cancer.\u201d And so then\u2014these are men! These are even male writers.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you're reading these things and getting a little riled up about it.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes; I'm thinking, \u201cWell, where does this come from?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That's my question, where does it come from?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Let me start where I start in the book. I wanted to start with the good news, because the bad news is pretty depressing. The good news is that evangelical men are doing very well. Christian men are, in fact, doing very well. Most Christians don't even know this. In fact, the reason they don't know it is because there's a lot of criticism of them as well. So let me give you a few quotes. It's very easy to find these online: \u201cConservative Protestant gender ideology can clearly lead to abuse, both physical and emotional.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another quote: \u201cIt's no secret that abuse is prevalent in conservative churches that embrace headship theory.\u201d Another quote: \u201cThe theology of male headship feeds the rape culture that we see permeating American Christianity today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The problem with these accusations is that they ignore the data from the social sciences. The studies have found that evangelical family men\u2014meaning husbands and fathers\u2014who attend church regularly are the most loving husbands and the most engaged fathers. So compared to the average American family man, evangelical men are the most loving to their wives. And yes, they do interview the wives separately. That's important because women wouldn't necessarily be honest.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The women report the highest levels of being happy with the way their husbands treat them, with feeling loved and appreciated. They are the most engaged with their children, both in shared activities, like sports and church youth group, and in discipline, like setting screen time or setting bedtime. They are the least likely to divorce of any group in America\u2014and here's the real stunner\u2014they have the lowest rates of domestic violence of any major group in America.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I tell people this; and everyone always sits back, kind of like, \u201cWhat?! How come we don't know this?\u201d The reason you don't know this is it's all buried in the academic literature. I had to read mostly academic sociological journals to pull this out.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:But it was there.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It was there. Sociologists have been doing these studies, partly because they wanted to find out, \u201cWhat is the data?\u201d They read these accusations, and they say, \u201cYeah, but where's the evidence? Where's the evidence?\u201d So they go back, and they do the studies. They found that evangelical men actually are the most loving and engaged husbands and fathers of any group in America. We don't know that. In fact, don't we hear that Christians divorce at the same rate as the rest of society?<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And that's not true, and it's never been true.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:But it is\u2014what I found out in my research\u2014it's one of the most widely cited statistics by Christian leaders. But what happened is the sociologists went back to the data then, and they divided out truly committed Christian men, who do attend church regularly. That's a fairly reliable correlate of whether they are truly committed Christians\u2014authentic Christians versus nominal\u2014that's the dividing line, versus nominal. I have to tell my students they don't know that word nominal means in name only because N-O-M is Latin for name, so nominal. Nominal Christians are men who might identify as evangelical, they might use that label.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:But they're not going to church, like you even said in the book, three times a month\u2014they're going less: maybe once; maybe not\u2014right?\u2014nominal.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Barely, if at all, right? It's mostly a family background; it's a cultural background.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The differences between these groups are absolutely devastating.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I mean, am I right in what I read? You saying that the difference is if you're a practicing evangelical man, all the things you just said are true. If you're nominal, you're worse than a secular man.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That\u2019s what I concluded.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:This was shocking.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:That was scary.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It is. It was shocking when I first read it; yes. On all those numbers: first, their wives are the least happy with how their husbands treat them; they're the least engaged with their children in terms of shared activities and discipline. They have the highest level of divorce, higher than secular men. and they have the highest level of domestic violence of any group in America, higher than secular men. This is what the church is up against, then, because they are claiming to be Christian.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I only found one study that gave them the sizes. You and I probably hang out mostly with very committed Christian men.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So we think, \u201cOh, those nominals: it's probably a small group,\u201d right? No, they're about the same size. In America where there's so much cultural Christianity, they're about the same size. That means if you meet somebody who claims to be a Christian, or even an evangelical, there's about a 50 percent chance that it's actually a nominal Christian who tests out worse than secular men. This is really what young women need to know this when they're dating.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Seriously!<\/p>\n<p>Dave:So you're saying a single girl that's dating a guy, she should say, \u201cHey, how many times did you go to church this month?\u201d And he says, \u201cOnce,\u201d she should say, \u201cSee you later\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'd say\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u201cYou're going to be worse to me than that guy over there, who says he doesn't believe in God.\u201d That is a little scary.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm thinking they need to identify them by their fruit.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:You're looking for the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience\u2026 \u2014 because they may be saying that they're a Christian, but by the fruit, it doesn't look like they are.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Some people ask me, \u201cWell, why are they worse than secular men?\u201d It seems to be\u2014I mean, sociologists are number crunchers, so they don't always tell you why, but apparently, they hang around the Christian world enough to get the language of headship and submission, and then they insert secular meaning of dominance, control, entitlement and so on. But they've picked up the language that makes them feel more justified in those kinds of attitudes, and so they end up actually being worse than secular men.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, I wanted to read you this one quote\u2014my go-to sociologist here; the one who did the largest study; his name is Brad Wilcox. He is at the University of Virginia, and he's considered one of the top marriage researchers in the nation, and so he gets quoted in places like the New York Times. So he was quoted in the New York Times for Valentine's Day. The New York Times had published an article saying that progressive marriages are the happiest marriages because they are at least trying to be more egalitarian.<\/p>\n<p>So Brad Wilcox writes a response, and he says, \u201cYou know, you're right, progressive marriages are actually better than the run of the mill marriage because they are more intentional about their relationship.\u201d And then he says, \u201cBut let me show you my evangelicals.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Oh really?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It's a J curve. Evangelical goes way up; let me read you the numbers. He says, \u201cIt turns out that the happiest wives in all America\u201d\u2014by the way, they emphasize the wives because the assumption is that if there's any notion of headship of authority that it's going to be oppressive to the woman, abusive to the woman. So they usually phrase it in terms of the wives\u2014\"it turns out that the happiest wives of all wives in America are religious conservatives. Fully 73 percent of wives who hold conservative gender values and attend religious services regularly with their husbands have high quality marriages.\u201d So this is amazing. I can't believe the New York Times printed this.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Me neither.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:What was the response? Did people push back on that?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:We'll have to go online and read the reader responses. I just pulled out the quote because even Christians don't know this, we don't have the confidence that we are doing so well compared to the rest of the culture. You asked me in the earlier section, what was your ultimate motivation for writing? It was when I read these statistics that I said, we need to get these statistics out there. Brad Wilcox is not the only one. There's\u2014I have about a dozen different sociologists and psychologists that I quote in my book, but nobody knows about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And you're saying this is hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It is very hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:This is hopeful news, and it's good news when you're talking about and hearing about so much toxic masculinity. There's good news in the midst.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Isn\u2019t it? It's so encouraging. And how do we get men to behave better? Tell them where they're doing a good job. Tell them where they're doing great stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:There's your book. That's the book she's writing next is how a woman can influence a man in the positive.<\/p>\n<p>But think about this. I was one of those pastors that didn't know the data on divorce in the church. I had heard what we all heard, and I'd said from the stage, I'm sure I said it more than a few times, \u201cHey, the divorce rate in the world is 50 percent. Divorce rate in the church is the same. It's 50 percent. It was always not true. Shaunte Feldhahn in her book of happy marriages said \u201cNo, the actual divorce rate in the church of practicing church going couples is less than 25 percent.\u201d So I think it's 23 percent a few years back. But here's the thing, if you're sitting in church and your pastor up there says, \u201cThe divorce rate here is the same as there,\u201d that is not hopeful. You think, \u201cOkay, we might as well get divorced. We're not working out. I'm in church. The couple sitting beside me is getting divorced just like anybody that doesn't believe in God.\u201d But if you hear what you just said, men are better, wives are happier, they're more emotionally engaged, the violence in the home is so less\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:It's so hopeful.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014when you are regularly practicing your faith, this is one of the results that inspires people to say, \u201cI am going to get serious about my faith,\u201d that's good news.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly. Most of the numbers put these two groups together. I like your word, practicing. If practicing evangelical men do better than secular men, but nominal Christian men do worse than secular men, if you put these two groups together\u2014which is what most surveys do, right? Most surveys just, \u201cOh, are you an evangelical? Okay, we'll put you in this box.\u201d\u2014obviously, the numbers are going to be completely skewed. So that's where most of our statistics get it wrong because they put these two groups together.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Well, let's talk about how the script turned to toxic\u2014this revolution of\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Do you really want to go toxic?<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah, I do.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I love this good news. I just want to live here.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Because I thought it was really interesting, of just how this played out over our history. And you laid that out, so take us back in time.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I really wanted to understand where this is coming from because you can't really effectively counter something if you don't know where it's coming from and how it developed. It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. It turns out that the very concept that masculinity is toxic has much deeper roots than most of us realize. Most of us probably think, the sixties or something with the feminist movement, second wave. No, no, no. You have to go all the way back to the Industrial Revolution. Prior to the Industrial Revolution, the Colonial Age, men and women worked side by side; husband and wife worked side by side\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014farming.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014on the family farm, the family industry, the family shop. So the husband and wife have a partnership, day in and day out; plus, men are working with their children all day. They're the ones who are teaching them, training them, and teaching them adult skills. Men were expected, fathers were expected, to be just as involved with their children as mothers were. So the social expectation at the time was much more that men were in the caretaking role, and they were supposed to be, not only fathers of their families\u2014but a very common phrase back then was \u201cfathers of the community\u201d\u2014they were supposed to bring that caretaking role into the community.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:In a very loving way.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Exactly; exactly. One of my historians that I quote\u2014not Christian\u2014said that in the Colonial Age, the masculine role was defined in terms of duty, duty to God and man. That\u2019s how he put it. That was the phrase back then. You were to look out for the common good. The concept of authority was not, \u201cHey, I'm in charge. I get to do what I want.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:So it wasn't domineering.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The concept of authority was very clear. This was in the literature of the time. It means you are responsible for the common good. I look out for my good. You look out for what's good for you, but who looks out for the common good of our marriage, of our family? That's what authority was for; to look out for the common good.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Yeah. When I read that, I was like, \u201cMan, that man is so different than the man today.\u201d Even the fact that cooking books were written for men; they were very comfortable in the kitchen. Again, I'm not saying that's not true today, but it was like that was what a man's role was in a home. He was a nurturer of his family, of his kids. And we live in a culture now that's like, \u201cThat's a woman's job, not a man's job.\u201d And that was never true.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:I love reading some of these historians. That was one of the quotes in the book, is that \u201cMen were as comfortable in the kitchen as women were,\u201d\u2014was a direct quote from one of the historians.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:The Colonial Era\u2014and of course it was mostly Christian back then. I'm happy that I was able to start with early America because that gives you kind of a Christian concept of masculinity too. When I talk about the Puritans with my students, they say, \u201cI never heard anything good about the Puritans before.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Exactly; right.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And I have some beautiful quotes on their marriages. Their marriages were incredibly affectionate. Their respect for their wives permeates all these quotes from the Puritans at the time. The view of marriage and the view of masculinity in the Colonial Era was extremely positive, and so it gives us a baseline that we can compare to.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And then came\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014the Industrial\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:\u2014the Industrial Revolution.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:\u2014Revolution, and work is taken out of the home. That seems like a fairly simple thing; but what happens is, of course, men have to follow their work out of the home into factories and offices. For the first time, they're not working with people that they love and have a moral bond with. They're working as an individual man in competition with other men, and that's where you see the script start to change. It was protested at first, by the way. People protested that: \u201cOur men are changing!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Really?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:In the industrial workplace, it seemed like men had to be much more self-assertive, aggressive, look out for number one, egocentric, make it financially. The language at the time was: \u201cOur men are losing the Christian ethos that they used to have.\u201d The language becomes more negative, but not in condemnation, but in protests, protesting that men are becoming more secular.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, it's more secular. That was part of it too. So as a public square becomes large with factories, and offices, and banks, academia, and so on. These large public institutions grow up; people began to say, \u201cWell, they should be run by scientific principles,\u201d by which they meant value-free. We need to keep your personal morality out of the public realm, which is what we hear today. Well, that's when it started. \u201cDon't bring your personal values into the public square; keep those at home.\u201d So men were being socialized into a secular worldview through their education and the workplace much sooner than women were.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:What was happening with the women in that time?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So somebody had to stay home with the kids. But if values don't belong in the public square, well, people still wanted to maintain values like love, and altruism, and self-sacrifice, and religious devotion, and so on. So who's going to be in charge of them? If they're at home, women are in charge of them. So for the first time ever in human history, women started being held up as morally superior to men. All the way back to the Ancient Greeks, the insight between right and wrong was seen as a rational insight, and men were thought to be more rational; and therefore, men are more moral. \u201cMen are morally stronger than women.\u201d In fact, the word virtue, do you know what its root is? V-i-r is Latin for \u201cman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Oh.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So virtue had overtones of masculine strength and honor. So men were thought to be more virtuous. In the 19th century, for the first time ever, you see culture shifting and saying women are more virtuous; women are more spiritually stronger, more morally\u2014 Men are out in that rough and tumble, amoral, secular realm of the marketplace in commerce and politics; and at night they come home to be reformed and refined by their morally superior wives. That's where you get the double standard. What was \u201cme too\u201d all about? Women are more virtuous, and we can call these men to account. So we still have that double standard, and this is when it began.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm thinking about the attendance in a church, and I don't know if this is true, I'd have to research it, but most churches I go into, generally speaking, have more women than men. And I'm wondering\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Still true, statistically.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:That's what I'm saying, but I'm wondering: back before the Industrial Age, if you would've gone into a church, would it have been more even?<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Different historians have different opinions on this, so I couldn't quite get a clear count. Today, the average church has 60 percent women, 40 percent men. That's David Murrow\u2019s statistic. But in the early church too\u2014there's a historian; he's a sociologist, but he studies a history of religion. His name is Roddy Stark. He says, from the beginning, women were more drawn to the Christian church because they were given such higher status in the church than they were in the surrounding Roman culture. Women had very low status in the culture. So when they went into the Christian church, they had much higher status and much more honor. He says, all the way from the beginning, we see evidence that there were more women than men because women were so much more honored and respected in the Christian church.<\/p>\n<p>I forget, there was one of the church fathers who complains that \u201cWe have so many Christian maidens\u201d\u2014that's his ancient word\u2014\"we have so many Christian maidens that we're having trouble finding husbands for all of them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Wow.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:And that's why 1 Peter talks about: \u201cWhat do you do if your husband's not a Christian?\u201d That was so common.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:It appears that Christianity, to some degree, has always attracted more women than men; but it did grow worse in America, especially after the First and Second Great Awakenings. The Great Awakenings, in many ways, are what framed\/gave us evangelicalism. And they did a great deal of good work. A lot of people came to Christianity or restored to their faith through the Great Awakenings, but the problem with them was that they had some negative baggage. They tended to focus on an intense emotional conversion experience. And who was thought to be more emotional? Women!<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Women.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So that did seem to put religion into the sphere of women.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So yes, if you look at engravings made at the time of some of the revivals, they almost always show more women than men. The women would often be in the center, swooning and falling over, and having these great emotional experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:So yes, evangelicalism has had a greater problem, even than historic Christianity, in terms of attracting more women.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:One of the things I thought when I read through your chapter on the Industrial Revolution\u2014and obviously, there was lot of good things: industry\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014commerce.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I mean, we're not saying it was a bad thing. It was just the net result on men and the family.<\/p>\n<p>One of your quotes that was a letter to the editor in The Independent\u2014I'm just going to read it. It said, \u201cThe American man\u201d\u2014this was during this Industrial Revolution time\u2014\"the American man, in gaining the world, is losing his own soul. He prostitutes his energy, vigor, and courage to one soul end, materialistic success. Mammonology, the idolatry of mammon or money, is the great American religion.\u201d As I read that, I thought, \u201c \u2026 even today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And I want to say to the men listening: we are still prone, centuries later, but we are prone\u2014and I'm not saying women aren't as well.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I think we are, too, in this day, Dave. We're pulled\u2014<\/p>\n<p>Dave:We are prone to mammonology.<\/p>\n<p>Nancy:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Women too.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I've never even heard that term before. I'm like, \u201cWe worship money and success.\u201d I'm not blaming the Industrial Revolution, but it brought that in\u2014higher success rates, money, prosperity; you name it!\u2014all beautiful things; but the American church is plagued by that as well.<\/p>\n<p>And I just want to say to a man. That is not our call. Our call is to serve our wife. Our call is to serve our children. Our call is to be the leader of the community, like it was in the Colonial Age. I mean, not that that was Utopia, but we've lost a lot of that. And I think we are easy as men today, and it becomes toxic because we become obsessed with the wrong things. And that hurts our women. It hurts our families. It hurts our kids.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:\u2014our society.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:Part of me, when I read your book, and it revitalized my own soul to say \u201cThat's what a man's called to! Not idolatry, but a worship of God.\u201d And when I as a man and as a husband and as a dad live that out in surrender to Jesus, the women and children in my home and in our culture thrive. You don't need feminists. There's nobody wanting to be one because they're celebrating a man who lives as Christ did, loving them and serving them. Am I right? I mean, it brings life to everyone around you.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:I'm clapping my hands because I think we, as women, are longing for that. We're longing for men to step into\u2014and we, as women, are called to step into our identity as women of who God has made us. But culturally speaking, I look at you, and I think we need men to step into that loving, sacrificial, protecting in a beautiful way and serving their families, their wives, and their community. We need it, as a culture and a community.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:And part of me wants to say, \u201cGuys, just live as Jesus lived. You want an image? There it is.\u201d And I'll remind you: \u201cYou can't\u2014you can't apart from Christ. If He isn't giving you the power to do that, you'll never do it. But if you do, trust me, your marriage, your home, your city, your neighborhood, your church will thrive.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:We're Ann and Dave Wilson, and this is FamilyLife Today, and we've had a great conversation with Nancy Pearcey.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:I'm just laughing at how I ended that thing. Just live like Jesus. Oh, and you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Ann:Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:It's true. You cannot. Nobody can. But we have the resurrected power of Jesus living in us. So He does empower us to live a life, especially in this area of masculinity that draws women, that draws people to this image of God because it's God in us reflecting Jesus to the world. So I want to say, \u201cDo it again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ann:And her book is called The Toxic War on Masculinity. And you can order your copy online. Get the link in the show notes at FamilyLifeToday.com.<\/p>\n<p>Dave:FamilyLife Today is a donor-supported production of FamilyLife\u00ae, a Cru\u00ae Ministry. Helping you pursue the relationships that matter most.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve benefited from the FamilyLife Today transcripts, would you consider donating today to help defray the costs of producing them and making them available online?<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2025 FamilyLife. 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