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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nCommon Ground\r\n\r\nGuest:Amberly Neese\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Jesus and Friendship (Day 2 of 3)\r\n\r\nAir date:October 8, 2024\r\n\r\nAmberly: I don't think anybody wakes up in the morning, and says, \u201cYou know what I'm going to do? I'm going to besmirch the name of Jesus. That's going to be awesome; what a great idea. What a fun task list for me.\u201d But I think that, oftentimes, we just are so concerned with being right instead of loving people in the right way.\r\n\r\nShelby: Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Shelby Abbott, and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson. You can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave:Alright; I have a small confession. I don't think I'm the only one, but I haven't really ever said this out loud. One of the things I sort of like doing in the last year\u201418 months\u2014is going on Facebook. Somebody posts something a little controversial; I find myself scrolling through the comments.\r\n\r\nAnn: You actually have started doing that.\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\nDave:I mean, people are\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and you're reading me all the comments.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014they're attacking each other. I mean, it's not pretty, usually. \r\n\r\nAnn: I don't like this. \r\n\r\nDave:I\u2019m not saying I like it. It's like, driving by,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014it sucks you in. \r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; you're like, \u201cI got to slow down and see what's happening.\u201d It\u2019s terrible! But I'll tell you something\u2014I told you this last year\u2014I was reading one, and this woman and this man were going at each other really bad. And then I looked at who the names were; and I'm like, \u201cOh, my goodness.\u201d They both were on my staff, at my church, ten years ago; they worked at my church. I was like, \u201cThis is so ugly.\u201d And I'm thinking, \u201cHow many other people know that?\u201d\u2014and they're looking at\u2014\u201cThis is the Christian world attacking one another.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: But it's also like\u2014when you think about election year, when you think about controversy and people's opinions\u2014even in a family, a close family, who could have very different views on\u2014\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014different topics.\r\n\r\nAnn: Yes, it is not easy to navigate those conversations.\r\n\r\nDave:We need help, and we've got help in the studio. Amberly Neese is with us, and she's been with us before. I didn't know until I got your study\u2014and I watched it\u2014so this is a video study. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, it is. \r\n\r\nDave: You are, not only funny, you're powerful; because you're diving into this. Your subtitle is: Loving Others Despite Our Differences. \r\n\r\nAnn: The book is called Common Ground. Amberly, what a perfect time for us to read a book like this; because it feels, at times, like there's not much in common\u2014 \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014when we have beliefs, unbelief, political things\u2014there are just so many things to disagree on. \r\n\r\nAmberly: And Jesus prayed that we would all be one, right? \r\n\r\nAnn: Yes! \r\n\r\nAmberly: And yet, we are not getting it right. All those internet trolls\u2014I'm with you\u2014you're right. It is like a car accident; you can't help yourself. \r\n\r\nDave: I\u2019m not the only one?!\r\n\r\nAmberly: No, sir; no, sir. So if there's a 12-step program for people like us, we're the first two members.\r\n\r\nDave:Have you ever jumped in? \r\n\r\nAmberly: No. \r\n\r\nDave: Me neither.\r\n\r\nAmberly: No; and I will tell you: somebody says, \u201cAre you just chicken?\u201d And I honestly, I don't think it advances the cause for Christ one iota,\u2014 \r\n\r\nDave: I don't either. \r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014not one cell.\r\n\r\nDave:We're going to have a conversation: \u201cLet's sit across the table, and look at each other in the eye, and talk this out rather than on a Facebook page.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely; absolutely. \r\n\r\nDave: So why this?\u2014Common Ground\u2014I love it: \u201cA Study of Sibling Rivalries in the Bible.\u201d I don't think\u2014has anybody ever done that?\u2014you're it. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I don't know. I think all authors probably think that they're: \u201cI'm the first one that ever had this thought\u201d; but there's nothing new under the sun. But how gracious of God to give us these imperfect sibling relationships in the Bible so that, when we need to navigate those difficult times, that we can try to figure out what to do with our brothers and sisters in Christ by looking at their examples, good and bad.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; now, you're a comedian. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I am! \r\n\r\nDave: And that's not the only thing you do; in fact, you do everything: you speak; you write.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I cannot keep plants alive. I'm just going to say right now, Dave\u2014speaking of making some kind of confession\u2014I kill them. I grow children beautifully; I don't forget to water and feed them, but plants are on their own in my house. \r\n\r\nBut I do quite a few jobs, but not one of those is without conflict. And so\u2014when it came time to think through: \u201cWhat might God be trying to teach me in this season?\u201d\u2014conflict was where it was at. And it actually came\u2014it's so funny that you say that\u2014but it actually came from watching the exchanges of believers online. \r\n\r\nIt's one thing when a nonbeliever\u2014when a person who is\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn:  \u2014you expect it.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Right; you just say, \u201cWell, they don't know better, because they don't know how much God loves them; and so they're acting out of that.\u201d But when it's two believers\u2014people saved by grace, who have looked Jesus at one time in their life, and said, \u201cYou are large and in charge of my life,\u201d\u2014and when those two: when believers and I can be part of it\u2014but when believers do that, first of all, I feel like, \u201cMan, that must hurt Jesus's heart when He's literally, \u201cOne thing\u2026\u201d It's like the parents say, \u201cI gave you one job: \u2018Pick up your room,\u2019\u201d\u2014He's saying, \u201cI gave you one job: that you'd be one.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and \u201cThey will know you by your\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014and \u201cThey'll know you\u201d\u2014exactly! \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014\"love.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Exactly! That is the most effective evangelical tool that we have\u2014is our unity\u2014and yet, it is oft overlooked.\r\n\r\nAnn:Do you think people just don't care about that, or they don't know it? Why do they enter into that?\u2014because they think it will change someone's view? What do you think?\r\n\r\nAmberly: So I think we oftentimes confuse our convictions with our need to convict others of their misdeeds.\r\n\r\nAnn: And it's like a righteous kind of anger, or justice, maybe? \r\n\r\nAmberly: I mean, I don't think anybody wakes up in the morning, and says, \u201cYou know what I'm going to do? I'm going to besmirch the name of Jesus. That's going to be awesome; what a great idea. What a fun task list for me.\u201d But I think that, oftentimes, we just are so concerned with being right instead of loving people in the right way. \r\n\r\nAnd again, yes, there were times that Jesus turned over the tables\u2014He was not happy with what was happening\u2014but He still loved people well. \u201cSo how do we navigate this? How do we unpack these things?\u201d\u2014which again, they can be polarizing. When we talk about some of the topics of our world\u2014you bet your red writer\u2014there are definitely sides to that. \r\n\r\nBut how we respond to that disunity really shows a lot about our character. And so, when I did this dive, it was as much for me as anybody else, when I looked at these siblings, and saying, \u201cOkay, what can I learn from their example?\u201d That was a big deal.\r\n\r\nAnn: How did you decide on sibling rivalry? Because common ground makes sense; but how did you decide on taking these siblings, who didn't necessarily always have common ground? Did that just come to you?\r\n\r\nAmberly: I think maybe it's because I'm not that person that can take 27 steps away; I'm not a chess player. Checkers\u2014I will clean your clock in Jesus' name\u2014but chess, not so much; but I think part of it is I have a hard time seeing all of the steps in between. With the siblings in the Bible, it was a really easy checker game for me to figure this out: \u201cThis is the way that Jesus wants His people to behave, or not.\u201d And so it was easily translatable for my brain to say, \u201cAs a sister in Christ, to the people [who] are in Christ with me, how am I to respond?\u201d And so how gracious of God to give us\u2014I just chose four to dive into\u2014but there are tons in the Bible. Some of them show Jesus so beautifully; and some were a train wreck, on this side of glory, like so crazy! But we can learn from both.\r\n\r\nDave:So where do we start? I mean, when you are in a relationship\u2014and maybe, you're not even in a relationship\u2014but you are having a conversation. Or it's even harder when it is a sibling or somebody\u2014a family member\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014or a child, one of your grown kids.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014and you realize: \u201cWe are on opposite sides of this issue.\u201d And it's an important issue\u2014could be political; could be spiritual; it could be family; whatever it is\u2014and you want to have a conversation. You want to love them, but the differences are so strong. You know you're not going to change your viewpoint, and say, \u201cOkay, I agree with your perspective\u201d; you're going to absolutely not agree. It might be against Scripture, what they are holding to. How do you have a loving relationship with that sibling?\u2014with that neighbor?\u2014with that family member?\u2014with that coworker? I mean, that\u2019s what you\/that\u2019s what your video is about.\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cHow do you find common ground?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:\u201cHow do you find common ground?\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: So first of all: I can, 100 percent, speak to this. I want to know: \u201cHow did you answer that question yourself, Mr. Pastor Man? \r\n\r\nAnn: This is good; see, she turned it right back on you.\r\n\r\nDave: You\u2019re not allowed to do that.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Oh, I am, totally 100 percent.\r\n\r\nDave:We're interviewing you. You wrote this.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I know. I will say my piece, but I would love to hear what you have to say first.\r\n\r\nDave:I mean, it's really hard;\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: It is really hard.\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014I think you acknowledge it, like, \u201cThat's real.\u201d We've talked to Tim Muehlhoff about conversations with this. He talks about\u2014I'll never forget\u2014a speed bump.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes; oh, I remember. This was a great conversation.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; and so that was helpful to say: \u201cPause,\u201d\u2014\u201cJust pause a second; step back; take a breath,\u201d\u2014and remember\u2014\u201cI'm not trying to win an argument; I am winning people. So this relationship\u201d\u2014especially, if it's family\u2014\"is more important than this issue.\u201d Try to find common ground: ask questions; hear them out. It's not about convincing them that: \u201cI'm right; you're wrong.\u201d It's like: I want to love them; and in loving them, I\u2019m going to be able to hear them.\r\n\r\nAnn: I think the side\u2014 \r\n\r\nDave: There\u2019s nothing wrong with saying, \u201cI disagree. We're not going to be able to find common ground in terms of we're going to agree on this; but we can find common ground, and we still love each other.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: I think that understanding what's behind their passion, because some of us are so passionate about our issues. We might say, \u201cIt's because it's biblical; that's why I'm passionate.\u201d And when somebody feels passionate in a different view, there's something underneath that passion. So to ask those questions if you want to enter into that territory. \r\n\r\nBut I think loving them\u2014seeing them; hearing\u2014\u201cMan, you are passionate about this. Tell me: \u2018Where's that passion come from?\u2019\u201d And there's, sometimes, a story behind it that I find really interesting. And when I hear the stories, like, \u201cOh, it kind of pulls some pieces together.\u201d I still may not agree; but it makes sense, like, \u201cOh.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd wasn't Jesus, just the expert, and so good at asking questions?\u2014and Father God, as well:\u2014 \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014\u201cAdam, where are you? \r\n\r\nDave:I sat at a basketball game\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cWhat have you done?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014in Detroit. A buddy of mine went to Iowa, played football there. So Rob and I got tickets to Iowa playing\u2014I think it was Iowa State\u2014and the tickets were right center court. And so, literally, on the right of me was Rob and all of Iowa; to the left, the next guy was Iowa State. And I've never experienced something like this in my life\u2014every single call\u2014they saw it this way; we saw it this way. It was like, \u201cOh, my; they have no discernment on what's happening!\u201d\u2014\"Either, do we!\u201d It's like that ref was absolutely wrong; I'm like I just wanted to turn, like, \u201cDude, that was the right call.\u201d And there was no changing their mind. \r\n\r\nI realized, sitting there\u2014I was like, \u201cThere's no way you can convince them that that was the right call. They see it out of their Iowa State eyes; we see it out of our Iowa eyes,\u201d\u2014it doesn't matter what is right or wrong. Truth didn't matter\u2014\"This is the way it is,\u201d\u2014and I thought, \u201cThat is how people view opinions.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: That's so true.\r\n\r\nDave:So it's like, \u201cI'm not going to change their opinion, but I can love them.\u201d Is that partly true in relationships?\u2014same thing? \r\n\r\nAmberly: So first of all, I actually did an experiment just right now. I'm not a scientist, but here it is. \r\n\r\nDave: Oh, no!\r\n\r\nAmberly: Do you know what I did? I sought to understand, not to be understood. \r\n\r\nDave: Yeah. \r\n\r\nAmberly: And so, when you asked me the question, I turned it back on you. \r\n\r\nDave: You were Jesus. \r\n\r\nAmberly: That is maybe the first time I've been accused of that, but yes! I mean, I am supposed to be like Him. And so\u2014\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014instead of answering, you questioned.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I questioned. And you know what? I didn't think I could like you guys more\u2014I mean, what a gift!\u2014I so appreciated your insight. \r\n\r\nBut you know what? I learned something in the process. And iron sharpens iron. When we think about iron sharpens iron: if you are the iron, that's in there, that's a really violent, kind of uncomfortable\u2014\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014sparks.\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014sparks, the whole nine yards\u2014in order for sharpening to happen. So conflict is not bad. I think conflict can be holy. I really do believe it can be holy ground to understand people better. \r\n\r\nBut you're right: there's often a story\u2014there's often a hurt in full disclosure, as vehement as we can be\u2014it often stems from a hurt. So one of the things that I can say is, \u201cMan, Ann, I love that you're so passionate about this. I'm so glad that you feel so strongly about this. Tell me more about that.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cYou're such a person of conviction.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u201cYou're such a person of conviction,\u201d\u2014even if you're in your head, thinking, \u201cYou need Jesus and a lot of therapy,\u201d\u2014or whatever it happens to be. \r\n\r\nAnn: And you're not lying. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I'm not lying, but I always\u2014you're right\u2014we always get the story. \r\n\r\nAnd you know what? We always get the perspective, when we're sitting on the bleachers. I mean, what a cool seat that you had at that game. It probably gave you, even as a pastor, some perspective on: \u201cIt's hard to see what that looks like.\u201d \r\n\r\nWhen our son was not even four, I'd had a hard mom day\u2014and I'm just going to say my kids are great; I super love them\u2014we had lots of years of infertility, so we were super stoked when God finally allowed us to have kids. But our son is so different from me. Our daughter's just like me; so it's, literally\u2014not mini-me; she's definitely her own person\u2014but we think very similarly; there's a lot of shorthand between my daughter and me. \r\n\r\nBut our son is so different\u2014everything is logical; everything's mathematical\u2014he needs to know how everything works; and \u201cWhat's the reasoning behind it\u201d; and all the things. And he would exacerbate a situation with his questions. I would be in the middle of something, and I would be frustrated; and he would just keep asking questions. And of course, I want to be a place, where he can ask questions; but there are times that he just would drive me crazy. \r\n\r\nIt had been a rough mom day, in full disclosure, not a totally great day for me. And we are driving to church for Christmas Eve. My husband was a worship pastor, and he and our daughter had already gone to church. So it was Josiah and me in the car, and I was so frustrated with him.\r\n\r\nAnn: How old was he? \r\n\r\nAmberly: Four. And I can still see his little feet kicking in the car seat in the rear view mirror\u2014he's six\u2019 five\u201d now, so it's hard to imagine those size 14s doing that\u2014but at the time, he's little, kicking in the car seat. And as we're driving, the Lord was softening my heart. I just got really grateful for the fact that we had a kid that could make me crazy. And I looked at him in the rear view mirror, and I said, \u201cJosiah, Merry Christmas.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd he says, \u201cWhat about Joseph?\u201d I said, \u201cWhat about Joseph?\u201d And he's like, \u201cWell, if there's a Merry Christmas, why isn't there a Joseph Christmas?\u201d Well, it's because he didn't read yet; so he thought poor Joseph was getting left out of this whole thing! He had to make that whole trek with the donkey and everything; and he gets no glory, and Merry gets all of it! He was beside himself. Well, you know what? We just had to get to an understanding. We had to talk through terms, and get to a place like, \u201cOh, no, no; we're actually all on the same page. I'm actually saying, \u2018May your Christmas be happy,\u2019 which is different.\u201d \r\n\r\nI think, sometimes, we are disagreeing on something; and if we would just take the time to say, \u201cTell me more about that,\u201d or \u201cTell me why you're so passionate; I mean, obviously, you're passionate about it. So tell me more about that.\u201d If we are really seeking to understand: number one, it communicates value; number two, they are more open to hearing our side of the thing. And sometimes, once you get to the story, you think, \u201cYou know what? I can tell you my two cents, but it's not as important as the fact that you've got a hurt that I'd love to love on you about.\u201d\r\n\r\nMy dad went to Berkeley in the late \u201860s and got a political science degree. So when he died, he had a Birkenstock tan still on his feet. And we disagreed about pretty much everything, especially once I became a believer. I mean to tell you\u2014there was not a football team, there was not a theological issue, there was not a weather forecast\u2014that we totally agreed on. But one of the gifts that I was given is that I had a dad, who would say, \u201cWow! Thank you for sharing that perspective.\u201d And I, 100 percent, can say I bring that into conversations\u2014not that I always handle it beautifully\u2014but I always think, \u201cWow! I am richer because I know that side of it.\u201d \r\n\r\nAny debate team will tell you that the goal is to learn both sides so beautifully so that you can articulate your point. You can feel really strongly about it\u2014and you can absolutely have an opinion one way or the other\u2014but the goal is to know so much that you could argue either side, because that makes you stronger in your point. \r\n\r\nAnn: That's good.\r\n\r\nAmberly: So let's be godly debaters; let's have good conversation\u2014good exchange of information and exchange of understanding\u2014instead of: \u201cI'm right; you're wrong,\u201d \u201cI'm sad for you; I'm praying for you,\u201d which is what we often get. And so I think that's the important thing. \r\n\r\nDave:What do you do when\u2014and I know there's some listening [who], are like, \u201cYeah, but what I'm sharing with my friend\u2014my family member, whoever it is\u2014is truth. It's in the Bible; it\u2019s God's truth. What they're saying is not truth\u2014it's false; it's a lie\u2014am I supposed to just: \u2018Okay, I love them; they can spew lies, and I let it happen?\u2019\u2014or do I need to correct that, and say, \u2018No, no, no; you have to understand that is not true. What I'm saying is true.\u2019\u201d Sometimes it's that, and you feel this righteous part of you; it's like, \u201cNo, I think God calls us to correct falsity\u201d\u2014is that a word?\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yeah, it is now.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014\"and speak truth.\u201d What do you do in that situation? Do you walk away, or do you try and correct it? \r\n\r\nAmberly: So again, once you've heard their side of it, and you feel like you have a good understanding\u2014sometimes, I find that just repeating what they say: \u201cSo what I'm hearing you say is that: \u2018Black is white,\u2019\u201d\u2014or whatever the thing is\/the topic. And you say, \u201cThat's so interesting.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd my sister uses this thing, which I think is brilliant; she had an executive coach that taught her this: \u201cYou may be right,\u201d\u2014when it's something that's subjective. When it's something that you're like, \u201cNo, no; this Scripture's clear. This is super clear,\u201d\u2014one of the things that I've found was like\u2014\u201cWow! That is so interesting to see [your perspective]. When I look at John, Chapter 5, I feel like this is what Jesus was saying\u2026 Maybe let's take a moment so that we're out of the thing. How about we meet again on Tuesday? I'd love to hear your perspective on John, Chapter 5,\u201d\u2014or whatever the chapter and verse. \r\n\r\nOr you may know the story: \u201cThat's interesting; because I feel like, when Jesus says, \u2018Love others as you love yourself,\u2019 what I feel like that means that we're supposed to love others as we love ourselves; and so I'd love your perspective on this,\u2019\u201d\u2014\"I'd love\u2026\u201d\u2014because again, giving them a place of value. \r\n\r\nAnd again, they may get to a place, where they say, \u201cNo; it says, \u2018Love others if you want to; and if they're lovable.\u2019\u201d And you say, \u201cNo, that is not what Scripture says: we were all unlovable; and yet, Jesus died for us while we were still sinners. He died for unlovable people; and yet, saw value in us,\u201d\u2014so I think extending that. And then, there's some things that you have to say, \u201cCalvary is the only hill worth dying on\u201d; it\u2019s the only one. \r\n\r\nAnn: I keep thinking about your dad. You guys were on polar opposite ends of certain conversations and views; and yet, he was interested in you. He thanked you for sharing your opinion. That's just maturity. I think that we get, as you guys said, we get so bent out of shape; because it feels like they're going against Scripture, and we're going to teach them the right way. \r\n\r\nBut I love that idea; because I'm thinking, so many times in families, it creates so much tension that our grown kids may not even want to come to our house; because that's where we go with it. And so you might need to avoid the topic\u2014you might need to avoid any social media platforms\u2014if that's what you need to be able to love, and to be able to see people, the way Jesus does. \r\n\r\nBut I think it's like: \u201cWhat kind of application do we give?\u201d I know, for me\u2014especially during volatile times, even in our country\u2014I've got to be on my face. I get so prideful; I feel like I know what's up; I know what's right and what's wrong. I need to be humble before God, of saying, \u201cGod, give me Your eyes and Your grace to love people the way You do\u201d; because it doesn't always come naturally. Man, I get triggered by some of this stuff. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Oh, you bet; you bet. But I read a little meme, that somebody said, \u201cWhy would we disconnect ourselves from people we know for two people that we\u2019ll never meet?\u201d\u2014looking at those politicians, where we disconnect from people that God has clearly put in our path to make a difference and be light in that situation, for two guys, we'll never meet. I mean, maybe we'll meet them; but although our\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014or friends.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Exactly. Yeah; well, there you go! There you go. \r\n\r\nAnn: Just kidding. \r\n\r\nAmberly: But I can say that I just keep going back to: \u201cHow would Jesus want me to act? What is behavior becoming of a follower of Jesus?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:And \u201cThe whole world will know who I am by how [you] love each other.\u201d Man, we have done a bad job.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Agreed. Our marketing department, in the love and unity, is sorely lacking! So let's help change that, friends, right?\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: Yes!\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014those [who] are listening, you and the three of us at this table\u2014\u201cLet's\u2014\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014\u201cfind common ground.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes; \u201cLet's find common ground.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn:And maybe you have to have a conversation\u2014with a friend, a loved one, a family member\u2014of saying, \u201cI have been so vocal in my views and the way I've expressed them. I feel convicted by it, and I'm really sorry if I've hurt you.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Ooh, that's good.\r\n\r\nAnn: Just apologizing, because we've all probably done it. But to apologize, that can build a bridge.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, absolutely; absolutely. \r\n\r\nDave:And believe it or not, we got you\u2014you know this\u2014to do a video about this: a video series called \u201cMoving Toward Each Other in the Middle of a Divisive World: Building Peace in our Own Backyards.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes.\r\n\r\nAnn: Who doesn't want to go through that study?\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; I mean, everything we've been talking about today. I know, if I'm listening, I'm like, \u201cI want to talk more about this. I need help in this.\u201d Well, we got it for you. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com; you can get this video. It's free\u2014did you hear that?\u2014it's free. And Amberly\u2019s going to coach you through how to find common ground. \r\n\r\nI'm telling you: this never goes away. It isn't like you get to a place, even in a relationship, something can come up; and it's like, \u201cWe are now dividing again; I want to get back [to unity].\u201d So we\u2019ve got a tool. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Even in marriages\u2014even with the person that we want to go run off into the sunset with\u2014you never get to a day, where you're like: \u201cNailed it!\u201d \u201cPerfect!\u201d \u201cI am awesome!\u201d\u2014no day. There's always the: \u201cI could do this better.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnn: Amberly, how do you feel about this?\r\n\r\nAmberly: I'm so excited. First of all, it's so timely. I just think we always need the reminder. \r\n\r\nDave:But we are in an election year, too.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yeah; and I wanted to be practical when we talked about it. So every day, there's a different really practical takeaway\u2014that we can practice, that we can think through, that we can challenge ourselves and, maybe, even challenge the people around us to be better, and to love better, and be more like Jesus\u2014so it's not all touchy-feely; it's not all just \u201cKumbaya.\u201d \r\n\r\nWe have some serious conflict; there's some serious division. So we, in this video series, got serious about: \u201cHow to help people\u2014really empower them\u2014to be used by the Holy Spirit to be an instrument of peace.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:It could be a really interesting series to get and watch with somebody,\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: Ooh, yeah; that\u2019s good.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014even somebody you have differences with. It might help the two of you go, \u201cOkay; we should approach this in a different way, based on what we learned.\u201d\r\n\r\nShelby: I\u2019m Shelby Abbott; and you've been listening to Dave and Ann Wilson, with Amberly Neese, on FamilyLife Today. So as they were saying: \u201cAre you kind of just tired of the tension and the division in your social media, in your family gatherings, or maybe even around your own kitchen table?\u201d Well, Psalm 1:33 tells us it's good for believers to live in unity with one another. But in today's easily-angered and often-offended world, it can really feel like wishful thinking: \u201cThanks, Psalm 1:33; but I don't know if that's ever going to happen.\u201d \r\n\r\nWell, that's why we're so excited to invite you to join us for a five-week video series that we have put together, along with Amberly Neese. It's called \u201cMoving Toward Each Other in the Middle of a Divisive World.\u201d Wow; that sounds very, very timely. So if you are interested in that\u2014and as Dave and Anne were saying, maybe you can watch it with someone you disagree with\u2014you could find it at FamilyLife.com\/\r\n\r\nFindingCommonGround, or you could just check it out in today's show notes. Again, the website is FamilyLife.com\/FindingCommonGround. \r\n\r\nAnd in addition to being our guest today, Amberly is a comedian; and she's also an author. She's written a book called The Friendship Initiative: 31 Days of Loving and Connecting Like Jesus. You can get your copy, right now, by going online to FamilyLifeToday.com; or you can find it in the show notes. Or feel free to give us a call; our number is 800-358-6329. Again, that number is 800-F as in family, L as in life, and then the word, TODAY. Just request your copy of Amberly Neese's Friendship Initiative. \r\n\r\nNow, tomorrow, Amberly Neese is back with some practical advice on overcoming jealousy and embracing gratitude. That's tomorrow; we hope you'll join us. 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References to conferences, resources, or other special promotions may be obsolete. We do not assume any responsibility or liability for the use or interpretation of this content.\r\n\r\nCommon Ground\r\n\r\nGuest:Amberly Neese\r\n\r\nFrom the series:Jesus and Friendship (Day 2 of 3)\r\n\r\nAir date:October 8, 2024\r\n\r\nAmberly: I don't think anybody wakes up in the morning, and says, \u201cYou know what I'm going to do? I'm going to besmirch the name of Jesus. That's going to be awesome; what a great idea. What a fun task list for me.\u201d But I think that, oftentimes, we just are so concerned with being right instead of loving people in the right way.\r\n\r\nShelby: Welcome to FamilyLife Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Shelby Abbott, and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson. You can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com. This is FamilyLife Today.\r\n\r\nDave:Alright; I have a small confession. I don't think I'm the only one, but I haven't really ever said this out loud. One of the things I sort of like doing in the last year\u201418 months\u2014is going on Facebook. Somebody posts something a little controversial; I find myself scrolling through the comments.\r\n\r\nAnn: You actually have started doing that.\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\nDave:I mean, people are\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and you're reading me all the comments.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014they're attacking each other. I mean, it's not pretty, usually. \r\n\r\nAnn: I don't like this. \r\n\r\nDave:I\u2019m not saying I like it. It's like, driving by,\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014it sucks you in. \r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; you're like, \u201cI got to slow down and see what's happening.\u201d It\u2019s terrible! But I'll tell you something\u2014I told you this last year\u2014I was reading one, and this woman and this man were going at each other really bad. And then I looked at who the names were; and I'm like, \u201cOh, my goodness.\u201d They both were on my staff, at my church, ten years ago; they worked at my church. I was like, \u201cThis is so ugly.\u201d And I'm thinking, \u201cHow many other people know that?\u201d\u2014and they're looking at\u2014\u201cThis is the Christian world attacking one another.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: But it's also like\u2014when you think about election year, when you think about controversy and people's opinions\u2014even in a family, a close family, who could have very different views on\u2014\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014different topics.\r\n\r\nAnn: Yes, it is not easy to navigate those conversations.\r\n\r\nDave:We need help, and we've got help in the studio. Amberly Neese is with us, and she's been with us before. I didn't know until I got your study\u2014and I watched it\u2014so this is a video study. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, it is. \r\n\r\nDave: You are, not only funny, you're powerful; because you're diving into this. Your subtitle is: Loving Others Despite Our Differences. \r\n\r\nAnn: The book is called Common Ground. Amberly, what a perfect time for us to read a book like this; because it feels, at times, like there's not much in common\u2014 \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014when we have beliefs, unbelief, political things\u2014there are just so many things to disagree on. \r\n\r\nAmberly: And Jesus prayed that we would all be one, right? \r\n\r\nAnn: Yes! \r\n\r\nAmberly: And yet, we are not getting it right. All those internet trolls\u2014I'm with you\u2014you're right. It is like a car accident; you can't help yourself. \r\n\r\nDave: I\u2019m not the only one?!\r\n\r\nAmberly: No, sir; no, sir. So if there's a 12-step program for people like us, we're the first two members.\r\n\r\nDave:Have you ever jumped in? \r\n\r\nAmberly: No. \r\n\r\nDave: Me neither.\r\n\r\nAmberly: No; and I will tell you: somebody says, \u201cAre you just chicken?\u201d And I honestly, I don't think it advances the cause for Christ one iota,\u2014 \r\n\r\nDave: I don't either. \r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014not one cell.\r\n\r\nDave:We're going to have a conversation: \u201cLet's sit across the table, and look at each other in the eye, and talk this out rather than on a Facebook page.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely; absolutely. \r\n\r\nDave: So why this?\u2014Common Ground\u2014I love it: \u201cA Study of Sibling Rivalries in the Bible.\u201d I don't think\u2014has anybody ever done that?\u2014you're it. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I don't know. I think all authors probably think that they're: \u201cI'm the first one that ever had this thought\u201d; but there's nothing new under the sun. But how gracious of God to give us these imperfect sibling relationships in the Bible so that, when we need to navigate those difficult times, that we can try to figure out what to do with our brothers and sisters in Christ by looking at their examples, good and bad.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; now, you're a comedian. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I am! \r\n\r\nDave: And that's not the only thing you do; in fact, you do everything: you speak; you write.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I cannot keep plants alive. I'm just going to say right now, Dave\u2014speaking of making some kind of confession\u2014I kill them. I grow children beautifully; I don't forget to water and feed them, but plants are on their own in my house. \r\n\r\nBut I do quite a few jobs, but not one of those is without conflict. And so\u2014when it came time to think through: \u201cWhat might God be trying to teach me in this season?\u201d\u2014conflict was where it was at. And it actually came\u2014it's so funny that you say that\u2014but it actually came from watching the exchanges of believers online. \r\n\r\nIt's one thing when a nonbeliever\u2014when a person who is\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn:  \u2014you expect it.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Right; you just say, \u201cWell, they don't know better, because they don't know how much God loves them; and so they're acting out of that.\u201d But when it's two believers\u2014people saved by grace, who have looked Jesus at one time in their life, and said, \u201cYou are large and in charge of my life,\u201d\u2014and when those two: when believers and I can be part of it\u2014but when believers do that, first of all, I feel like, \u201cMan, that must hurt Jesus's heart when He's literally, \u201cOne thing\u2026\u201d It's like the parents say, \u201cI gave you one job: \u2018Pick up your room,\u2019\u201d\u2014He's saying, \u201cI gave you one job: that you'd be one.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014and \u201cThey will know you by your\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014and \u201cThey'll know you\u201d\u2014exactly! \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014\"love.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Exactly! That is the most effective evangelical tool that we have\u2014is our unity\u2014and yet, it is oft overlooked.\r\n\r\nAnn:Do you think people just don't care about that, or they don't know it? Why do they enter into that?\u2014because they think it will change someone's view? What do you think?\r\n\r\nAmberly: So I think we oftentimes confuse our convictions with our need to convict others of their misdeeds.\r\n\r\nAnn: And it's like a righteous kind of anger, or justice, maybe? \r\n\r\nAmberly: I mean, I don't think anybody wakes up in the morning, and says, \u201cYou know what I'm going to do? I'm going to besmirch the name of Jesus. That's going to be awesome; what a great idea. What a fun task list for me.\u201d But I think that, oftentimes, we just are so concerned with being right instead of loving people in the right way. \r\n\r\nAnd again, yes, there were times that Jesus turned over the tables\u2014He was not happy with what was happening\u2014but He still loved people well. \u201cSo how do we navigate this? How do we unpack these things?\u201d\u2014which again, they can be polarizing. When we talk about some of the topics of our world\u2014you bet your red writer\u2014there are definitely sides to that. \r\n\r\nBut how we respond to that disunity really shows a lot about our character. And so, when I did this dive, it was as much for me as anybody else, when I looked at these siblings, and saying, \u201cOkay, what can I learn from their example?\u201d That was a big deal.\r\n\r\nAnn: How did you decide on sibling rivalry? Because common ground makes sense; but how did you decide on taking these siblings, who didn't necessarily always have common ground? Did that just come to you?\r\n\r\nAmberly: I think maybe it's because I'm not that person that can take 27 steps away; I'm not a chess player. Checkers\u2014I will clean your clock in Jesus' name\u2014but chess, not so much; but I think part of it is I have a hard time seeing all of the steps in between. With the siblings in the Bible, it was a really easy checker game for me to figure this out: \u201cThis is the way that Jesus wants His people to behave, or not.\u201d And so it was easily translatable for my brain to say, \u201cAs a sister in Christ, to the people [who] are in Christ with me, how am I to respond?\u201d And so how gracious of God to give us\u2014I just chose four to dive into\u2014but there are tons in the Bible. Some of them show Jesus so beautifully; and some were a train wreck, on this side of glory, like so crazy! But we can learn from both.\r\n\r\nDave:So where do we start? I mean, when you are in a relationship\u2014and maybe, you're not even in a relationship\u2014but you are having a conversation. Or it's even harder when it is a sibling or somebody\u2014a family member\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014or a child, one of your grown kids.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014and you realize: \u201cWe are on opposite sides of this issue.\u201d And it's an important issue\u2014could be political; could be spiritual; it could be family; whatever it is\u2014and you want to have a conversation. You want to love them, but the differences are so strong. You know you're not going to change your viewpoint, and say, \u201cOkay, I agree with your perspective\u201d; you're going to absolutely not agree. It might be against Scripture, what they are holding to. How do you have a loving relationship with that sibling?\u2014with that neighbor?\u2014with that family member?\u2014with that coworker? I mean, that\u2019s what you\/that\u2019s what your video is about.\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cHow do you find common ground?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:\u201cHow do you find common ground?\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: So first of all: I can, 100 percent, speak to this. I want to know: \u201cHow did you answer that question yourself, Mr. Pastor Man? \r\n\r\nAnn: This is good; see, she turned it right back on you.\r\n\r\nDave: You\u2019re not allowed to do that.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Oh, I am, totally 100 percent.\r\n\r\nDave:We're interviewing you. You wrote this.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I know. I will say my piece, but I would love to hear what you have to say first.\r\n\r\nDave:I mean, it's really hard;\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: It is really hard.\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014I think you acknowledge it, like, \u201cThat's real.\u201d We've talked to Tim Muehlhoff about conversations with this. He talks about\u2014I'll never forget\u2014a speed bump.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes; oh, I remember. This was a great conversation.\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; and so that was helpful to say: \u201cPause,\u201d\u2014\u201cJust pause a second; step back; take a breath,\u201d\u2014and remember\u2014\u201cI'm not trying to win an argument; I am winning people. So this relationship\u201d\u2014especially, if it's family\u2014\"is more important than this issue.\u201d Try to find common ground: ask questions; hear them out. It's not about convincing them that: \u201cI'm right; you're wrong.\u201d It's like: I want to love them; and in loving them, I\u2019m going to be able to hear them.\r\n\r\nAnn: I think the side\u2014 \r\n\r\nDave: There\u2019s nothing wrong with saying, \u201cI disagree. We're not going to be able to find common ground in terms of we're going to agree on this; but we can find common ground, and we still love each other.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: I think that understanding what's behind their passion, because some of us are so passionate about our issues. We might say, \u201cIt's because it's biblical; that's why I'm passionate.\u201d And when somebody feels passionate in a different view, there's something underneath that passion. So to ask those questions if you want to enter into that territory. \r\n\r\nBut I think loving them\u2014seeing them; hearing\u2014\u201cMan, you are passionate about this. Tell me: \u2018Where's that passion come from?\u2019\u201d And there's, sometimes, a story behind it that I find really interesting. And when I hear the stories, like, \u201cOh, it kind of pulls some pieces together.\u201d I still may not agree; but it makes sense, like, \u201cOh.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd wasn't Jesus, just the expert, and so good at asking questions?\u2014and Father God, as well:\u2014 \r\n\r\nAmberly: Absolutely. \r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014\u201cAdam, where are you? \r\n\r\nDave:I sat at a basketball game\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cWhat have you done?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014in Detroit. A buddy of mine went to Iowa, played football there. So Rob and I got tickets to Iowa playing\u2014I think it was Iowa State\u2014and the tickets were right center court. And so, literally, on the right of me was Rob and all of Iowa; to the left, the next guy was Iowa State. And I've never experienced something like this in my life\u2014every single call\u2014they saw it this way; we saw it this way. It was like, \u201cOh, my; they have no discernment on what's happening!\u201d\u2014\"Either, do we!\u201d It's like that ref was absolutely wrong; I'm like I just wanted to turn, like, \u201cDude, that was the right call.\u201d And there was no changing their mind. \r\n\r\nI realized, sitting there\u2014I was like, \u201cThere's no way you can convince them that that was the right call. They see it out of their Iowa State eyes; we see it out of our Iowa eyes,\u201d\u2014it doesn't matter what is right or wrong. Truth didn't matter\u2014\"This is the way it is,\u201d\u2014and I thought, \u201cThat is how people view opinions.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: That's so true.\r\n\r\nDave:So it's like, \u201cI'm not going to change their opinion, but I can love them.\u201d Is that partly true in relationships?\u2014same thing? \r\n\r\nAmberly: So first of all, I actually did an experiment just right now. I'm not a scientist, but here it is. \r\n\r\nDave: Oh, no!\r\n\r\nAmberly: Do you know what I did? I sought to understand, not to be understood. \r\n\r\nDave: Yeah. \r\n\r\nAmberly: And so, when you asked me the question, I turned it back on you. \r\n\r\nDave: You were Jesus. \r\n\r\nAmberly: That is maybe the first time I've been accused of that, but yes! I mean, I am supposed to be like Him. And so\u2014\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014instead of answering, you questioned.\r\n\r\nAmberly: I questioned. And you know what? I didn't think I could like you guys more\u2014I mean, what a gift!\u2014I so appreciated your insight. \r\n\r\nBut you know what? I learned something in the process. And iron sharpens iron. When we think about iron sharpens iron: if you are the iron, that's in there, that's a really violent, kind of uncomfortable\u2014\r\n\r\nDave: \u2014sparks.\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014sparks, the whole nine yards\u2014in order for sharpening to happen. So conflict is not bad. I think conflict can be holy. I really do believe it can be holy ground to understand people better. \r\n\r\nBut you're right: there's often a story\u2014there's often a hurt in full disclosure, as vehement as we can be\u2014it often stems from a hurt. So one of the things that I can say is, \u201cMan, Ann, I love that you're so passionate about this. I'm so glad that you feel so strongly about this. Tell me more about that.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn: \u201cYou're such a person of conviction.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u201cYou're such a person of conviction,\u201d\u2014even if you're in your head, thinking, \u201cYou need Jesus and a lot of therapy,\u201d\u2014or whatever it happens to be. \r\n\r\nAnn: And you're not lying. \r\n\r\nAmberly: I'm not lying, but I always\u2014you're right\u2014we always get the story. \r\n\r\nAnd you know what? We always get the perspective, when we're sitting on the bleachers. I mean, what a cool seat that you had at that game. It probably gave you, even as a pastor, some perspective on: \u201cIt's hard to see what that looks like.\u201d \r\n\r\nWhen our son was not even four, I'd had a hard mom day\u2014and I'm just going to say my kids are great; I super love them\u2014we had lots of years of infertility, so we were super stoked when God finally allowed us to have kids. But our son is so different from me. Our daughter's just like me; so it's, literally\u2014not mini-me; she's definitely her own person\u2014but we think very similarly; there's a lot of shorthand between my daughter and me. \r\n\r\nBut our son is so different\u2014everything is logical; everything's mathematical\u2014he needs to know how everything works; and \u201cWhat's the reasoning behind it\u201d; and all the things. And he would exacerbate a situation with his questions. I would be in the middle of something, and I would be frustrated; and he would just keep asking questions. And of course, I want to be a place, where he can ask questions; but there are times that he just would drive me crazy. \r\n\r\nIt had been a rough mom day, in full disclosure, not a totally great day for me. And we are driving to church for Christmas Eve. My husband was a worship pastor, and he and our daughter had already gone to church. So it was Josiah and me in the car, and I was so frustrated with him.\r\n\r\nAnn: How old was he? \r\n\r\nAmberly: Four. And I can still see his little feet kicking in the car seat in the rear view mirror\u2014he's six\u2019 five\u201d now, so it's hard to imagine those size 14s doing that\u2014but at the time, he's little, kicking in the car seat. And as we're driving, the Lord was softening my heart. I just got really grateful for the fact that we had a kid that could make me crazy. And I looked at him in the rear view mirror, and I said, \u201cJosiah, Merry Christmas.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd he says, \u201cWhat about Joseph?\u201d I said, \u201cWhat about Joseph?\u201d And he's like, \u201cWell, if there's a Merry Christmas, why isn't there a Joseph Christmas?\u201d Well, it's because he didn't read yet; so he thought poor Joseph was getting left out of this whole thing! He had to make that whole trek with the donkey and everything; and he gets no glory, and Merry gets all of it! He was beside himself. Well, you know what? We just had to get to an understanding. We had to talk through terms, and get to a place like, \u201cOh, no, no; we're actually all on the same page. I'm actually saying, \u2018May your Christmas be happy,\u2019 which is different.\u201d \r\n\r\nI think, sometimes, we are disagreeing on something; and if we would just take the time to say, \u201cTell me more about that,\u201d or \u201cTell me why you're so passionate; I mean, obviously, you're passionate about it. So tell me more about that.\u201d If we are really seeking to understand: number one, it communicates value; number two, they are more open to hearing our side of the thing. And sometimes, once you get to the story, you think, \u201cYou know what? I can tell you my two cents, but it's not as important as the fact that you've got a hurt that I'd love to love on you about.\u201d\r\n\r\nMy dad went to Berkeley in the late \u201860s and got a political science degree. So when he died, he had a Birkenstock tan still on his feet. And we disagreed about pretty much everything, especially once I became a believer. I mean to tell you\u2014there was not a football team, there was not a theological issue, there was not a weather forecast\u2014that we totally agreed on. But one of the gifts that I was given is that I had a dad, who would say, \u201cWow! Thank you for sharing that perspective.\u201d And I, 100 percent, can say I bring that into conversations\u2014not that I always handle it beautifully\u2014but I always think, \u201cWow! I am richer because I know that side of it.\u201d \r\n\r\nAny debate team will tell you that the goal is to learn both sides so beautifully so that you can articulate your point. You can feel really strongly about it\u2014and you can absolutely have an opinion one way or the other\u2014but the goal is to know so much that you could argue either side, because that makes you stronger in your point. \r\n\r\nAnn: That's good.\r\n\r\nAmberly: So let's be godly debaters; let's have good conversation\u2014good exchange of information and exchange of understanding\u2014instead of: \u201cI'm right; you're wrong,\u201d \u201cI'm sad for you; I'm praying for you,\u201d which is what we often get. And so I think that's the important thing. \r\n\r\nDave:What do you do when\u2014and I know there's some listening [who], are like, \u201cYeah, but what I'm sharing with my friend\u2014my family member, whoever it is\u2014is truth. It's in the Bible; it\u2019s God's truth. What they're saying is not truth\u2014it's false; it's a lie\u2014am I supposed to just: \u2018Okay, I love them; they can spew lies, and I let it happen?\u2019\u2014or do I need to correct that, and say, \u2018No, no, no; you have to understand that is not true. What I'm saying is true.\u2019\u201d Sometimes it's that, and you feel this righteous part of you; it's like, \u201cNo, I think God calls us to correct falsity\u201d\u2014is that a word?\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yeah, it is now.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014\"and speak truth.\u201d What do you do in that situation? Do you walk away, or do you try and correct it? \r\n\r\nAmberly: So again, once you've heard their side of it, and you feel like you have a good understanding\u2014sometimes, I find that just repeating what they say: \u201cSo what I'm hearing you say is that: \u2018Black is white,\u2019\u201d\u2014or whatever the thing is\/the topic. And you say, \u201cThat's so interesting.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnd my sister uses this thing, which I think is brilliant; she had an executive coach that taught her this: \u201cYou may be right,\u201d\u2014when it's something that's subjective. When it's something that you're like, \u201cNo, no; this Scripture's clear. This is super clear,\u201d\u2014one of the things that I've found was like\u2014\u201cWow! That is so interesting to see [your perspective]. When I look at John, Chapter 5, I feel like this is what Jesus was saying\u2026 Maybe let's take a moment so that we're out of the thing. How about we meet again on Tuesday? I'd love to hear your perspective on John, Chapter 5,\u201d\u2014or whatever the chapter and verse. \r\n\r\nOr you may know the story: \u201cThat's interesting; because I feel like, when Jesus says, \u2018Love others as you love yourself,\u2019 what I feel like that means that we're supposed to love others as we love ourselves; and so I'd love your perspective on this,\u2019\u201d\u2014\"I'd love\u2026\u201d\u2014because again, giving them a place of value. \r\n\r\nAnd again, they may get to a place, where they say, \u201cNo; it says, \u2018Love others if you want to; and if they're lovable.\u2019\u201d And you say, \u201cNo, that is not what Scripture says: we were all unlovable; and yet, Jesus died for us while we were still sinners. He died for unlovable people; and yet, saw value in us,\u201d\u2014so I think extending that. And then, there's some things that you have to say, \u201cCalvary is the only hill worth dying on\u201d; it\u2019s the only one. \r\n\r\nAnn: I keep thinking about your dad. You guys were on polar opposite ends of certain conversations and views; and yet, he was interested in you. He thanked you for sharing your opinion. That's just maturity. I think that we get, as you guys said, we get so bent out of shape; because it feels like they're going against Scripture, and we're going to teach them the right way. \r\n\r\nBut I love that idea; because I'm thinking, so many times in families, it creates so much tension that our grown kids may not even want to come to our house; because that's where we go with it. And so you might need to avoid the topic\u2014you might need to avoid any social media platforms\u2014if that's what you need to be able to love, and to be able to see people, the way Jesus does. \r\n\r\nBut I think it's like: \u201cWhat kind of application do we give?\u201d I know, for me\u2014especially during volatile times, even in our country\u2014I've got to be on my face. I get so prideful; I feel like I know what's up; I know what's right and what's wrong. I need to be humble before God, of saying, \u201cGod, give me Your eyes and Your grace to love people the way You do\u201d; because it doesn't always come naturally. Man, I get triggered by some of this stuff. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Oh, you bet; you bet. But I read a little meme, that somebody said, \u201cWhy would we disconnect ourselves from people we know for two people that we\u2019ll never meet?\u201d\u2014looking at those politicians, where we disconnect from people that God has clearly put in our path to make a difference and be light in that situation, for two guys, we'll never meet. I mean, maybe we'll meet them; but although our\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: \u2014or friends.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Exactly. Yeah; well, there you go! There you go. \r\n\r\nAnn: Just kidding. \r\n\r\nAmberly: But I can say that I just keep going back to: \u201cHow would Jesus want me to act? What is behavior becoming of a follower of Jesus?\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:And \u201cThe whole world will know who I am by how [you] love each other.\u201d Man, we have done a bad job.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Agreed. Our marketing department, in the love and unity, is sorely lacking! So let's help change that, friends, right?\u2014\r\n\r\nAnn: Yes!\r\n\r\nAmberly: \u2014those [who] are listening, you and the three of us at this table\u2014\u201cLet's\u2014\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014\u201cfind common ground.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes; \u201cLet's find common ground.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnn:And maybe you have to have a conversation\u2014with a friend, a loved one, a family member\u2014of saying, \u201cI have been so vocal in my views and the way I've expressed them. I feel convicted by it, and I'm really sorry if I've hurt you.\u201d\r\n\r\nAmberly: Ooh, that's good.\r\n\r\nAnn: Just apologizing, because we've all probably done it. But to apologize, that can build a bridge.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes, absolutely; absolutely. \r\n\r\nDave:And believe it or not, we got you\u2014you know this\u2014to do a video about this: a video series called \u201cMoving Toward Each Other in the Middle of a Divisive World: Building Peace in our Own Backyards.\u201d \r\n\r\nAmberly: Yes.\r\n\r\nAnn: Who doesn't want to go through that study?\r\n\r\nDave:Yeah; I mean, everything we've been talking about today. I know, if I'm listening, I'm like, \u201cI want to talk more about this. I need help in this.\u201d Well, we got it for you. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com; you can get this video. It's free\u2014did you hear that?\u2014it's free. And Amberly\u2019s going to coach you through how to find common ground. \r\n\r\nI'm telling you: this never goes away. It isn't like you get to a place, even in a relationship, something can come up; and it's like, \u201cWe are now dividing again; I want to get back [to unity].\u201d So we\u2019ve got a tool. \r\n\r\nAmberly: Even in marriages\u2014even with the person that we want to go run off into the sunset with\u2014you never get to a day, where you're like: \u201cNailed it!\u201d \u201cPerfect!\u201d \u201cI am awesome!\u201d\u2014no day. There's always the: \u201cI could do this better.\u201d \r\n\r\nAnn: Amberly, how do you feel about this?\r\n\r\nAmberly: I'm so excited. First of all, it's so timely. I just think we always need the reminder. \r\n\r\nDave:But we are in an election year, too.\r\n\r\nAmberly: Yeah; and I wanted to be practical when we talked about it. So every day, there's a different really practical takeaway\u2014that we can practice, that we can think through, that we can challenge ourselves and, maybe, even challenge the people around us to be better, and to love better, and be more like Jesus\u2014so it's not all touchy-feely; it's not all just \u201cKumbaya.\u201d \r\n\r\nWe have some serious conflict; there's some serious division. So we, in this video series, got serious about: \u201cHow to help people\u2014really empower them\u2014to be used by the Holy Spirit to be an instrument of peace.\u201d\r\n\r\nDave:It could be a really interesting series to get and watch with somebody,\u2014\r\n\r\nAmberly: Ooh, yeah; that\u2019s good.\r\n\r\nDave:\u2014even somebody you have differences with. It might help the two of you go, \u201cOkay; we should approach this in a different way, based on what we learned.\u201d\r\n\r\nShelby: I\u2019m Shelby Abbott; and you've been listening to Dave and Ann Wilson, with Amberly Neese, on FamilyLife Today. So as they were saying: \u201cAre you kind of just tired of the tension and the division in your social media, in your family gatherings, or maybe even around your own kitchen table?\u201d Well, Psalm 1:33 tells us it's good for believers to live in unity with one another. But in today's easily-angered and often-offended world, it can really feel like wishful thinking: \u201cThanks, Psalm 1:33; but I don't know if that's ever going to happen.\u201d \r\n\r\nWell, that's why we're so excited to invite you to join us for a five-week video series that we have put together, along with Amberly Neese. It's called \u201cMoving Toward Each Other in the Middle of a Divisive World.\u201d Wow; that sounds very, very timely. So if you are interested in that\u2014and as Dave and Anne were saying, maybe you can watch it with someone you disagree with\u2014you could find it at FamilyLife.com\/\r\n\r\nFindingCommonGround, or you could just check it out in today's show notes. Again, the website is FamilyLife.com\/FindingCommonGround. \r\n\r\nAnd in addition to being our guest today, Amberly is a comedian; and she's also an author. She's written a book called The Friendship Initiative: 31 Days of Loving and Connecting Like Jesus. You can get your copy, right now, by going online to FamilyLifeToday.com; or you can find it in the show notes. Or feel free to give us a call; our number is 800-358-6329. Again, that number is 800-F as in family, L as in life, and then the word, TODAY. Just request your copy of Amberly Neese's Friendship Initiative. \r\n\r\nNow, tomorrow, Amberly Neese is back with some practical advice on overcoming jealousy and embracing gratitude. That's tomorrow; we hope you'll join us. 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