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Get a copy of Toni\u2019s book.\u201d You can go to our website, FamilyLifeToday.com, and request your copy. Again, the website is FamilyLifeToday.com. The book is called <em>Before You Split. <\/em>Or you can call to order; our number is 1-800-FL-TODAY; 1-800-358-6329; that\u2019s 1-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd let me also add, before you make a final decision, you owe it to yourself to attend, together, a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> marriage getaway. These getaway weekends have been used by God in hundreds of thousands of marriages over the years to bring healing and hope where there was division and strife. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIf that\u2019s where you find yourself, again, [read] <em>Before You Split<\/em>, [and] come to a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> marriage getaway. We\u2019ve got about 30 of these events happening this fall in cities all across the country. If you register this week, you can save 50 percent off the regular registration fee. If for any reason, the weekend is not what you expected it to be, we\u2019ll give you your money back; there are no questions asked. Register today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd let me just also say: the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> is not just for couples, who are frustrated with where their marriage is. If you have a marriage, and you would say, \u201cIt\u2019s okay,\u201d\u2014but you don\u2019t want it to be just okay; you want it to be better than okay; you want it to be all that it\u2019s intended to be\u2014come join us for a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> marriage getaway. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAgain, there\u2019s information online about the getaway. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com; you can register online as well. Or call if you have any questions, or if you\u2019d like to register by phone: 1-800-FL-TODAY is the number. And again, if you register this week, you save 50 percent off the regular registration fees; so let us hear from you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAlright, tomorrow, Toni and Carey Nieuwhof are going to be back with us again. We\u2019re going to hear about the steps they began taking when they reached that frustration point in their marriage and thought, \u201cI don\u2019t know if I want it to go on.\u201d How did they get from where they were to where they are today? We\u2019ll hear their story tomorrow. I hope you can be with us for that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOn behalf of our hosts, Dave and Ann Wilson, I\u2019m Bob Lepine. 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