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He thought he was her fifth husband, but two years into their marriage, he found out he was her ninth. She lied because she was afraid that he wouldn\u2019t marry her if he knew. The issue here is trustworthiness. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tLying about your past just creates an artificial foundation for your relationship that will feel fragile, not stable. Well into your marriage you\u2019re probably going to be anxious; fearful that if they ever find out the truth you\u2019re sunk. Hey, being honest may cost you something. Sometimes it\u2019s difficult but better in the long-run to have a relationship built on truth than on quicksand. What good is that? For FamilyLife Blended I\u2019m Ron Deal.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Announcer:<\/strong> To find out more visit familylifeblended.com.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife. Help for today. 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