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Morgan Tyree has learned from her neighbors that sometimes hospitality is as simple as having the right attitude.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>I had another neighbor in that same neighborhood, who I didn\u2019t really know well. I can\u2019t even remember her name; she would drive by, and she would give the <em>best<\/em> wave and smile. I mean, I thought I was in a parade; I\u2019m just trying to corral a toddler. She just had that warmth; and it gave me the feeling that, if I really needed something from her, I could go over to her. I don\u2019t think hospitality has to be complicated; it doesn\u2019t have to take a lot of time, but it\u2019s just showing up.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Thursday, April 8<sup>th<\/sup>. Our hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson; I'm Bob Lepine. You can find us online at FamilyLifeToday.com. We want all of us to be thinking a little differently today about hospitality and about how we can become more hospitable, no matter what our personality or temperament is. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us. I hope you\u2019re comfortable here; I hope you\u2019re relaxed. We\u2019re really glad to have you here, and\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>You know, I\u2019ve never heard you say that, ever!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I\u2019m thinking, \u201cWhat is happening right now?\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It\u2019s the first time he\u2019s ever done it; because we\u2019re talking hospitality, and he\u2019s trying to be hospitable! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>I thought we\u2019d just make our listeners feel comfortable and relaxed; don\u2019t you think?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Are you feeling pressure right now?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>A little bit; yes, perhaps. Do you want to explain why? [Laughter]4\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>We\u2019re excited today, because we have Morgan Tyree with us. She\u2019s written a book called <em>Your Hospitality Personality<\/em>. When Morgan walked in, and we all had lunch together, I\u2019m running to her like: \u201cHi! Welcome!\u201d [Laughter] We\u2019re all feeling this <em>need<\/em> to be hospitable.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>We are! Morgan, welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Well, thank you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>We are glad to have you here. Have you felt comfortable\/at home? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>So comfortable! I really am.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>What is she going to say? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Morgan has written a book called <em>Your Hospitality Personality<\/em>. Does everybody have a hospitality personality? I mean, are there some people, \u201cMy hospitality personality is the Grinch personality\u201d?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I think we all need to take a test and find out.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes, you can take the test. I would say everyone has a hospitality personality. They may want to pretend otherwise, but you do. I think we all have a personality that shows up when we\u2019re hospitable.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It\u2019s like the Enneagrams\/the StrengthsFinders.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Exactly.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>There\u2019s really a hospitality personality. I can\u2019t wait to find out what Bob\u2019s is.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Mine is: \u201cYou\u2019re welcome at my place as long as I get the recliner and the remote, and I\u2019m happy to have you there.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>[Ann making a buzzer sound] [Laughter] That\u2019s a fail!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>All I know is, in all the years we\u2019ve known Bob Lepine, have we ever been to his house? Okay, that\u2019s enough!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Everyone: <\/strong>Ooh!! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Man! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I would never have said that, Bob, because I\u2019m hospitable.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Okay, so here\u2019s what I\u2019m going to say about that; alright?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>We actually picked you up once in your driveway.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Here\u2019s what I\u2019m going to say about that. [Laughter] As I was looking at your book\u2014and by the way, the reason we\u2019re talking about this is because we are all called to hospitality\u2014being hospitable is a biblical injunction for us, so this is not something that is really optional. We are called to be hospitable.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I will tell you that, early on, my default in the area of hospitality would have been, spontaneously, say, \u201cWell, why don\u2019t you come over?\u201d\u2014to which my wife would say\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>\u201cWhat?!\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>You know what he\u2019s doing right now?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014throwing <em>her<\/em> under the bus.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>\u2014blaming Mary Ann! [Laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, here\u2019s what she taught me about this. I\u2019d sit down and say, \u201cDo you want to have So-and-so over?\u201d She would say, \u201cYou have no concept of what\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cthat entails.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cgoes into that. You just think we invite; they come, and it magically happens.\u201d She was absolutely right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>This has been a fight in our house, too.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I\u2019m not looking over at my wife right now [Laughter], because she has said the <em>exact<\/em> same thing.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Is this common in marriage?\u2014that one spouse is like, \u201cOh, let\u2019s have them over\u201d; and the other one\u2019s like, \u201cYou don\u2019t know what you\u2019re talking about!\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Absolutely; yes, I feel like I\u2019m watching my husband and me having the same conversation\u2014because he\u2019s an Entertainer: so outgoing, a little more spontaneous, \u201cThe more the merrier,\u201d\u2014and I\u2019m like, \u201cWait a minute; who\u2019s coming over?\u201d It does\/it takes planning to have people over, and to open up your home, and have people in. I think, sometimes, that can be a bit of a tension between couples.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You referred to him as an Entertainer. That\u2019s one of the four\u2014you identify four different personalities in your book\u2014right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Correct; yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>What are those?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>There\u2019s the Leader, also known as the Director, sort of that take-charge personality. Then the Entertainer is your life of the party, the person who\u2019s maybe the natural storyteller. The Includer is the really warm, sort of\u2014you might think of the natural host\u2014the person that just is always looking for who needs to be noticed; they\u2019re very welcoming. The fourth is the Organizer\u2014that\u2019s your real detailed person\u2014the person that\u2019s like, \u201cI\u2019m going to get all my ducks in a row if I\u2019m going to host.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Are you one <em>or<\/em> the other, or is there a mix?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Good question. I think most people will have a primary that will resonate with them, and you definitely will have a secondary. I\u2019m an Organizer primarily\u2014that\u2019s my first thought\/is like: \u201cWhat do I need to do to make something happen?\u201d\u2014but I have a soft side to me: I\u2019m easygoing, too, which as an Includer, is my secondary.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It sounds like, you know, a good marriage\u2014you get the perfect marriage\u2014you get the Entertainer\/[your husband] Dave\u2019s the Entertainer; you\u2019re the Organizer.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Exactly; exactly.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Does it work that way?\u2014is it like, \u201cYes, it sort of blends,\u201d\u2014or is there still conflict between the two of you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>It really works. I think that is really nice when you do have different styles; because you can help each other with your strengths, and vice versa. We still have to communicate and work through things, because he might want to host more than I want to because of his energy level when he\u2019s around people. I\u2019m more introverted. I think you have to keep communicating. You can really take your strengths, and play together, and really host more effectively; and hopefully, more enjoyably.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Morgan, take us back; because this must be a passion for you if you wrote this book. Tell us how this kind of came to be.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes, so to be really open, I mean, hospitality is something I have been <em>very<\/em> blessed by. I have had people pour into me, and minister to me, and open up their homes; but then I\u2019ve also had my share of stresses. I feel like hospitality doesn\u2019t always come as naturally to each personality. Then I also really am fascinated by personality types. I do professional organizing for people. It\u2019s just so interesting to really discover how people are hardwired: what makes them sort of respond naturally, and what their heartbeat is. I took the two things and thought, \u201cHow do I become a better host? How do I equip other people to host more naturally with their God-given strengths?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Is that something\u2014as Bob said\u2014this is a biblical concept.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Talk about that a little bit: \u201cWhat does that look like? What does that mean? Should we <em>all<\/em> start doing this, and feeling like, \u2018Oh, this is important\u2019?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Definitely; I mean, I think that hospitality can tend to have a micro view\u2014that it\u2019s having someone over to your house for dinner, which is very much a piece of hospitality\u2014but I really touch in the book about <em>all<\/em> the different ways we can be hospitable. I think that that\u2019s looking to the strangers in our lives, the acquaintances in our lives, and then our closest people, too: \u201cAre we being hospitable to our own family members?\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGod calls us to love and to extend that love. I think that hospitality is really being <em>present<\/em> with people and noticing people. We all want to be known and loved, and the best way to show God\u2019s love is to extend love. I really hope that people gain more permission and more grace with how they can extend hospitality.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Are you a <em>natural<\/em> hospitable person? I mean, when you and your husband got married, were you the person, who said, \u201cWe should start having people over\u201d?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>I was raised in a hospitable home, which I think is very interesting, to look back at your foundation. What you experienced, growing up, can really help you identify what comes more naturally to you or what you\u2019re accustomed to. I would say we both wanted to have a hospitable home or more of an open home; we both really enjoy community, and it was modeled for me very well. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe pieces that are more challenging for me are the cooking and some of the presentation\u2014maybe I put the expectation on myself\u2014those parts would be some of the stressors. I\u2019m not\u2014I can cook a casserole, don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014but you know, sometimes with hosting, you can feel this overwhelm of: \u201cHow do I do it well?\u201d \u201cHow do I enjoy it?\u201d \u201cHow do I not let this be a bigger stress than it needs to be?\u201d I\u2019ve had to work through some of those challenges.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>I think, when we got married, I was never all that concerned\u2014after we\u2019d had somebody over, I was not going: \u201cI wonder what they thought about the meal?\u201d or \u201cI wonder what they thought about our house?\u201d or \u201cI wonder what they thought about\u2026\u201d any of that\u2014it was kind of like, \u201cWe had a fun night; it was good.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut Mary Ann had to open my eyes to: \u201cI\u2019m still thinking about, \u2018Did I do well?\u2019 This is me putting myself out there, and I\u2019m feeling evaluated, whether I really am or not.\u201d You felt some of that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes, I think the word that I resonated with was the vulnerability. I think it can be having someone in, and preparing food for them\u2014even just having them in your home\u2014there\u2019s a vulnerability; but there\u2019s also a vulnerability in extending an invite to somebody. There\u2019s always that: \u201cAm I pushing too much? Does this person want to hang out with me?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think that recognizing that there\u2019s a vulnerability around hospitality is important; but I think we want to press into that vulnerability, because people <em>need<\/em> to be included and invited.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>When you go home, and you\u2019ve had a relational evening, the food is inconsequential; how messy the house was is inconsequential. But you go to a lovely home and have a great meal\u2014and it\u2019s a chilly atmosphere\u2014you go home and go, \u201cI don\u2019t want to go back there\u201d; right? That\u2019s what we have to keep in mind as we are being hospitable. What matters is more about the relationship than about Martha Stewart; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes, right; and I know with Ann\u2014she is the queen of hospitality in terms of\/this happens <em>many<\/em> times\u2014when people get to the front door to leave, the couple will often say, \u201cWe had the <em>greatest<\/em> time,\u201d\u2014and they\u2019re not just being nice. And I know why\u2014because the whole night, <em>she<\/em> asked them questions about their life; we didn\u2019t talk about us\u2014she\u2019s a great question-asker, so they talked about... \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to go, \u201cI know why you had a great time! You talked about yourself all night!\u201d; you know? [Laughter] But people want to share their stories, so that is a big part of being hospitable; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Take the spotlight off yourself\u2014don\u2019t put it on even your house, although that is\/you know, I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s not important\u2014but put it on them, and let the night be about them. Is that true?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Definitely. I think there\u2019s knowing yourself\u2014so you sort of set yourself up so you can be really available and be really present\u2014and then seeking to know others, I think, is the most hospitable thing we can do; because it shows interest.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI share a quote in the book that says, \u201cIt\u2019s better to be interested than interesting.\u201d There\u2019s something about\u2014when someone looks you in the eyes, and is asking you a question, and really wants to know the answer\u2014there\u2019s something that resonates with you. I think that\u2019s how we build community, and that\u2019s how we enter into people\u2019s lives: is by saying, \u201cI want to share your life with you. I want to <em>know<\/em> you.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI was going to also mention\u2014we were talking about having your home be comfortable\u2014when you make your home hospitable and comfortable for somebody, I think it\u2019s going to make it easier for that person to extend an invite back. If someone comes into your home\u2014and they see it too polished, or too perfect, or they feel pressure\u2014that might almost be intimidating. It\u2019s important to find that sweet spot for yourself, where you can be comfortable and create that coziness for guests.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I mean, if you have somebody over to your house\u2014here\u2019s the question that I would wonder\u2014\u201cHow would you define success? What should our goal be?\u201d I wonder if my goal is the wrong goal. [Laughter] You know, because I often\u2014like Bob\u2014think about the early years. I mean, we\u2019ve been married 40 years; but I would think, \u201c<em>I<\/em> had a good time, so the night was great.\u201d I wasn\u2019t often thinking, \u201cDid they have\u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember one time, somebody playing golf with me, once said, \u201cYou know what the goal should be whenever you play golf?\u201d I\u2019m like, \u201cShoot par?\u201d [Laughter] He goes, \u201cNo! The goal should be that the people you play with enjoy it.\u201d I\u2019m like, \u201cOh, so you\u2019re telling me I\u2019m being too competitive?\u201d\u2014you know, whatever\u2014\u201cbecause, when you play a bad round, you\u2019re not fun to be around\u201d; right? He\u2019s like, \u201cThat should never be the goal. It should be\u2026\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m thinking you might say something like that; right? If somebody\u2019s in your house, and you\u2019re being hospitable, hopefully, the goal is: \u201cWhen they leave, they go, \u2018I <em>love<\/em> being there! I want to back to the Wilsons\u2019\u201d; is that the goal?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes; because I think, if you\u2019re comfortable as a host, that will make your guests feel more comfortable. When you\u2019re more comfortable, I think you\u2019re able to connect more easily. You know, I\u2019ve been to someone\u2019s home\u2014and maybe they\u2019re uptight or things are going awry\u2014and there\u2019s this stress. That can be harder to settle in and to connect.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe important piece is to remember that the goal is community and connection, not necessarily the presentation or just how things look. I would definitely\u2014I like that story; that\u2019s perfect\u2014it\u2019s being others-centered: \u201cHow am I making people feel in my presence?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Okay, I\u2019m just going to say that this has created a lot of fights in our house. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes, I was just going to say it reminds me of a song.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Oh!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes, I just thought of a song.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014a song?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes; what\u2019s interesting is, when I was reading your book, Morgan, I thought, \u201cOh, that\u2019s in the song<em>, Give a Little Bit<\/em>, which is this fun song; but it\u2019s about hospitality.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I\u2019ll read you the second verse; it says: \u201cI\u2019ll give a little bit; I\u2019ll give a little bit of my life for you.\u201d Third verse: \u201cSo give a little bit; give a little bit of your time to me.\u201d I mean, think about it: yes, it isn\u2019t recorded as a Christian song, but the <em>message<\/em> is a Christian hospitable message. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI just thought it was interesting\u2014again, I\u2019m not saying that\u2019s a phenomenal song\u2014but when he says, \u201cGive your love to me; give your life to me; give your time to me,\u201d I thought that really is, not only what our neighbors and strangers are longing for\u2014and we are, too\u2014but if we did that, I mean, I\u2019m preaching your book: \u201cIf we were hospitable, and we lived out the biblical command to be hospitable, even to strangers, we would give love, time, and life; and it would actually bring a <em>smile<\/em> to somebody\u2019s life.\u201d That\u2019s the goal.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou say, so often, in the book it isn\u2019t about the house has to be perfect; it\u2019s about people and relationships.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>That\u2019s what the song\u2019s sort of getting at. Talk about that; because that\u2019s sort of the <em>mission<\/em> behind the word, \u201chospitality.\u201d How would you respond to that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Well, can I read the definition of hospitality? I think this is really helpful. It says: \u201cHospitality is the friendly reception and treatment of guests or strangers; a quality or disposition of receiving guests and strangers in a warm, friendly, generous way.\u201d To me, that speaks to the heartbeat behind it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere\u2019s the verse, 1 Peter 4:9, talks about to \u201coffer hospitality without grumbling.\u201d I think it\u2019s important, too\u2014when we know ourselves, and we fill our cup up; so we can go bless others\u2014is the goal, so we can be hospitable with the best parts of ourselves. I just love that it talks about being warm and friendly. I think, as Christians, that should be our goal. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI talk in the book: what if we were that type of hospitable experience on the freeways, or to anyone in line behind us\u2014that we\u2019re looking around in all of our circles\u2014and thinking, \u201cHow do I bless others in my everyday life?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Another thing you talk about is extending hospitality, and it can look different to different people. You give some examples of what that could be. One of the examples was a new neighbor comes, and you welcome them with a basket. You\u2019re not just necessarily saying you have to have dinner for someone; talk about some other ideas.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes; I shared that story because it was very clear to me when I moved into my new home. This neighbor just dropped it off; I never even got to see her, but it just felt so welcoming. I think that we can put hospitality into this box of, again: \u201cIt has to look like having people in your home.\u201d I do think that\u2019s a very big part of hospitality, but it can be so many small things.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>What did your neighbor do? Talk about that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Oh, sorry; yes. She brought a basket over; and it had a plant in it, and a card, and she introduced her three kids, and \u201cCan\u2019t wait to get to know you.\u201d It just felt so welcoming. Again, I was noticed; I was known. I think it can be easy in neighborhoods to sort of move in, and you get into your garage, shut the door, and you may not be meeting people.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI had another neighbor in that same neighborhood, who I didn\u2019t really know well. I can\u2019t even remember her name; but she would drive by, and she would give the <em>best<\/em> wave and smile. I mean, I thought I was in a parade; I\u2019m just trying to corral a toddler. She just had that warmth; and it gave me the feeling that, if I really needed something from her, I could go over to her.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>All she did was wave and smile!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Right! So I don\u2019t think hospitality has to be complicated; it doesn\u2019t have to take a lot of time, but it\u2019s just showing up.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It\u2019s interesting\u2014we have a guy in our neighborhood: older man; I\u2019m guessing he\u2019s empty nest, probably retired, walks his dog almost every day\u2014and he is the nicest, warmest guy <em>ever<\/em>. He\u2019s just like that; you drive by, he waves. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI noticed the other day\u2014we\u2019re in a cul-de-sac\u2014and he was out in the street, and I noticed him walking slow. This is during COVID, so it\u2019s a whole\u2014and I want to ask you about that, because it\u2019s a different world to be hospitable in\u2014but I\u2019m watching\/his name\u2019s Frank\u2014I watched him look toward our cul-de-sac to see if anybody was out. Our neighbors, Nick and Pam were out; and he comes right in. There they are, standing in front, talking\/having a conversation, six feet apart or more. I thought, \u201cWow, this dude is intentional! He\u2019s taking a walk\u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>He keeps little bones in his pockets for all the dogs that he meets along the way, which is super sweet.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I just thought, \u201cI want to be like Frank! Why am I not more caring? I\u2019m the pastor of the neighborhood; I\u2019m the representative of Christ; I should be out there walking around, doing what Frank does.\u201d Everybody loves Frank; he just walks up and five-minute conversation. I saw him being intentional. I just thought he\u2019s taking a walk; but no, he\u2019s actually <em>looking<\/em>. He wasn\u2019t going to come in our cul-de-sac unless somebody was out, and there they were.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tTalk about that. Obviously, Frank has what you\u2019re talking about, a perspective that people matter; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes, he\u2019s showing up and loving people. I love that. The word that really stuck with me there was \u201cintentionality.\u201d I think that that\u2019s\u2014once you know sort of your hospitality personality\u2014how you\u2019re hardwired\/what your strengths are\u2014I think the more you play to your strengths and the more intentional you are, the more of an impact you can have to love God and to love people through that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI talk in the book about spontaneous hospitality, which doesn\u2019t take much planning, but there\u2019s secret hospitality, too. Frank could be doing things that you don\u2019t even know that he\u2019s doing. But I love that he\u2019s being so thoughtful and bringing the dog bones. That\u2019s such a small act, but what a gift.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I love\/you say in your book, at some point toward the end, that hospitality is The Golden Rule in action. \u201cLove God; love others\u201d is what Jesus said are the top two priorities of life. You\u2019re saying, \u201cThat\u2019s how you do it!\u201d It\u2019s a great way to think, \u201cThat\u2019s how I can live out my faith.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Okay, but let me ask all of you\u2014I\u2019m thinking of the person, who\u2019s listening right now, and going: \u201cOn my priority list of things to do today in my life, hospitality is\u2014I mean, I know it\u2019s important\u2014but I have laundry, which seems more important than hospitality at the moment,\u201d \u201cI have soccer practice,\u201d and \u201cI have this,\u201d and \u201cI have\u2026\u201d I mean, the margin for hospitality\u2014what do you do with that?\u2014because I think everybody feels like, \u201cI know I should be doing something here, but I\u2019m just covered up.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>There are different types of hospitality that I identify: \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere\u2019s <em>inward hospitality<\/em>, where maybe you\u2019re in a season\u2014where you\u2019re needing to <em>receive<\/em> more hospitality\u2014whether you\u2019re just going through something more difficult\/your time is super stretched. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere\u2019s <em>mutual hospitality<\/em>. I share in the book, where we did a Thanksgiving or friends-giving; and we show up, and we all just pitch in.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThen there\u2019s <em>outward hospitality<\/em>, where you are giving more.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think it\u2019s important\/I\u2019m a big proponent of really looking at your life season and looking at what you have available. I heard the word, \u201cmargin,\u201d there: \u201cWhat is my margin for hospitality?\u201d I think, as we just mentioned earlier, the neighbor driving by and waving, that didn\u2019t\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> \u2014cut any margin.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>\u2014cost any\u2014yes, no time or energy, really, there. I think I would encourage people to really look at their life season and really notice what they can give in this season.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>If somebody says to you, \u201cYou know, we\u2019re going to be hospitable. At least, twice a year, we\u2019re going to do something intentional that\u2019s hospitality,\u201d would you say, \u201cTwice a year? That\u2019s the best you can do?\u201d or would you say, \u201cOkay, if that\u2019s what you can do, that\u2019s what you can do\u201d?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes; I think, depending on your situation. It would all depend on what they\u2019re walking through\/what they\u2019re living through. I think, too, if that\u2019s defining hospitality of having people in your home, maybe that\u2019s what you\u2019re able to do. But again, you could be hospitable when you go to work or by remembering to text somebody on an important occasion. Hospitality is also just reaching out and loving people.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I would say, too, hospitality is <em>loving<\/em> people.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>That\u2019s part of our overflow of who we are as believers and walking with God.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob, I get that. We\u2019ve all had those seasons with our kids, where we\u2019re swamped; but there\u2019s also that idea that we\u2019re always demonstrating and showing our kids what it looks like to love others.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes; I would say, from reading your book\u2014tell me, I\u2019m not going to put words in your mouth\u2014but one of the things I learned was being hospitable is being <em>present<\/em>. Like what Bob is saying\u2014it may\/I don\u2019t have time to have somebody over; but if I\u2019m with my kids today\/if I\u2019m standing in line to pick up my kids, wherever I am\u2014\u201cAm I really present there and fully there?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>\u201cWell, I\u2019m going to love and encourage someone.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Maybe the point is: \u201cLean into this.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Morgan: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Just figure out: \u201cOkay, can we do a <em>little<\/em> more in this area? What\u2019s an intentional step we could take?\u201d and take that step. It doesn\u2019t have to be: \u201cI\u2019m now committing to a weekly dinner for eight,\u201d\u2014right?\u2014but lean in; take that next step. In fact, it would help for you to get a copy of Morgan\u2019s book, <em>Your Hospitality Personality: How You Can Confidently Create Connection and Community<\/em>. You can entertain with joy and confidence; yes, even you. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re making that available today to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> listeners, who can support the ongoing work of this ministry with a donation\u2014those of you who agree with what we are all about, here, at FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>\u2014to effectively develop godly marriages and families who change the world one home at a time. If you resonate with that objective, and want to support the ongoing work of this ministry, when you make your donation, we\u2019ll send you Morgan\u2019s book, <em>Your Hospitality Personality<\/em>, as our thank-you gift for your support.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou can donate, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or call 1-800-FL-TODAY. 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