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There\u2019s spiritual warfare going on, all around us, all the time. Dave Harvey says that\u2019s one reason why marriage can be so difficult.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>We struggle, not against flesh and blood; the devil is a roaring lion, seeking whom he will devour. There are these things in Scripture, where Scripture is clear that these issues are influences. We don\u2019t necessarily understand <em>all<\/em> the ways that they influence or <em>where<\/em> they influence; and it\u2019s not like we study Scripture and come away with: \u201cOne, two, three, this is the pathway that Satan attacks us.\u201d Nevertheless, we cannot understand personhood, from a biblical perspective, unless we include these influences as well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Monday, April 20<sup>th<\/sup>. Our hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson; I'm Bob Lepine. You\u2019ll find us online at FamilyLifeToday.com. When we begin to understand that there is an enemy, who wants to destroy our marriage and who his actively working toward that end, that can change our perspective on conflict in marriage. We\u2019ll talk more about that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us. You know, this was more than a decade ago that I got a book sent to me that had an interesting title. I mean, if you think you want a book to be something that people would go, \u201cOh, yes, I want to read this!\u201d\u2014a book called <em>When Sinners Say \u201cI Do,\u201d<\/em> you look at it and go, \u201cI don\u2019t know if I want to identify there,\u201d\u2014right? [Laughter]\u2014at least, not at the start.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I picked it up; it\u2019s a <em>great<\/em> book on marriage. We called the author, Dave Harvey; we said, \u201cCome in and do some interviews.\u201d They were <em>great<\/em> interviews, because the book was great.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>That was a <em>long<\/em> time ago, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>It was a long time ago.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Ten years?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This was more than ten years ago; because we started, a few years later, putting <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em> video series together. I said, \u201cWe need to do an interview with Dave Harvey for <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em>.\u201d I went to Philadelphia, where he was, sat down with him, videotaped an interview that wound up in <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>And it was really good, too; what Dave said was <em>great<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>It was great content that was a part of that. So Dave\u2019s been back here a few times since then to talk about other books he\u2019s written.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>This is the Dave Harvey that threw a pitch that Dan Marino hit like a thousand feet? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know the story!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes, I heard about this! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Dan Marino still talks about that, I\u2019m sure. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Dave is joining us again on <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>; welcome back! So good to have you here.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>It\u2019s great to be back, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Dave is, not only an author, but he has been a pastor for more than three decades. He and his wife Kim live in south Florida. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, more than a decade later, he is revisiting the subject of marriage with a new book called <em>I Still Do<\/em>. I thought it was interesting\u2014because the book\u2019s broken up into three sections; there\u2019s the \u201cStarting Together,\u201d then the \u201cSticking Together,\u201d and the \u201cEnding Together\u201d\u2014so you\u2019re really following the trajectory of a marriage. The guy, who wrote a book about the impact of sin on a marriage, starts off this new book by talking about, \u201cIt\u2019s not all sin that\u2019s the issue; there\u2019s a bigger picture than\u2026\u201d I found this really fascinating and helpful as I read this beginning part of your book.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>The older we got, the more we came to appreciate the other categories that Scripture talks about that are so significant in marriage but don\u2019t often get discussed: things like weakness, suffering. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn the book, I tell a story about being in a room with the late Dave Powlison\u2014Dave Powlison was the president of CCEF)\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and that\u2019s the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>\u2014Christian Counseling and Education Foundation; right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014a brilliant Bible teacher and counselor; somebody who really understands the human condition in a profound way.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, brought great thought leadership to the biblical counseling movement. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSomebody posed the question to him\u2014just said: \u201cSo, how should we understand personhood? Can you basically map out for us how <em>you<\/em> understand and articulate the nature of change?\u201d He stood up and went up to a whiteboard, with a marker, and drew a circle; and wrote in the circle: \u201cThe human heart.\u201d He began describing how Scripture talks about the human heart: that the human heart is the source of motivations; that we\u2019re born worshippers; we have longings and desires; and that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks, Jesus said. \u201cGuard your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe just said, \u201cWe know that the heart is really where one starts when you want to think about how Scripture describes who we are and why we are what we are; but it doesn\u2019t end there.\u201d He drew another circle around that; and he wrote in that other circle: \u201cThe embodied soul.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe said: \u201cBut the heart doesn\u2019t stand apart. The heart is embodied; you can\u2019t separate the two as if there isn\u2019t a direct relationship.\u201d We\u2019re in a frame that is decaying; we\u2019re aging: there is depression; there is menopause; there are all these physical things that are happening that are a vital part of bringing understanding to if you\u2019re going to have a marriage that is really unified. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe can\u2019t just reduce life down to heart; we can\u2019t reduce it down to motivations, because oftentimes, that reduces it down to sin.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You\u2019re saying our physical frame affects who we are and how we relate to one another, not <em>just<\/em> the motivations of the heart; but our bodies are a part of this whole equation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.:<\/strong> Yes; I mean, you take the average parent\u2014and you remove two days of sleep from them\/three days of sleep from them\u2014[Laughter]\u2014and then you ask them to do bills or to watch four children; and there are all kinds of fireworks that are coming out!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>But the rational person does not think, \u201cOh, we need to correct them; there are issues of sin emerging now.\u201d The rational person <em>knows<\/em> that that person needs sleep. The <em>physical<\/em> part has a direct effect upon the soul\/has a direct effect upon what\u2019s happening in the heart.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt all just comes back around to this idea that there is\u2014in this world\/in the fallen world\u2014there is an inseparable bond between the body and the soul; and that if we\u2019re going to live with each other in a really understanding way, we have to understand, not only the heart, but that the heart is physically embodied.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m in a room and David Powlison is drawing a circle, and then he draws <em>another<\/em> circle; and he says, \u201c<em>But<\/em> that heart and that body are socially embedded.\u201d Then he begins to describe how we all have social systems: we have families or we don\u2019t have families; there is something that has affected us and influenced us in our upbringing\/in our past, and that can have a profound and shaping effect on us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt doesn\u2019t necessarily determine who we are, but it has a profound effect. You\u2019ve had an\u00a0 abusive father or you were raised in poverty\u2014or on the other side\u2014you were raised in a loving, two-parent family, where you were affirmed in all kinds of different ways. Those kinds of things have a <em>profound<\/em> effect on who we end up becoming. If we\u2019re going to live with our spouse\u2014again, in a way that\u2019s united, in a way that\u2019s really able to help, in a way that knows them\u2014these are the kinds of things that we wade into\u2014that we surface\/that we talk about\u2014in the process of getting to know one another.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou take a wife, for instance, who has a history of being sexually abused. Perhaps, for her, it\u2019s really difficult to negotiate their sexual lives. A husband\u2019s not going to just sit across from her, flip open to 1 Corinthians 7, and say, \u201cHey, give your spouse their conjugal rights\u201d; there\u2019s nothing about that that makes sense; there\u2019s no love in that. Obviously, there is a way of understanding her experience\/an importance in understanding her experience, that becomes an important part of loving her, and caring for her, and bringing the relationship to a place where enjoyable sexuality can be a part of their relationship.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yet, most people don\u2019t think about any of these things before they get married. I know I didn\u2019t!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>I didn\u2019t either.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>We didn\u2019t.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I mean, I was just like, \u201cI like her; she loves me; we love Jesus.\u201d I mean, we literally walked down the aisle, with no idea of these three circles <em>times two<\/em>\u2014you have complexity going on. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou just described my wife; she\u2019s been sexually abused. I was the na\u00efve honeymooner, who said: \u201cOh, that was years ago. It\u2019s not going to affect us now.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>It\u2019s kind of like that attitude of: \u201cGet over it. That happened a long time ago. Why is it affecting you now?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>When I was younger, I think that was very much my approach and my attitude. I think it was as I got older, and connected with more people, and sat with more couples, and then just trying to evaluate yourself and your marriage in a healthy way, you begin to realize: \u201cWow! No, these things have influence.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGrace is potent enough to help us to move beyond them, but only the fool would act like they have no influence whatsoever. Part of living with each other, in a way that is building for the future\/is building for an endurable marriage, involves really being able to talk about those things, and more importantly, understand them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>For many years, I remember having conversations with Dennis Rainey, who was the host of this program. We would run into people, who would express what seemed like irrational fear, or rage, or anger at a level that was not commensurate with what they\u2019d been through\u2014something where emotions were just out of proportion to the facts. Dennis would often, in those situations\u2014I\u2019d be describing something or he\u2019d say something\u2014and he would often say, \u201cYou know, everybody has a context.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat phrase kind of became a mantra for us to recognize that a lot of the acting out that we do in marriage\u2014that we see other people do, that our spouse does, or people around us\u2014a lot of that is influenced by the context\u2014what you\u2019re talking about\u2014the social context that they grew up in, which doesn\u2019t excuse how they\u2019re responding\u2014their rage is still sinful rage\u2014but it does now give us a framework and an understanding of what\u2019s going on and allows us to bring grace to that situation in a different way than if they were just being purposefully sinful in that moment; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes; we\u2019re not trying to displace blame, or culpability, or go light on sin; we\u2019re just trying to acknowledge these influences that exert a powerful imprint on who we become. I think it makes grace more amazing, you know, when we understand it and don\u2019t ignore it; it makes the work of God and the power of the gospel all the more amazing in who we\u2019re becoming, and some of the things where He has transformed us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThose things don\u2019t determine who we are, but they can have an influence over who are.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Dave, how do you, then\u2014now, as you sit with couples, at this point in your life in your marriage\u2014how do you counsel them now in comparison to what you used to do?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>I think that\u2014as a pastor, and as a husband, and as a father\u2014I think that, for a long time, I felt like my task was to help another person uncover the sin that was in the human heart; and that by uncovering that sin, that was going to be the biggest help to them, so they could apply the gospel. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s not as if that is unimportant now; it\u2019s more the pathway that we take in order to get to the human heart. I was talking with a guy, not long ago, who was just acknowledging a history of fear, and has sat with different people and tried to get help, and has kind of locked on this idea that, because his father was abusive, that he has these fears.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI realized that that was a really deeply-entrenched idea that had kind of locked in through counseling, and that in order to love him and in order to serve him, I really had to park there and let that breathe a bit, and find space for him to be able to express that\u2014ask him a lot of questions. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe kind of parked at that socially-embedded phase and talked around his upbringing, talked around his father, talked around that influence and how those things affected him. As we continued there, he became open to beginning to think about, \u201cOkay, what else is going on?\u201d We talked a little bit about his physical: how\u2019s he doing?\u2014has he had a physical lately?\u2014is he on many medications?\u2014or anything I should know about?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThen we opened up the Word of God. We looked at John, Chapter 12, together, where there\u2019s this description of fear. Many of the authorities believed in Jesus; but for fear of the Pharisees, they didn\u2019t confess it, because they didn\u2019t want to be put out of the synagogue. We talked about how there\u2019s this legitimate fear that comes from the circumstances\/comes from the environment\u2014and it\u2019s an understandable fear\u2014because <em>their<\/em> reputation would be completely trashed if they identified with Jesus.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut the next verse kind of pops the hood and helps the reader see the engine that\u2019s driving the fear, where it says, \u201cFor they loved the glory that comes from man more than the glory that comes from God.\u201d Some translations say, \u201cThey loved the praise that comes from man\u2026\u201d So we began to look at the heart. We began to look at: \u201cWhat are the longings, and desires, and drawings of the heart that are in play here that are causing you to experience some of the fear? Let\u2019s not relate to fear as if it\u2019s bottoming things out. Let\u2019s see fear as maybe a want or a desire that\u2019s masquerading as a fear that we can get beneath.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You\u2019re saying that the pathway to the heart is important for us to be aware of and to acknowledge. When we want to address heart issues, rather than just diving straight to, \u201cWhat are the sin issues that may be present in your life?\u201d we may need to spend some time working our way through these circles, through the life circumstances, through the physical issues; and there are other\u2014we haven\u2019t covered the full circle yet; have we?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, what I\u2019m saying is that this helps define the <em>path<\/em> of care. This helps define the path for helping other people. In other words, they\u2019re not just like a heart on a stick, where we just approach them and all we see is their heart.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>We want to recognize them holistically; we want to identify their personhood, which was the exercise that Dave Powlison was getting at. He was saying: \u201cThis is what personhood looks like. It has all of these layers.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Each circle\/each layer affects another layer.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, absolutely.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>So you\u2019re looking at all of those layers.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>That\u2019s right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>You used the analogy early in your book\u2014and it\u2019s what your saying right now\u2014I love the picture of the luggage that we bring into marriage. I mean, Ann and I, when we do our marriage weekends, every once in a while, we\u2019ll have a couple stand up\u2014like on their wedding day\u2014and have bags beside them, and make a joke like\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014suitcases\/actual suitcases.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Yes, actually suitcases at the altar.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>\u2014literally, right there, like: \u201cThis is what you <em>don\u2019t<\/em> see, but <em>every<\/em> couple is bringing. When you get married, you were like, \u2018What is that?\u2019 and the husband\u2019s like, \u2018What do you mean, what\u2019s this? This has been part of my life my whole life.\u2019\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou\u2019re getting at <em>layers<\/em> of bags! There\u2019s not just <em>one<\/em> sin bag\u2014which a lot of us identify: \u201cYou\u2019re a sinner, and you have to deal with that sin,\u201d\u2014you\u2019re saying: \u201cThere\u2019s a carry-on; there\u2019s an 80-pound\u2026\u201d\u2014[Laughter]\u2014you know, there are multiple [bags], and every one of them matters.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>And what\u2019s in the bags has changed; it\u2019s broadened. That\u2019s what the title of the chapter is: \u201cBrokenness Is Broader than Sin\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>\u2014because our brokenness includes all these other categories.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>This is so good.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>In addition to our heart motivations, and to our physical bodies, and the social environment we\u2019re in, Powlison gave you two other layers to consider as a part of personhood; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>The next one was mind-boggling, because I just did not expect David Powlison of biblical counseling fame to go here. He drew the next circle and wrote down, \u201cSpiritually embattled,\u201d and began talking about how we struggle, not against flesh and blood; about how the devil is a roaring lion, seeking whom he will devour; and that there are these things in Scripture, where Scripture is clear that these issues are influences. We don\u2019t necessarily understand <em>all<\/em> the ways that they influence or <em>where<\/em> they influence; and it\u2019s not like we study Scripture, and we come away with: \u201cOne, two, three; this is the pathway that Satan attacks us.\u201d Nevertheless, we cannot understand personhood, from a biblical perspective, unless we include these influences as well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It\u2019s also easy to think, \u201cMy spouse is the devil.\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>\u2014or \u201c\u2026my enemy.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Right, there\u2019s that! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>And there\u2019s that; but honestly, couples do that; but yet, here is a real devil\u2014that\u2019s what you were saying\u2014and it\u2019s not your spouse. There\u2019s a third entity that we often don\u2019t even acknowledge, but it\u2019s real.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>What\u2019s the last circle that Powlison drew on the board?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Well, the last circle is, by far, the most glorious; and that is that he just wrote in the last circle, \u201cThe God of providence.\u201d He began to describe how a providential God is encircling all of these things with His good purposes, that He is the God who causes all things to work together for good.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tJoseph is this object of a totally dysfunctional family, with an enabling father and brothers that sold him into slavery. He lives in exile as a result of their decisions; he is unjustly incarcerated; he is oppressed; and yet, he comes out of the whole thing and he comes into a position of influence. Fast-forward to the end of his story; and it\u2019s, \u201cYou meant if for evil, but God meant it for good.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere is this sense, where there is a sovereign\u2014and not just sovereign\u2014but the providence of God\/the <em>goodness<\/em> of God in His sovereignty, encircles all these things and works <em>through<\/em> all these things so that His purposes are worked out for our good; and godliness is created, even through the worst circumstances.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>I have to tell you\u2014this chapter\u2014I mean, you\u2014the rest of the book is a bonus, and not an inconsequential bonus, as we\u2019ll hear as we continue our conversation\u2014but the book\u2019s worth just this chapter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember reading this the first time and thinking, \u201cHow helpful for a couple to be able to go: \u2018The conflict we\u2019re dealing with\/the lack of oneness in our marriage, there are other factors\u2014not just my sinful heart, which is real and at work here\u2014but my background is a part of this; the social construct I grew up in; my physical body: how much rest I got or whether I\u2019m cranky for some other reason; the spiritual warfare that\u2019s going on around me and in our marriage; and then, it may be that God, for providential purposes, is at work.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, all of a sudden, I go, \u201cThere\u2019s more at play here than just my wife said something cranky, and she needs to be confronted about that.\u201d That reshapes the way we think about how we interact with one another and about how we <em>serve<\/em> one another in marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I think that\u2019s really important, because it takes the blame off. So often, when Dave and I were struggling, and our kids were little and we\u2019re tired, I think what I would do is\u2014I would think, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong?\u201d and my finger would go directly to my husband.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It was never me; never. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I think it\u2019s good to have those things in mind: \u201cThere\u2019s much more going on than just him being at fault.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And to pray through those categories, and to think about those categories, and say, \u201cWhere do I need to pour grace on this?\u201d because there are places you may need to pour grace on a conflict. That doesn\u2019t mean you minimize or you dismiss what are sinful patterns or tendencies; but now, all of a sudden, you see them in a different context.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhen I picked up your book, Dave, <em>I Still Do<\/em>, and I read the first chapter, I thought to myself: \u201cThis is going to be a different marriage book than any marriage book I\u2019ve read in a long time. This is a paradigm-shift for a lot of couples,\u201d and a healthy paradigm-shift.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDave\u2019s book is called <em>I Still Do<\/em>, and we have copies of the book available in our <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> Resource Center. You can go online at FamilyLifeToday.com to get your copy, or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY. Again, Dave Harvey\u2019s book is called <em>I Still Do: Growing Closer and Stronger Through Life\u2019s Defining Moments<\/em>. Order the book from us, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or call 1-800-358-6329 to order\u2014that\u2019s 1-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think all of us are going to look back on the spring of 2020 as a defining moment for our marriages, for our families, for our nation. This is one of those seasons, where we\u2019re having to come back to what is most important. That\u2019s why we\u2019ve seen so many people coming back to family\/coming back to the home as the most important thing. I\u2019m guessing you have had more contact with extended family members\/adult children. You\u2019re talking more regularly with one another in your family than maybe you\u2019ve done in a long time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn that way, the pandemic we\u2019ve been living through has been a good thing for us. God has been at work, in the midst of this season; and we\u2019ve been at work here, too, at FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>. Our commitment in every season is to provide you with practical biblical help and hope for your marriage and your family. We want to see marriages and families thrive; and we want to make sure that marriages and families are ready for seasons like we\u2019re living through\/that we\u2019re building our homes stronger, in season and out of season.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe appreciate so much those of you who are able to stand with us and to support the ongoing work of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. During challenging times, all of us have had to re-examine priorities. We understand that; and we\u2019re doing that, here at FamilyLife, and making adjustments as a result of that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThose of you who are able to continue to support this ministry on an ongoing basis, just know that you are helping tens of thousands of marriages and families every time you make an investment in this ministry. We\u2019re grateful for the partnership we have with you. You can donate to support <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> by going online at FamilyLifeToday.com, or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY to donate. We are grateful for your prayers for us, and we\u2019re grateful for every donation that is made during this challenging season. Thank you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe hope you can be back with us again tomorrow. We\u2019re going to talk about seasons of suffering in a marriage and family and how God is at work in the midst of those seasons. Dave Harvey will be with us again. 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Harvey talks about the circles of influence that make up each one of us. Everyone has a context, and once a husband or wife understands what their spouse's context is, they'll love and understand each other better.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylife.com\/fl2020-04-20.pdf","transcript_content":"<strong>Bob: <\/strong>We often forget that we are living in the middle of a spiritual battlefield. There\u2019s spiritual warfare going on, all around us, all the time. Dave Harvey says that\u2019s one reason why marriage can be so difficult.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>We struggle, not against flesh and blood; the devil is a roaring lion, seeking whom he will devour. There are these things in Scripture, where Scripture is clear that these issues are influences. We don\u2019t necessarily understand <em>all<\/em> the ways that they influence or <em>where<\/em> they influence; and it\u2019s not like we study Scripture and come away with: \u201cOne, two, three, this is the pathway that Satan attacks us.\u201d Nevertheless, we cannot understand personhood, from a biblical perspective, unless we include these influences as well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Monday, April 20<sup>th<\/sup>. Our hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson; I'm Bob Lepine. You\u2019ll find us online at FamilyLifeToday.com. When we begin to understand that there is an enemy, who wants to destroy our marriage and who his actively working toward that end, that can change our perspective on conflict in marriage. We\u2019ll talk more about that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us. You know, this was more than a decade ago that I got a book sent to me that had an interesting title. I mean, if you think you want a book to be something that people would go, \u201cOh, yes, I want to read this!\u201d\u2014a book called <em>When Sinners Say \u201cI Do,\u201d<\/em> you look at it and go, \u201cI don\u2019t know if I want to identify there,\u201d\u2014right? [Laughter]\u2014at least, not at the start.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I picked it up; it\u2019s a <em>great<\/em> book on marriage. We called the author, Dave Harvey; we said, \u201cCome in and do some interviews.\u201d They were <em>great<\/em> interviews, because the book was great.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>That was a <em>long<\/em> time ago, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>It was a long time ago.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Ten years?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This was more than ten years ago; because we started, a few years later, putting <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em> video series together. I said, \u201cWe need to do an interview with Dave Harvey for <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em>.\u201d I went to Philadelphia, where he was, sat down with him, videotaped an interview that wound up in <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>And it was really good, too; what Dave said was <em>great<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>It was great content that was a part of that. So Dave\u2019s been back here a few times since then to talk about other books he\u2019s written.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>This is the Dave Harvey that threw a pitch that Dan Marino hit like a thousand feet? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know the story!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yes, I heard about this! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Dan Marino still talks about that, I\u2019m sure. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Dave is joining us again on <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>; welcome back! So good to have you here.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>It\u2019s great to be back, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Dave is, not only an author, but he has been a pastor for more than three decades. He and his wife Kim live in south Florida. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, more than a decade later, he is revisiting the subject of marriage with a new book called <em>I Still Do<\/em>. I thought it was interesting\u2014because the book\u2019s broken up into three sections; there\u2019s the \u201cStarting Together,\u201d then the \u201cSticking Together,\u201d and the \u201cEnding Together\u201d\u2014so you\u2019re really following the trajectory of a marriage. The guy, who wrote a book about the impact of sin on a marriage, starts off this new book by talking about, \u201cIt\u2019s not all sin that\u2019s the issue; there\u2019s a bigger picture than\u2026\u201d I found this really fascinating and helpful as I read this beginning part of your book.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>The older we got, the more we came to appreciate the other categories that Scripture talks about that are so significant in marriage but don\u2019t often get discussed: things like weakness, suffering. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn the book, I tell a story about being in a room with the late Dave Powlison\u2014Dave Powlison was the president of CCEF)\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and that\u2019s the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>\u2014Christian Counseling and Education Foundation; right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014a brilliant Bible teacher and counselor; somebody who really understands the human condition in a profound way.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, brought great thought leadership to the biblical counseling movement. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSomebody posed the question to him\u2014just said: \u201cSo, how should we understand personhood? Can you basically map out for us how <em>you<\/em> understand and articulate the nature of change?\u201d He stood up and went up to a whiteboard, with a marker, and drew a circle; and wrote in the circle: \u201cThe human heart.\u201d He began describing how Scripture talks about the human heart: that the human heart is the source of motivations; that we\u2019re born worshippers; we have longings and desires; and that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks, Jesus said. \u201cGuard your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe just said, \u201cWe know that the heart is really where one starts when you want to think about how Scripture describes who we are and why we are what we are; but it doesn\u2019t end there.\u201d He drew another circle around that; and he wrote in that other circle: \u201cThe embodied soul.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe said: \u201cBut the heart doesn\u2019t stand apart. The heart is embodied; you can\u2019t separate the two as if there isn\u2019t a direct relationship.\u201d We\u2019re in a frame that is decaying; we\u2019re aging: there is depression; there is menopause; there are all these physical things that are happening that are a vital part of bringing understanding to if you\u2019re going to have a marriage that is really unified. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe can\u2019t just reduce life down to heart; we can\u2019t reduce it down to motivations, because oftentimes, that reduces it down to sin.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You\u2019re saying our physical frame affects who we are and how we relate to one another, not <em>just<\/em> the motivations of the heart; but our bodies are a part of this whole equation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.:<\/strong> Yes; I mean, you take the average parent\u2014and you remove two days of sleep from them\/three days of sleep from them\u2014[Laughter]\u2014and then you ask them to do bills or to watch four children; and there are all kinds of fireworks that are coming out!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>But the rational person does not think, \u201cOh, we need to correct them; there are issues of sin emerging now.\u201d The rational person <em>knows<\/em> that that person needs sleep. The <em>physical<\/em> part has a direct effect upon the soul\/has a direct effect upon what\u2019s happening in the heart.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt all just comes back around to this idea that there is\u2014in this world\/in the fallen world\u2014there is an inseparable bond between the body and the soul; and that if we\u2019re going to live with each other in a really understanding way, we have to understand, not only the heart, but that the heart is physically embodied.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m in a room and David Powlison is drawing a circle, and then he draws <em>another<\/em> circle; and he says, \u201c<em>But<\/em> that heart and that body are socially embedded.\u201d Then he begins to describe how we all have social systems: we have families or we don\u2019t have families; there is something that has affected us and influenced us in our upbringing\/in our past, and that can have a profound and shaping effect on us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt doesn\u2019t necessarily determine who we are, but it has a profound effect. You\u2019ve had an\u00a0 abusive father or you were raised in poverty\u2014or on the other side\u2014you were raised in a loving, two-parent family, where you were affirmed in all kinds of different ways. Those kinds of things have a <em>profound<\/em> effect on who we end up becoming. If we\u2019re going to live with our spouse\u2014again, in a way that\u2019s united, in a way that\u2019s really able to help, in a way that knows them\u2014these are the kinds of things that we wade into\u2014that we surface\/that we talk about\u2014in the process of getting to know one another.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou take a wife, for instance, who has a history of being sexually abused. Perhaps, for her, it\u2019s really difficult to negotiate their sexual lives. A husband\u2019s not going to just sit across from her, flip open to 1 Corinthians 7, and say, \u201cHey, give your spouse their conjugal rights\u201d; there\u2019s nothing about that that makes sense; there\u2019s no love in that. Obviously, there is a way of understanding her experience\/an importance in understanding her experience, that becomes an important part of loving her, and caring for her, and bringing the relationship to a place where enjoyable sexuality can be a part of their relationship.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Yet, most people don\u2019t think about any of these things before they get married. 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We would run into people, who would express what seemed like irrational fear, or rage, or anger at a level that was not commensurate with what they\u2019d been through\u2014something where emotions were just out of proportion to the facts. Dennis would often, in those situations\u2014I\u2019d be describing something or he\u2019d say something\u2014and he would often say, \u201cYou know, everybody has a context.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat phrase kind of became a mantra for us to recognize that a lot of the acting out that we do in marriage\u2014that we see other people do, that our spouse does, or people around us\u2014a lot of that is influenced by the context\u2014what you\u2019re talking about\u2014the social context that they grew up in, which doesn\u2019t excuse how they\u2019re responding\u2014their rage is still sinful rage\u2014but it does now give us a framework and an understanding of what\u2019s going on and allows us to bring grace to that situation in a different way than if they were just being purposefully sinful in that moment; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes; we\u2019re not trying to displace blame, or culpability, or go light on sin; we\u2019re just trying to acknowledge these influences that exert a powerful imprint on who we become. I think it makes grace more amazing, you know, when we understand it and don\u2019t ignore it; it makes the work of God and the power of the gospel all the more amazing in who we\u2019re becoming, and some of the things where He has transformed us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThose things don\u2019t determine who we are, but they can have an influence over who are.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Dave, how do you, then\u2014now, as you sit with couples, at this point in your life in your marriage\u2014how do you counsel them now in comparison to what you used to do?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>I think that\u2014as a pastor, and as a husband, and as a father\u2014I think that, for a long time, I felt like my task was to help another person uncover the sin that was in the human heart; and that by uncovering that sin, that was going to be the biggest help to them, so they could apply the gospel. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s not as if that is unimportant now; it\u2019s more the pathway that we take in order to get to the human heart. I was talking with a guy, not long ago, who was just acknowledging a history of fear, and has sat with different people and tried to get help, and has kind of locked on this idea that, because his father was abusive, that he has these fears.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI realized that that was a really deeply-entrenched idea that had kind of locked in through counseling, and that in order to love him and in order to serve him, I really had to park there and let that breathe a bit, and find space for him to be able to express that\u2014ask him a lot of questions. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe kind of parked at that socially-embedded phase and talked around his upbringing, talked around his father, talked around that influence and how those things affected him. As we continued there, he became open to beginning to think about, \u201cOkay, what else is going on?\u201d We talked a little bit about his physical: how\u2019s he doing?\u2014has he had a physical lately?\u2014is he on many medications?\u2014or anything I should know about?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThen we opened up the Word of God. We looked at John, Chapter 12, together, where there\u2019s this description of fear. Many of the authorities believed in Jesus; but for fear of the Pharisees, they didn\u2019t confess it, because they didn\u2019t want to be put out of the synagogue. We talked about how there\u2019s this legitimate fear that comes from the circumstances\/comes from the environment\u2014and it\u2019s an understandable fear\u2014because <em>their<\/em> reputation would be completely trashed if they identified with Jesus.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut the next verse kind of pops the hood and helps the reader see the engine that\u2019s driving the fear, where it says, \u201cFor they loved the glory that comes from man more than the glory that comes from God.\u201d Some translations say, \u201cThey loved the praise that comes from man\u2026\u201d So we began to look at the heart. We began to look at: \u201cWhat are the longings, and desires, and drawings of the heart that are in play here that are causing you to experience some of the fear? Let\u2019s not relate to fear as if it\u2019s bottoming things out. Let\u2019s see fear as maybe a want or a desire that\u2019s masquerading as a fear that we can get beneath.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You\u2019re saying that the pathway to the heart is important for us to be aware of and to acknowledge. When we want to address heart issues, rather than just diving straight to, \u201cWhat are the sin issues that may be present in your life?\u201d we may need to spend some time working our way through these circles, through the life circumstances, through the physical issues; and there are other\u2014we haven\u2019t covered the full circle yet; have we?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, what I\u2019m saying is that this helps define the <em>path<\/em> of care. This helps define the path for helping other people. In other words, they\u2019re not just like a heart on a stick, where we just approach them and all we see is their heart.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>We want to recognize them holistically; we want to identify their personhood, which was the exercise that Dave Powlison was getting at. He was saying: \u201cThis is what personhood looks like. It has all of these layers.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Each circle\/each layer affects another layer.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes, absolutely.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>So you\u2019re looking at all of those layers.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>That\u2019s right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>You used the analogy early in your book\u2014and it\u2019s what your saying right now\u2014I love the picture of the luggage that we bring into marriage. I mean, Ann and I, when we do our marriage weekends, every once in a while, we\u2019ll have a couple stand up\u2014like on their wedding day\u2014and have bags beside them, and make a joke like\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014suitcases\/actual suitcases.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Yes, actually suitcases at the altar.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>\u2014literally, right there, like: \u201cThis is what you <em>don\u2019t<\/em> see, but <em>every<\/em> couple is bringing. When you get married, you were like, \u2018What is that?\u2019 and the husband\u2019s like, \u2018What do you mean, what\u2019s this? This has been part of my life my whole life.\u2019\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou\u2019re getting at <em>layers<\/em> of bags! There\u2019s not just <em>one<\/em> sin bag\u2014which a lot of us identify: \u201cYou\u2019re a sinner, and you have to deal with that sin,\u201d\u2014you\u2019re saying: \u201cThere\u2019s a carry-on; there\u2019s an 80-pound\u2026\u201d\u2014[Laughter]\u2014you know, there are multiple [bags], and every one of them matters.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>And what\u2019s in the bags has changed; it\u2019s broadened. That\u2019s what the title of the chapter is: \u201cBrokenness Is Broader than Sin\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>\u2014because our brokenness includes all these other categories.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>This is so good.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>In addition to our heart motivations, and to our physical bodies, and the social environment we\u2019re in, Powlison gave you two other layers to consider as a part of personhood; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>The next one was mind-boggling, because I just did not expect David Powlison of biblical counseling fame to go here. He drew the next circle and wrote down, \u201cSpiritually embattled,\u201d and began talking about how we struggle, not against flesh and blood; about how the devil is a roaring lion, seeking whom he will devour; and that there are these things in Scripture, where Scripture is clear that these issues are influences. We don\u2019t necessarily understand <em>all<\/em> the ways that they influence or <em>where<\/em> they influence; and it\u2019s not like we study Scripture, and we come away with: \u201cOne, two, three; this is the pathway that Satan attacks us.\u201d Nevertheless, we cannot understand personhood, from a biblical perspective, unless we include these influences as well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It\u2019s also easy to think, \u201cMy spouse is the devil.\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>\u2014or \u201c\u2026my enemy.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Right, there\u2019s that! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>And there\u2019s that; but honestly, couples do that; but yet, here is a real devil\u2014that\u2019s what you were saying\u2014and it\u2019s not your spouse. There\u2019s a third entity that we often don\u2019t even acknowledge, but it\u2019s real.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>What\u2019s the last circle that Powlison drew on the board?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave H.: <\/strong>Well, the last circle is, by far, the most glorious; and that is that he just wrote in the last circle, \u201cThe God of providence.\u201d He began to describe how a providential God is encircling all of these things with His good purposes, that He is the God who causes all things to work together for good.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tJoseph is this object of a totally dysfunctional family, with an enabling father and brothers that sold him into slavery. He lives in exile as a result of their decisions; he is unjustly incarcerated; he is oppressed; and yet, he comes out of the whole thing and he comes into a position of influence. Fast-forward to the end of his story; and it\u2019s, \u201cYou meant if for evil, but God meant it for good.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere is this sense, where there is a sovereign\u2014and not just sovereign\u2014but the providence of God\/the <em>goodness<\/em> of God in His sovereignty, encircles all these things and works <em>through<\/em> all these things so that His purposes are worked out for our good; and godliness is created, even through the worst circumstances.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>I have to tell you\u2014this chapter\u2014I mean, you\u2014the rest of the book is a bonus, and not an inconsequential bonus, as we\u2019ll hear as we continue our conversation\u2014but the book\u2019s worth just this chapter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember reading this the first time and thinking, \u201cHow helpful for a couple to be able to go: \u2018The conflict we\u2019re dealing with\/the lack of oneness in our marriage, there are other factors\u2014not just my sinful heart, which is real and at work here\u2014but my background is a part of this; the social construct I grew up in; my physical body: how much rest I got or whether I\u2019m cranky for some other reason; the spiritual warfare that\u2019s going on around me and in our marriage; and then, it may be that God, for providential purposes, is at work.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, all of a sudden, I go, \u201cThere\u2019s more at play here than just my wife said something cranky, and she needs to be confronted about that.\u201d That reshapes the way we think about how we interact with one another and about how we <em>serve<\/em> one another in marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I think that\u2019s really important, because it takes the blame off. So often, when Dave and I were struggling, and our kids were little and we\u2019re tired, I think what I would do is\u2014I would think, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong?\u201d and my finger would go directly to my husband.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>It was never me; never. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann: <\/strong>I think it\u2019s good to have those things in mind: \u201cThere\u2019s much more going on than just him being at fault.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And to pray through those categories, and to think about those categories, and say, \u201cWhere do I need to pour grace on this?\u201d because there are places you may need to pour grace on a conflict. That doesn\u2019t mean you minimize or you dismiss what are sinful patterns or tendencies; but now, all of a sudden, you see them in a different context.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhen I picked up your book, Dave, <em>I Still Do<\/em>, and I read the first chapter, I thought to myself: \u201cThis is going to be a different marriage book than any marriage book I\u2019ve read in a long time. This is a paradigm-shift for a lot of couples,\u201d and a healthy paradigm-shift.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDave\u2019s book is called <em>I Still Do<\/em>, and we have copies of the book available in our <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> Resource Center. You can go online at FamilyLifeToday.com to get your copy, or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY. Again, Dave Harvey\u2019s book is called <em>I Still Do: Growing Closer and Stronger Through Life\u2019s Defining Moments<\/em>. Order the book from us, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or call 1-800-358-6329 to order\u2014that\u2019s 1-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think all of us are going to look back on the spring of 2020 as a defining moment for our marriages, for our families, for our nation. This is one of those seasons, where we\u2019re having to come back to what is most important. That\u2019s why we\u2019ve seen so many people coming back to family\/coming back to the home as the most important thing. I\u2019m guessing you have had more contact with extended family members\/adult children. You\u2019re talking more regularly with one another in your family than maybe you\u2019ve done in a long time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn that way, the pandemic we\u2019ve been living through has been a good thing for us. God has been at work, in the midst of this season; and we\u2019ve been at work here, too, at FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>. Our commitment in every season is to provide you with practical biblical help and hope for your marriage and your family. We want to see marriages and families thrive; and we want to make sure that marriages and families are ready for seasons like we\u2019re living through\/that we\u2019re building our homes stronger, in season and out of season.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe appreciate so much those of you who are able to stand with us and to support the ongoing work of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. During challenging times, all of us have had to re-examine priorities. We understand that; and we\u2019re doing that, here at FamilyLife, and making adjustments as a result of that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThose of you who are able to continue to support this ministry on an ongoing basis, just know that you are helping tens of thousands of marriages and families every time you make an investment in this ministry. We\u2019re grateful for the partnership we have with you. You can donate to support <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> by going online at FamilyLifeToday.com, or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY to donate. We are grateful for your prayers for us, and we\u2019re grateful for every donation that is made during this challenging season. Thank you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe hope you can be back with us again tomorrow. We\u2019re going to talk about seasons of suffering in a marriage and family and how God is at work in the midst of those seasons. Dave Harvey will be with us again. 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