{"id":304404,"date":"2017-03-01T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-03-01T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/%series%\/relating-to-adult-singles\/"},"modified":"2017-03-01T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2017-03-01T17:00:00","slug":"relating-to-adult-singles","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/relating-to-adult-singles\/","title":{"rendered":"Relating to Adult Singles"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting young adults can be tricky. One day they&#8217;re pushing the limits trying desperately to be adults, and the next moment they&#8217;re acting like children. Dennis and Barbara Rainey, parents of six adult children, give sound advice for relating to your grown children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting young adults can be tricky. 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Do you help out? Dennis Rainey says, \u201cMaybe, but be careful.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>If you've got a child who has a pattern and a habit of irresponsible behavior, I think you dare not rescue them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You can't rush in and say, \"Oh, let me help!\" And some parents get their sense of importance and their own personal self-identity in terms of their relationship with their adult children. What they don't realize is they're raising children to become dependent upon them and not learn the lessons of life God has for them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is FamilyLife Today for Wednesday, March 1<sup>st<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine. As a parent, how can you tell when you ought to step in and help out and when you shouldn\u2019t? We\u2019ll talk about that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>1:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to FamilyLife Today. Thanks for joining us on the Wednesday edition. You hear \u2014it's almost become a clich\u00e9 \u2014 people will say, \"Kids grow up so fast.\" And they do grow up fast; but there are times, when you look at them, and you think they ought to be more grown up than they are, and they haven't. Part of our assignment, as parents, is to help finish that job \u2014to make sure we have pointed them to what adulthood is supposed to look like and gotten them ready for when full adulthood arrives. Then, when that happens, our relationship with them needs to transition away from what it's been to something different; doesn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>We have to move from being authoritative parents to affirming them, as adults, and then begin to relate to them, not as a parent in charge of them, but instead relate to them more as a peer, although we'll always be a parent with them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's right. You've been defining adulthood this week as \u2014what is it?\u2014independently dependent; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Independently dependent upon Jesus Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's where you want your children to be.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>That's right. We want our children to have a faith of their own and learn how to live life under God's authority. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBarbara \u2014who joins us again on <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> <em>\u2014<\/em>Barbara and I have \u2014well, it sounds easy in the studio; but it's been an interesting process of releasing six of our children now through this transition phase toward adulthood and watching, now, five out of six get married. Hello!\u00a0 It's an interesting process\u2014trust me!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Barbara, welcome back to the program. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Thanks.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>We\u2019ve talked about the transition that begins when the kids leave home for college, or for career, or maybe they\u2019re still home for awhile as they get established in a career \/ in a job. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019ve also said we\u2019re aiming for a day that is a full-release day \/ an emancipation day. Did you memorialize that \/ did you ceremonialize that? In other words, did you have a dinner or an event, where you said: \u201cCongratulations!\u2014here\u2019s the title deed to the car,\u201d or whatever you did to launch them into adulthood?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We did more of a ceremony upon graduation from high school, going into college and on their own, than we did going into adulthood. The real ceremony, when we officially said they were adults, was when they packed up the U-Haul<sup>\u00ae<\/sup> and pulled out of the driveway \u2014that was the real ceremony.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I think there are times when we, as parents, need to help our kids out \u2014getting started\u2014but we do need to be very careful that we\u2019re not using our position in life to just carve out a place for them where they don\u2019t have their own identity.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know, I think most of us are aware that when children get married, we're supposed to have a new relationship with them. But there is a phase between, I don't know, the end of college and the time that they get married \u2014that may be a couple of years \u2014and they are adults but not married. That's kind of an awkward phase for us, as parents, to know what our responsibility should be \u2014particularly, I think, for girls.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think it's a little bit different for girls. Two of our children moved into that phase, unmarried \u2014one was a son, and one was a daughter. It was different with our daughter than it was with our son. I felt a little bit more responsibility to help her with things. For instance, we went to visit her when she was still single and living in Atlanta. She picked us up from the airport, and we're driving down the freeway. Dennis said: \"Your car feels kind of funny. Have you had it checked lately?\" And she said, \"Oh, yes; I had the oil changed,\"\u2014whatever. Well, when we got where we were going, he got out and looked at it. Her wheels \u2014I mean, the tires on her car were nearly bare.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You could see the steel belts.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong>\u00a0Oh, really?\u2014yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And she just\u2014even though she did some minor car repair with her car when she was in college\u2014I mean, you know, we told her, \"Go get your oil changed,\" and all that kind of stuff\u2014she never really was responsible for it totally on her own. And now she was, and she just didn't\u2014she had no idea why her car was shaking. It didn't occur to her that there was anything wrong with it. She just thought it was the car, or the road, or whatever. We felt a little bit more a sense of responsibility to protect her and to help her take care of that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Now, did she need four tires?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Oh, yes! And the interesting thing was\u2014is that took just about every penny she had in savings; and yet, she got a chance to see God's providential care, because some of our closest friends in Atlanta\u2014well, we happened to be staying with them. They overheard the conversation\u2014told us where to take the car to get the tires put on\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014because they knew somebody locally who would give her a good deal and wouldn't overcharge her. That's a problem for these kids\u2014because they don't know, when they're in a new city, who to go to and they can be taken advantage of. We were concerned about that, as her parents.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; and it turned out to be more than tires. She needed brakes too. I mean, you know, it was\u2014I think it was $500 or $600. These are really good friends; because they said: \u201cYou know, we realize Rebecca is working with young people today and leading high school girls to Christ in Atlanta.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\"We would like to participate in her ministry by supplying the tires and the brake pads for her car.\" They took care of it, and so here she got a chance to see God provide for her in a very specific way. Now, God doesn't always do that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes; and that's what I was going to say. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>7:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tLet's say you didn't have friends who stepped in and did that. Your daughter calls and says: \"I just took the car to the shop. It's $600, because they say I need brakes in addition to tires. Mom\/Dad, I don't have $600. What do I do?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I'm not sure what we would have done if she had not had the money. She had been saving money. That's part of the reason why this was so traumatic for her; because when she realized what this was going to cost, it would have taken every penny that she had saved up until that point. She was just overwhelmed. But if our friends hadn't stepped in, we would not have stepped in and paid for her tires.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You wouldn't have bailed her out? You wouldn't have done it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don't think so\u2014would we have?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Well, you know, since it involved a single woman in a major city on the freeways, driving back and forth to work, I don't know. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>If she hadn't had the money, we might have helped her\u2014I don't know what we would have done\u2014but she had the money to cover it if they hadn't stepped in. So it was a good lesson, I know.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I'm glad I didn't have that choice, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is one of the big areas\u2014when we talk about your, now, adult children and that day of full emancipation\u2014the financial side of things is where it all gets sticky; isn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It really is.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And it gets really foggy, too, as to where we need to be careful we don't step in and rescue our children from irresponsibility. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Now, if you've got a child, who has a pattern and a habit of irresponsible behavior, I think you dare not rescue them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You can't rush in and say, \"Oh, let me help.\" Some parents get their sense of importance and their own personal self-identity in terms of their relationship with their adult children. What they don't realize is they're raising children to become dependent upon them and not learn the lessons of life God has for them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know, this issue of a child becoming financially independent is a challenge. There is another challenge, though, and that is how much freedom and independence should an adult child have in terms of relationships? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat about when an adult son\u2014a 25-\/26-year-old\u2014comes and says, \"I think I've met the one that is the one that I want to marry\u201d?\u2014does a parent say: \"Well, that sounds great. Send us an invitation to the wedding,\u201d or do you get more actively involved in the process than that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Bob, I think a lot of parents don't play all the cards they have in their hand when it comes to this decision. I think we, as parents, need to be involved in this aspect of their children's lives. The reason is\u2014this is a life-determinative decision. Who you marry really determines what\u2014not merely <em>how<\/em> you're going to live\u2014but the spiritual plane on which you live and where you are going to raise your children and under what values. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs parents, I think if there is a time to step into your children's lives\u2014and to disagree with them, or to throw your body in front of the train as they are running and rushing headlong into marriage\u2014it's right here. We've done this on two or three different occasions with our children. Bob, I'll tell you\u2014it's one of the riskiest things Barbara and I have ever done in our relationship with our children. Interestingly enough, it's not occurred around our sons\u2014it's been around our daughters, who I do think need a dad and a mom to help them navigate these waters.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I remember, with two of our girls, stepping in. I think what I want to say is\u2014there's a huge difference in letting your children fail, financially, as in bouncing checks or some of those kinds of things, and fail in the most important decision that they make.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWith our oldest daughter, she was dating a young man who, outwardly, had everything we were looking for. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd yet there was something inside of me and in Dennis, too\u2014I think, if I remember right\u2014we both felt this way.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; but you stronger than me.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes; but there was something that just wasn't right. I remember going for walks. When I'd go walking in the mornings, I\u2019d say: \"Lord, what is it that I don't feel good about? What is it that I don't like?\" I would mentally go through this checklist and go, \"Well, he's this, and he's this, and he's this,\" and all these things that we thought we wanted in a husband for our daughter; but there was something inside\u2014it was kind of an intuitive thing\u2014that didn't feel right. As we talked and prayed about it, that didn't change.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember driving to Memphis to meet Ashley for lunch one day. It's a two-hour drive for me, and it was a two-hour drive for her. She was a junior in college at the time. We met in Memphis for lunch. I went with the express purpose of talking her out of this relationship and convincing her that this was not the person that she needed to be marrying.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to say here, Bob\u2014that trip that she made came about after a lot of prayer\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>A lot.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014and a lot of discussion on our part. It also came after Barbara and I had counted the cost that this might cost us our relationship with our daughter\u2014she was that much \"head over heels\" with the young man. We also realized that we had to handle it appropriately; because if she decided to ignore our counsel, and then decided to share what we were saying with the young man, we would be dead on arrival at the wedding.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and for the rest of the marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Absolutely\u2014there would be no relationship \/ virtually, no chance of a relationship. It would be a remarkable man or woman who could look past that kind of\u2014well\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014concern.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; intrusion\u2014we inserted ourselves into that relationship. I remember another conversation that we had with Ashley on our way from Little Rock to another city, where we talked to her again. These were <em>hard<\/em> discussions with our firstborn daughter.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And I want to ask you about them, because you talk about throwing yourself in front of the train. Were you saying to her: \"Your dad and I could not support this. We couldn't come to a wedding.\" I mean, there are different levels, or were you just saying: \"Boy, we've got some real concerns; and we want you to think about this. It's going to be your decision, but \u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think what we were doing is\u2014I think we had had some of those smaller, more minor, so to speak, conversations along the way on the phone. But when I drove to Memphis, it was a lot more significant\u2014primarily because I was taking the time, and she was taking the time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt was not just a phone call; and I drove over there to say\u2014not just \"We have concerns,\" because that had already been expressed\u2014I drove over there to say: \"We really don't feel like this is God's will for you,\u201d and \u201cWe really are concerned and want to plead with you to reconsider.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don't remember what I said, honestly\u2014I don't remember what words I used\u2014but I remember that it was very difficult to do. I remember that she didn't respond. She said: \"I appreciate you taking the time to come over here. I've heard what you said, but I don't agree with you. I'm not going to call it off\u2014I'm not going to break up with him.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember leaving and driving home. I had to pull over to the side of the road for a few minutes because I was crying so hard I couldn't drive\u2014because I felt like I'd lost her. It was a real vivid\u2014it's a real vivid memory for me. I was driving out of the city, and she was actually behind me. At the point where I kept going west to Little Rock, and she had to take this turn to go south to go back to Ole Miss\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014I watched her car. I just remember feeling like she was gone and that it was over\u2014the relationship was over because she just made it so clear that she did not agree with her mom and dad\u2014that she thought we were <em>totally<\/em> missing it\u2014she was right, and we were <em>wrong<\/em>. It was a very, very hard situation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to say this\u2014to step into your emerging adult child's life and speak for God, you better be sure you're speaking for God\u2014the Scriptures really warn against that. But I'm going to tell you\u2014as we evaluated that relationship, as we observed, as we went to the Scriptures\u2014it really wasn't right \/ it wasn't best for Ashley. God used that conversation that Barbara had in Ashley's life to get her attention\u2014He used us \/ He used her brothers, interestingly enough, who also went to her.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You didn't set them up on this deal; did you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No; they kind of independently had conversations with her, where she began to see \"I'm in a tough spot.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It wasn't just us\u2014it was her brothers too\u2014and so that\u2014it made the choice more significant, on her part, to reject those who knew her best and loved her most for her decision. Interestingly, God also used the young man that she eventually married. I don't know that he had any intentions of dating Ashley, either, at the time; but I remember her calling me on the phone and telling me what Michael said. Inwardly, I went: \"Oh, he is so right! I am so glad God allowed him to talk to her,\" because she respected him as a friend; and he didn't have the same motives that her family had. He was an outside source, looking in; and God used him too. It was gracious of God to work all of that out to prevent her from making a poor choice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>How long from the time you had lunch with her and thought you'd lost her until she broke off the relationship?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Probably about two-and-a-half months.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Wow!\u2014a tough two-and-a-half months for you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to be quick to say too\u2014that young man is a valuable young man.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes; and this is not against <em>him<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It really wasn't; but it was just a combination of things we saw in their relationship that made it not right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tTo say nothing is the easiest thing. The more courageous thing is to step in, and to say it in a way that gains you the greatest chance of being heard, and then to step back and pray, and allow God to do the work. It really is a sacred and a holy moment to be able to step into your children's lives. If you do that, you better make sure you're in agreement, as a couple, and that you've counted the cost of what you're going to say and what you're going to do.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and that you use some wisdom in how you approach it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And, Bob, after you're a part of maybe a breakup like that, as parents, you can't be just a demolition derby, where you're destroying relationships or breaking up relationships. You have to step back into your children's lives and refurbish hope. One of my favorite quotes for single young women and for single young men is by a great English preacher by the name of D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones. It's very simple\u2014he said, \"Faith is the refusal to panic.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cCan you trust God with these circumstances? Can you believe that God is the God of hope?\u2014that He can replace the hurt, the disappointment, and the breakup of this relationship with something far better?\u201d\u2014something spoken of in Romans, Chapter 12:2\u2014\"\u2026that which is good, acceptable, and perfect\u2014the will of God.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs parents, we've got to speak the words that, at points, divide; but we also have to speak the words that bring faith and encouragement, especially to these young adults who don't\u2014you know, they don't have the knowledge of God and trusting Him for all these issues. We have to minister to them, and come alongside them, and be careful not merely to preach at them but to comfort them and encourage them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's a good word. I\u2019m thinking about the times when my parents were still alive\u2014or my in-laws\u2014have said to me, \u201cYou\u2019re doing a good job.\u201d It\u2019s comforting to know, even as an adult \/ as a grown-up, to know that others who are watching you \/ who have a vested interest in this are affirming what you\u2019re trying to do, as a parent. I think we have to remember, as moms and dads, that we can be a powerful source for encouragement and affirming our kids when we see them doing what they ought to be doing, as husbands and wives or as parents.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn fact, I\u2019m thinking to myself that we probably have some listeners who have tuned in, who have not been able to be with us for this entire conversation this week. They may want to go to our website, FamilyLifeToday.com. I think this whole series is helpful for moms and dads who have kids who are approaching the finish line or who have crossed over\u2014maybe it\u2019s been several years since your kids became emancipated adults. It\u2019s just helpful to have some reminders about what our assignment is with our adult children.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGo to FamilyLifeToday.com, and you can listen to all five parts of this conversation on our website\u2014you can stream it \/ you can download each of the five individual segments in this series\u2014and of course, streaming, and downloads, and transcripts are all free. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re able to provide this for listeners because of folks, like you, who make it possible\u2014folks like you who are Legacy Partners or who will occasionally contribute to support this ministry. You\u2019re enabling us to have these kinds of conversations and to reach more and more people with God\u2019s design for marriage and family. That\u2019s how your dollars get invested when you donate to FamilyLife. Your dollars make it possible for the reach of this ministry to expand. We\u2019re hearing from folks all around the world, who are benefiting from the ministry of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thank you for your partnership with us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIf you can help with a donation today, either a first-time gift as a new monthly Legacy Partner or a one-time donation in support of this ministry, we\u2019d like to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d by helping you get ready to celebrate Easter this year with your kids or your grandkids. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>22:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019d love to send you a set of FamilyLife\u2019s Resurrection Eggs<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>\u2014a dozen plastic eggs, each with a symbol in each one designed to highlight a different aspect of the life of Jesus in His last week before His resurrection. You can donate, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY to make a donation. Or you can request the Resurrection Eggs and mail your donation to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> at PO \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBox 7111, Little Rock, AR; and our zip code is 72223. Again, thanks for partnering with us and helping us reach more people with the practical biblical help and hope that we seek to provide, here at FamilyLife.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, this weekend is a big weekend for us, here at FamilyLife. We will have thousands of couples who will be attending one of our <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup> marriage getaways this weekend. Three of them are within driving distance of one another. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>23:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe have a team that is headed out\u2014in fact, they\u2019re heading out now\u2014to go to Cleveland, Ohio, because the <em>Weekend to Remember <\/em>in Cleveland starts this Friday night. They\u2019re going to be there\u2014the team\u2014this is our FamilyLife <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> road trip team. They\u2019re going to be there, talking to couples\u2014getting stories\/\u00a0 hearing about the experience of the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>\u2014and reporting on all of it on Facebook<sup>\u00ae <\/sup>\/ doing some Facebook live and some Facebook updates so that you can follow along with what the road trip team has going on all weekend. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThey go from Cleveland to Chicago overnight; and they\u2019ll be at the Chicago <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> on Saturday; and then they head to Nashville, where they\u2019ll be on Sunday\u2014so three events in three states over the course of the weekend. You can follow along with everything that\u2019s happening if you follow us on Facebook. If you don\u2019t know how to follow us on Facebook, go to our website, FamilyLifeToday.com. Look for the Facebook logo, and we\u2019ll give you the directions there so that you can keep an eye on what\u2019s happening this weekend. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>24:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIf you\u2019ve never been to a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>, this will be a good chance for you to get a sense of what goes on at one of these weekend getaways.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, tomorrow, we\u2019re going to continue our conversation about adult children. We\u2019re going to talk about how much space is too much space \/ how much is not enough\u2014you know, when your kids need a little space and you think: \u201cShould we call them? Should we just leave them alone? Am I pestering them?\u201d We\u2019ll talk about that tomorrow. Hope you can tune in for that conversation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back tomorrow for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHelp for today. Hope for tomorrow.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t______________________________________________________________________________\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. If you\u2019ve benefited from the broadcast transcripts, would you consider <a href=\"http:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/donate\"><u>donating today<\/u><\/a> to help defray the costs? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tCopyright <sup>\u00a9<\/sup> 2017 FamilyLife. 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Dennis and Barbara Rainey, parents of six adult children, give sound advice for relating to your grown children.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2017-03-01.pdf","transcript_content":"<strong>Bob: <\/strong>As a parent, what do you do when one of your adult children faces difficulty\u2014they come to you, asking for help? Do you help out? Dennis Rainey says, \u201cMaybe, but be careful.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>If you've got a child who has a pattern and a habit of irresponsible behavior, I think you dare not rescue them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You can't rush in and say, \"Oh, let me help!\" And some parents get their sense of importance and their own personal self-identity in terms of their relationship with their adult children. What they don't realize is they're raising children to become dependent upon them and not learn the lessons of life God has for them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is FamilyLife Today for Wednesday, March 1<sup>st<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine. As a parent, how can you tell when you ought to step in and help out and when you shouldn\u2019t? We\u2019ll talk about that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>1:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to FamilyLife Today. Thanks for joining us on the Wednesday edition. You hear \u2014it's almost become a clich\u00e9 \u2014 people will say, \"Kids grow up so fast.\" And they do grow up fast; but there are times, when you look at them, and you think they ought to be more grown up than they are, and they haven't. Part of our assignment, as parents, is to help finish that job \u2014to make sure we have pointed them to what adulthood is supposed to look like and gotten them ready for when full adulthood arrives. Then, when that happens, our relationship with them needs to transition away from what it's been to something different; doesn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>We have to move from being authoritative parents to affirming them, as adults, and then begin to relate to them, not as a parent in charge of them, but instead relate to them more as a peer, although we'll always be a parent with them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's right. You've been defining adulthood this week as \u2014what is it?\u2014independently dependent; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Independently dependent upon Jesus Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's where you want your children to be.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>That's right. We want our children to have a faith of their own and learn how to live life under God's authority. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBarbara \u2014who joins us again on <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> <em>\u2014<\/em>Barbara and I have \u2014well, it sounds easy in the studio; but it's been an interesting process of releasing six of our children now through this transition phase toward adulthood and watching, now, five out of six get married. Hello!\u00a0 It's an interesting process\u2014trust me!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Barbara, welcome back to the program. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Thanks.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>We\u2019ve talked about the transition that begins when the kids leave home for college, or for career, or maybe they\u2019re still home for awhile as they get established in a career \/ in a job. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019ve also said we\u2019re aiming for a day that is a full-release day \/ an emancipation day. Did you memorialize that \/ did you ceremonialize that? In other words, did you have a dinner or an event, where you said: \u201cCongratulations!\u2014here\u2019s the title deed to the car,\u201d or whatever you did to launch them into adulthood?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We did more of a ceremony upon graduation from high school, going into college and on their own, than we did going into adulthood. The real ceremony, when we officially said they were adults, was when they packed up the U-Haul<sup>\u00ae<\/sup> and pulled out of the driveway \u2014that was the real ceremony.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I think there are times when we, as parents, need to help our kids out \u2014getting started\u2014but we do need to be very careful that we\u2019re not using our position in life to just carve out a place for them where they don\u2019t have their own identity.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know, I think most of us are aware that when children get married, we're supposed to have a new relationship with them. But there is a phase between, I don't know, the end of college and the time that they get married \u2014that may be a couple of years \u2014and they are adults but not married. That's kind of an awkward phase for us, as parents, to know what our responsibility should be \u2014particularly, I think, for girls.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think it's a little bit different for girls. Two of our children moved into that phase, unmarried \u2014one was a son, and one was a daughter. It was different with our daughter than it was with our son. I felt a little bit more responsibility to help her with things. For instance, we went to visit her when she was still single and living in Atlanta. She picked us up from the airport, and we're driving down the freeway. Dennis said: \"Your car feels kind of funny. Have you had it checked lately?\" And she said, \"Oh, yes; I had the oil changed,\"\u2014whatever. Well, when we got where we were going, he got out and looked at it. Her wheels \u2014I mean, the tires on her car were nearly bare.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You could see the steel belts.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong>\u00a0Oh, really?\u2014yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And she just\u2014even though she did some minor car repair with her car when she was in college\u2014I mean, you know, we told her, \"Go get your oil changed,\" and all that kind of stuff\u2014she never really was responsible for it totally on her own. And now she was, and she just didn't\u2014she had no idea why her car was shaking. It didn't occur to her that there was anything wrong with it. She just thought it was the car, or the road, or whatever. We felt a little bit more a sense of responsibility to protect her and to help her take care of that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Now, did she need four tires?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Oh, yes! And the interesting thing was\u2014is that took just about every penny she had in savings; and yet, she got a chance to see God's providential care, because some of our closest friends in Atlanta\u2014well, we happened to be staying with them. They overheard the conversation\u2014told us where to take the car to get the tires put on\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014because they knew somebody locally who would give her a good deal and wouldn't overcharge her. That's a problem for these kids\u2014because they don't know, when they're in a new city, who to go to and they can be taken advantage of. We were concerned about that, as her parents.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; and it turned out to be more than tires. She needed brakes too. I mean, you know, it was\u2014I think it was $500 or $600. These are really good friends; because they said: \u201cYou know, we realize Rebecca is working with young people today and leading high school girls to Christ in Atlanta.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\"We would like to participate in her ministry by supplying the tires and the brake pads for her car.\" They took care of it, and so here she got a chance to see God provide for her in a very specific way. Now, God doesn't always do that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes; and that's what I was going to say. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>7:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tLet's say you didn't have friends who stepped in and did that. Your daughter calls and says: \"I just took the car to the shop. It's $600, because they say I need brakes in addition to tires. Mom\/Dad, I don't have $600. What do I do?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I'm not sure what we would have done if she had not had the money. She had been saving money. That's part of the reason why this was so traumatic for her; because when she realized what this was going to cost, it would have taken every penny that she had saved up until that point. She was just overwhelmed. But if our friends hadn't stepped in, we would not have stepped in and paid for her tires.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You wouldn't have bailed her out? You wouldn't have done it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don't think so\u2014would we have?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Well, you know, since it involved a single woman in a major city on the freeways, driving back and forth to work, I don't know. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>If she hadn't had the money, we might have helped her\u2014I don't know what we would have done\u2014but she had the money to cover it if they hadn't stepped in. So it was a good lesson, I know.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I'm glad I didn't have that choice, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is one of the big areas\u2014when we talk about your, now, adult children and that day of full emancipation\u2014the financial side of things is where it all gets sticky; isn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It really is.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And it gets really foggy, too, as to where we need to be careful we don't step in and rescue our children from irresponsibility. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Now, if you've got a child, who has a pattern and a habit of irresponsible behavior, I think you dare not rescue them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You can't rush in and say, \"Oh, let me help.\" Some parents get their sense of importance and their own personal self-identity in terms of their relationship with their adult children. What they don't realize is they're raising children to become dependent upon them and not learn the lessons of life God has for them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You know, this issue of a child becoming financially independent is a challenge. There is another challenge, though, and that is how much freedom and independence should an adult child have in terms of relationships? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat about when an adult son\u2014a 25-\/26-year-old\u2014comes and says, \"I think I've met the one that is the one that I want to marry\u201d?\u2014does a parent say: \"Well, that sounds great. Send us an invitation to the wedding,\u201d or do you get more actively involved in the process than that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Bob, I think a lot of parents don't play all the cards they have in their hand when it comes to this decision. I think we, as parents, need to be involved in this aspect of their children's lives. The reason is\u2014this is a life-determinative decision. Who you marry really determines what\u2014not merely <em>how<\/em> you're going to live\u2014but the spiritual plane on which you live and where you are going to raise your children and under what values. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs parents, I think if there is a time to step into your children's lives\u2014and to disagree with them, or to throw your body in front of the train as they are running and rushing headlong into marriage\u2014it's right here. We've done this on two or three different occasions with our children. Bob, I'll tell you\u2014it's one of the riskiest things Barbara and I have ever done in our relationship with our children. Interestingly enough, it's not occurred around our sons\u2014it's been around our daughters, who I do think need a dad and a mom to help them navigate these waters.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I remember, with two of our girls, stepping in. I think what I want to say is\u2014there's a huge difference in letting your children fail, financially, as in bouncing checks or some of those kinds of things, and fail in the most important decision that they make.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWith our oldest daughter, she was dating a young man who, outwardly, had everything we were looking for. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd yet there was something inside of me and in Dennis, too\u2014I think, if I remember right\u2014we both felt this way.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; but you stronger than me.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes; but there was something that just wasn't right. I remember going for walks. When I'd go walking in the mornings, I\u2019d say: \"Lord, what is it that I don't feel good about? What is it that I don't like?\" I would mentally go through this checklist and go, \"Well, he's this, and he's this, and he's this,\" and all these things that we thought we wanted in a husband for our daughter; but there was something inside\u2014it was kind of an intuitive thing\u2014that didn't feel right. As we talked and prayed about it, that didn't change.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember driving to Memphis to meet Ashley for lunch one day. It's a two-hour drive for me, and it was a two-hour drive for her. She was a junior in college at the time. We met in Memphis for lunch. I went with the express purpose of talking her out of this relationship and convincing her that this was not the person that she needed to be marrying.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to say here, Bob\u2014that trip that she made came about after a lot of prayer\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>A lot.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014and a lot of discussion on our part. It also came after Barbara and I had counted the cost that this might cost us our relationship with our daughter\u2014she was that much \"head over heels\" with the young man. We also realized that we had to handle it appropriately; because if she decided to ignore our counsel, and then decided to share what we were saying with the young man, we would be dead on arrival at the wedding.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and for the rest of the marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Absolutely\u2014there would be no relationship \/ virtually, no chance of a relationship. It would be a remarkable man or woman who could look past that kind of\u2014well\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014concern.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yes; intrusion\u2014we inserted ourselves into that relationship. I remember another conversation that we had with Ashley on our way from Little Rock to another city, where we talked to her again. These were <em>hard<\/em> discussions with our firstborn daughter.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And I want to ask you about them, because you talk about throwing yourself in front of the train. Were you saying to her: \"Your dad and I could not support this. We couldn't come to a wedding.\" I mean, there are different levels, or were you just saying: \"Boy, we've got some real concerns; and we want you to think about this. It's going to be your decision, but \u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think what we were doing is\u2014I think we had had some of those smaller, more minor, so to speak, conversations along the way on the phone. But when I drove to Memphis, it was a lot more significant\u2014primarily because I was taking the time, and she was taking the time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt was not just a phone call; and I drove over there to say\u2014not just \"We have concerns,\" because that had already been expressed\u2014I drove over there to say: \"We really don't feel like this is God's will for you,\u201d and \u201cWe really are concerned and want to plead with you to reconsider.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don't remember what I said, honestly\u2014I don't remember what words I used\u2014but I remember that it was very difficult to do. I remember that she didn't respond. She said: \"I appreciate you taking the time to come over here. I've heard what you said, but I don't agree with you. I'm not going to call it off\u2014I'm not going to break up with him.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember leaving and driving home. I had to pull over to the side of the road for a few minutes because I was crying so hard I couldn't drive\u2014because I felt like I'd lost her. It was a real vivid\u2014it's a real vivid memory for me. I was driving out of the city, and she was actually behind me. At the point where I kept going west to Little Rock, and she had to take this turn to go south to go back to Ole Miss\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014I watched her car. I just remember feeling like she was gone and that it was over\u2014the relationship was over because she just made it so clear that she did not agree with her mom and dad\u2014that she thought we were <em>totally<\/em> missing it\u2014she was right, and we were <em>wrong<\/em>. It was a very, very hard situation.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to say this\u2014to step into your emerging adult child's life and speak for God, you better be sure you're speaking for God\u2014the Scriptures really warn against that. But I'm going to tell you\u2014as we evaluated that relationship, as we observed, as we went to the Scriptures\u2014it really wasn't right \/ it wasn't best for Ashley. God used that conversation that Barbara had in Ashley's life to get her attention\u2014He used us \/ He used her brothers, interestingly enough, who also went to her.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You didn't set them up on this deal; did you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No; they kind of independently had conversations with her, where she began to see \"I'm in a tough spot.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It wasn't just us\u2014it was her brothers too\u2014and so that\u2014it made the choice more significant, on her part, to reject those who knew her best and loved her most for her decision. Interestingly, God also used the young man that she eventually married. I don't know that he had any intentions of dating Ashley, either, at the time; but I remember her calling me on the phone and telling me what Michael said. Inwardly, I went: \"Oh, he is so right! I am so glad God allowed him to talk to her,\" because she respected him as a friend; and he didn't have the same motives that her family had. He was an outside source, looking in; and God used him too. It was gracious of God to work all of that out to prevent her from making a poor choice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>How long from the time you had lunch with her and thought you'd lost her until she broke off the relationship?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Probably about two-and-a-half months.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Wow!\u2014a tough two-and-a-half months for you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I want to be quick to say too\u2014that young man is a valuable young man.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes; and this is not against <em>him<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It really wasn't; but it was just a combination of things we saw in their relationship that made it not right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tTo say nothing is the easiest thing. The more courageous thing is to step in, and to say it in a way that gains you the greatest chance of being heard, and then to step back and pray, and allow God to do the work. It really is a sacred and a holy moment to be able to step into your children's lives. If you do that, you better make sure you're in agreement, as a couple, and that you've counted the cost of what you're going to say and what you're going to do.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and that you use some wisdom in how you approach it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And, Bob, after you're a part of maybe a breakup like that, as parents, you can't be just a demolition derby, where you're destroying relationships or breaking up relationships. You have to step back into your children's lives and refurbish hope. One of my favorite quotes for single young women and for single young men is by a great English preacher by the name of D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones. It's very simple\u2014he said, \"Faith is the refusal to panic.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cCan you trust God with these circumstances? Can you believe that God is the God of hope?\u2014that He can replace the hurt, the disappointment, and the breakup of this relationship with something far better?\u201d\u2014something spoken of in Romans, Chapter 12:2\u2014\"\u2026that which is good, acceptable, and perfect\u2014the will of God.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs parents, we've got to speak the words that, at points, divide; but we also have to speak the words that bring faith and encouragement, especially to these young adults who don't\u2014you know, they don't have the knowledge of God and trusting Him for all these issues. We have to minister to them, and come alongside them, and be careful not merely to preach at them but to comfort them and encourage them.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>That's a good word. I\u2019m thinking about the times when my parents were still alive\u2014or my in-laws\u2014have said to me, \u201cYou\u2019re doing a good job.\u201d It\u2019s comforting to know, even as an adult \/ as a grown-up, to know that others who are watching you \/ who have a vested interest in this are affirming what you\u2019re trying to do, as a parent. I think we have to remember, as moms and dads, that we can be a powerful source for encouragement and affirming our kids when we see them doing what they ought to be doing, as husbands and wives or as parents.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn fact, I\u2019m thinking to myself that we probably have some listeners who have tuned in, who have not been able to be with us for this entire conversation this week. They may want to go to our website, FamilyLifeToday.com. I think this whole series is helpful for moms and dads who have kids who are approaching the finish line or who have crossed over\u2014maybe it\u2019s been several years since your kids became emancipated adults. It\u2019s just helpful to have some reminders about what our assignment is with our adult children.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGo to FamilyLifeToday.com, and you can listen to all five parts of this conversation on our website\u2014you can stream it \/ you can download each of the five individual segments in this series\u2014and of course, streaming, and downloads, and transcripts are all free. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re able to provide this for listeners because of folks, like you, who make it possible\u2014folks like you who are Legacy Partners or who will occasionally contribute to support this ministry. You\u2019re enabling us to have these kinds of conversations and to reach more and more people with God\u2019s design for marriage and family. That\u2019s how your dollars get invested when you donate to FamilyLife. Your dollars make it possible for the reach of this ministry to expand. 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They\u2019re going to be there\u2014the team\u2014this is our FamilyLife <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> road trip team. They\u2019re going to be there, talking to couples\u2014getting stories\/\u00a0 hearing about the experience of the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>\u2014and reporting on all of it on Facebook<sup>\u00ae <\/sup>\/ doing some Facebook live and some Facebook updates so that you can follow along with what the road trip team has going on all weekend. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThey go from Cleveland to Chicago overnight; and they\u2019ll be at the Chicago <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> on Saturday; and then they head to Nashville, where they\u2019ll be on Sunday\u2014so three events in three states over the course of the weekend. You can follow along with everything that\u2019s happening if you follow us on Facebook. If you don\u2019t know how to follow us on Facebook, go to our website, FamilyLifeToday.com. 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