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Dennis Rainey says that depends on how serious you are about change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I think one of the reasons we don\u2019t keep our resolutions is we really don\u2019t start out with a commitment to <em>really<\/em> do it. We may be serious about it at the time we made it; but we\u2019ve not dealt with the heart issue that is involved and <em>then<\/em> have the necessary disciplines associated with it to really change, once and for all.<\/p>\n<p>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Monday, January 2<sup>nd<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey. I'm Bob Lepine. So why do so many of our resolutions fall by the wayside so quickly?\u00a0 Is there anything we can do to be more resolute? We\u2019re going to discuss that today and have a little fun as well. Stay with us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us on the Monday edition\u2014first program of 2017. Happy New Year to you! Do you think, over the last 25 years, your voice has changed at all? [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Has\u2014has your enunciation of the <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> changed? [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Here\u2019s the reason we\u2019re asking this\u2014Dennis and I have just been listening back to a program that, actually, we\u2019re going to share with you\u2014a program that was one of the first programs that we recorded.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Pro-grm [slurs last syllable].<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>That\u2019s what you called them back then\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Pro-grm.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014before I broke you of that evil habit. [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> But then I had to break Bob\u2014as he concludes this broadcast\u2014I want you to listen to how many syllables FamilyLife has. There\u2019s no way the tongue can move that fast.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>There was a debate\/a discussion about whether our program should be called <em>FamlyLife Today<\/em> or <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Is <em>Family<\/em> a three-syllable word or is it a two-syllable word?<\/p>\n<p><strong>2:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And back in these days, when we were trying to be professional broadcasters and enunciate as clearly as we could, I said\u2014well, play for them \/ you want to play for them what I said? Just play the way\u2014this is embarrassing\u2014<\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>If you haven\u2019t called or written, we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Yes; thank you.<\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Our address is Fam-i-lyLife Today. Again, that\u2019s Fam-i-lyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Here\u2019s the thing\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> How did you do that?!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I was doing my very best Al Sanders imitation is what I was doing. [Laughter] Doesn\u2019t that sound a little like Al; don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Al Sanders, folks, is the grandfather of Christian radio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and a great friend.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> He frankly is, from a human prospective, is the reason <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is on, all across the country. He believed in me before Bob joined us and before we had a broadcast. I\u2019m not sure what he saw; but 25 years later, we\u2019re still standing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>He spent the first few years that we were on the air\u2014and gave us a critique of every day\u2019s program.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We got a written critique from Al about the program\u2014what we were doing right and what we were doing wrong\u2014and really helped us shape <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> or <em>Fam-i-lyLife Today<\/em> as we called it back then.<\/p>\n<p>So here\u2019s the thing\u2014we\u2019re starting 2017 today. <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> went on the air in 1992; so this year, we will be celebrating 25 years of broadcasting. We thought it would be fun, on our first program of the year, to hear a program that we recorded during the first month we were recording. You were talking about New Year\u2019s resolutions and making resolutions. We actually aired this right after Christmas in 1992. Listening back to it, there\u2019s good stuff here that you were saying about resolutions. It just sounds a little funny to hear your voice and my voice, 25 years ago.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Rather than talking about it, let\u2019s let them hear it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>So let\u2019s listen to it<strong>. <\/strong>Here\u2019s Dennis Rainey and me talking about making New Year\u2019s resolutions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>4:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> There is something about a fresh, new year that, I guess, gives us all the sense that we can make a fresh, new start and kind of causes us to focus on some of the failures of the past and a real desire to <em>conquer<\/em> some of those weak areas in our lives; but most of us, by the time January is not yet half-done, have failed again and have fallen into the same old traps. Why is that, Dennis?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Well, I think one of the reasons we don't keep our resolutions is we really don't start out with a commitment to <em>really<\/em> do it. We may be serious about it at the time we make it; but we've not dealt with the heart issue that is involved and <em>then<\/em> have the necessary disciplines associated with it to really change, once and for all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> So that those people, for example, who have decided to lose a few pounds, really are focused on that end result of wishing that they looked ten pounds skinnier but not focused on the <em>lifestyle<\/em> changes that are necessary to get to that point.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you think the whole idea of resolutions is a bad idea?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis<\/strong>: No; I don't. I think the way I would rather approach this time of the year, rather than calling them a \"resolution,\" is look at your life over the past year and talk about growth and change as a subject and not as a point in time just to make a resolution. I think there are people that make resolutions that do make a difference. I remember when I turned 40, one of my resolutions that year was to start exercising, and I've done that. So resolutions and commitments can be followed through on and can make a difference.<\/p>\n<p>However, I think for <em>real<\/em> change\/<em>real<\/em> growth\u2014the kind that doesn't disappoint us\u2014the kind that we don't look back on with guilt, and regret, and with feelings of blaming yourself and going, \"I'll never be able to achieve that,\" and then finally you just kind of throw the whole idea out the door and you give up, and you don't make any commitment to change\u2014<em>that's<\/em> something we don't want to do as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Losing a few pounds or quitting smoking\u2014as important as those may be in the scheme of things\u2014may be less consequential than some of the other more serious issues that we shy away from in facing our resolutions. I\u2019m thinking of couples that really ought to take a long, hard look at their marriage relationship and the change that needs to take place there.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You're bringing up a great point, Bob. I think one of the things that needs to happen\u2014at this time of the year and use the holidays to do this\u2014is before you go back to work, take a hard look at your life and an inventory of your life.<\/p>\n<p>Galatians, Chapter 5, verse 19 to the end of the chapter, really, I think, have some exhortations for us here that really are timely. Verse 19 says, \"Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions\u2026\"<\/p>\n<p><strong>7:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It goes on to list a long grocery list of things that people have churning within them.<\/p>\n<p>The phrase that really stands out to me is the phrase, \"Now the deeds of the flesh are <em>evident<\/em>\u2026 [emphasis added]\" Now, that word, \"evident,\" really means that you've taken the time to ponder and to really inventory life. I think one of the things Christians don't do\u2014is they don't ever really face what is <em>evident<\/em> in their life, year after year after year. As a result, put up with some things that become habits and ingrained in who they are; and then they reach their middle-age years, 40s and 50s, and they give in and they don't ever change. That's not what Christianity was meant to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Some of those habits \/ some of those ingrained patterns, left unchecked, will fester and bloom into real problems later on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>They really will. That's how bitterness\u2014and people who grow old, who are angry and who are not joyful in their\u2014what I consider the <em>glory years<\/em>\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>8:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014what the Bible speaks of as the years when you ought to have the most to say\u2014those people are <em>trapped<\/em> in the midst of a prison of emotions that weren't dealt with, back at some pivotal points in their lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> It might be a good idea for husbands, as they face the new year \/ or for wives to sit down and look at Paul's charge to a husband or a wife in Ephesians 5 and ask themselves the questions: \u201cAm I loving my wife as Christ loves the church?\u00a0 Am I respectfully submitting to my husband?\u00a0 Am I laying down my own life for my husband or my wife?\u201d\u00a0 Looking back at the way in which we <em>failed<\/em> to live up to that standard in the past year\u2014that could be a constructive step toward positive change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Not only could be, it <em>will be<\/em> a constructive step. Why? Because when we face the reality of what is true in our lives\u2014and we admit it, and we don't kid ourselves, and we don\u2019t deny it\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>9:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014I really do believe the Christian community is really well-versed in <em>denying<\/em> certain things about our own lives. I don't think it's any mistake that Jesus said, \"Remove the log in your own eye before removing the speck in your brother's eye.\"\u00a0 Why?\u2014because I think we're outstanding at putting up with logs in our own eyes and spotting the specks in other people's eyes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> An illustration of the log-and-speck principle is one that I share often with my friends. I had a guy, many years ago, who was driving along with me; and he said, \"You know, my wife just doesn't submit to me the way the Bible instructs her to.\" And I said, \"She doesn't?\" He said, \"No.\" I said, \"Where does the Bible talk about that?\" He says, \"Well, in Ephesians 5.\" I said, \"What does it say there?\" Then he says, \"Well, it says, 'Wives,\"\u2014and I said, \"Hold it right there. Who is it talking to?\" He says, \"It's talking to wives.\" I said, \"Are you a wife?\" He said, \"No.\" I said: \"Okay; it's not for you. Go on to the next part.\" [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>10:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Then he stopped for a minute, but I just tried to drive home the point that the way his wife was responding to <em>him<\/em> was really not the issue. The issue that God was calling him to was how he was responding to his wife.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> And, you know, you're never going to really respond properly to your mate if you first don't take a step back and do what we're talking about here today, which is take an inventory\u2014and I mean a <em>hard<\/em> look \/ a <em>fearless<\/em> inventory. You know, a company, at the end of the year\u2014right now, companies all over America are closed up\u2014they're taking inventories. What kind of inventories do they take?\u2014a partial one? No! \u2014it's a fearless inventory. Why?\u2014because their very <em>life<\/em>, over the long-haul, is dependent upon an accurate inventory and a proper valuation of that inventory.<\/p>\n<p>And relationships, I think, are worth far more than our companies. We ought to pause, and pull back, and just get out of the swirl of the events of the holidays and use this little window\u2014right now \/ first of the year\u2014and just pull back with a sheet of paper and take that <em>fearless<\/em> inventory and ask God to search our hearts and to know us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>11:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, that may be the first step toward constructive change\u2014taking a fearless inventory\u2014but there are a lot of folks, Dennis, who bog down right there and, recognizing the failures of the past, become incapacitated\u2014they can't move ahead.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> They do\u2014they become defeated, disillusioned, disheartened, and they feel like there is no hope. But, you know, Galatians, Chapter 5, doesn't end with verse 21, just talking about the deeds of the flesh, which are evident. It moves on in verse 22 to say, \"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.\"<\/p>\n<p>You know\u2014here, Bob, is where I think the Scriptures provide the hope. It's interesting that it talked about \u201cthe deeds of the flesh are evident\u201d\u2014plural\u2014\u201cdeeds.\"\u00a0 Here it talks about a singular \"fruit\" and it uses a term that has, within it, something that's very important as we look at this subject of change today\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>12:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014and that is that we have to realize that <em>real<\/em> growth \/ real, true, Christian growth is usually not this dramatic, spiritual change that occurs instantly. Instead, real growth occurs like fruit grows. It occurs slowly\u2014it must develop, it must go through seasons, and it must mature, and it needs to be picked.<\/p>\n<p>I think, sometimes, in the Christian community, we've done a lot of harm to people who are looking for a quick fix \/ who are looking for an emotional high. We don't talk to them about the long-haul nature of the Christian life and the process they must go through to really, really change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, folks who are facing that frustration of wanting to change, and wanting to rely on the power of the Holy Spirit to do it, but knowing, in the past they have tried and failed\u2014speak to them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, there's grace there. That's what has always comforted me. The picture that Jesus gives us through the 12 disciples is a picture of a group of men, who failed repeatedly\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>13:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014and yet who were loved, who were forgiven, and who received grace in time of need. The reality of the Christian life is not perfect people, who always do everything just exactly right; but it is imperfect people, who fail repeatedly, but who have a God who stands ready to give them grace at those points.<\/p>\n<p>Now, to the person listening, who really suffers from always having to have everything perfect\u2014who has to have every shoe lined up in their closet \/ a clean house every day\u2014and there's always something unraveling around their lives\u2014they just need to <em>relax<\/em> in the Spirit. It [Galatians 5:1] says: \"It is for freedom Christ has set us free. Therefore, do not be subject again to the yoke of slavery.\" Some Christians are not enjoying the Christian life; they're <em>enduring<\/em> it.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I want to be quick to add here\u2014there is <em>pain<\/em> in the Christian life. It's the fine print in the contract when we became a Christian.<\/p>\n<p><strong>14:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A lot of us do not talk about that when we introduce a person to the person of Jesus Christ, but there is pain involved in being a follower of Christ. Why? Because the One we are following is perfect; but the reality is, He has given us grace for when we fall short of His perfect ideal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Let me have you talk for just a minute to the average American husband. If he were to make a resolution for making his marriage better, what one resolution would you recommend to him?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I think the thing I would tell him to do would be to encourage him to go to his wife and say: \"Okay; Sweetheart, I've got my pencil in hand. Tell me ten ways to love you better.\" I did this with Barbara a number of years ago, and you know what?\u00a0 It took her a while; but she came up with a list, and it wasn't your light-lunch list. It was some real specifics that I wrote down on the inside of my calendar. It was the things that communicated love\u2014and, Bob, here\u2019s the key\u2014it was the things that communicated love to <em>her<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>15:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> There's something very un-heroic for most of us men about the idea of loving our wife through folding the towel after we're done with it in the bathroom or carrying the laundry down to the laundry room; and yet, that may be the very thing that really endears us to our mate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It really may. That really is another way, I think, of working out this subject of change in our lives\u2014and that is practicing your Christianity in the little things. Jesus made it real clear in the New Testament that, if you want to receive much more \/ if you want to get the rewards, be faithful in the little. Don't just wait until you get the big stuff to be faithful\u2014be faithful in the little things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> To be fair, I've got to ask you if you could get the average American wife in our studio and give her the one New Year's resolution that she ought to make for her husband\u2014what would it be?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, I hate to be trite and take her back to the same point I've taken to the men; but I think it would be good for her to plot the same sheet of paper down\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>16:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014that she's had the privilege of looking at with her husband, hopefully, and had a chance to develop\u2014and that would be to write out \/ ask her husband to write out ten things that would communicate love to him. A key word for your husband may not be the word, \"love,\" either, ladies\u2014it really may be the word, \"respect.\"<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that men really need, as men, is they need to be respected by you, as their wife. I think you may be surprised at what may fill that list and what issues are tied to that subject of respect. It may be finances, it may be schedule, it may be children, it may be issues like a sexual relationship; but the important thing is to find out what his needs are in that area, and then to do everything you can to really practically meet them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> I'm thinking of those lists\u2014on the insides of Day-Timer<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>s or tucked away in a drawer somewhere\u2014and, again, the end-of-January phenomenon of looking at them and seeing how far short you've fallen in such a short period of time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>17:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, I'm reminded of C.H. Spurgeon's great quote: \"It was by perseverance the snail reached the ark.\" I like that word picture; because it really is through perseverance in the marriage relationship with one another \/ with our own children that really we build this thing called marriage, and we bring about change in each other's lives.<\/p>\n<p>I look back on my own marriage and my own relationship with Barbara, and the real gains are seldom in the sprint\u2014they're in this little stuff that we're talking about; they're in the major commitments we're talking about; and they are in perseverance and a desire to do what is right, regardless of the response of the other person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> This all involves grace on the part of our mates as well; doesn't it?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It really does. I think, if you don't have the ability to forgive and move on, then you're going to hold these things against each other. Someone has said, \"The longer you carry a grudge, the heavier it gets.\"<\/p>\n<p><strong>18:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Forgiveness, as we said many times already on this program, forgiveness is really one of the keys to building a truly distinctive Christian marriage. If you're not a great forgiver, then you need to ask God to give you a forgiving heart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, we've talked about taking a fearless inventory, and we've talked about really relying on the power of the Holy Spirit for change to happen in our life. I have <em>loved<\/em> the suggestions of a husband and wife exchanging ways in which each of them can better serve and better love their spouse.<\/p>\n<p>As we head into the New Year, how would you challenge us for change?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Bob, I really want to end up, challenging people with Christ's admonition that is found in a parable in Matthew 25:26-30. It was the story of talents and investing their talent. You know, as we think about this subject of change and growth, one of the principles that Jesus spoke of in this parable was: \u201cIf you want to see change in your life and see growth occur, then the best thing you can do is to take what you\u2019ve been given and use it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>19:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I'm thinking of a couple, right now, who came to the conference in Dallas, Texas. I'll change their names to protect them, although they would have no problem me telling this story at all; but Dan and Sue attended the conference there. Their marriage of 23 years was nearly over. At the conference, they had one of those life-altering confrontations with Christ. Their marriage was nearly over \/ they hadn't told anybody in their church; but at the conference, they really confessed their sins. It really was a time where there was great change that occurred in their marriage and in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Well, they left that conference determined, not only to have a great marriage, but to make a difference in other marriages and not to assume that everybody else in their church had marriages that were together. They took our small group Bible study, the <em>HomeBuilders<\/em><em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup><\/em><em> Couples Series<\/em> [currently, <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em><sup>\u00ae <\/sup><em>Connect Series<\/em>], back to a church of 180 couples in North Dallas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>20:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They began to promote the <em>HomeBuilders<\/em> as a Bible study for couples to get involved with.<\/p>\n<p>Well, some six\/eight months later, they had over 100 couples, Bob, out of the 180, involved in <em>HomeBuilders<\/em>. They had designed t-shirts\u2014with all the verses that are found in the <em>HomeBuilders Couple Series<\/em> Bible study\u2014put those on t-shirts for all the members in the church. They had all these people doing songs. They built a whole movement within that church of couples, not only strengthening couples within the church, but reaching out beyond it\u2014people were receiving Christ \/ people being brought into the church. It all started with a couple, who had just a few talents\u2014and decided that they were going to take something that had happened in their marriage \/ they were going to personalize it\u2014and press it into the fresh clay of other people's lives.<\/p>\n<p>One of my great desires for this program, as we continue to share these principles with our audience\u2014is not just to give hope\u2014but to also challenge people to use their talents; because, as they do that, there will be growth \/ there will be excitement.<\/p>\n<p><strong>21:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you get involved in the process of pouring your life out for others, <em>that's<\/em> when your life really begins to take off.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>We\u2019ve been listening to a program from the beginning\u2014from the first month of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> \/ actually, the second month\u2014this aired in December of 1992.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It sounds like you are talking about creation\u2014\u201cfrom the beginning.\u201d [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>But isn\u2019t it interesting?\u2014here, you\u2019re talking about people getting involved and reaching out and helping other people. You\u2019ve been saying the same stuff for awhile now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I have; and I think it\u2019s how you change the course of families\u2014here, in America, and around the world\u2014put the tools in the hands of laymen and women and challenge them to get involved and make a difference where they live.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Your voice has deepened a little bit since then.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And yours hasn\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I guess we both\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yours kind of sounded squeaky. [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I did sound squeaky. [Laughter] But the principles remain the same.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I loved it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>22:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know, what I loved the most?\u2014is we went on the air, folks, and people would confuse my voice with Bob\u2019s. You have <em>no idea<\/em> of how that completely wounded him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>It really was wounding.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> He has scars\u2014that some of you listeners came up and said you had <em>no idea<\/em> that he was a trained professional and I wasn\u2019t\u2014I was a rookie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I had been in broadcasting for 13 years, at that point; and Dennis had just gotten started. People said, \u201cI get the two of you mixed up!\u201d\u00a0 I go: \u201cReally?\u2014really? [Laughter] You can\u2019t tell him from <em>me<\/em>?\u201d [Prolonged laughter]<\/p>\n<p>Well, this year, we are going to be highlighting our 25 years of broadcasting\u2014[Laughter]\u2014in fact, throughout the year, we\u2019re going to feature some highlights\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I paid every one of them to say that! [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014we\u2019re going to feature some highlights from programs over the years. I hope our listeners, throughout the year, will enjoy some of the special programs we have coming up; because I think you are going to hear some of the best of the best from the last 25 years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>23:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I just want to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d to all the Legacy Partners who keep this broadcast coming on this station. You are the fans that keep the fires burning, back here at <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. I just want to say, \u201cThank you.\u201d And to everybody who gave in the month of December, as we challenged you to step up\u2014a number of you did\u2014\u201cThank you,\u201d to all of you who stand with us. This is a donor-supported ministry, which being interpreted is: \u201cYou give \/ we stay on the air.\u201d [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>That\u2019s how it works!\u2014again, \u201cThank you,\u201d to those of you who gave at yearend \/ \u201cThanks,\u201d to our Legacy Partners.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019d like to start our celebration of 25 years of broadcasting <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> by becoming a new Legacy Partner, we\u2019d love to have you join the team and make a donation <em>each month<\/em>. You can find out more, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or call and just say, \u201cI\u2019m interested in becoming a Legacy Partner,\u201d\u20141-800-FL-TODAY is our toll-free number. We\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>24:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And we hope you\u2019ll be back with us again tomorrow when we\u2019re going to talk about the priority of prayer, going into the new year. Don Whitney will be here to help us talk about how we can use the Bible as our prayer guide in 2017. I hope you can be here with us for that.<\/p>\n<p>I want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, the more mature-sounding Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back next time for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong><em> FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of Fam-i-lyLife\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> See, you can\u2019t even do it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u2014a ministry of Cru\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Just let me do it; alright?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u2014in Little Rock, Arkansas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong><em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of <em>FamilyLife<\/em> of little Rock, Arkansas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You listeners couldn\u2019t tell the difference; could you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Help for today. Hope for tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>We are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. 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Year's Eve, 1992: Dennis and Bob sat down in a rented recording studio and had a conversation about the coming new year. Find out how well Bob and Dennis kept their resolutions, as we turn the clock back.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2017-01-02.pdf","transcript_content":"<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>So how long will it be before you break the resolutions you\u2019ve made for the new year? Dennis Rainey says that depends on how serious you are about change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I think one of the reasons we don\u2019t keep our resolutions is we really don\u2019t start out with a commitment to <em>really<\/em> do it. We may be serious about it at the time we made it; but we\u2019ve not dealt with the heart issue that is involved and <em>then<\/em> have the necessary disciplines associated with it to really change, once and for all.<\/p>\n<p>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Monday, January 2<sup>nd<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey. I'm Bob Lepine. So why do so many of our resolutions fall by the wayside so quickly?\u00a0 Is there anything we can do to be more resolute? We\u2019re going to discuss that today and have a little fun as well. Stay with us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us on the Monday edition\u2014first program of 2017. Happy New Year to you! Do you think, over the last 25 years, your voice has changed at all? [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Has\u2014has your enunciation of the <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> changed? [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Here\u2019s the reason we\u2019re asking this\u2014Dennis and I have just been listening back to a program that, actually, we\u2019re going to share with you\u2014a program that was one of the first programs that we recorded.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Pro-grm [slurs last syllable].<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>That\u2019s what you called them back then\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Pro-grm.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014before I broke you of that evil habit. [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> But then I had to break Bob\u2014as he concludes this broadcast\u2014I want you to listen to how many syllables FamilyLife has. There\u2019s no way the tongue can move that fast.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>There was a debate\/a discussion about whether our program should be called <em>FamlyLife Today<\/em> or <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Is <em>Family<\/em> a three-syllable word or is it a two-syllable word?<\/p>\n<p><strong>2:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And back in these days, when we were trying to be professional broadcasters and enunciate as clearly as we could, I said\u2014well, play for them \/ you want to play for them what I said? Just play the way\u2014this is embarrassing\u2014<\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>If you haven\u2019t called or written, we\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Yes; thank you.<\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Our address is Fam-i-lyLife Today. Again, that\u2019s Fam-i-lyLife Today.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Here\u2019s the thing\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> How did you do that?!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I was doing my very best Al Sanders imitation is what I was doing. [Laughter] Doesn\u2019t that sound a little like Al; don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Al Sanders, folks, is the grandfather of Christian radio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and a great friend.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> He frankly is, from a human prospective, is the reason <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is on, all across the country. He believed in me before Bob joined us and before we had a broadcast. I\u2019m not sure what he saw; but 25 years later, we\u2019re still standing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>He spent the first few years that we were on the air\u2014and gave us a critique of every day\u2019s program.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We got a written critique from Al about the program\u2014what we were doing right and what we were doing wrong\u2014and really helped us shape <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> or <em>Fam-i-lyLife Today<\/em> as we called it back then.<\/p>\n<p>So here\u2019s the thing\u2014we\u2019re starting 2017 today. <em>FamilyLifeToday<\/em> went on the air in 1992; so this year, we will be celebrating 25 years of broadcasting. We thought it would be fun, on our first program of the year, to hear a program that we recorded during the first month we were recording. You were talking about New Year\u2019s resolutions and making resolutions. We actually aired this right after Christmas in 1992. Listening back to it, there\u2019s good stuff here that you were saying about resolutions. It just sounds a little funny to hear your voice and my voice, 25 years ago.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Rather than talking about it, let\u2019s let them hear it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>So let\u2019s listen to it<strong>. <\/strong>Here\u2019s Dennis Rainey and me talking about making New Year\u2019s resolutions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>4:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[Previously Recorded]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> There is something about a fresh, new year that, I guess, gives us all the sense that we can make a fresh, new start and kind of causes us to focus on some of the failures of the past and a real desire to <em>conquer<\/em> some of those weak areas in our lives; but most of us, by the time January is not yet half-done, have failed again and have fallen into the same old traps. Why is that, Dennis?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Well, I think one of the reasons we don't keep our resolutions is we really don't start out with a commitment to <em>really<\/em> do it. We may be serious about it at the time we make it; but we've not dealt with the heart issue that is involved and <em>then<\/em> have the necessary disciplines associated with it to really change, once and for all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> So that those people, for example, who have decided to lose a few pounds, really are focused on that end result of wishing that they looked ten pounds skinnier but not focused on the <em>lifestyle<\/em> changes that are necessary to get to that point.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you think the whole idea of resolutions is a bad idea?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis<\/strong>: No; I don't. I think the way I would rather approach this time of the year, rather than calling them a \"resolution,\" is look at your life over the past year and talk about growth and change as a subject and not as a point in time just to make a resolution. I think there are people that make resolutions that do make a difference. I remember when I turned 40, one of my resolutions that year was to start exercising, and I've done that. So resolutions and commitments can be followed through on and can make a difference.<\/p>\n<p>However, I think for <em>real<\/em> change\/<em>real<\/em> growth\u2014the kind that doesn't disappoint us\u2014the kind that we don't look back on with guilt, and regret, and with feelings of blaming yourself and going, \"I'll never be able to achieve that,\" and then finally you just kind of throw the whole idea out the door and you give up, and you don't make any commitment to change\u2014<em>that's<\/em> something we don't want to do as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Losing a few pounds or quitting smoking\u2014as important as those may be in the scheme of things\u2014may be less consequential than some of the other more serious issues that we shy away from in facing our resolutions. I\u2019m thinking of couples that really ought to take a long, hard look at their marriage relationship and the change that needs to take place there.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You're bringing up a great point, Bob. I think one of the things that needs to happen\u2014at this time of the year and use the holidays to do this\u2014is before you go back to work, take a hard look at your life and an inventory of your life.<\/p>\n<p>Galatians, Chapter 5, verse 19 to the end of the chapter, really, I think, have some exhortations for us here that really are timely. Verse 19 says, \"Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions\u2026\"<\/p>\n<p><strong>7:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It goes on to list a long grocery list of things that people have churning within them.<\/p>\n<p>The phrase that really stands out to me is the phrase, \"Now the deeds of the flesh are <em>evident<\/em>\u2026 [emphasis added]\" Now, that word, \"evident,\" really means that you've taken the time to ponder and to really inventory life. I think one of the things Christians don't do\u2014is they don't ever really face what is <em>evident<\/em> in their life, year after year after year. As a result, put up with some things that become habits and ingrained in who they are; and then they reach their middle-age years, 40s and 50s, and they give in and they don't ever change. That's not what Christianity was meant to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Some of those habits \/ some of those ingrained patterns, left unchecked, will fester and bloom into real problems later on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>They really will. That's how bitterness\u2014and people who grow old, who are angry and who are not joyful in their\u2014what I consider the <em>glory years<\/em>\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>8:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014what the Bible speaks of as the years when you ought to have the most to say\u2014those people are <em>trapped<\/em> in the midst of a prison of emotions that weren't dealt with, back at some pivotal points in their lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> It might be a good idea for husbands, as they face the new year \/ or for wives to sit down and look at Paul's charge to a husband or a wife in Ephesians 5 and ask themselves the questions: \u201cAm I loving my wife as Christ loves the church?\u00a0 Am I respectfully submitting to my husband?\u00a0 Am I laying down my own life for my husband or my wife?\u201d\u00a0 Looking back at the way in which we <em>failed<\/em> to live up to that standard in the past year\u2014that could be a constructive step toward positive change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Not only could be, it <em>will be<\/em> a constructive step. Why? Because when we face the reality of what is true in our lives\u2014and we admit it, and we don't kid ourselves, and we don\u2019t deny it\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>9:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014I really do believe the Christian community is really well-versed in <em>denying<\/em> certain things about our own lives. I don't think it's any mistake that Jesus said, \"Remove the log in your own eye before removing the speck in your brother's eye.\"\u00a0 Why?\u2014because I think we're outstanding at putting up with logs in our own eyes and spotting the specks in other people's eyes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> An illustration of the log-and-speck principle is one that I share often with my friends. I had a guy, many years ago, who was driving along with me; and he said, \"You know, my wife just doesn't submit to me the way the Bible instructs her to.\" And I said, \"She doesn't?\" He said, \"No.\" I said, \"Where does the Bible talk about that?\" He says, \"Well, in Ephesians 5.\" I said, \"What does it say there?\" Then he says, \"Well, it says, 'Wives,\"\u2014and I said, \"Hold it right there. Who is it talking to?\" He says, \"It's talking to wives.\" I said, \"Are you a wife?\" He said, \"No.\" I said: \"Okay; it's not for you. Go on to the next part.\" [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>10:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Then he stopped for a minute, but I just tried to drive home the point that the way his wife was responding to <em>him<\/em> was really not the issue. The issue that God was calling him to was how he was responding to his wife.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> And, you know, you're never going to really respond properly to your mate if you first don't take a step back and do what we're talking about here today, which is take an inventory\u2014and I mean a <em>hard<\/em> look \/ a <em>fearless<\/em> inventory. You know, a company, at the end of the year\u2014right now, companies all over America are closed up\u2014they're taking inventories. What kind of inventories do they take?\u2014a partial one? No! \u2014it's a fearless inventory. Why?\u2014because their very <em>life<\/em>, over the long-haul, is dependent upon an accurate inventory and a proper valuation of that inventory.<\/p>\n<p>And relationships, I think, are worth far more than our companies. We ought to pause, and pull back, and just get out of the swirl of the events of the holidays and use this little window\u2014right now \/ first of the year\u2014and just pull back with a sheet of paper and take that <em>fearless<\/em> inventory and ask God to search our hearts and to know us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>11:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, that may be the first step toward constructive change\u2014taking a fearless inventory\u2014but there are a lot of folks, Dennis, who bog down right there and, recognizing the failures of the past, become incapacitated\u2014they can't move ahead.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> They do\u2014they become defeated, disillusioned, disheartened, and they feel like there is no hope. But, you know, Galatians, Chapter 5, doesn't end with verse 21, just talking about the deeds of the flesh, which are evident. It moves on in verse 22 to say, \"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.\"<\/p>\n<p>You know\u2014here, Bob, is where I think the Scriptures provide the hope. It's interesting that it talked about \u201cthe deeds of the flesh are evident\u201d\u2014plural\u2014\u201cdeeds.\"\u00a0 Here it talks about a singular \"fruit\" and it uses a term that has, within it, something that's very important as we look at this subject of change today\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>12:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014and that is that we have to realize that <em>real<\/em> growth \/ real, true, Christian growth is usually not this dramatic, spiritual change that occurs instantly. Instead, real growth occurs like fruit grows. It occurs slowly\u2014it must develop, it must go through seasons, and it must mature, and it needs to be picked.<\/p>\n<p>I think, sometimes, in the Christian community, we've done a lot of harm to people who are looking for a quick fix \/ who are looking for an emotional high. We don't talk to them about the long-haul nature of the Christian life and the process they must go through to really, really change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, folks who are facing that frustration of wanting to change, and wanting to rely on the power of the Holy Spirit to do it, but knowing, in the past they have tried and failed\u2014speak to them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, there's grace there. That's what has always comforted me. The picture that Jesus gives us through the 12 disciples is a picture of a group of men, who failed repeatedly\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>13:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014and yet who were loved, who were forgiven, and who received grace in time of need. The reality of the Christian life is not perfect people, who always do everything just exactly right; but it is imperfect people, who fail repeatedly, but who have a God who stands ready to give them grace at those points.<\/p>\n<p>Now, to the person listening, who really suffers from always having to have everything perfect\u2014who has to have every shoe lined up in their closet \/ a clean house every day\u2014and there's always something unraveling around their lives\u2014they just need to <em>relax<\/em> in the Spirit. It [Galatians 5:1] says: \"It is for freedom Christ has set us free. Therefore, do not be subject again to the yoke of slavery.\" Some Christians are not enjoying the Christian life; they're <em>enduring<\/em> it.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I want to be quick to add here\u2014there is <em>pain<\/em> in the Christian life. It's the fine print in the contract when we became a Christian.<\/p>\n<p><strong>14:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A lot of us do not talk about that when we introduce a person to the person of Jesus Christ, but there is pain involved in being a follower of Christ. Why? Because the One we are following is perfect; but the reality is, He has given us grace for when we fall short of His perfect ideal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Let me have you talk for just a minute to the average American husband. If he were to make a resolution for making his marriage better, what one resolution would you recommend to him?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I think the thing I would tell him to do would be to encourage him to go to his wife and say: \"Okay; Sweetheart, I've got my pencil in hand. Tell me ten ways to love you better.\" I did this with Barbara a number of years ago, and you know what?\u00a0 It took her a while; but she came up with a list, and it wasn't your light-lunch list. It was some real specifics that I wrote down on the inside of my calendar. It was the things that communicated love\u2014and, Bob, here\u2019s the key\u2014it was the things that communicated love to <em>her<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>15:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> There's something very un-heroic for most of us men about the idea of loving our wife through folding the towel after we're done with it in the bathroom or carrying the laundry down to the laundry room; and yet, that may be the very thing that really endears us to our mate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It really may. That really is another way, I think, of working out this subject of change in our lives\u2014and that is practicing your Christianity in the little things. Jesus made it real clear in the New Testament that, if you want to receive much more \/ if you want to get the rewards, be faithful in the little. Don't just wait until you get the big stuff to be faithful\u2014be faithful in the little things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> To be fair, I've got to ask you if you could get the average American wife in our studio and give her the one New Year's resolution that she ought to make for her husband\u2014what would it be?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, I hate to be trite and take her back to the same point I've taken to the men; but I think it would be good for her to plot the same sheet of paper down\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>16:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014that she's had the privilege of looking at with her husband, hopefully, and had a chance to develop\u2014and that would be to write out \/ ask her husband to write out ten things that would communicate love to him. A key word for your husband may not be the word, \"love,\" either, ladies\u2014it really may be the word, \"respect.\"<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that men really need, as men, is they need to be respected by you, as their wife. I think you may be surprised at what may fill that list and what issues are tied to that subject of respect. It may be finances, it may be schedule, it may be children, it may be issues like a sexual relationship; but the important thing is to find out what his needs are in that area, and then to do everything you can to really practically meet them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> I'm thinking of those lists\u2014on the insides of Day-Timer<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>s or tucked away in a drawer somewhere\u2014and, again, the end-of-January phenomenon of looking at them and seeing how far short you've fallen in such a short period of time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>17:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Well, I'm reminded of C.H. Spurgeon's great quote: \"It was by perseverance the snail reached the ark.\" I like that word picture; because it really is through perseverance in the marriage relationship with one another \/ with our own children that really we build this thing called marriage, and we bring about change in each other's lives.<\/p>\n<p>I look back on my own marriage and my own relationship with Barbara, and the real gains are seldom in the sprint\u2014they're in this little stuff that we're talking about; they're in the major commitments we're talking about; and they are in perseverance and a desire to do what is right, regardless of the response of the other person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> This all involves grace on the part of our mates as well; doesn't it?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It really does. I think, if you don't have the ability to forgive and move on, then you're going to hold these things against each other. Someone has said, \"The longer you carry a grudge, the heavier it gets.\"<\/p>\n<p><strong>18:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Forgiveness, as we said many times already on this program, forgiveness is really one of the keys to building a truly distinctive Christian marriage. If you're not a great forgiver, then you need to ask God to give you a forgiving heart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Well, we've talked about taking a fearless inventory, and we've talked about really relying on the power of the Holy Spirit for change to happen in our life. I have <em>loved<\/em> the suggestions of a husband and wife exchanging ways in which each of them can better serve and better love their spouse.<\/p>\n<p>As we head into the New Year, how would you challenge us for change?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Bob, I really want to end up, challenging people with Christ's admonition that is found in a parable in Matthew 25:26-30. It was the story of talents and investing their talent. You know, as we think about this subject of change and growth, one of the principles that Jesus spoke of in this parable was: \u201cIf you want to see change in your life and see growth occur, then the best thing you can do is to take what you\u2019ve been given and use it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>19:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I'm thinking of a couple, right now, who came to the conference in Dallas, Texas. I'll change their names to protect them, although they would have no problem me telling this story at all; but Dan and Sue attended the conference there. Their marriage of 23 years was nearly over. At the conference, they had one of those life-altering confrontations with Christ. Their marriage was nearly over \/ they hadn't told anybody in their church; but at the conference, they really confessed their sins. It really was a time where there was great change that occurred in their marriage and in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Well, they left that conference determined, not only to have a great marriage, but to make a difference in other marriages and not to assume that everybody else in their church had marriages that were together. They took our small group Bible study, the <em>HomeBuilders<\/em><em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup><\/em><em> Couples Series<\/em> [currently, <em>The Art of Marriage<\/em><sup>\u00ae <\/sup><em>Connect Series<\/em>], back to a church of 180 couples in North Dallas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>20:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They began to promote the <em>HomeBuilders<\/em> as a Bible study for couples to get involved with.<\/p>\n<p>Well, some six\/eight months later, they had over 100 couples, Bob, out of the 180, involved in <em>HomeBuilders<\/em>. They had designed t-shirts\u2014with all the verses that are found in the <em>HomeBuilders Couple Series<\/em> Bible study\u2014put those on t-shirts for all the members in the church. They had all these people doing songs. They built a whole movement within that church of couples, not only strengthening couples within the church, but reaching out beyond it\u2014people were receiving Christ \/ people being brought into the church. It all started with a couple, who had just a few talents\u2014and decided that they were going to take something that had happened in their marriage \/ they were going to personalize it\u2014and press it into the fresh clay of other people's lives.<\/p>\n<p>One of my great desires for this program, as we continue to share these principles with our audience\u2014is not just to give hope\u2014but to also challenge people to use their talents; because, as they do that, there will be growth \/ there will be excitement.<\/p>\n<p><strong>21:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you get involved in the process of pouring your life out for others, <em>that's<\/em> when your life really begins to take off.<\/p>\n<p>[Studio]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>We\u2019ve been listening to a program from the beginning\u2014from the first month of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> \/ actually, the second month\u2014this aired in December of 1992.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It sounds like you are talking about creation\u2014\u201cfrom the beginning.\u201d [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>But isn\u2019t it interesting?\u2014here, you\u2019re talking about people getting involved and reaching out and helping other people. You\u2019ve been saying the same stuff for awhile now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I have; and I think it\u2019s how you change the course of families\u2014here, in America, and around the world\u2014put the tools in the hands of laymen and women and challenge them to get involved and make a difference where they live.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Your voice has deepened a little bit since then.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And yours hasn\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I guess we both\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Yours kind of sounded squeaky. [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I did sound squeaky. [Laughter] But the principles remain the same.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I loved it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>22:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You know, what I loved the most?\u2014is we went on the air, folks, and people would confuse my voice with Bob\u2019s. You have <em>no idea<\/em> of how that completely wounded him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>It really was wounding.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> He has scars\u2014that some of you listeners came up and said you had <em>no idea<\/em> that he was a trained professional and I wasn\u2019t\u2014I was a rookie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>I had been in broadcasting for 13 years, at that point; and Dennis had just gotten started. People said, \u201cI get the two of you mixed up!\u201d\u00a0 I go: \u201cReally?\u2014really? [Laughter] You can\u2019t tell him from <em>me<\/em>?\u201d [Prolonged laughter]<\/p>\n<p>Well, this year, we are going to be highlighting our 25 years of broadcasting\u2014[Laughter]\u2014in fact, throughout the year, we\u2019re going to feature some highlights\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I paid every one of them to say that! [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014we\u2019re going to feature some highlights from programs over the years. I hope our listeners, throughout the year, will enjoy some of the special programs we have coming up; because I think you are going to hear some of the best of the best from the last 25 years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>23:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I just want to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d to all the Legacy Partners who keep this broadcast coming on this station. You are the fans that keep the fires burning, back here at <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. I just want to say, \u201cThank you.\u201d And to everybody who gave in the month of December, as we challenged you to step up\u2014a number of you did\u2014\u201cThank you,\u201d to all of you who stand with us. This is a donor-supported ministry, which being interpreted is: \u201cYou give \/ we stay on the air.\u201d [Laughter]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>That\u2019s how it works!\u2014again, \u201cThank you,\u201d to those of you who gave at yearend \/ \u201cThanks,\u201d to our Legacy Partners.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019d like to start our celebration of 25 years of broadcasting <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> by becoming a new Legacy Partner, we\u2019d love to have you join the team and make a donation <em>each month<\/em>. You can find out more, online, at FamilyLifeToday.com; or call and just say, \u201cI\u2019m interested in becoming a Legacy Partner,\u201d\u20141-800-FL-TODAY is our toll-free number. We\u2019d love to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>24:00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And we hope you\u2019ll be back with us again tomorrow when we\u2019re going to talk about the priority of prayer, going into the new year. Don Whitney will be here to help us talk about how we can use the Bible as our prayer guide in 2017. I hope you can be here with us for that.<\/p>\n<p>I want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, the more mature-sounding Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back next time for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong><em> FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of Fam-i-lyLife\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> See, you can\u2019t even do it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u2014a ministry of Cru\u2014<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob:<\/strong> Just let me do it; alright?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u2014in Little Rock, Arkansas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong><em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of <em>FamilyLife<\/em> of little Rock, Arkansas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You listeners couldn\u2019t tell the difference; could you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Help for today. Hope for tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>We are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. 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