{"id":304218,"date":"2016-10-20T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-10-20T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/%series%\/the-art-of-being-a-wife\/"},"modified":"2016-10-20T11:00:00","modified_gmt":"2016-10-20T15:00:00","slug":"the-art-of-being-a-wife","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/the-art-of-being-a-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Being a Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>guest: Barbara Rainey | Marriage should be a work of art, and the best marriages are definitely collaborative works. Artist and author Barbara Rainey shares marriage lessons taken from a pallet of more than four decades of matrimony.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage should be a work of art, and the best marriages are definitely collaborative works. 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This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n"},"spectra_custom_meta":{"_wp_page_template":["default"],"transcript_url":["https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2016-10-20.pdf"],"audio_file":["https:\/\/web.familylifetoday.com\/fl2016-10-20.mp3"],"transcript_content":["<strong>Bob: <\/strong>In the Book of James, the Bible says we are to be \u201cquick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.\u201d Barbara Rainey says she doesn\u2019t see that being lived out today in a lot of marriages.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We are so quick, as women, to say exactly what we think \/ exactly how we feel without much regard for how that impacts him\u2014or other people, for that matter. We have a really high value in our culture today on being truthful \/ on saying what we think; but we don\u2019t have an equally high value on saying it in love. It affects our marriages. We all say things in our marriages that we probably shouldn\u2019t say.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Thursday, October 20<sup>th<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine. Would your marriage be different \/ be better if you slowed down and didn\u2019t speak as thoughtlessly as you sometimes do? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>1:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re going to hear from Barbara Rainey on that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us. Most of the time, I am glad our program is radio and not television. That way I can wear pajamas to the studio if I want to and nobody knows what I\u2019m\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You have never done that. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Except all of us in the studio would know! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Twenty-four years\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>You should try it sometime! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, I\u2019d have to go buy a pair of pajamas first before I did that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Oh! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>But, there are days when you think the visual would be helpful. Actually, what we\u2019re going to hear today\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Of you and your pajamas? I\u2019m not getting beyond that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>No, not that visual. There\u2019s a different visual here. It involves your wife, who is joining us again. Welcome back to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>, Barbara.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Thanks, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You had an opportunity, not long ago, to speak to a group of wives and moms. You were talking from the book you\u2019ve written, <em>Letters to My Daughters<\/em>. You did something unique as you began this message that we really can\u2019t\u2014we can\u2019t show it on radio the way we wish we could.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I wish we could show it. It actually was quite fun. What we did is\u2014I set up an artist easel on the stage, with a large canvas. I had two wooden palettes. I invited a woman to help me do this\u2014someone whom I had never met before \/ someone who has an interest in art. So, I wasn\u2019t asking someone to do something that would be totally foreign to her. But nonetheless, we didn\u2019t really talk this through ahead of time. On this easel\u2014I did tell her ahead of time, \u201cHere\u2019s what I want us to do\u2014you and I are going to paint something.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe had the easel turned away from the audience so they couldn\u2019t see it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI told the audience that each of us had a palette in our hands, with different colors. She had five colors and I had five colors. We had two that were the same, but the other four were each different. That was to illustrate for the audience that a husband has responsibilities in marriage that are different than a wife, and a wife has responsibilities that are different than the husband. Both of us are commanded to love\u2014that was the color we had in common. In that illustration, the love was the color white\u2014we both had the color white.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe went to work painting, much like you do in a marriage. I didn\u2019t know her very well, and she didn\u2019t know me. That\u2019s very much like a marriage when it begins. We think we know each other, but we don\u2019t know each other at all.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And so, I\u2019m wondering if you whispered to her what you were going to paint?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No\u2014well, I did tell her what shape I wanted us to paint, but I was not talking to her as we painted. I was talking to the audience, and I was explaining, \u201cOne of the colors on my husband\u2019s palette is, \u2018Live with your wife in an understanding way.\u2019 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cHe\u2019s been commanded to do that, but that doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019m not supposed to be understanding of him.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs this woman and I painted this image on this canvas, I was explaining that principle. I reached over and I got some of her yellow off of her palette, and I put some yellow on my half of the painting. For about ten minutes we worked on this painting. It was a painting of a heart\u2014she did one half and I did one half\u2014and they were very different. Yet, there were some similarities between them; because we were both painting the same picture. Then, when we finished, we turned it around and showed the audience. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe whole idea was to help create a visual so women could see that God\u2019s idea for marriage was to create a masterpiece\u2014to create a painting that was unique from every other couple\u2019s painting on the planet. The painting that Dennis and I create in our marriage is going to very different than the painting you [Bob] and Mary Ann create.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So that opening illustration\u2014quite literally an illustration\u2014set up the rest of what you wanted to talk about. That\u2019s what our listeners are going to get a chance to hear today\u2014how you took that opening illustration and explained to young wives what the marriage masterpiece is supposed to look like.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[Recorded Message]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>My husband and I could not be more different. We still run into that, even after 40 years of marriage. I made a list of all the ways that we\u2019re different\u2014and this is just a start. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMy husband thinks globally. He\u2019s always thinking in the big picture. I think locally\u2014I think about my home, I think about my neighborhood\u2014I think a lot smaller than he does. That\u2019s a <em>big<\/em> difference in the two of us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMy husband is spontaneous \/ I am a planner\u2014and that\u2019s a <em>big<\/em> clash in our marriage, oftentimes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of the ways that\u2019s a big clash in our marriage is anytime we travel by car. My husband\u2019s way of packing the car is to just get everything that\u2019s going to go and just throw it in there: \u201cIt\u2019s going with us; right? Does it matter what order it\u2019s in?\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd the answer is: \u201cYes!\u201d [Laughter] \u201cYes. You put the big suitcases on the bottom, and then the smaller ones, and then the tiny ones on top. You\u2019re careful with the things that could break, and you organize things, just so, in the car.\u201d <em>Lots<\/em> of clashes in our marriage, because he\u2019s spontaneous and I\u2019m a planner. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe is an extravert, and I am an introvert. He is a road-runner, and I am a homebody. He would be on the road all the time if he could, but I have been the one who has sort of pulled him back and said: \u201cNo; we\u2019re going too much. We can\u2019t go anymore.\u201d Sometimes, that\u2019s been a stress for him \/ sometimes, he hasn\u2019t liked that\u2014but it\u2019s been a good balance in our marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe\u2019s a people-person \/ I\u2019m a task-person. He loves to hunt and fish, and I love art and beauty. He\u2019s a random thinker \/ I think sequentially, in order. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>7:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHis love language is the physical \/ my love language is words. He processes information quickly \/ I process information slowly and methodically. Rules, to him, are guidelines. [Laughter] Rules, to me, are to be kept. He thinks with the big picture, and the general idea is good enough. I\u2019m a perfectionist\u2014details matter and accuracy is important.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, that\u2019s just a summary. There are lots more differences between us. As a result of all those differences, we both hurt one another; and we suffer. Our brokenness makes life difficult for the other person.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnother thing that has been just this little irritant for me for years is that, when my husband comes home from work in the afternoon or in the early evening\u2014sometimes, it\u2019s later in the evening\u2014his office is literally six steps inside the front door, on the left. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tInstead of going into the office to deposit his things, he walks past his office, around the corner, into the kitchen. At one end of the island goes the backpack, and then the keys, and then his stack of papers\u2014all the way down the island are all of his things.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFor a long time, that just used to drive me crazy. I thought: \u201cSeriously?! Your office is right there\u2014it\u2019s all yours\u2014the whole room is yours. You can put it all in there any way you want to put it in there, but the island is where we live \/ it\u2019s where we cook; and his stuff is all the way down.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne day, I thought, \u201cYou know, there will probably come a day when I will wish his stuff was all over the island; because I would rather have him and his stuff all over the island than not have him at all.\u201d I finally backed off and said: \u201cYou know what? Who cares?\u201d So I just am constantly moving stuff away, when it\u2019s time to cook and clean, so it doesn\u2019t get all ruined.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat I want you to do really quickly is\u2014remember this, first of all\u2014differences have a divine purpose. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe tend to look at the differences as irritants \/ as things that we would like to do away with or change; but differences have a divine purpose.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSecondly, every couple struggles with unhealthy comparisons. We are <em>always<\/em> looking at other wives; we\u2019re always looking at other husbands; we\u2019re always looking at other marriages; and we think that we\u2019re short on something. It reminds me of what happened with Eve\u2014I think that\u2019s what happened with Eve. She compared herself\u2014because she listened to the enemy\u2014and she compared herself with God and thought, \u201cHe has something I don\u2019t have, and it\u2019s not fair.\u201d That\u2019s where it all began, and I think we\u2019re dealing with it still today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAlright, number three\u2014every couple has a unique calling. Within the form and the shape that God has designed for marriage, God has purposes that He wants to do with your marriage that are different than your neighbors\u2019, or your friends\u2019, or your next-door neighbor, or your sister. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGod has a unique calling for every single marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of the reasons that I chose this board is because it reminds me of my friend Donna, who lives in Alaska. Donna is a homeschooling mom. She cooks all her own food; she cans; she does all these very domestic, feminine-sounding activities; but Donna also packs heat. Donna also knows how to kill a bear. Donna also knows how to repair an engine on all kinds of vehicles. Donna knows how to do things that most of us in this room have never even thought about doing. But Donna has a unique calling in her marriage; because she\u2019s married to a man who\u2019s a bush pilot, and they own a lodge in the wilderness in Alaska. That\u2019s not God\u2019s calling for my life \/ it\u2019s not His calling for your life. It <em>is<\/em> His calling for her life, and she is embracing it. She is saying, \u201cThank You, God, for what You have called me to do.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI have another friend who lives in New Zealand. She is married to a man who has been on dialysis for 20 years. That is not my calling\u2014it\u2019s probably not most of your calling, either\u2014but God has called Nikki to be married to Andy and to live with him in the real extreme challenges that he has to face every day because he doesn\u2019t have kidneys that work.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don\u2019t know what it is about your marriage that is unique\u2014that God has placed in you for His purposes\u2014but you do. Our responsibility is to identify that and see what God wants to do, because He has a story to tell with you and your husband that He can\u2019t tell with anybody else.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe first tip I wanted to give you is: \u201cListen to the artist of your marriage.\u201d The second one is\u2014I want you to: \u201cListen to the author of your marriage story,\u201d\u2014and that\u2019s the Holy Spirit. God is the one who designed this concept and created this image of marriage, and He has a purpose for your marriage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe Holy Spirit is the one who makes it work\u2014He\u2019s the one who is orchestrating your story. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWho created your marriage? It was God Himself. And who brought you two together as husband and wife? God brought you together as husband and wife; didn\u2019t He? Well, He is the One who knows how to make it work.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere\u2019s a story in the Book of John about Jesus. The story goes like this: Jesus was at home, and his brothers were there. It was the time for the feast. The feast came and it was one of the feasts when everyone\u2014all the men\u2014had to go to Jerusalem to worship at the temple. His brothers came to Him and said: \u201cIt\u2019s time for the feast. We\u2019re going, and You need to come too.\u201d And Jesus said, \u201cIt\u2019s not My time yet.\u201d They said: \u201cBut You need to show Yourself. People need to know who You are. You need to come where everyone is and make Yourself known.\u201d And Jesus said: \u201cNo. It\u2019s not My time.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat always puzzled me; because in the very next verse, after the brothers left, Jesus got up and went. I never understood: \u201cWhy did Jesus not go in the beginning when they asked Him to go if He was going to go ahead and go anyway?\u201d\u2014right? It just didn\u2019t make sense to me. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut then I found the answer one day; and it\u2019s in John 8:28, just a few verses later. Jesus said in verse 28\u2014He said, \u201cI do nothing on My own initiative, but I speak the things that the Father has taught Me.\u201d Then, in verse 29, He said, \u201cHe has not left Me alone\u201d\u2014speaking of the Father\u2014\u201cfor I always do the things that are pleasing to Him.\u201d When I finally thought about that verse for a minute, it just was really stunning to me\u2014and still is\u2014Jesus said, \u201cI do nothing apart from the Father.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow I want you to think for a minute: \u201cAs a wife, how many things do you do apart from the Father? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cHow many things do you do on your own?\u201d It\u2019s a hard question; isn\u2019t it? How many times do we speak on our own initiative? How many times do we say what we want to say on our own initiative\u2014without listening to the Father \/ without listening to the Spirit\u2014say: \u201cShould I say this to my husband? Is this the right thing for me to tell him? Should I keep my mouth shut?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tJesus didn\u2019t go to the feast, because the Father didn\u2019t tell Him to go to the feast. He waited until He got permission from God, and then He went the next day.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat that does for me, as a wife, is\u2014I need to be listening to the Holy Spirit and saying what He wants me to say and not saying what I want to say. We are so quick, as women, to say exactly what we think \/ exactly how we feel, without much regard for how that impacts him\u2014or other people, for that matter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe have a really high value in our culture today on being truthful \/ on saying what we think, but we don\u2019t have an equally high value on saying it in love and on self-restraint. Neither one of those are virtues that we\u2019re lifting up in our culture today. We\u2019re lifting up one without the other, and it affects our marriages. We all say things in our marriages that we probably shouldn\u2019t say.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere is forgiveness\u2014so I don\u2019t want anybody to think that we\u2019re talking about perfection, because it can\u2019t happen. The point is\u2014 we need to be growing, as women, and learning how to listen to the Holy Spirit and what He says.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to read you a couple\u2014short paragraph out of my book on the Holy Spirit: \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow that we\u2019ve traveled 40 years of marriage by faith, I\u2019ve come to realize that the Holy Spirit is my dearest Friend. He is misunderstood, and neglected, and often ignored; but this greatest gift to those of us who believe is the One who has helped me most become who I am today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt is because of Him that our marriage has survived and not died. It is because of Him that our marriage thrives, even today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe has whispered truth to me and guided me to the best paths. He has given me wisdom when I asked; He has gently nudged me to speak; and at other times, He has nudged me to be quiet. When I have listened to His leading, I have never, ever been sorry. When I haven\u2019t listened, I\u2019ve had regrets and plenty of them. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFollowing the Holy Spirit has been slow and arduous, not because He is not a good leader, but because I\u2019m not a good follower. Whispers require attentiveness; and the Holy Spirit whispers to us, which I love! Sometimes I wish He\u2019d be a little louder so I could really be sure I\u2019m hearing Him, but He doesn\u2019t yell at us. He\u2019s not in your face. He whispers, because He wants us to pay attention to His voice, and we need to learn to hear His voice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhispering requires attentiveness, and understanding means learning His language. We need to know how He speaks. If you\u2019re not there yet, be patient with yourself; because Jesus said, \u201cMy sheep hear my voice,\u201d and you will, too, in time. So it\u2019s a growing thing, to learn to hear the Holy Spirit\u2019s voice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNumber three\u2014listen to God\u2019s truth about you and your marriage. The overriding lesson that I want to share with you from 40 years of marriage is this: \u201cGod is faithful, and He will give us what we need to rise above any challenge, if we ask Him and if we wait for Him to provide.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think we\u2019re <em>way<\/em> too impatient in this culture. I think social media has robbed us\u2014and the internet\u2014of our patience. I get so impatient when I try to go online and find something and that\u2019s not there [snap of fingers] that fast. I think that seeps over into my relationship with God. It seeps over into my marriage: \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cI want things fixed <em>now<\/em>!\u201d\u201d \u201cI want God to tell me what to do <em>now<\/em>!\u201d \u201cI want God to take care of this right <em>now<\/em>.\u201d And God says: \u201cWait! Wait on Me.\u201d Waiting is <em>so<\/em> very challenging and hard. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI got a text from my daughter the other day. I was going to read it to you, but it will take too long to pull it up\u2014impatient; right? But she wrote that just a few days ago\u2014and this is a daughter who lives in another state \/ not Ashley who is here with me\u2014she said, \u201cOhh!\u201d\u2014she wrote out: \u201cArgh! Marriage is so hard.\u201d She said, \u201cI\u2019m having such a struggle today, and it\u2019s so hard.\u201d She said, \u201cWill you pray for me?\u201d And I did. And it\u2019s just <em>true<\/em>\u2014we all have those days; don\u2019t we?\u2014when marriage just feels <em>impossible<\/em>: \u201cIt\u2019s impossible to understand this man,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s impossible to live with this man,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s impossible\u2014the situation that we find ourselves in.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I want to encourage you not to quit and give up when you run into those impossibilities in your marriage, because you\u2019re going to keep running into those impossibilities in your marriage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThey aren\u2019t going to go away. You\u2019re going to keep running into them. If you quit on your marriage, you\u2019re interrupting the process of what God wants to do. If we\u2019ll just wait, He will produce the beauty and the hope that we long for in our marriages.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of my very favorite verses\u2014that I have loved for decades\u2014is in Luke 1:37. That verse comes in the story of when Gabriel came to visit Mary. He showed up and he told her that she was going to have a baby. And she said: \u201cHow can this be? I\u2019m a virgin \/ I\u2019m a young girl. How can this possibly be true?\u201d And what did he say to her? He said to her, \u201cNothing is impossible with God.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI have taken that verse to heart for decades, because there are lots of times in my marriage when it feels way too hard \/ it feels impossible. It feels like we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> get through this rough place. It feels like we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> come to understanding \/ we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> really get to a place of peace again. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remind myself of this verse\u2014if we belong to Him, He can make our marriages work. That\u2019s the big picture that I want you to hear and understand: \u201cIf you belong to Him, He is the One who can give you the kind of marriage that you wanted and that you got married for in the first place.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[Studio]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And, we\u2019ve been listening to a message by Barbara Rainey, called \u201cThe Masterpiece of Marriage.\u201d You just heard her talking about her husband\u2014marriage to an impossible man. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>There are times, though, that the two of you, working on the same painting, have not always made it exactly the same; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>More than a few times. You know, it is interesting, though\u2014if you don\u2019t quit, the Master will cause the image of Christ to emerge from the broken palettes \/ the broken people\u2014of a husband and a wife in a marriage relationship\u2014who are committed to one another for a lifetime.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well\u2014and I would imagine, Barbara, that painting, side by side, with another artist probably makes you a little better in what you do rather than just being on your own and only using your gifts and abilities.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>That\u2019s easy for you to say! If you knew my artistic abilities\u2014Bob, if I was painting on there\u2014no; no; no! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Have finger paint and have\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>There you go!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and have\u2014[Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe good news is\u2014you had zero to do with the art for Barbara\u2019s book <em>Letters to My Daughters<\/em>, which we have in our <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> Resource Center. Listeners can go online to order a copy of Barbara\u2019s book. Again, the title is <em>Letters to My Daughters: The Art of Being a Wife<\/em>. You can order online at FamilyLifeToday.com, or you can call to order at 1-800-FL-TODAY. If you don\u2019t have a copy of the book, I\u2019d encourage you to get it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>22:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMaybe you know somebody you\u2019d like to buy a copy for and pass it on to them. Again, go to FamilyLifeToday.com, or call 1-800-358-6329. That\u2019s 1-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow: \u201cHappy anniversary!\u201d today to a couple, who have been married <em>42 years<\/em>\u2014Dean and Wendy Macinskas, who live in Telford, Pennsylvania. They listen to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> on WDAC \/ they\u2019ve been to the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup>. Forty-two years of marriage as husband and wife\u2014\u201cCongratulations!\u201d to Dean and Wendy\u2014and I hope you have a great celebration of your 42<sup>nd<\/sup> anniversary today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAt FamilyLife, we are committed to helping more couples celebrate more anniversaries. We want to effectively develop godly marriages and families; because we believe godly families can change the world, one home at a time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>23:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe appreciate those of you who invest in the spiritual strength and health of marriages and families by investing in the work of FamilyLife\u2014those of you who are Legacy Partners and give each month or those of you who will, from time to time, make a donation. On behalf of those who listen and benefit from this ministry, I just want to express our gratitude for your investment in those marriages and in those families.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIf you can help with a donation today, we\u2019d love to send you a banner that Barbara Rainey has created for your home that declares that your home is an embassy of the kingdom of heaven. It\u2019s a way to remind yourself and others who visit that your ultimate allegiance is to the King of kings and the Lord of lords. That\u2019s our gift to you when you go to FamilyLifeToday.com and make an online donation, or when you call 1-800-FL-TODAY and donate over the phone. Or you can mail your donation, along with your request for the banner, to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> at PO Box 7111, Little Rock, AR; and our zip code is 72223.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>24:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, tomorrow, we\u2019re going to hear from Barbara Rainey as she interacts with a group of moms of teens. They have questions about parenting teenagers, and Barbara has some great answers. We\u2019ll hear that tomorrow. I hope you can tune in for that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back tomorrow for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHelp for today. 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should be a work of art, and the best marriages are definitely collaborative works. Barbara Rainey shares marriage lessons taken from a pallet of more than four decades of matrimony.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2016-10-20.pdf","transcript_content":"<strong>Bob: <\/strong>In the Book of James, the Bible says we are to be \u201cquick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.\u201d Barbara Rainey says she doesn\u2019t see that being lived out today in a lot of marriages.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We are so quick, as women, to say exactly what we think \/ exactly how we feel without much regard for how that impacts him\u2014or other people, for that matter. We have a really high value in our culture today on being truthful \/ on saying what we think; but we don\u2019t have an equally high value on saying it in love. It affects our marriages. We all say things in our marriages that we probably shouldn\u2019t say.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Thursday, October 20<sup>th<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine. Would your marriage be different \/ be better if you slowed down and didn\u2019t speak as thoughtlessly as you sometimes do? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>1:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re going to hear from Barbara Rainey on that today. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us. Most of the time, I am glad our program is radio and not television. That way I can wear pajamas to the studio if I want to and nobody knows what I\u2019m\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>You have never done that. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Except all of us in the studio would know! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Twenty-four years\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>You should try it sometime! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, I\u2019d have to go buy a pair of pajamas first before I did that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Oh! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>But, there are days when you think the visual would be helpful. Actually, what we\u2019re going to hear today\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>Of you and your pajamas? I\u2019m not getting beyond that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>No, not that visual. There\u2019s a different visual here. It involves your wife, who is joining us again. Welcome back to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>, Barbara.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Thanks, Bob.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You had an opportunity, not long ago, to speak to a group of wives and moms. You were talking from the book you\u2019ve written, <em>Letters to My Daughters<\/em>. You did something unique as you began this message that we really can\u2019t\u2014we can\u2019t show it on radio the way we wish we could.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I wish we could show it. It actually was quite fun. What we did is\u2014I set up an artist easel on the stage, with a large canvas. I had two wooden palettes. I invited a woman to help me do this\u2014someone whom I had never met before \/ someone who has an interest in art. So, I wasn\u2019t asking someone to do something that would be totally foreign to her. But nonetheless, we didn\u2019t really talk this through ahead of time. On this easel\u2014I did tell her ahead of time, \u201cHere\u2019s what I want us to do\u2014you and I are going to paint something.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe had the easel turned away from the audience so they couldn\u2019t see it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI told the audience that each of us had a palette in our hands, with different colors. She had five colors and I had five colors. We had two that were the same, but the other four were each different. That was to illustrate for the audience that a husband has responsibilities in marriage that are different than a wife, and a wife has responsibilities that are different than the husband. Both of us are commanded to love\u2014that was the color we had in common. In that illustration, the love was the color white\u2014we both had the color white.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe went to work painting, much like you do in a marriage. I didn\u2019t know her very well, and she didn\u2019t know me. That\u2019s very much like a marriage when it begins. We think we know each other, but we don\u2019t know each other at all.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And so, I\u2019m wondering if you whispered to her what you were going to paint?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No\u2014well, I did tell her what shape I wanted us to paint, but I was not talking to her as we painted. I was talking to the audience, and I was explaining, \u201cOne of the colors on my husband\u2019s palette is, \u2018Live with your wife in an understanding way.\u2019 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cHe\u2019s been commanded to do that, but that doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019m not supposed to be understanding of him.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs this woman and I painted this image on this canvas, I was explaining that principle. I reached over and I got some of her yellow off of her palette, and I put some yellow on my half of the painting. For about ten minutes we worked on this painting. It was a painting of a heart\u2014she did one half and I did one half\u2014and they were very different. Yet, there were some similarities between them; because we were both painting the same picture. Then, when we finished, we turned it around and showed the audience. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe whole idea was to help create a visual so women could see that God\u2019s idea for marriage was to create a masterpiece\u2014to create a painting that was unique from every other couple\u2019s painting on the planet. The painting that Dennis and I create in our marriage is going to very different than the painting you [Bob] and Mary Ann create.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So that opening illustration\u2014quite literally an illustration\u2014set up the rest of what you wanted to talk about. That\u2019s what our listeners are going to get a chance to hear today\u2014how you took that opening illustration and explained to young wives what the marriage masterpiece is supposed to look like.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[Recorded Message]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>My husband and I could not be more different. We still run into that, even after 40 years of marriage. I made a list of all the ways that we\u2019re different\u2014and this is just a start. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMy husband thinks globally. He\u2019s always thinking in the big picture. I think locally\u2014I think about my home, I think about my neighborhood\u2014I think a lot smaller than he does. That\u2019s a <em>big<\/em> difference in the two of us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMy husband is spontaneous \/ I am a planner\u2014and that\u2019s a <em>big<\/em> clash in our marriage, oftentimes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of the ways that\u2019s a big clash in our marriage is anytime we travel by car. My husband\u2019s way of packing the car is to just get everything that\u2019s going to go and just throw it in there: \u201cIt\u2019s going with us; right? Does it matter what order it\u2019s in?\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd the answer is: \u201cYes!\u201d [Laughter] \u201cYes. You put the big suitcases on the bottom, and then the smaller ones, and then the tiny ones on top. You\u2019re careful with the things that could break, and you organize things, just so, in the car.\u201d <em>Lots<\/em> of clashes in our marriage, because he\u2019s spontaneous and I\u2019m a planner. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe is an extravert, and I am an introvert. He is a road-runner, and I am a homebody. He would be on the road all the time if he could, but I have been the one who has sort of pulled him back and said: \u201cNo; we\u2019re going too much. We can\u2019t go anymore.\u201d Sometimes, that\u2019s been a stress for him \/ sometimes, he hasn\u2019t liked that\u2014but it\u2019s been a good balance in our marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe\u2019s a people-person \/ I\u2019m a task-person. He loves to hunt and fish, and I love art and beauty. 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Our brokenness makes life difficult for the other person.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnother thing that has been just this little irritant for me for years is that, when my husband comes home from work in the afternoon or in the early evening\u2014sometimes, it\u2019s later in the evening\u2014his office is literally six steps inside the front door, on the left. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tInstead of going into the office to deposit his things, he walks past his office, around the corner, into the kitchen. At one end of the island goes the backpack, and then the keys, and then his stack of papers\u2014all the way down the island are all of his things.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFor a long time, that just used to drive me crazy. I thought: \u201cSeriously?! Your office is right there\u2014it\u2019s all yours\u2014the whole room is yours. You can put it all in there any way you want to put it in there, but the island is where we live \/ it\u2019s where we cook; and his stuff is all the way down.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne day, I thought, \u201cYou know, there will probably come a day when I will wish his stuff was all over the island; because I would rather have him and his stuff all over the island than not have him at all.\u201d I finally backed off and said: \u201cYou know what? Who cares?\u201d So I just am constantly moving stuff away, when it\u2019s time to cook and clean, so it doesn\u2019t get all ruined.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat I want you to do really quickly is\u2014remember this, first of all\u2014differences have a divine purpose. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe tend to look at the differences as irritants \/ as things that we would like to do away with or change; but differences have a divine purpose.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSecondly, every couple struggles with unhealthy comparisons. We are <em>always<\/em> looking at other wives; we\u2019re always looking at other husbands; we\u2019re always looking at other marriages; and we think that we\u2019re short on something. It reminds me of what happened with Eve\u2014I think that\u2019s what happened with Eve. She compared herself\u2014because she listened to the enemy\u2014and she compared herself with God and thought, \u201cHe has something I don\u2019t have, and it\u2019s not fair.\u201d That\u2019s where it all began, and I think we\u2019re dealing with it still today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAlright, number three\u2014every couple has a unique calling. Within the form and the shape that God has designed for marriage, God has purposes that He wants to do with your marriage that are different than your neighbors\u2019, or your friends\u2019, or your next-door neighbor, or your sister. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGod has a unique calling for every single marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of the reasons that I chose this board is because it reminds me of my friend Donna, who lives in Alaska. Donna is a homeschooling mom. She cooks all her own food; she cans; she does all these very domestic, feminine-sounding activities; but Donna also packs heat. Donna also knows how to kill a bear. Donna also knows how to repair an engine on all kinds of vehicles. Donna knows how to do things that most of us in this room have never even thought about doing. But Donna has a unique calling in her marriage; because she\u2019s married to a man who\u2019s a bush pilot, and they own a lodge in the wilderness in Alaska. That\u2019s not God\u2019s calling for my life \/ it\u2019s not His calling for your life. It <em>is<\/em> His calling for her life, and she is embracing it. She is saying, \u201cThank You, God, for what You have called me to do.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI have another friend who lives in New Zealand. She is married to a man who has been on dialysis for 20 years. That is not my calling\u2014it\u2019s probably not most of your calling, either\u2014but God has called Nikki to be married to Andy and to live with him in the real extreme challenges that he has to face every day because he doesn\u2019t have kidneys that work.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don\u2019t know what it is about your marriage that is unique\u2014that God has placed in you for His purposes\u2014but you do. Our responsibility is to identify that and see what God wants to do, because He has a story to tell with you and your husband that He can\u2019t tell with anybody else.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe first tip I wanted to give you is: \u201cListen to the artist of your marriage.\u201d The second one is\u2014I want you to: \u201cListen to the author of your marriage story,\u201d\u2014and that\u2019s the Holy Spirit. God is the one who designed this concept and created this image of marriage, and He has a purpose for your marriage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe Holy Spirit is the one who makes it work\u2014He\u2019s the one who is orchestrating your story. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWho created your marriage? It was God Himself. And who brought you two together as husband and wife? God brought you together as husband and wife; didn\u2019t He? Well, He is the One who knows how to make it work.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere\u2019s a story in the Book of John about Jesus. The story goes like this: Jesus was at home, and his brothers were there. It was the time for the feast. The feast came and it was one of the feasts when everyone\u2014all the men\u2014had to go to Jerusalem to worship at the temple. His brothers came to Him and said: \u201cIt\u2019s time for the feast. We\u2019re going, and You need to come too.\u201d And Jesus said, \u201cIt\u2019s not My time yet.\u201d They said: \u201cBut You need to show Yourself. People need to know who You are. You need to come where everyone is and make Yourself known.\u201d And Jesus said: \u201cNo. It\u2019s not My time.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat always puzzled me; because in the very next verse, after the brothers left, Jesus got up and went. I never understood: \u201cWhy did Jesus not go in the beginning when they asked Him to go if He was going to go ahead and go anyway?\u201d\u2014right? It just didn\u2019t make sense to me. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut then I found the answer one day; and it\u2019s in John 8:28, just a few verses later. Jesus said in verse 28\u2014He said, \u201cI do nothing on My own initiative, but I speak the things that the Father has taught Me.\u201d Then, in verse 29, He said, \u201cHe has not left Me alone\u201d\u2014speaking of the Father\u2014\u201cfor I always do the things that are pleasing to Him.\u201d When I finally thought about that verse for a minute, it just was really stunning to me\u2014and still is\u2014Jesus said, \u201cI do nothing apart from the Father.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow I want you to think for a minute: \u201cAs a wife, how many things do you do apart from the Father? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cHow many things do you do on your own?\u201d It\u2019s a hard question; isn\u2019t it? How many times do we speak on our own initiative? How many times do we say what we want to say on our own initiative\u2014without listening to the Father \/ without listening to the Spirit\u2014say: \u201cShould I say this to my husband? Is this the right thing for me to tell him? Should I keep my mouth shut?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tJesus didn\u2019t go to the feast, because the Father didn\u2019t tell Him to go to the feast. He waited until He got permission from God, and then He went the next day.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhat that does for me, as a wife, is\u2014I need to be listening to the Holy Spirit and saying what He wants me to say and not saying what I want to say. We are so quick, as women, to say exactly what we think \/ exactly how we feel, without much regard for how that impacts him\u2014or other people, for that matter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe have a really high value in our culture today on being truthful \/ on saying what we think, but we don\u2019t have an equally high value on saying it in love and on self-restraint. Neither one of those are virtues that we\u2019re lifting up in our culture today. We\u2019re lifting up one without the other, and it affects our marriages. We all say things in our marriages that we probably shouldn\u2019t say.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThere is forgiveness\u2014so I don\u2019t want anybody to think that we\u2019re talking about perfection, because it can\u2019t happen. The point is\u2014 we need to be growing, as women, and learning how to listen to the Holy Spirit and what He says.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to read you a couple\u2014short paragraph out of my book on the Holy Spirit: \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow that we\u2019ve traveled 40 years of marriage by faith, I\u2019ve come to realize that the Holy Spirit is my dearest Friend. He is misunderstood, and neglected, and often ignored; but this greatest gift to those of us who believe is the One who has helped me most become who I am today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt is because of Him that our marriage has survived and not died. It is because of Him that our marriage thrives, even today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHe has whispered truth to me and guided me to the best paths. He has given me wisdom when I asked; He has gently nudged me to speak; and at other times, He has nudged me to be quiet. When I have listened to His leading, I have never, ever been sorry. When I haven\u2019t listened, I\u2019ve had regrets and plenty of them. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFollowing the Holy Spirit has been slow and arduous, not because He is not a good leader, but because I\u2019m not a good follower. Whispers require attentiveness; and the Holy Spirit whispers to us, which I love! Sometimes I wish He\u2019d be a little louder so I could really be sure I\u2019m hearing Him, but He doesn\u2019t yell at us. He\u2019s not in your face. He whispers, because He wants us to pay attention to His voice, and we need to learn to hear His voice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWhispering requires attentiveness, and understanding means learning His language. We need to know how He speaks. If you\u2019re not there yet, be patient with yourself; because Jesus said, \u201cMy sheep hear my voice,\u201d and you will, too, in time. So it\u2019s a growing thing, to learn to hear the Holy Spirit\u2019s voice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNumber three\u2014listen to God\u2019s truth about you and your marriage. The overriding lesson that I want to share with you from 40 years of marriage is this: \u201cGod is faithful, and He will give us what we need to rise above any challenge, if we ask Him and if we wait for Him to provide.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think we\u2019re <em>way<\/em> too impatient in this culture. I think social media has robbed us\u2014and the internet\u2014of our patience. I get so impatient when I try to go online and find something and that\u2019s not there [snap of fingers] that fast. I think that seeps over into my relationship with God. It seeps over into my marriage: \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u201cI want things fixed <em>now<\/em>!\u201d\u201d \u201cI want God to tell me what to do <em>now<\/em>!\u201d \u201cI want God to take care of this right <em>now<\/em>.\u201d And God says: \u201cWait! Wait on Me.\u201d Waiting is <em>so<\/em> very challenging and hard. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI got a text from my daughter the other day. I was going to read it to you, but it will take too long to pull it up\u2014impatient; right? But she wrote that just a few days ago\u2014and this is a daughter who lives in another state \/ not Ashley who is here with me\u2014she said, \u201cOhh!\u201d\u2014she wrote out: \u201cArgh! Marriage is so hard.\u201d She said, \u201cI\u2019m having such a struggle today, and it\u2019s so hard.\u201d She said, \u201cWill you pray for me?\u201d And I did. And it\u2019s just <em>true<\/em>\u2014we all have those days; don\u2019t we?\u2014when marriage just feels <em>impossible<\/em>: \u201cIt\u2019s impossible to understand this man,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s impossible to live with this man,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s impossible\u2014the situation that we find ourselves in.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I want to encourage you not to quit and give up when you run into those impossibilities in your marriage, because you\u2019re going to keep running into those impossibilities in your marriage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThey aren\u2019t going to go away. You\u2019re going to keep running into them. If you quit on your marriage, you\u2019re interrupting the process of what God wants to do. If we\u2019ll just wait, He will produce the beauty and the hope that we long for in our marriages.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of my very favorite verses\u2014that I have loved for decades\u2014is in Luke 1:37. That verse comes in the story of when Gabriel came to visit Mary. He showed up and he told her that she was going to have a baby. And she said: \u201cHow can this be? I\u2019m a virgin \/ I\u2019m a young girl. How can this possibly be true?\u201d And what did he say to her? He said to her, \u201cNothing is impossible with God.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI have taken that verse to heart for decades, because there are lots of times in my marriage when it feels way too hard \/ it feels impossible. It feels like we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> get through this rough place. It feels like we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> come to understanding \/ we\u2019ll <em>never<\/em> really get to a place of peace again. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remind myself of this verse\u2014if we belong to Him, He can make our marriages work. That\u2019s the big picture that I want you to hear and understand: \u201cIf you belong to Him, He is the One who can give you the kind of marriage that you wanted and that you got married for in the first place.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[Studio]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And, we\u2019ve been listening to a message by Barbara Rainey, called \u201cThe Masterpiece of Marriage.\u201d You just heard her talking about her husband\u2014marriage to an impossible man. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>There are times, though, that the two of you, working on the same painting, have not always made it exactly the same; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>More than a few times. You know, it is interesting, though\u2014if you don\u2019t quit, the Master will cause the image of Christ to emerge from the broken palettes \/ the broken people\u2014of a husband and a wife in a marriage relationship\u2014who are committed to one another for a lifetime.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well\u2014and I would imagine, Barbara, that painting, side by side, with another artist probably makes you a little better in what you do rather than just being on your own and only using your gifts and abilities.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>That\u2019s easy for you to say! If you knew my artistic abilities\u2014Bob, if I was painting on there\u2014no; no; no! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Have finger paint and have\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>There you go!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and have\u2014[Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe good news is\u2014you had zero to do with the art for Barbara\u2019s book <em>Letters to My Daughters<\/em>, which we have in our <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> Resource Center. Listeners can go online to order a copy of Barbara\u2019s book. Again, the title is <em>Letters to My Daughters: The Art of Being a Wife<\/em>. You can order online at FamilyLifeToday.com, or you can call to order at 1-800-FL-TODAY. If you don\u2019t have a copy of the book, I\u2019d encourage you to get it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>22:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMaybe you know somebody you\u2019d like to buy a copy for and pass it on to them. Again, go to FamilyLifeToday.com, or call 1-800-358-6329. That\u2019s 1-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow: \u201cHappy anniversary!\u201d today to a couple, who have been married <em>42 years<\/em>\u2014Dean and Wendy Macinskas, who live in Telford, Pennsylvania. They listen to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> on WDAC \/ they\u2019ve been to the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup>. Forty-two years of marriage as husband and wife\u2014\u201cCongratulations!\u201d to Dean and Wendy\u2014and I hope you have a great celebration of your 42<sup>nd<\/sup> anniversary today.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAt FamilyLife, we are committed to helping more couples celebrate more anniversaries. We want to effectively develop godly marriages and families; because we believe godly families can change the world, one home at a time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>23:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe appreciate those of you who invest in the spiritual strength and health of marriages and families by investing in the work of FamilyLife\u2014those of you who are Legacy Partners and give each month or those of you who will, from time to time, make a donation. On behalf of those who listen and benefit from this ministry, I just want to express our gratitude for your investment in those marriages and in those families.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIf you can help with a donation today, we\u2019d love to send you a banner that Barbara Rainey has created for your home that declares that your home is an embassy of the kingdom of heaven. It\u2019s a way to remind yourself and others who visit that your ultimate allegiance is to the King of kings and the Lord of lords. That\u2019s our gift to you when you go to FamilyLifeToday.com and make an online donation, or when you call 1-800-FL-TODAY and donate over the phone. Or you can mail your donation, along with your request for the banner, to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> at PO Box 7111, Little Rock, AR; and our zip code is 72223.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>24:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, tomorrow, we\u2019re going to hear from Barbara Rainey as she interacts with a group of moms of teens. They have questions about parenting teenagers, and Barbara has some great answers. We\u2019ll hear that tomorrow. I hope you can tune in for that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back tomorrow for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHelp for today. 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