{"id":303369,"date":"2015-01-30T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-30T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/%series%\/early-years-of-parenting\/"},"modified":"2015-01-30T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2015-01-30T17:00:00","slug":"early-years-of-parenting","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/early-years-of-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"Early Years of Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Join Dennis and Barbara Rainey as they take a stroll down memory lane and relive some of their most memorable, and challenging, parenting moments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Join Dennis and Barbara Rainey as they take a stroll down memory lane and relive some of their most memorable, and challenging, parenting moments.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":91,"featured_media":294104,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","inline_featured_image":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"https:\/\/web.familylifetoday.com\/fl2015-01-30.mp3","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"00:","filesize":"26.47M","filesize_raw":"27759083","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":""},"categories":[10361,2881],"tags":[5598,4777,5389,5597],"podcast_series":[8061],"cwp_profile":[3052],"series":[2101],"class_list":["post-303369","podcast","type-podcast","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-busyness-and-stress","category-young-children","tag-journey-with-god","tag-life","tag-priorities","tag-seasons","podcast_series-the-early-seasons-of-a-womans-life","cwp_profile-barbara-rainey","series-familylife-today"],"acf":[],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/09\/FLT-Podcast-Cover-2-508x508-3.jpg?w=508","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2023\/02\/image-scaled.jpg","download_link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast-download\/303369\/early-years-of-parenting","player_link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast-player\/303369\/early-years-of-parenting","audio_player":null,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"light","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/familylife-today\/id212174303?mt=2&app=podcast","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/0j5UaKdQOHQCuo1bt0ebEm","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/feed\/podcast\/familylife-today","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"JVKJ9ZX3UP\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/early-years-of-parenting\/\">Early Years of Parenting<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/early-years-of-parenting\/embed\/#?secret=JVKJ9ZX3UP\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;Early Years of Parenting&#8221; &#8212; FamilyLife\u00ae - A Cru Ministry\" data-secret=\"JVKJ9ZX3UP\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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Here\u2019s Barbara Rainey. <br><br><strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think every woman underestimates the impact of the constant, around-the-clock needs of an infant \/ of a baby. That\u2019s what I was very unprepared for. Yes, I was excited about being a mom, but I remember being so overwhelmed. I felt the enormity of that responsibility, and I was scared to death that I was going to mess it up. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Friday, January 30<sup>th<\/sup>. Our host is the President of FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>, Dennis Rainey, and I\u2019m Bob Lepine.\u00a0 How does life change?\u00a0 What kind of rearranging needs to happen when you welcome a son or daughter into the world?\u00a0 We\u2019ll talk about that new season of life today. Stay tuned. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>1:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us on the Friday edition. This has been kind of fun this week just to\u2014well, for you guys, trip down memory lane a little bit. <br><br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It is. It is. I just was thinking, as we\u2019re spending some time with Barbara, telling her life story\u2014and our life story\u2014I\u2019d marry her all over again. It\u2019s been fun having Barbara with us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, it has been; and we\u2019ve also been pointing listeners to your website so that they can get an update on some of the stuff you\u2019ve been working on. For those who don\u2019t know, this was really about three years ago that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014you started creating resources that are designed to be beautiful in the home but, also, to serve a spiritual purpose; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That\u2019s right. We started trying to create products, as you just mentioned, that talk about Jesus\u2014that proclaim Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And a lot of our listeners, back at Christmas, got your new set of ornaments for the Christmas tree\u2014Adorenaments<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>\u2014this year, in shapes of crosses, with names of the\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014you call them the Savior names of Jesus on the crosses. When you designed these, you thought, \u201cThese don\u2019t just have to be for Christmas.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Absolutely. I just think it\u2019s so good for us to have visual reminders around our homes that remind us what is most important in our lives. They are great conversation-starters for people who visit your home and see something that\u2019s there that is about Christ. They\u2019ll say, \u201cWell, what is that about?\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, if folks want to see what we\u2019ve been talking about\u2014if they\u2019ll go to FamilyLifeToday.com, there is a link at the upper left-corner of the page that says, \u201cGO DEEPER.\u201d That\u2019ll take you to the link for Barbara\u2019s Ever Thine Home<em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup><\/em> resources. You can see these crosses\u2014you can see the other resources for Valentine\u2019s Day, and for Easter, and just for year-round use in your home. Again, go to FamilyLifeToday.com. If you\u2019d like a catalogue, call 1-800- \u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then, the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\u00a0 <br>\u00a0\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWell, we\u2019ve been tracing, as we said, your history, as a couple, and really focusing in on how a woman\u2019s priorities change over time. We talked about your college years, Barbara, and we talked about your years as a single woman. Then, when you got engaged \/ you got married\u2014there started to be some shifts in priorities and in schedule. You guys have been married for a little more than a year when you found out you were pregnant; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Was that what you had planned all along?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t know if it was exactly what we\u2019d planned, but it was pretty close. We decided, after a year, that we\u2019d just kind of take a leap and try to get pregnant and see what happened. Four months later, we were pregnant. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>A lot of couples today are saying, \u201cA year?\u00a0 You got pregnant after a year?!\u201d\u00a0 They\u2019re planning five years \/ seven years before they start their family. Do you have any thoughts about that?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>You know, I think you just need to do what God is leading you to do. I do think, though, these younger women, who are waiting so long\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014there\u2019s absolutely nothing wrong with it\u2014but it is really nice that we finished our parenting years early enough that we still have lots of energy left. So, you know, the downside of starting when you\u2019re 34\/35\/36 is that you\u2019re still going to be parenting when you\u2019re a lot older. If you start your family younger, you have a lot of years left after the kids are gone. It\u2019s not wrong\u2014I don\u2019t think. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>How did you tell Dennis that you were expecting your first child?\u00a0 Do you remember?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t remember\u2014I really don\u2019t. We didn\u2019t have pregnancy tests. We didn\u2019t make a big to do about it like they do now. I mean\u2014\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Do you remember anything about how you learned that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014you were going to have a baby?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No, I don\u2019t have a memory of any kind. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I remember being sick. That was my first clue; but other than that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I do remember\u2014as we got near the end, however, she\u2014one night, said she was feeling some contractions and looked like she had gone into labor. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, we hopped in the car. We were in San Bernardino, California. We were heading to the hospital. I turned to her and I said, \u201cYou know, I really don\u2019t understand what all the excitement about having a baby is. People talk about\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cbeing nervous.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cand all that.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, everything. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And she turned to me and she said, \u201cIs that why you just ran the stop light?\u201d\u00a0 [Laughter]\u00a0 And I think I was a little more excited than I\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014you thought you were. [Laughter]\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I was. And I do remember this\u2014I do remember when Ashley was born. The doctor held her up\u2014and I went: \u201cWhere did you get that?\u00a0 That\u2019s a living person!\u201d\u2014and handed her to us. It was like: \u201cWhoa!\u00a0 Life is about to begin in earnest.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd there are transitions in life. One of them\u2014clearly, as we\u2019ve already talked about here\u2014is getting married and how two people have to learn how selfish they are at one level. And then, you have children.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThen, you <em>really commence<\/em> to find out how selfish you are\u2014especially, have a bunch of them. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You said your daughter was born in San Bernardino, California; but you were living in Boulder, Colorado; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, we\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>We had moved. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Oh, you had moved. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We\u2019d moved several times. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Several times\u2014tell me about the moves. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We were married and lived our first year\u2014and maybe three or four months\u2014in Boulder. We were transferred to Columbus, Ohio. We lived in Columbus, Ohio, for six months. That\u2019s where I discovered I was pregnant, I think\u2014or got pregnant there\u2014I don\u2019t remember. Then, we moved, in June, to San Bernardino, California, before Ashley was born in August. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>This was the headquarters, at the time, for Campus Crusade for Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That\u2019s right. That\u2019s right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And were you thinking this would be where you\u2019d move and maybe spend the rest of your life\u2014in San Bernardino?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t think we\u2014we weren\u2019t thinking that permanently at all. After we had moved there\u2014we were there for a few weeks\u2014and I didn\u2019t want to live there for the rest of my life. [Laughter]\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>7:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt felt like another country to me because, growing up in the Midwest, I was used to trees and streams. It took me awhile\u2014and we were only there a year\u2014so, I didn\u2019t even ever really get used to it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, this new chapter of life\u2014you come home now, as a mom with a daughter to take care of. Had you talked ahead of time about how your life would change and specifically\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014what kind of ministry\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We weren\u2019t that proactive\u2014are you kidding?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>But you had a job. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, but\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You were with Dennis in high school ministry on the high school campus. Now, you\u2019ve brought home a baby. Were you thinking, \u201cI\u2019m going to have to cut back\u201d?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, because we had\u2014when we transitioned to Southern California, my job sort of disappeared because he was now working at the headquarters; and he was in the office. So, I didn\u2019t really have a job that I had to leave, at that point. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, as a wife with no kids, you were a stay-at-home wife before you had kids. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I was for those\u2014yes, for those few months before we had kids\u2014before we had Ashley. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Was that okay?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOr were you frustrated by the fact that there wasn\u2019t more to your life than just being around the house?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, I was okay with that because I was in a new place again. We were trying to get settled in a new house. We were trying to make new friends. We joined a couples\u2019 group Bible study. There was a couple, down the street, that we knew. I\u2014there were so many adjustments going on in my life that I was really okay that I wasn\u2019t having to show up at the office or that I was having to make appointments and meet people for coffee and have conversations. I felt like I had enough to juggle and adjust to without that. So, I was okay with it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, you didn\u2019t face what a lot of young women face today\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014which is the dilemma of: \u201cI\u2019m married. Now, we\u2019re going to have a child. Am I going to cut back at work?\u00a0 Am I going to find daycare, or am I going to stay home?\u00a0 Can we afford any of this?\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I know. It is a struggle. I watch these young women\u2014and we have a bunch of them\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014who work here, at FamilyLife. I\u2014several of them\u2014I\u2019ve talked to them. I\u2019m thinking, \u201cI don\u2019t know how you do this\u201d; but they do\u2014they have to have the two incomes. And this one young woman\u2014I work with her. She\u2019s got two little ones that are under three. She\u2019s working, and he\u2019s working. They\u2019ve worked out a situation where her mom takes care of the babies three days a week. She does some of her work, part-time, in other places. I don\u2019t know how they juggle it. But we didn\u2019t have to do that, and I\u2019m really grateful that we didn\u2019t. But I do know that it\u2019s very common today, and it is a hard adjustment to make. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>One thing neither of us had was school debt. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We didn\u2019t have debt of any kind, really, other than maybe a car payment\u2014\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And our house. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014house payment. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And so, we weren\u2019t strapped into a situation where it forced both of us to have to work at a level we\u2019re talking about here. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, and I know when Mary Ann was first pregnant with our first child, she was working as a nurse. I was working at a radio station. She was making more money than I was. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe talked about\u2014once she was pregnant\u2014we talked about, \u201cWhat do you want to do?\u201d She said, \u201cWell, I\u2019d like to be able to stay at home with the baby.\u201d\u00a0 I thought: \u201cOkay, let\u2019s see. The math is not good on this,\u201d and it\u2019s the lower income. But I looked at that and I said, \u201cWell, if that\u2019s what you\u2019d like to do, let\u2019s try and make that work.\u201d\u00a0 It was really fascinating to see how our appetites changed once the baby came. Stuff we\u2019d been spending money on, as a carefree couple\u2014all of a sudden, it was like, \u201cWell, we just weren\u2019t\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u201cWe don\u2019t really miss it anyway.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes, we weren\u2019t interested\u2014we had a baby to take care of. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And all of a sudden, this became central to our home. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I think that\u2019s really important for listeners to hear because I think there are a lot of couples where the wife does make more. It\u2019s a big sacrifice to walk away from that; but I think what you just said is so important. Your appetites do change when you\u2019ve got a child because your whole life adjusts around raising that child. So, what you used to find interesting and things that you used to do together\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014you\u2019re not as interested in that. So, everything changes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, and for years, we\u2019ve encouraged couples\u2014in the early years of marriage, as much as you are able\u2014build your life on one income so that, when a child comes along, you have the option. We\u2019re not trying to tell you that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014this is what you have to do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>But what you don\u2019t want\u2014to be in the position of\u2014is wishing you could stay home\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014and you can\u2019t. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and you\u2019ve already boxed yourself in because you bought a house that was more than your one income could afford\u2014or you\u2019ve got whatever kind of consumer debt that you are paying down\u2014and you have to have those two incomes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAre you one of these people who was made to be a mom?\u00a0 I mean, when you had your first baby, was it like the moment had arrived\u2014what you\u2019d been dreaming of all your life?\u2014you have a baby \/ now, you\u2019re a mom. This is what you\u2019ve been wanting forever and ever?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think, in many ways, yes; but what I was so unprepared for was the\u2014and I think this is true with every woman\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014whether you\u2019ve been looking for this your whole life or whether it\u2019s a surprise\u2014I think every woman underestimates the impact of the constant around-the-clock needs of an infant \/ of a baby and of a child. And that\u2019s what I was very unprepared for. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYes, I was excited about being a mom; but I remember being so overwhelmed and so confused in those first two weeks, wondering, \u201cWhat do I do?\u201d\u00a0 And my mother had come, and she was a huge help; but she was only there for a week. Then, she was gone. I felt the enormity of that responsibility, and I was scared to death that I was going to mess it up. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And it is life-dominating\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It is. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014especially, in the several months of a child\u2019s life. It is constant, and you don\u2019t get a good night\u2019s sleep for a long time. And your life revolves around the care of this new life; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It does. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe adjustment was so big and so overwhelming to me that I remember\u2014one night, I did not know what to do. I didn\u2019t know what I felt. I couldn\u2019t have explained to Dennis, if he had asked me\u2014which he ended up having to do later on\u2014but I just was so overwhelmed with the enormity of this baby that needed me 24\/7. I still had a husband who needed me, and I still had things around the house that had to be done. And I just didn\u2019t know what to do at all. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I remember\u2014one night, I was just\u2014I almost became paralyzed with being overwhelmed. I went back to our bedroom\u2014and we lived in a pretty tiny, little house\u2014but I went back to our bedroom, and I closed the door. I went into the bathroom\u2014the master bathroom which was teensy\u2014and I closed the door, and I locked it. I thought, \u201cI have just got to get away,\u201d and that was the only way I knew to get away. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI didn\u2019t have a lot of friends. I didn\u2019t have somebody that I could call\u2014because we\u2019d only lived here now for three months. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI didn\u2019t have anybody that I could call and say: \u201cCan we go out for coffee?\u00a0 I need to talk to somebody.\u201d\u00a0 I just felt really alone. I was really afraid, and I was really overwhelmed. And I just wanted to run away. So, I ran away to the bathroom. [Laughter]\u00a0 And I sat there for a while, and I was just trying to sort it all out. I couldn\u2019t make sense of it. I didn\u2019t know what I was feeling. I just knew that I was overwhelmed, and confused, and afraid. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br>After an hour or so, Dennis came back. He probably came back before then; but I remember\u2014after what felt like a long time, he came back\u2014gently asked me if I\u2019d come out, and we could talk. Ashley was asleep in her crib. I wasn\u2019t being a negligent mom; but after a while, I sheepishly came out. We went into the living room and sat down. We just began to talk about what I was feeling. I don\u2019t remember that conversation at all. I just remember that there was relief that he was willing to share it with me and that he was willing to listen to whatever I was able to verbalize\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014and I\u2019m sure I did a terrible job verbalizing. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAt that moment, I thought, \u201cOkay, I\u2019m not alone in this.\u201d\u00a0 I think that was what was so overwhelming to me\u2014was that I felt so alone in it because I was responsible for this child\u2019s life. Yes, he would change the diapers if I needed him to; but I was nursing her, and he would go off to the office. He would come back from the office, and I was so trapped by this responsibility. Even though I wanted it, and I loved it, and I loved her, it was a real crisis moment for me. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You think a lot of young moms have this Jekyll and Hyde kind of \u201cI love this new baby \/\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, I think they do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cI\u2019m overwhelmed by this new baby\u201d?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, I think they do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I think they have a husband, who is like me\u2014who was absolutely clueless about what was taking place in his wife. I looked at Barbara, and I\u2019ve always looked at her as being a very competent\u2014able to do whatever. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don\u2019t look at her and think of her as, at any level, really being weak. I don\u2019t know what prompted me to go ask her to talk; but it was one of the few things, early in our marriage, that was brilliant. [Laughter]\u00a0 I don\u2019t remember doing that even specifically\u2014but had to be the Spirit of God that led me to just say: \u201cLet\u2019s talk about this. Let\u2019s hear what you are thinking and feeling. You may not even know, at this point.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And I didn\u2019t; but I needed somebody to be in the boat, rowing with me, because I think I felt like I was rowing alone. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And that\u2019s what I\u2019d say to young men today\u2014is you don\u2019t have to have the answer. There is an issue in marriage called presence, and that\u2019s not a gift that you give somebody. It is being with them, shouldering the load with your spouse\u2014and maybe not knowing how to fix it\u2014but just saying: \u201cYou know what? I care. I\u2019m here. I\u2019m listening. I am in it with you.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And that was all I needed. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>What counsel would you give to a first-time mom? She\u2019s just brought the baby home. Let\u2019s just say she\u2019s a working mom. She\u2019s trying to keep up with what feels overwhelming to her today, in terms of the schedule \/ her spiritual life. I mean, she doesn\u2019t have a quiet time anymore. She doesn\u2019t have any space for a quiet time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I didn\u2019t have one either, for heaven\u2019s sake. I mean, you just can\u2019t. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, how do you counsel her to maintain some balance or equilibrium in her life?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I think\u2014first of all, I think, she\u2019s got to figure this out with her husband. Just as I needed Dennis to get in the boat with me, and listen, and figure it out together\u2014she needs him to be in the boat with her. They\u2019ve got to figure out: \u201cWhat do they absolutely have to have to survive, as a couple, and for the health of your baby?\u201d You figure out what that is, and you start there. Then, you go back\u2014and yes, if you can add some of these other things, great; but in those early days, it\u2019s all about that baby and getting the baby on some kind of a routine so that you can finally get a good night\u2019s sleep and kind of return back to some sense of normalcy. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I think understanding that it could take a long time to get back to some sense of normalcy\u2014knowing that that normal is a new normal, and you\u2019ll never go back to the old normal\u2014but new normal is good\u2014but you will come to a semi-plateau again. It\u2019s just going to take a long time. But it has to start with the husband and the wife, linking arms, and saying, \u201cWe\u2019re going to figure this out together so that it is good for me, and it\u2019s good for you, and it\u2019s good for the baby.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>This is where our culture seduces young couples in thinking that they can have it all\u2014that they can do everything they were doing before they had a baby\u2014maintain all the relationships, all the activities\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Exactly. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014everything they\u2019re doing\u2014and start raising children. [Laughter] I mean, that simply is not a realistic view of life. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You put some activities\u2014that you really liked\u2014away for a while because you had kids now. You didn\u2019t have space in your life to include those\u2014including your artwork. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You love doing art. And you shelved that because you said, \u201cI can\u2019t make this work\u201d; right? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We had two kids at the time I made that decision. They were probably almost two and six months or something\u2014I don\u2019t remember\u2014but I was trying to keep this little art\u2014and it wasn\u2019t a career because I wasn\u2019t really doing it as that, but I was trying to keep that piece of my life alive. I had just gotten a commission\u2014it was first time I\u2019d ever been asked to paint. Somebody was going to pay me for my work\u2014and I was so honored, and I was so excited about. And I thought: \u201cI can do this! I can do this when the kids take naps.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br>I would put the kids down for naps, and they would\u2014one of them would wake up, crying, or they would get up too early. They would spill my stuff, or they would mess up\u2014or whatever. There was always some interruption \/ some unplanned something that wouldn\u2019t go right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFinally, after I finished those two commission pieces\u2014and got those sent out the door\u2014I thought, \u201cThis just wasn\u2019t fun.\u201d\u00a0 It wasn\u2019t worth it because I was always frustrated with the kids or mad at the kids; or I was disappointed in myself, then, because I got mad at the kids. Then, I felt like I\u2019d really made a mistake; and I was a real failure. You know, it just became no fun anymore. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, I remember very, very clearly one afternoon, when this had happened. I thought: \u201cYou know? I just can\u2019t do this.\u201d\u00a0 So, I took all my stuff\u2014I put it in a cardboard box\u2014what would fit in a cardboard box\u2014and I taped that thing up. I opened my pantry door, and I put it on the top shelf. When I put it on the top shelf\u2014I don\u2019t think I said this out loud\u2014but I said it, out loud, in my head\u2014I said: \u201cGod, You gave me this artistic interest. I\u2019m not particularly talented, but You gave me this desire to create and do beautiful things\u2014\u00a0\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014 \u201cand I can\u2019t do it with the kids. I don\u2019t know why You gave me this if You are not going to let me develop it and grow it, but I guess that\u2019s up to You.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, I said: \u201cI\u2019m putting this box on the shelf. If You want to give it back to me someday, You can give it back to me someday. And if You don\u2019t, that\u2019s fine with me. That\u2019s Your problem, not mine; and I\u2019m going to trust You with it.\u201d I literally walked away from art and painting of any kind until our youngest was a sophomore in high school. So, it was a long time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, I did encourage our listeners to go to your website, which is EverThineHome.com, and see what you\u2019ve been working on since you picked things back up again\u2014because you have created some beautiful, heirloom-quality resources that are designed to be beautiful, designed to declare your faith in Christ, and designed to be discipleship tools for your family. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>22:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m thinking of the resources for the Lenten season and for Easter time\u2014\u201cThe Messiah Mystery\u201d that you\u2019ve created for families to go through together \/ the banner that you have to hang on your door\u2014and the Valentine\u2019s Day resource\u2014the \u201cHow Do I Love Thee\u201d garland that\u2019s got the hearts hanging from them. Each one has a different aspect of love from 1 Corinthians, Chapter 13. <br><br>Our listeners can go to EverThineHome.com to see what you\u2019ve been working on and to order some of these resources, if they\u2019d like. If you have any questions about what Barbara\u2019s been working on or you\u2019d like to place an order by phone, call 1-800-FL-TODAY. We\u2019ve got folks here who can answer any questions you have about the Ever Thine Home resources. Again: the website, EverThineHome.com\u2014or call 1-800- \u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then, the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, a quick word of thanks as we wrap this week up to those of you who made this week possible\u2014those of you who help support the ministry of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>, financially,\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>23:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014and who partner with us in our goal to effectively develop godly families, who change the world, one home at a time. We appreciate your financial support. We are grateful for your partnership. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn fact, if you can help with a donation today, we\u2019d like to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d by sending you a book from Dennis and Barbara Rainey. It\u2019s a devotional guide for couples. It\u2019s called <em>Moments with You<\/em>\u2014365 daily devotions that you can do together, as a couple. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com. Click the link in the upper right-hand corner that says, \u201cI CARE,\u201d and make an online donation. We\u2019ll send the book to you. Or call 1-800-FL-TODAY. You can make your donation, by phone; and just ask for a copy of the book, <em>Moments with You<\/em>, when you do that. Or request the book when you mail a donation to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> at PO Box 7111, Little Rock, AR. Our zip code is 72223. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd with that, we\u2019ve got to wrap things up for today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>24:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThanks for joining us. Hope you and your family are able to worship together this weekend. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I hope you can join us back on Monday when we\u2019re going to talk about the movie that\u2019s coming out Valentine\u2019s weekend\u2014the series of books that it is based on\u2014<em>Fifty Shades of Grey<\/em>. Dannah Gresh and Juli Slattery are going to join us to talk about why these books and this upcoming movie are so dangerous and how they distort God\u2019s design for sex. Hope you can join us for that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I\u2019m Bob Lepine. We will see you back Monday for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHelp for today. Hope for tomorrow.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. If you\u2019ve benefited from the broadcast transcripts, would you consider <a href=\"http:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/donate\">donating today<\/a> to help defray the costs?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tCopyright <sup>\u00a9<\/sup> 2015 FamilyLife. 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Thanks for joining us on the Friday edition. This has been kind of fun this week just to\u2014well, for you guys, trip down memory lane a little bit. <br><br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It is. It is. I just was thinking, as we\u2019re spending some time with Barbara, telling her life story\u2014and our life story\u2014I\u2019d marry her all over again. It\u2019s been fun having Barbara with us. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, it has been; and we\u2019ve also been pointing listeners to your website so that they can get an update on some of the stuff you\u2019ve been working on. For those who don\u2019t know, this was really about three years ago that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014you started creating resources that are designed to be beautiful in the home but, also, to serve a spiritual purpose; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That\u2019s right. We started trying to create products, as you just mentioned, that talk about Jesus\u2014that proclaim Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And a lot of our listeners, back at Christmas, got your new set of ornaments for the Christmas tree\u2014Adorenaments<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>\u2014this year, in shapes of crosses, with names of the\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>2:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014you call them the Savior names of Jesus on the crosses. When you designed these, you thought, \u201cThese don\u2019t just have to be for Christmas.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Absolutely. I just think it\u2019s so good for us to have visual reminders around our homes that remind us what is most important in our lives. They are great conversation-starters for people who visit your home and see something that\u2019s there that is about Christ. They\u2019ll say, \u201cWell, what is that about?\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, if folks want to see what we\u2019ve been talking about\u2014if they\u2019ll go to FamilyLifeToday.com, there is a link at the upper left-corner of the page that says, \u201cGO DEEPER.\u201d That\u2019ll take you to the link for Barbara\u2019s Ever Thine Home<em><sup>\u00ae<\/sup><\/em> resources. You can see these crosses\u2014you can see the other resources for Valentine\u2019s Day, and for Easter, and just for year-round use in your home. Again, go to FamilyLifeToday.com. If you\u2019d like a catalogue, call 1-800- \u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then, the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\u00a0 <br>\u00a0\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>3:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWell, we\u2019ve been tracing, as we said, your history, as a couple, and really focusing in on how a woman\u2019s priorities change over time. We talked about your college years, Barbara, and we talked about your years as a single woman. Then, when you got engaged \/ you got married\u2014there started to be some shifts in priorities and in schedule. You guys have been married for a little more than a year when you found out you were pregnant; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Was that what you had planned all along?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t know if it was exactly what we\u2019d planned, but it was pretty close. We decided, after a year, that we\u2019d just kind of take a leap and try to get pregnant and see what happened. Four months later, we were pregnant. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>A lot of couples today are saying, \u201cA year?\u00a0 You got pregnant after a year?!\u201d\u00a0 They\u2019re planning five years \/ seven years before they start their family. Do you have any thoughts about that?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>You know, I think you just need to do what God is leading you to do. I do think, though, these younger women, who are waiting so long\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>4:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014there\u2019s absolutely nothing wrong with it\u2014but it is really nice that we finished our parenting years early enough that we still have lots of energy left. So, you know, the downside of starting when you\u2019re 34\/35\/36 is that you\u2019re still going to be parenting when you\u2019re a lot older. If you start your family younger, you have a lot of years left after the kids are gone. It\u2019s not wrong\u2014I don\u2019t think. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>How did you tell Dennis that you were expecting your first child?\u00a0 Do you remember?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t remember\u2014I really don\u2019t. We didn\u2019t have pregnancy tests. We didn\u2019t make a big to do about it like they do now. I mean\u2014\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Do you remember anything about how you learned that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014you were going to have a baby?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>No, I don\u2019t have a memory of any kind. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I remember being sick. That was my first clue; but other than that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I do remember\u2014as we got near the end, however, she\u2014one night, said she was feeling some contractions and looked like she had gone into labor. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>5:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, we hopped in the car. We were in San Bernardino, California. We were heading to the hospital. I turned to her and I said, \u201cYou know, I really don\u2019t understand what all the excitement about having a baby is. People talk about\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cbeing nervous.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cand all that.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, everything. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And she turned to me and she said, \u201cIs that why you just ran the stop light?\u201d\u00a0 [Laughter]\u00a0 And I think I was a little more excited than I\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014you thought you were. [Laughter]\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>I was. And I do remember this\u2014I do remember when Ashley was born. The doctor held her up\u2014and I went: \u201cWhere did you get that?\u00a0 That\u2019s a living person!\u201d\u2014and handed her to us. It was like: \u201cWhoa!\u00a0 Life is about to begin in earnest.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd there are transitions in life. One of them\u2014clearly, as we\u2019ve already talked about here\u2014is getting married and how two people have to learn how selfish they are at one level. And then, you have children.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>6:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThen, you <em>really commence<\/em> to find out how selfish you are\u2014especially, have a bunch of them. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You said your daughter was born in San Bernardino, California; but you were living in Boulder, Colorado; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, we\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>We had moved. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Oh, you had moved. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We\u2019d moved several times. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Several times\u2014tell me about the moves. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We were married and lived our first year\u2014and maybe three or four months\u2014in Boulder. We were transferred to Columbus, Ohio. We lived in Columbus, Ohio, for six months. That\u2019s where I discovered I was pregnant, I think\u2014or got pregnant there\u2014I don\u2019t remember. Then, we moved, in June, to San Bernardino, California, before Ashley was born in August. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>This was the headquarters, at the time, for Campus Crusade for Christ. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That\u2019s right. That\u2019s right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And were you thinking this would be where you\u2019d move and maybe spend the rest of your life\u2014in San Bernardino?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I don\u2019t think we\u2014we weren\u2019t thinking that permanently at all. After we had moved there\u2014we were there for a few weeks\u2014and I didn\u2019t want to live there for the rest of my life. [Laughter]\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>7:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt felt like another country to me because, growing up in the Midwest, I was used to trees and streams. It took me awhile\u2014and we were only there a year\u2014so, I didn\u2019t even ever really get used to it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, this new chapter of life\u2014you come home now, as a mom with a daughter to take care of. Had you talked ahead of time about how your life would change and specifically\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014what kind of ministry\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We weren\u2019t that proactive\u2014are you kidding?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>But you had a job. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, but\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You were with Dennis in high school ministry on the high school campus. Now, you\u2019ve brought home a baby. Were you thinking, \u201cI\u2019m going to have to cut back\u201d?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, because we had\u2014when we transitioned to Southern California, my job sort of disappeared because he was now working at the headquarters; and he was in the office. So, I didn\u2019t really have a job that I had to leave, at that point. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, as a wife with no kids, you were a stay-at-home wife before you had kids. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I was for those\u2014yes, for those few months before we had kids\u2014before we had Ashley. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>Was that okay?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>8:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOr were you frustrated by the fact that there wasn\u2019t more to your life than just being around the house?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No, I was okay with that because I was in a new place again. We were trying to get settled in a new house. We were trying to make new friends. We joined a couples\u2019 group Bible study. There was a couple, down the street, that we knew. I\u2014there were so many adjustments going on in my life that I was really okay that I wasn\u2019t having to show up at the office or that I was having to make appointments and meet people for coffee and have conversations. I felt like I had enough to juggle and adjust to without that. So, I was okay with it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, you didn\u2019t face what a lot of young women face today\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>No. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014which is the dilemma of: \u201cI\u2019m married. Now, we\u2019re going to have a child. Am I going to cut back at work?\u00a0 Am I going to find daycare, or am I going to stay home?\u00a0 Can we afford any of this?\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I know. It is a struggle. I watch these young women\u2014and we have a bunch of them\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>9:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014who work here, at FamilyLife. I\u2014several of them\u2014I\u2019ve talked to them. I\u2019m thinking, \u201cI don\u2019t know how you do this\u201d; but they do\u2014they have to have the two incomes. And this one young woman\u2014I work with her. She\u2019s got two little ones that are under three. She\u2019s working, and he\u2019s working. They\u2019ve worked out a situation where her mom takes care of the babies three days a week. She does some of her work, part-time, in other places. I don\u2019t know how they juggle it. But we didn\u2019t have to do that, and I\u2019m really grateful that we didn\u2019t. But I do know that it\u2019s very common today, and it is a hard adjustment to make. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>One thing neither of us had was school debt. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We didn\u2019t have debt of any kind, really, other than maybe a car payment\u2014\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And our house. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014house payment. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And so, we weren\u2019t strapped into a situation where it forced both of us to have to work at a level we\u2019re talking about here. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, and I know when Mary Ann was first pregnant with our first child, she was working as a nurse. I was working at a radio station. She was making more money than I was. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>10:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe talked about\u2014once she was pregnant\u2014we talked about, \u201cWhat do you want to do?\u201d She said, \u201cWell, I\u2019d like to be able to stay at home with the baby.\u201d\u00a0 I thought: \u201cOkay, let\u2019s see. The math is not good on this,\u201d and it\u2019s the lower income. But I looked at that and I said, \u201cWell, if that\u2019s what you\u2019d like to do, let\u2019s try and make that work.\u201d\u00a0 It was really fascinating to see how our appetites changed once the baby came. Stuff we\u2019d been spending money on, as a carefree couple\u2014all of a sudden, it was like, \u201cWell, we just weren\u2019t\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u201cWe don\u2019t really miss it anyway.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes, we weren\u2019t interested\u2014we had a baby to take care of. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And all of a sudden, this became central to our home. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I think that\u2019s really important for listeners to hear because I think there are a lot of couples where the wife does make more. It\u2019s a big sacrifice to walk away from that; but I think what you just said is so important. Your appetites do change when you\u2019ve got a child because your whole life adjusts around raising that child. So, what you used to find interesting and things that you used to do together\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>11:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014you\u2019re not as interested in that. So, everything changes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, and for years, we\u2019ve encouraged couples\u2014in the early years of marriage, as much as you are able\u2014build your life on one income so that, when a child comes along, you have the option. We\u2019re not trying to tell you that\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014this is what you have to do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Bob: <\/strong>But what you don\u2019t want\u2014to be in the position of\u2014is wishing you could stay home\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>\u2014and you can\u2019t. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014and you\u2019ve already boxed yourself in because you bought a house that was more than your one income could afford\u2014or you\u2019ve got whatever kind of consumer debt that you are paying down\u2014and you have to have those two incomes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAre you one of these people who was made to be a mom?\u00a0 I mean, when you had your first baby, was it like the moment had arrived\u2014what you\u2019d been dreaming of all your life?\u2014you have a baby \/ now, you\u2019re a mom. This is what you\u2019ve been wanting forever and ever?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>I think, in many ways, yes; but what I was so unprepared for was the\u2014and I think this is true with every woman\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>12:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014whether you\u2019ve been looking for this your whole life or whether it\u2019s a surprise\u2014I think every woman underestimates the impact of the constant around-the-clock needs of an infant \/ of a baby and of a child. And that\u2019s what I was very unprepared for. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYes, I was excited about being a mom; but I remember being so overwhelmed and so confused in those first two weeks, wondering, \u201cWhat do I do?\u201d\u00a0 And my mother had come, and she was a huge help; but she was only there for a week. Then, she was gone. I felt the enormity of that responsibility, and I was scared to death that I was going to mess it up. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>And it is life-dominating\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It is. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014especially, in the several months of a child\u2019s life. It is constant, and you don\u2019t get a good night\u2019s sleep for a long time. And your life revolves around the care of this new life; right?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>It does. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>13:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe adjustment was so big and so overwhelming to me that I remember\u2014one night, I did not know what to do. I didn\u2019t know what I felt. I couldn\u2019t have explained to Dennis, if he had asked me\u2014which he ended up having to do later on\u2014but I just was so overwhelmed with the enormity of this baby that needed me 24\/7. I still had a husband who needed me, and I still had things around the house that had to be done. And I just didn\u2019t know what to do at all. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I remember\u2014one night, I was just\u2014I almost became paralyzed with being overwhelmed. I went back to our bedroom\u2014and we lived in a pretty tiny, little house\u2014but I went back to our bedroom, and I closed the door. I went into the bathroom\u2014the master bathroom which was teensy\u2014and I closed the door, and I locked it. I thought, \u201cI have just got to get away,\u201d and that was the only way I knew to get away. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI didn\u2019t have a lot of friends. I didn\u2019t have somebody that I could call\u2014because we\u2019d only lived here now for three months. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>14:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI didn\u2019t have anybody that I could call and say: \u201cCan we go out for coffee?\u00a0 I need to talk to somebody.\u201d\u00a0 I just felt really alone. I was really afraid, and I was really overwhelmed. And I just wanted to run away. So, I ran away to the bathroom. [Laughter]\u00a0 And I sat there for a while, and I was just trying to sort it all out. I couldn\u2019t make sense of it. I didn\u2019t know what I was feeling. I just knew that I was overwhelmed, and confused, and afraid. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br>After an hour or so, Dennis came back. He probably came back before then; but I remember\u2014after what felt like a long time, he came back\u2014gently asked me if I\u2019d come out, and we could talk. Ashley was asleep in her crib. I wasn\u2019t being a negligent mom; but after a while, I sheepishly came out. We went into the living room and sat down. We just began to talk about what I was feeling. I don\u2019t remember that conversation at all. I just remember that there was relief that he was willing to share it with me and that he was willing to listen to whatever I was able to verbalize\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>15:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014and I\u2019m sure I did a terrible job verbalizing. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAt that moment, I thought, \u201cOkay, I\u2019m not alone in this.\u201d\u00a0 I think that was what was so overwhelming to me\u2014was that I felt so alone in it because I was responsible for this child\u2019s life. Yes, he would change the diapers if I needed him to; but I was nursing her, and he would go off to the office. He would come back from the office, and I was so trapped by this responsibility. Even though I wanted it, and I loved it, and I loved her, it was a real crisis moment for me. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You think a lot of young moms have this Jekyll and Hyde kind of \u201cI love this new baby \/\u201d\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, I think they do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>\u2014\u201cI\u2019m overwhelmed by this new baby\u201d?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes, I think they do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br><strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And I think they have a husband, who is like me\u2014who was absolutely clueless about what was taking place in his wife. I looked at Barbara, and I\u2019ve always looked at her as being a very competent\u2014able to do whatever. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>16:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI don\u2019t look at her and think of her as, at any level, really being weak. I don\u2019t know what prompted me to go ask her to talk; but it was one of the few things, early in our marriage, that was brilliant. [Laughter]\u00a0 I don\u2019t remember doing that even specifically\u2014but had to be the Spirit of God that led me to just say: \u201cLet\u2019s talk about this. Let\u2019s hear what you are thinking and feeling. You may not even know, at this point.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And I didn\u2019t; but I needed somebody to be in the boat, rowing with me, because I think I felt like I was rowing alone. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>And that\u2019s what I\u2019d say to young men today\u2014is you don\u2019t have to have the answer. There is an issue in marriage called presence, and that\u2019s not a gift that you give somebody. It is being with them, shouldering the load with your spouse\u2014and maybe not knowing how to fix it\u2014but just saying: \u201cYou know what? I care. I\u2019m here. I\u2019m listening. I am in it with you.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>And that was all I needed. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>17:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>What counsel would you give to a first-time mom? She\u2019s just brought the baby home. Let\u2019s just say she\u2019s a working mom. She\u2019s trying to keep up with what feels overwhelming to her today, in terms of the schedule \/ her spiritual life. I mean, she doesn\u2019t have a quiet time anymore. She doesn\u2019t have any space for a quiet time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I didn\u2019t have one either, for heaven\u2019s sake. I mean, you just can\u2019t. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>So, how do you counsel her to maintain some balance or equilibrium in her life?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Well, I think\u2014first of all, I think, she\u2019s got to figure this out with her husband. Just as I needed Dennis to get in the boat with me, and listen, and figure it out together\u2014she needs him to be in the boat with her. They\u2019ve got to figure out: \u201cWhat do they absolutely have to have to survive, as a couple, and for the health of your baby?\u201d You figure out what that is, and you start there. Then, you go back\u2014and yes, if you can add some of these other things, great; but in those early days, it\u2019s all about that baby and getting the baby on some kind of a routine so that you can finally get a good night\u2019s sleep and kind of return back to some sense of normalcy. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>18:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I think understanding that it could take a long time to get back to some sense of normalcy\u2014knowing that that normal is a new normal, and you\u2019ll never go back to the old normal\u2014but new normal is good\u2014but you will come to a semi-plateau again. It\u2019s just going to take a long time. But it has to start with the husband and the wife, linking arms, and saying, \u201cWe\u2019re going to figure this out together so that it is good for me, and it\u2019s good for you, and it\u2019s good for the baby.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>This is where our culture seduces young couples in thinking that they can have it all\u2014that they can do everything they were doing before they had a baby\u2014maintain all the relationships, all the activities\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Exactly. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>\u2014everything they\u2019re doing\u2014and start raising children. [Laughter] I mean, that simply is not a realistic view of life. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>19:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You put some activities\u2014that you really liked\u2014away for a while because you had kids now. You didn\u2019t have space in your life to include those\u2014including your artwork. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>You love doing art. And you shelved that because you said, \u201cI can\u2019t make this work\u201d; right? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>We had two kids at the time I made that decision. They were probably almost two and six months or something\u2014I don\u2019t remember\u2014but I was trying to keep this little art\u2014and it wasn\u2019t a career because I wasn\u2019t really doing it as that, but I was trying to keep that piece of my life alive. I had just gotten a commission\u2014it was first time I\u2019d ever been asked to paint. Somebody was going to pay me for my work\u2014and I was so honored, and I was so excited about. And I thought: \u201cI can do this! I can do this when the kids take naps.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<br>I would put the kids down for naps, and they would\u2014one of them would wake up, crying, or they would get up too early. They would spill my stuff, or they would mess up\u2014or whatever. There was always some interruption \/ some unplanned something that wouldn\u2019t go right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>20:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tFinally, after I finished those two commission pieces\u2014and got those sent out the door\u2014I thought, \u201cThis just wasn\u2019t fun.\u201d\u00a0 It wasn\u2019t worth it because I was always frustrated with the kids or mad at the kids; or I was disappointed in myself, then, because I got mad at the kids. Then, I felt like I\u2019d really made a mistake; and I was a real failure. You know, it just became no fun anymore. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, I remember very, very clearly one afternoon, when this had happened. I thought: \u201cYou know? I just can\u2019t do this.\u201d\u00a0 So, I took all my stuff\u2014I put it in a cardboard box\u2014what would fit in a cardboard box\u2014and I taped that thing up. I opened my pantry door, and I put it on the top shelf. When I put it on the top shelf\u2014I don\u2019t think I said this out loud\u2014but I said it, out loud, in my head\u2014I said: \u201cGod, You gave me this artistic interest. I\u2019m not particularly talented, but You gave me this desire to create and do beautiful things\u2014\u00a0\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>21:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014 \u201cand I can\u2019t do it with the kids. I don\u2019t know why You gave me this if You are not going to let me develop it and grow it, but I guess that\u2019s up to You.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo, I said: \u201cI\u2019m putting this box on the shelf. If You want to give it back to me someday, You can give it back to me someday. And if You don\u2019t, that\u2019s fine with me. That\u2019s Your problem, not mine; and I\u2019m going to trust You with it.\u201d I literally walked away from art and painting of any kind until our youngest was a sophomore in high school. So, it was a long time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Well, I did encourage our listeners to go to your website, which is EverThineHome.com, and see what you\u2019ve been working on since you picked things back up again\u2014because you have created some beautiful, heirloom-quality resources that are designed to be beautiful, designed to declare your faith in Christ, and designed to be discipleship tools for your family. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>22:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m thinking of the resources for the Lenten season and for Easter time\u2014\u201cThe Messiah Mystery\u201d that you\u2019ve created for families to go through together \/ the banner that you have to hang on your door\u2014and the Valentine\u2019s Day resource\u2014the \u201cHow Do I Love Thee\u201d garland that\u2019s got the hearts hanging from them. Each one has a different aspect of love from 1 Corinthians, Chapter 13. <br><br>Our listeners can go to EverThineHome.com to see what you\u2019ve been working on and to order some of these resources, if they\u2019d like. If you have any questions about what Barbara\u2019s been working on or you\u2019d like to place an order by phone, call 1-800-FL-TODAY. We\u2019ve got folks here who can answer any questions you have about the Ever Thine Home resources. Again: the website, EverThineHome.com\u2014or call 1-800- \u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then, the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, a quick word of thanks as we wrap this week up to those of you who made this week possible\u2014those of you who help support the ministry of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>, financially,\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>23:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2014and who partner with us in our goal to effectively develop godly families, who change the world, one home at a time. We appreciate your financial support. We are grateful for your partnership. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIn fact, if you can help with a donation today, we\u2019d like to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d by sending you a book from Dennis and Barbara Rainey. It\u2019s a devotional guide for couples. It\u2019s called <em>Moments with You<\/em>\u2014365 daily devotions that you can do together, as a couple. Go to FamilyLifeToday.com. Click the link in the upper right-hand corner that says, \u201cI CARE,\u201d and make an online donation. We\u2019ll send the book to you. Or call 1-800-FL-TODAY. You can make your donation, by phone; and just ask for a copy of the book, <em>Moments with You<\/em>, when you do that. Or request the book when you mail a donation to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> at PO Box 7111, Little Rock, AR. Our zip code is 72223. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd with that, we\u2019ve got to wrap things up for today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>24:00<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThanks for joining us. Hope you and your family are able to worship together this weekend. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd I hope you can join us back on Monday when we\u2019re going to talk about the movie that\u2019s coming out Valentine\u2019s weekend\u2014the series of books that it is based on\u2014<em>Fifty Shades of Grey<\/em>. Dannah Gresh and Juli Slattery are going to join us to talk about why these books and this upcoming movie are so dangerous and how they distort God\u2019s design for sex. Hope you can join us for that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I\u2019m Bob Lepine. 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