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life.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2010-06-30.pdf","transcript_content":"<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Corwin Anthony was in college playing tight end at UCLA and dating, at the time, the star gymnast on the UCLA gymnastics team.\u00a0 When he came to faith in Christ he realized there were things about his relationship with his girlfriend, Kim that needed to change.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I was afraid that if I started acting too much like a Christian, she would think I was weird, something\u2019s wrong with me, and she would break up with me.\u00a0 So I kind of hid that part of my life from her until one day that I couldn\u2019t stand the conviction anymore and I told her God\u2019s plan for sex and for abstaining until marriage, and it was just right after a time of intimacy and I said, \u201cKim, we got to stop.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today <\/em>for Wednesday, June 30<sup>th<\/sup>.\u00a0 Our host is the President of FamilyLife, Denis Rainey, and I\u2019m Bob Lepine.\u00a0 Today, Corwin and Kim Anthony share about their decision to step back from having sex as a couple and to pursue purity in their dating relationship.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>, thanks for joining us.\u00a0 I\u2019m thinking about love stories in the movies.\u00a0 You know, you go to the movies, see a love story.\u00a0 There\u2019s always some drama, some tension in the love story, right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I think we\u2019re going to hear a love story today that\u2019s got a little drama and tension in it, don\u2019t you think?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u00a0 Oh, I think it\u2019s going to be a great love story!\u00a0 I really do!\u00a0 Corwin and Kim Anthony join us on <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>.\u00a0 Corwin, Kim, welcome to the broadcast!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Thank you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Thank you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You see that twinkle in his eye?\u00a0 The way he was\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, I was looking at her!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I think we\u2019re in trouble!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>No, you\u2019re not in trouble!\u00a0 You\u2019re in real comfortable hands here!\u00a0 Corwin is the Athletes in Action national director of Pro Ministries.\u00a0 Explain to our listeners what Pro Ministries is all about and Athletes in Action.\u00a0 I\u2019ve participated with you guys.\u00a0 I\u2019ll tell our listeners in a moment what I did, but just explain what you do a bit, Corwin.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, my wife and I both work with Athletes in Action, and we basically evangelize and disciple pro athletes.\u00a0 They\u2019re players, coaches, wives, front office executives, and we spend each week trying to help them become the men and women God created them to be, trying to help them with their marriages, which is a desperate situation for professional sports teams.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong>\u00a0 That\u2019s great.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And you, too, have been to the Weekend to Remember\u00ae marriage conference.\u00a0 We\u2019ll get to that story in just a moment.\u00a0 Kim, you were an all-American gymnast at UCLA.\u00a0 You wrote a book about this called <em>Unfavorable Odds<\/em>.\u00a0 The forward is by some good friends of ours, Tony and Lauren Dungy.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong>\u00a0 Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong>\u00a0 And, you know, it\u2019s a great story, and I wish we had more time to talk about that, specifically, but I want to know how you met this guy right here at UCLA, because he was playing football, right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes, he was playing football.\u00a0 Shall I tell them that you stalked me, or should I skip that part?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>No!\u00a0 No!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Oh, let\u2019s hear about the stalking!\u00a0 What did he do?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, I didn\u2019t find out until one of our couple\u2019s studies at the Dolphins that he was stalking me.\u00a0 When I was at UCLA I would walk to Sociology class, and every single time I was walking there, he would appear out of nowhere and start walking with me, and thought, \u201cWow, we keep running into each other!\u201d\u00a0 But it wasn\u2019t until we did a couple\u2019s study with the Dolphins, probably eight years ago, when he admitted that he was stalking me (laughter) and he would wait by the Bruin Bear until I got there, and ease his way into the\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Into the traffic?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Into the flow of traffic!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And it just dawned on you eight years later?!\u00a0 Come on!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I\u2019m a little clueless!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I guess you are!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I am!\u00a0 Corwin knows.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>If a guy shows up three or four times in a row, it ought to dawn on you, \u201cI don\u2019t think this is a coincidence!\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>When did it dawn on you that you needed to find your way to the Bruin Bear?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, see, to get to class, all the students have to leave one side of campus where all the dorms were and walk down the Bruin Walk.\u00a0 There\u2019s a big, giant Bruin Bear in the middle of Bruin Walk, and that\u2019s there before you walk up the hill to all the classrooms.\u00a0 So every student has to pass that bear if you\u2019re going to school, so I knew it was just the Lord placed a bear there (laughter) at a strategic location to hang out.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Where did you first catch a glimpse of Kim?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You know she doesn\u2019t remember it but I first saw her our freshman year and we were in the weight room.\u00a0 All the athletes train together and I still can picture it to this day.\u00a0 I was walking and I looked down, and there she was on the floor just doing a stretch and I almost stepped on her.\u00a0 So I kind of stumbled and stepped over her.\u00a0 I look down, I said, \u201cHi,\u201d and she looked up and said \u201cHi.\u201d\u00a0 And that was it.\u00a0 But we didn\u2019t talk until a year later.\u00a0 A year later is when we got a sociology class together.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>But did you say, \u201cHi\u201d or did you say, \u201c<em>Hi?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 (Laughter)\u00a0 Which was it?\u00a0 I mean, when you saw her down on the floor, stretching, did you go, \u201cOh my!\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You know, honestly, I thought she was cute, but I didn\u2019t\u2019 really pay much mind but I still remember it to this day, so\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>It\u2019s etched into your mind!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You know, it occurs to me that some of our listeners might be offended by us using the term \u2018stalking,\u2019 but really what Corwin was doing\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Same thing I did in high school.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Exactly!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Come on, let\u2019s be honest about it!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI can show you the locker I was standing by waiting for her to come by, you know? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So when did you ask her out on your first date?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, I kind of got to back up here because I had just committed my life to Christ about three weeks before, and I remember sitting on campus with a teammate of mine who shared with me that I needed to really live for God and not just say that I knew God.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI remember praying the prayer and saying, \u201cGod, I don\u2019t know how I can live for You like I know I\u2019m supposed to\u2026\u201d and I\u2019m thinking in my mind, \u201cBoy; there are a lot of women on this campus.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know if I really <em>want<\/em> to live for God!\u201d\u00a0 But I also added, \u201cGod, I know it\u2019s the right thing to do so please help me.\u201d\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSo I began my Christian journey that year in college.\u00a0 Now, I had had my eye on Kim for awhile but she was dating someone else.\u00a0 All of a sudden, after I prayed this prayer of fully committing my life to Christ and knowing what that meant, I find out that she\u2019s no longer dating this other guy.\u00a0 We have a class together and she was sending some signs that there is a possibility.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Okay, wait a minute!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I\u2019m sorry this is not television!\u00a0 She has raised a finger!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>The look on her face!\u00a0 Sending \u201csome signs!\u201d\u00a0 Corwin, I don\u2019t think so!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>They were signs to me!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou looked at me and smiled!\u00a0 That\u2019s all I needed!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Is that all?\u00a0 Well, I really didn\u2019t know Corwin but we had a tutoring session together.\u00a0 There was a female basketball player sitting in between us, and she passed this note to me, and on this note was one of those things written, \u201cI like you.\u00a0 Do you like me?\u00a0 Check \u2018yes\u2019 or \u2018no.\u2019\u201d\u00a0 And it was from Corwin!\u00a0 (laughter).\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Now, Corwin!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And so basically\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Wait, wait, wait!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>This is all Pac 10?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>This is junior high!\u00a0 Corwin, this is what you\u2019re doing as a <em>college<\/em> football\u2014that\u2019s the best you could do?!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong>\u00a0 I had no Mac.\u00a0 (laughter) I had no game, I didn\u2019t know what to do at all, but you know\u2026<strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You were smitten\u2019!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So check the box.\u00a0 So what did you do with the note?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I kept it in my bag.\u00a0 I didn\u2019t check anything.\u00a0 I just kept it in my bag.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You checked <em>him <\/em>though, didn\u2019t you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>My phone number was on it.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes, his phone number was on it.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know how long it took me but several weeks later on a Saturday I was really bored and I saw the note on my desk in my dorm room.\u00a0 My roommate was out of town and I said, \u201cWell, let me call him and see what he\u2019s doing.\u201d\u00a0 So I called him and that\u2019s kind of how it began.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And the rest is history!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>It worked!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Everything you need to know, you learned about it in junior high, okay?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>But you had this dilemma because here\u2019s this cute young gymnast and you\u2019ve just surrendered your life to Christ.\u00a0 She was not walking with the Lord, didn\u2019t know the Lord at that point, did she?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>No, not at all, and I started meeting with our ministry on campus, the chaplain there would hold Bible studies.\u00a0 So, after Kim and I got together I lived a double life.\u00a0 I would go to Bible studies and do college stuff with her and be intimate with her.\u00a0 I\u2019d go to chapels and be intimate with her and I\u2019d go meet one-on-one with our team chaplain, and that went on for about two months.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow I really had a sincere desire to grow and be the man God called me to be, and as you know, when you want it God gives to you.\u00a0 So the Spirit of God began to convict me more and more and more about my lifestyle.\u00a0 I knew that what I was doing was wrong.\u00a0 I knew I was taking advantage of Kim\u2019s ignorance and although I did share the Gospel with her I didn\u2019t tell her everything about what it meant to walk with God.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tOne of the reasons was I was afraid that if I started acting too much like a Christian she would think I was weird, something\u2019s wrong with me, and she would break up with me.\u00a0 So I kind of hid that part of my life from her until one day that I couldn\u2019t stand the conviction anymore and it was just right after a time of intimacy and I just sat up and said, \u201cKim, we got to stop.\u201d\u00a0 I told her why.\u00a0 I told her God\u2019s plan for sex and for abstaining until marriage.\u00a0 At that time I thought \u201cBoy, this is it!\u00a0 She\u2019s going to drop me and my reputation is ruined!\u201d\u00a0 And I\u2019m pretty much saying good-bye to her by telling her we have to stop.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWell, instead of leaving me, she became curious as to why a guy would share like this.\u00a0 She had never heard that before!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Okay, let me stop you at that point.\u00a0 Kim, when he shared this with you, was the message so mixed because him pursuing you physically on one hand and then now he\u2019s making a declaration of purity and chastity\u2026what did you think?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, honestly, I got kind of excited about it because in my life I didn\u2019t know very many boundaries.\u00a0 When he brought this up, I thought, \u201cWow!\u00a0 He literally loves God more than he loves me!\u201d\u00a0 Because actually, Corwin didn\u2019t tell you when he told me that, he also opened up God\u2019s Word and began to read to me God\u2019s plan for intimacy to be inside of marriage and not outside.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd so, in my crazy mind, I\u2019m starting to think, \u201cWow, there are some boundaries in my life.\u00a0 God wants boundaries for me and these boundaries are not because He doesn\u2019t want me to have fun but they\u2019re there to protect me.\u201d\u00a0 And actually, I felt protected for one of the first times.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Was it in that setting where you are convicted about what\u2019s going on in your life and about the fact that you guys are being intimate and you sit up and say, \u201cWe got to quit this,\u201d and you open up the Bible\u2026was that where the spiritual turning point in your life, was that where you came to faith, you think?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, Corwin, you can help me out on this.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin: <\/strong>\u00a0It was before.\u00a0 When we first met, I did share the Gospel with her, I went through the <em>Four Spiritual Laws<\/em> and that\u2019s when she understood to have a personal relationship with God and that you need to make that connection right.\u00a0 So she did invite Christ into her life at that time, but I didn\u2019t share everything with her at that time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>About what it meant to live for Christ.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>\u00a0About what it meant to live for Christ.\u00a0 God\u2019s boundaries.\u00a0 His plan for intimacy. That happened about two months later into our dating relationship.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And in that setting, two months later, you were saying, \u201cI\u2019m convicted.\u00a0 We got to stop.\u201d\u00a0 I just got to tell you I know people who have said that before and it didn\u2019t hold.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes.\u00a0 Well, we actually did stop the full act but there were about six times that we struggled going a little too far, and we actually broke up.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Several times.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Several times over the past two years.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>We break up for a month and then get back together, \u201cokay, we can be strong now.\u201d\u00a0 And then, when we messed up, we broke up again.\u00a0 It just happened over and over again.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I didn\u2019t handle that very well at all.\u00a0 We didn\u2019t have the proper boundaries in our lives.\u00a0 It was just kind of us trying to do it on our own, even the team chaplain didn\u2019t know we were still kind of struggling a little bit.\u00a0 We just kind of tried to get this area under control the only way I knew how.\u00a0 You get away from me.\u00a0 I\u2019ll get away from you.\u00a0 Let\u2019s get strong in the Lord, then come back together and see if it takes then.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So if you\u2019re in the locker room today with a 19-year-old athlete who\u2019s pretty good looking and strong and he\u2019s got this girlfriend and he wants to be pure\u2026how would you coach him, Coach?\u00a0 How would you tell him, \u201cHere\u2019s how you can do this?\u00a0 Here\u2019s what\u2019s got to be in place in your life.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, you know, when Kim and I got back together, we broke up for\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Over a year.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>What we thought was final.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>A year?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes.\u00a0 And this was my junior year, her senior year.\u00a0 We were separated for that entire year, and that was the first year of my life where there was no compromising at all in this whole area.\u00a0 That\u2019s when I learned how to have a little more self-control.\u00a0 So we got back together and things were much better.\u00a0 It was like, \u201cThank you, Lord!\u201d\u00a0 Then we ended up getting married.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThe things that we learned during that period were you can\u2019t do it by yourself.\u00a0 The power of this sin is in its secrecy and you really need to have people in your life that you love and trust that you can be real with.\u00a0 But there\u2019s a lot in this world that is feeding the sexual appetites of men, especially.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd so, one of the ways I would council these young men is to guard your heart.\u00a0 Guard your eyes, guard your ears.\u00a0 You can\u2019t just go and see any old movie just because it\u2019s the next newest popular thing out.\u00a0 You really don\u2019t know what the movie is about.\u00a0 Know what you\u2019re going to be exposed to and protect yourself from feeding that hunger.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes and a lot of guys mistakenly think that marriage is going to rescue them from all the feeding.\u00a0 That doesn\u2019t necessarily rescue you from all the fantasies and lust that a man can still feed and feast his mind on.\u00a0 Take us to the end of that year when you had your sabbatical from each other, and then you decided to get back together.\u00a0 How long before you asked her to marry you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Wow.\u00a0 We met probably in August.\u00a0 I remember because I had just injured my knee.\u00a0 I was on crutches walking up to campus and she had already graduated.\u00a0 It was my senior year and she saw me on crutches and felt sorry for me and we struck up a conversation and we decided to\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Now wait a second, I just got to ask her a question.\u00a0 Were you stalking him?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I was not stalking him!\u00a0 But I did feel sorry for him on crutches because I didn\u2019t know that he had injured himself.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes, well we struck up a conversation and decided to just get together and talk.\u00a0 We drove somewhere and parked and just began talking and reconnecting.\u00a0 It had been a year since we had talked and we began sharing with each other what was going on in our lives what God had been doing in our lives.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So, you know, we ended up leaving that night thinking, \u201cWow this is\u2026\u201d\u00a0 I\u2019m thinking, \u201cWell maybe we\u2019re going to get back together.\u201d\u00a0 I\u2019m not sure what she was thinking.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes, I wasn\u2019t there yet.\u00a0 You know, I\u2019m thinking, \u201cHe\u2019s a great guy, and it will be good to have him as a friend.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Now her mom was thinking something else, which I found out about later. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut her mom was begging her, hoping that we would get back together.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So were my coaches!\u00a0 My coaches <em>loved<\/em> Corwin!\u00a0 He would be the only person they would allow into the gym to watch.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>You were surrounded by matchmakers!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Evidently, evidently!\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(Laughter).\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>So how did you pop the question?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, we drove down to San Diego.\u00a0 We spent some with some close friends of ours and I went and bought the ring down there.\u00a0 I remember driving up Pacific Coast Highway in California, and we parked and\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Did she you know you had the ring?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>No, she didn\u2019t.\u00a0 She had no clue.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>No clue.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Corwin:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>We started talking.\u00a0 I can be kind of a serious guy sometimes and be misread and so she thought I was breaking up with her because I began just to talk about our relationship.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know, I guess I overdid it.\u00a0 I was trying to set her up, but she ended up crying and I got out of the car\u2026 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t(laughter)\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u2026I got out and got on one knee and proposed to her right on the beach at night.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And you were ready to say, \u201cYes?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>I was shocked!\u00a0 Honestly, I did not know that he would, but I had thought about it.\u00a0 I thought, \u201cI wonder if, you know, we\u2019re going to be together?\u201d\u00a0 And yes, I did say yes right away.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut our relationship was a lot different than it was the previous years because we knew the boundaries that needed to go up.\u00a0 We knew that we should not be together after a certain time at night.\u00a0 We knew that we had to draw the line beforehand and not wait until we crossed it and try to backtrack.\u00a0 So, we were able to honor God in our relationship.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>And you knew by this point that if you wanted a guy to continue to pay attention to you, you didn\u2019t have to sleep with him, right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Kim:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Exactly.\u00a0 And Corwin was one of those people different from anyone I had ever met.\u00a0 So honorable, and one of the reasons why I married him was because I knew that he loved God more than he loved me, and if he loves God more than he loves me, then I\u2019m going to benefit from everything that God wants him to do in a marriage.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Well, we know from previous broadcasts that we\u2019ve done with you guys that there was a drama that was really set up to begin to occur after you were married, but I want to say a work to the singles who are listening in.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou\u2019re relationship needs to be according to the Book.\u00a0 The boundaries Kim has been talking about here are really needed today I think within the singles community especially of those who bear the name of Christ, who go to church, and who profess to follow Him.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI just appreciate your courage, Corwin, as a man, you know, to get control of your own passion, lust, and to put it on the table with a young lady to risk the relationship and to get honest about it, and ultimately, to conquer it and to make it a really a statement of redemption.\u00a0 I think men today need to see that and I just appreciate you doing that.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong><strong>\u00a0 <\/strong>Yes, I think about the book that our friend, Randy Alcorn, wrote a couple of years ago called <em>The Purity Principle<\/em> that\u2019s just a great challenge to men and women, to put into practice, to embrace God\u2019s design for human sexuality.\u00a0 Not only is it best for you, but it\u2019s what the Designer has in mind for you.\u00a0 It really is ultimately about whether you\u2019re going to submit to what He\u2019s called you to or whether you\u2019re going to follow your own lust and passions.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tLet me encourage folks:\u00a0 if this is a challenge for you, go online at FamilyLifeToday.com to get a copy of Randy Alcorn\u2019s book and read through it.\u00a0 Pray through it and ask God to give you strength and to give you grace and to forgive you and to help you repent.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAgain, the title of Randy Alcorn\u2019s book is <em>The Purity Principle<\/em>.\u00a0 You can find out more about it at FamilyLifeToday.com.\u00a0 We also have copies of Kim Hamilton Anthony\u2019s book, <em>Unfavorable Odds.<\/em>\u00a0 It\u2019s her story of her life becoming a world-class gymnast against unfavorable odds.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAgain, that\u2019s the title of her book, and you can get more information about it online at FamilyLifeToday.com, or you can call 1-800-FL-TODAY, 1-800-358-6329.\u00a0 That\u2019s 1-800 F as in \u201cfamily\u201d L as in \u201clife\u201d and then the word TODAY.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAs I was doing the math recently, just trying to figure out how many different guests we\u2019ve had on <em>FamilyLife Today.<\/em><em>\u00a0 <\/em>We\u2019ve got this guestbook here in the studio where guests have signed it.\u00a0 We\u2019re just about out of space in the guestbook where we\u2019ve got, really, hundreds of names of folks who have been with us here on <em>FamilyLife Today <\/em>over the last 18 years, and it occurred to me while we\u2019ve got some folks who have been listening throughout that whole period of almost 18 years now.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019ve also got folks who have just started listening in maybe the last month or the last six months or the last year.\u00a0 If you\u2019re new to FamilyLife, maybe you\u2019ve just started catching the program or maybe you moved into a season of life where <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> makes a little more sense than it did earlier.\u00a0 We\u2019re glad that you\u2019re along, and we\u2019d love to let you know more about the ministry of FamilyLife.\u00a0 We\u2019d love to introduce you to all that FamilyLife has to offer for couples, for moms and dads, and for extended families.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tYou can find out more about us at FamilyLifeToday.com, but we\u2019d also like to introduce ourselves by sending you a free book.\u00a0 It\u2019s a book called <em>99 Ways to Stretch Your Home Budget.<\/em>\u00a0 It has some very practical ways to help you squeeze a little extra money out of the family budget, and the book is our gift to you.\u00a0 All you have to, if you\u2019d like a copy, is call 1-800-FL-TODAY and say, \u201cSend me a copy of that book on stretching your budget.\u201d\u00a0 And again, we\u2019re happy to send it out to you.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe\u2019re looking forward to getting to know you, and we hope this book will provide some practical help for you and your family.\u00a0 Again, call 1-800-FL-TODAY if you\u2019d like a copy of the book on how to stretch your home budget.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd then be sure to join us back tomorrow when we\u2019re going to her more from Kim and Corwin Anthony.\u00a0 Tomorrow, we\u2019re going to find out more about some of the challenges the two of them faced during their first years of marriage so I hope you can tune in for that.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today Keith Lynch and our entire broadcast production team on behalf of our host Dennis Rainey, I\u2019m Bob Lepine.\u00a0 We will see you back tomorrow for another edition of 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