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statement.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2007-02-21.pdf","transcript_content":"<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Successful companies often understand clearly their mission.\u00a0 Successful people are the same way.\u00a0 Here is the chief technology officer of Intel, Pat Gelsinger.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0As I've encouraged people to write their own mission statement, I've just seen them open up, you know, like a flower coming into season, where they start to say, \"Oh, how can I join God in what He is doing with the skills and talents that He has give me.\"\u00a0 And it just changes the entire perspective that you bring to daily living.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0This is FamilyLife Today for Wednesday, February 21st.\u00a0 Our host is the president of FamilyLife, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine.\u00a0 We'll hear more about what's in Pat Gelsinger's personal mission statement today and maybe think about some things that ought to be in yours.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And welcome to FamilyLife Today, thanks for joining us.\u00a0 I remember, this was back many years ago, I was involved in sales, and I went to one of these sales training workshops, you know, and they wanted us to begin our workshop by talking about our goals.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And they talked about, you know, you might have a goal for a vacation house or a new car or a boat or \u2013 there were all kinds of goals that they wanted \u2013 they threw out there and said, \"What are your goals?\u00a0 Write them down,\" and this is how you were going to begin your sales training day.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Well, I was kind of a smart aleck.\u00a0 I know you find that a little hard to believe, knowing me today, but \u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0You were more mature back then.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0I stopped and thought about that, and I said, \"Okay, what are my goals?\"\u00a0 And I wrote down, \"Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.\"\u00a0 I said, \"That's kind of it.\"\u00a0 And so when it came to my turn in the sales workshop, you know, and I said that, I think the sales trainer was a little frustrated with me, because I kind of was blowing his whole illustration for where he wanted to take us.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0But, really, when you pull back, that was kind of my main goal, and the rest of the workshop didn't go very well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0That's the life in sales didn't last.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0No, but, you know, what is good, Bob, is you had thought it through, what you were living for, and whether or not he embraced that, that's another issue.\u00a0 But, for you, that was your ultimate value, your ultimate goal, and what your life was all about and, frankly, it took a lot of courage to be able to make that statement in an audience like that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Aw, shucks.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Well, we're going to talk about goals and mission statements and how you can write one.\u00a0 Unless the wives think that this is only for the men, I have to tell you that this past week, while Barbara and I were away for a getaway, she said, \"Would you help me write a personal mission statement?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Now, we're at the point of being empty nesters, and she was expressing to me the need to narrow her focus down to a statement, a personal statement of vision for her life that would help her determine what her life is all about, and I don't know of a woman or a man who couldn't use a more profound statement of how they're to live than by having a personal mission statement.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0We have with us someone who has written a personal mission statement and attempts to live by one and has written about it in a book called \"Balancing Your Family, Faith and Work.\"\u00a0 Pat Gelsinger joins us again on FamilyLife Today.\u00a0 Pat, welcome back.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0It's a pleasure to be with you again.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0We've shared earlier that Pat is a senior vice president for business products with Intel.\u00a0 He has worked for them for more than 20 years.\u00a0 He and his wife, Linda, have four children.\u00a0 They live in Oregon, and this book is really the story of your working career, but it really is ultimately a statement of trying to live a life of value, isn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Absolutely.\u00a0 It's an intentional life practice.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0What led you to the point of writing a personal mission statement?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, I had been having a fabulous career.\u00a0 School, I had finished by bachelors, finished my master's, I had some great success in some projects at Intel, finished chips like the 486 that was seen as the leader.\u00a0 I had published my first book, \"Programming the 8386.\"\u00a0 You read that one, didn't you, Dennis?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0I did, yeah.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, it was a real thriller.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Bob had that one for a quiet time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, the last chapter was really pretty exciting, right?\u00a0 When you turned on that first paging mode, it was pretty thrilling.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0I'll never forget it.\u00a0 It gave me chills.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0But, you know, I finished my first book, I had my first patent, I was an inventor, and then I got promoted to be the youngest VP at Intel and, all of a sudden, I had been just passionately pursuing different agendas, objectives I wanted to get done.\u00a0 When I got them finished, here, at 32, and, all of a sudden, I'm, like, you know, the very day I should feel the most excited about my career, I didn't know what was next.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0I got to this point of severe disillusionment.\u00a0 \"Okay, where am I going?\u00a0 What do I want to get done?\u00a0 What do I want to accomplish?\"\u00a0 And that got me to this point, and it took me about a year of deep self-introspection to say, \"Okay, what do I want to do with the most precious resource God has given me \u2013 my time \u2013 utilizing His resources fully \u2013 the skills, talents, and capabilities, and then lay out an agenda for the rest of my life?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And that was this year's project that resulted in my personal mission statement.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And how did you even come up with one?\u00a0 Did you take a long retreat and go to a cabin in the woods and pray and meditate?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, there was certainly some personal quiet time associated with it.\u00a0 I did some drafting, you know, looked at some books on the subject, read, and tried to get some models from some of those, and then, ultimately, I did a first draft, stuck it in the drawer and didn't look at it for a month.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Then I pulled it out and sort of ripped it up and did it again and did that about four or five times, and after I got to about the fifth or sixth revision, it got to be pretty good.\u00a0 And since I finished that at the age of 32, I've only done modest revisions to the mission statement that you hold now, and it's worked very well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Maybe every decade, as you go through a different season of life you should be updating it and reflecting it, but it's been a powerful process that really has given me a picture of where I want to get to and how I want to use that valuable resource of time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0And how do you use a personal mission statement?\u00a0 I mean, obviously, it's good to put in print and hang it on the wall and go visit occasionally and read and look at, but how, practically, do you use it every day?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, come back to it and say, \"Okay, how did I use today?\u00a0 God gave me 24 hours today, how did I parcel it up?\" And am I putting \u2013 you know, if I look out over a week or a month, have I put my time consistent with my mission statement and, if not, how am I going to adjust it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And then pull it out, read it regularly, and then I grade myself on it, and I do it at tax time.\u00a0 I'm already depressed about taxes.\u00a0 So it's a good time to go and \u2013 you know, literally, I've been grading myself on it for over 15 years now of seeing how I've done against it each year.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And I'll say, \"Okay, did I get my book reading in?\u00a0 Did I get my Scripture memorization in?\u00a0 How did I do in terms of each one of those goals that I have for myself?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0So underneath your mission statement, you've got a list of specific objectives?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, I have a mission statement, I have a list of my values and then, finally, specific goals I want to accomplish.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Give us your mission statement.\u00a0 What is it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, it reads as follows \u2013 \"I will be a Christian husband, family man, and businessman.\u00a0 I will use every resource God provides me to carry out His work on earth as set forth below.\"\u00a0 And then below I go on to the values, and these are sort of the things if you'd say, \"Who is Pat Gelsinger?\" these are the things I'd want people to say, and then I read them \u2013 \"Work hard in all I do\" \u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0No, no, wait, wait, wait.\u00a0 I want to go back to the mission statement, and I want to hear how you grade yourself.\u00a0 I really liked that for a moment.\u00a0 Let's just go through there.\u00a0 The first one is you're going to be a Christian husband, right?\u00a0 How do you grade yourself there?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, some of my specific goals are am I dating my wife regularly?\u00a0 So I'll say \"How did I do this past year dating my wife regularly?\"\u00a0 Other ones will be \"Have I supported her?\"\u00a0 And I'll say \"Have I been helping around the house?\"\u00a0 \"Have I been demonstrating to her that I absolutely cherish her as my spouse, and in what ways have I been doing that or what ways haven't I?\"\u00a0 \"What am I changing in my life to carry out being a Christian husband?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0There's two words you use in your mission statement that you say everything else \u2013 your goals and your values and all your life hinges around?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yes.\u00a0 Every resource that God has given me certain things.\u00a0 I'm saying, \"How can I apply everything that He has given me to carry out His will, His desire.\u00a0 He designed me a certain way.\u00a0 How can I use every skill, every dollar, everything He's given me to execute that plan on earth.\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0I've had guys come to me, and we've talked about vocational options, and they've said, \"Gee, I don't know if I should take this new job.\u00a0 I don't know what I should be doing.\u00a0 I'm wondering what I ought to be at this stage of life,\" and one of the things I've always told them is I think you look at how God's made you, and then you say, \"How can I maximize how God's made me for kingdom impact?\"\u00a0 That's really what you're talking about, isn't it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Absolutely, and I think intentional living saying \"Here's what I've got, here's the skills and resources, here is where I want to go and how.\"\u00a0 In every situation, every day, every week, am I moving in that direction?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0So a guy who knows that you're a corporate VP at Intel, and he'd say, \"Okay, so how is this leveraging your life for God?\u00a0 Aren't you really working for the shareholders?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, I am working for the shareholders.\u00a0 I'm working for the employees.\u00a0 I'm working for the care and sustenance of my family as well.\u00a0 But ultimately is how can that platform be used for the kingdom?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0I've had many Christians at Intel say, \"Oh, if Pat's public about his faith, I can step forward as well.\"\u00a0 I've had other people say, \"Oh, we've seen your witness in your life, and that impacted us.\"\u00a0 You know, few of us, a few of us have the life of being full-time ministers.\u00a0 The rest of us are called to full-time ministry in our workplace in whatever vocation God has called us to.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Pat, as I'm listening to you talk about that, I think about the command of Scripture that we are to glorify God.\u00a0 Now, the idea there in Scripture is we are to honor Him with our lives, and, really, everything about your mission statement is that you want to honor God with your life.\u00a0 You want to honor Him as a husband, as a family man, as a businessman, and you want to use all the resources \u2013 the financial, the talent, the abilities, all the time He's given you to be a part of what God's accomplishing on the planet.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0You know, that's a great statement for any man, any woman, wherever they are regardless of their job.\u00a0 They don't have to be a vice president of Intel to maximize a mission statement like that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yes, absolutely.\u00a0 And as I've encouraged people to write their own mission statement, I've just seen them just open up, you know, like a flower coming into season, where they start to say, \"Oh, how can I join God in what He is doing with the skills and talents that He's given me?\u00a0 What ministries can I start?\u00a0 How can I become the high priest of my household?\u00a0 How can my children be a legacy for me for generations to come?\"\u00a0 And it just changes the entire perspective that you bring to daily living.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0As you look at your job, have there been those moments when this mission statement has impacted a decision you've had to make, a choice you've had to make, between \u2013 well, maybe something that is on the gray side in the ethics arena?\u00a0 It seems to me that businessmen, all the time, are facing these issues, and they may not be as clearly focused as you are. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Do you remember an illustration of an ethical issue you faced where this statement helped you make a decision?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Certainly, and I've been fortunate to work at a company that's highly ethical like Intel that runs by what have been recognized in the industry as great business practices.\u00a0 But every one of us, through our daily activities, has to live that out.\u00a0 And a couple of cases, I was specifically named in lawsuits against Intel.\u00a0 My name was one of the offending parties that was called out specifically, and, boy, I had to look deeply inside of myself and did I execute everything perfectly?\u00a0 Was I, in fact, violating any of our legal agreements with any of these parties that we work for?\u00a0 Was there even the slightest lapse of ethical behavior on my part?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And, ultimately, I could say that because I work so hard to live that out, I could be very confident that, absolutely, that was the case.\u00a0 But when Intel was sued by DEC or by Intergraph, I was in the middle of some of those enormous lawsuits.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0And, you know, it sounds kind of clinical here in the studio to be talking about this, but in the age of Enron, where there have been corporate executives who have made choices that ended up in lawsuits where they've been convicted and found guilty, these really are interesting days to be alive, and our choices do matter.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Absolutely, and I think people around the globe are embracing essentially Christian practices because of their absolute ethical and moral purity.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0I'm looking at some of the goals that you've listed, and the way you broke your mission statement out, you've got the personal mission statement, you list 12 values that support that mission statement, and then 21 goals that are kind of the measurables.\u00a0 You've got things in here like \"write a book explaining the things God's taught you through your life for your children, your grandchildren, and your great-grandchildren.\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0I suppose this accomplishes that mission?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yes, you're holding it.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Number four can be scratched off the list?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, unless God has another book in mind.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0That's what I'm wondering.\u00a0 Do you get to a point \u2013 because \u2013 for example, number 18 \u2013 \"become fluent in at least one additional language.\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0I'm working on Chinese.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Wow.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Chinese.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0My daughter would have the greatest respect for you.\u00a0 She's a senior at the university right now, in her third year of Chinese, and she is struggling.\u00a0 I mean, she's really struggling.\u00a0 She says it's a tough language.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Very hard.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0At the point you become fluent, do you scratch that off?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, some of these, like the book one, when I was challenged by a friend.\u00a0 I had spoken on the subject, and he said, \"You've really got to write this down.\"\u00a0 I said, \"No, no.\"\u00a0 Then I went back and read my mission statements and, like, \"There it is, man, God won't let me off on this one.\"\u00a0 So I felt convicted at that point to actually go, sit down, and start developing the manuscript for the book.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Some of them, as I complete them, yes, I'll probably do a revision.\u00a0 Like I say, as we're coming up on empty nesting, it's probably about time to think about the next revision of the mission statement.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0One of your top goals here is to have all four of your children make a personal committee to faith in Christ.\u00a0 They've all done that, right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Amen.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And \"play an active role in leading them to Christian maturity,\" and you've done that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Amen.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And so, again, I look at this and think are you hoping that by 50, 55, you can scratch these off and start with a new list of 21?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, some of them are perpetual.\u00a0 Some of them are \"read so much a year.\"\u00a0 \"Memorize so many new Scriptures; fast once a week.\"\u00a0 And those live on forever, but some of them I do hope to get done and replace them with other goals.\u00a0 But it really is saying, \"Okay, where do I want to get to?\"\u00a0 And am I taking the steps today to prepare myself for those potentials in the future?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And if you don't have that, if you don't know where you want to get to, then you don't know where you're going, do you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Just punch a clock and \u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0\u2026 any road will get you there.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0That's right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0No doubt about it.\u00a0 Now, how do you go back and evaluate these goals?\u00a0 Do you do it on an annual basis?\u00a0 Practically, I'm thinking of a mom who may want to set some goals for her family at this stage in her life in terms of raising her children.\u00a0 And she's thinking, \"Where do I find the time to do this?\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Now, a businessman can have a business retreat, but a wife and a mother may find it a little more difficult.\u00a0 How do you go about evaluating these?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0I look at them periodically, usually at least once a quarter, and I'll pull them out when questions come up.\u00a0 But once a year, I sit down and formally grade them and, like I said, that's a good thing to do at tax time, I'm already depressed.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0And grade as in A, B, C?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0How I've done.\u00a0 I said \"Memorize this many Scriptures.\"\u00a0 Well, how many have I done this year?\u00a0 How have I done on exercising and that's sort of an A, B, C grade, but each one of them be very specific.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Have you had some years where your grade point's been pretty low?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, I've had some bad years.\u00a0 And it's also a statement of what I want to become.\u00a0 I'm not working on all of them right now.\u00a0 When I took my new job, I stopped taking Chinese lessons, you know, just too busy.\u00a0 It's a hard language to learn, I'm just couldn't put enough time to it.\u00a0 I'll pick that one up again in a year or two.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0So these are lifetime goals?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, a long period of time.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0What's the most recent memory verse that you've memorized that you can remember?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0That's a little bit unfair, Dennis.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0No, it's not.\u00a0 I was asking for the one you could remember.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0So \u2013 2 Peter, chapter 1:7-11 \u2013 the ladder of maturity \u2013 \"For this very reason make every effort to add to your faith goodness, to your goodness knowledge, to your knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness love.\u00a0 And if you do these things in increasing measure, you will not fall, will have an eternal inheritance in the kingdom of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.\"\u00a0 I think I got it about right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Good for you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0That's a Level A, I think, right there on that one.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Absolutely.\u00a0 Okay, so if somebody who has heard us talking about this wants to get started, I guess, obviously, get a copy of your book and be coached through the process.\u00a0 But you'd say do it over a period of time?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Yeah, this is hard work.\u00a0 Don't think you're going to just sit down one afternoon over a cup of coffee and do it.\u00a0 Start one afternoon over a cup of coffee, but expect to take some time, and after you have a draft in hand, give it to people close to you \u2013 yes, your spouse.\u00a0 This is the person that you want to be married to 10, 15 years from now.\u00a0 Some of the people that you might be mentoring with; the people that you respect in your life, and have them give you some honest and maybe tough feedback.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0And the thing I like about your goals is they're not just in one area of your life.\u00a0 I think for businessmen, we typically write business goals of how we want to be measured, but you've got all kinds of stuff, like Bob was talking about \u2013 everything from exercise and leading Bible studies and fasting one day a week for your spiritual health.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0You've got practically every area of your life that reflects your mission statement as a man.\u00a0 And I think that's the bottom line, Bob, is that as followers of Christ, our lives should be well-rounded.\u00a0 We should have goals in these areas, and I think Pat is exhorting us here around something I've been thinking about doing, but you've finally \u2013 you've encouraged me to kick this into gear, and I'm not only going to help Barbara with it, but I'm also going to get some more specifics down around some things I want to accomplish as well.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, that sounds like, whether our listeners got anything out of today's radio program, I think we hit a homerun here.\u00a0 Can I come back and grade your mission statement here?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0I'll tell you what, when you become president of Intel, you can come back and grade how I'm doing on my goals and mission statement.\u00a0 Is it a deal?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tPat:\u00a0Well, that's in God's hands at this point.\u00a0 I want to come back and grade them regardless.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0He's a real diplomat.\u00a0 This is how you become president of Intel, you're a diplomat like this.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0You know, seriously, I was sitting down with some friends recently who were talking about their family motto.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Sure.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And our family never had a family motto.\u00a0 But I thought, \"What a great idea, for a family to have a slogan that helps define your values as a family,\" and this family, their name is the Jones family, and their family motto was \"It's fun to be a Jones,\" and that kind of defined a core value for their family.\u00a0 And you think about things like mission and values and priorities. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0We've got to find some ways that we can not only think through these things, but also make them a part of the fiber and the fabric of who we are as individuals and as a family.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And I think folks can get some help, Dennis, from the book that Pat has written on this subject.\u00a0 It's called \"Balancing your Family, Faith, and Work,\" it's in our FamilyLife Resource Center.\u00a0 We'd be happy to send a copy to you.\u00a0 You can get in touch with us here at FamilyLife by going to our website, FamilyLife.com. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0There's a red button right in the center of the home page, and if you click that button, it will take you to an area of the site where you can find out more about Pat's book, other resources we have available here at FamilyLife, including a book you and your wife, Barbara, wrote called \"Pressure Proof Your Marriage,\" that is tied to this same subject \u2013 how do you keep your marriage relationship the priority that it needs to be in a world where not only is your job competing for your time and attention but so many things are competing for our time and our attention that we have a tendency to let our marriage relationship slide.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0There is more information about both of these books on our website at FamilyLife.com, and if any of our 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