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years.","meta_box":{"show_notes":"","transcript_url":"https:\/\/transcript.familylifetoday.com\/fl2006-05-29.pdf","transcript_content":"<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\u00ad\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Gladys Purkett was part of a memorial service not long ago.\u00a0 What made it unusual is that it was held in her honor. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0I have never heard of a memorial service before the person is gone, and I just think this is the greatest thing that could happen.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Life is short, it's a vapor, but we, as followers of Christ, we need to use these days strategically and make sure we're being obedient.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0And I just thank all of you so much because you really filled my life with what I needed for two years, and it's just made a big, big difference.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0It's just good to push back and listen to the life of someone who finished well and ask ourselves the question \u2013 am I finishing well?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0This is FamilyLife Today for Monday, May 29th.\u00a0 Our host is the president of FamilyLife, Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine.\u00a0 We'll hear a special tribute to a special friend on today's edition of our program.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And welcome to FamilyLife Today, thanks for joining us on the Monday edition.\u00a0 We don't usually get the opportunity to meet folks who listen to FamilyLife Today, but a few years back we met one of our listeners, and what emerged out of that meeting was a great friendship.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0We sure did, Bob.\u00a0 We had a chance to meet a widow.\u00a0 Her name is Gladys Purkett.\u00a0 She, at the time, was living in Southern California, and basically what had happened was she was listening to our broadcast, just really liked to hang out with us on FamilyLife Today, and she sent us a couple of donations, and something kind of got my attention about it, and we invited her to come back here, and she came by my office, and I sat in my office \u2013 I'll never forget this \u2013 and I just was expressing appreciation that she was a stakeholder in FamilyLife Today and that she not only listened and was applying in her life what we were teaching from the Scriptures, but that she wanted to participate with us as a donor.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And I said to her, I said, \"Gladys, what do you do with your life?\"\u00a0 And she's spunky.\u00a0 She looked at me, and she said, \"You know, I'm not doing a whole lot of anything except playing Liverpool Rummy \u2013 and I've asked Bob, and he doesn't know what Liverpool Rummy is, either \u2013 and I looked at her, and I said, \"Well, Gladys, why don't you consider coming back here, volunteering, and make a difference in families both here in America and around the world?\"\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Well, you know what?\u00a0 She did.\u00a0 She quit playing Liverpool Rummy, said goodbye to her buddies in Southern California, and they, along with her children, really thought that she was losing her mind.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0They thought she'd gone off the deep end, that's right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0They really did, but Gladys came back here to FamilyLife, and she rolled up her sleeves.\u00a0 Now, I want to tell you something, she had a work ethic that was stout.\u00a0 In fact, she had a conversation with me on occasion or two about a person or two in our ministry that she didn't think that they were working up to her standards, and, in fact, invited Barbara and me over to her house for dinner, and I was just very impressed with how Gladys lived, and she made a ton of friends here at FamilyLife.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0She worked here for a couple of years, right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Right, and then her family said, \"You know, Gladys, we want you to be closer to us and spoil the grandkids and be a little tighter with your family.\"\u00a0 And, of course, she'd worked at FamilyLife and some of our teaching had rubbed off on her, and she thought, \"You know, I hate to leave this family here, but I really am part of another family that I need to go care for,\" so she moved to Eastern Tennessee and moved in and began to care for her family and was doing just fine in that, and was getting ready to move to Alaska.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0And that's about the time that she got the news that her heart was failing.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0That's right.\u00a0 She was given one to six months to live and was not doing well at all, in fact, had some terrible days when they wondered if she was going to live throughout the day, and it wasn't long after that that I called Gladys, and this kind of gets me because her three children contacted us and said, \"We'd like her memorial service to be at FamilyLife.\"\u00a0 And they said, \"You know, we were so impressed at the number of friends that she made there in your ministry, and the heart of people for her that when she moves on and gets her graduation papers, we want to have her memorial service here at the ministry.\"\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0When I heard that, it really got me, because \u2013 well, it just meant a great deal.\u00a0 So I walked out of the office moments after I'd heard this, and I ran into you, Bob, and you said, at that point \u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0Well, I reflected back on what you've written about in your book, \"The Best Gift You Can Give Your Parents,\" the whole concept of speaking words of honor, and you've always said, \"Why do we wait for the eulogy to offer up those words of honor?\u00a0 We ought to do it while people are still here.\"\u00a0 I said, \"We ought to have Gladys' memorial service before she passes.\u00a0 We'll get her on the phone and let her participate and hear what people would say at her memorial service.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Well, and there was something about what you said that resonated because the next day, as I recall, we were going to have staff meeting, and so I scrambled some people, and I said, \"Let's see if we could get Gladys on the phone, and let's have a living memorial service.\u00a0 Why say it about her when she's gone and can't hear it?\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And so I surprised the staff, as we were all gathered together, as we usually do.\u00a0 More than 400 of us were gathered together for our staff meeting, and I reminded them of Gladys' story a bit, and then we got Gladys on the phone, and, well, we thought it was so special and so powerful we wanted you, as a listener, to hear it.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[Previously taped]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0So, Gladys, are you on the phone?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Yes, I am, I most certainly am.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[applause] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0I'm going to start us out, and we're just going to have an open mike here, that as I was thinking about you, Gladys, your heart for families \u2013 just that you, as a radio listener, would care about somebody's family other than your own and would make a gift to FamilyLife.\u00a0 That's pretty humbling, and I want to thank you for that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0That was my joy in giving, and it's been \u2013 I had a rough week last week trying to let go of things and let others do for me.\u00a0 It is one of the hardest things I've had to overcome.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0I need to tell you about the new name I got, because I have been a real cantankerous, uncooperative person this last week.\u00a0 I just cannot \u2013 it is so hard after 80 years of doing for others to, all of a sudden, have to stop, cut it off, and have somebody do everything for me.\u00a0 And it's just been the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.\u00a0 And my daughter gave me a new name.\u00a0 There was a lady came over to see me, and she kept telling me how precious I was \u2013 it just kind of made me smile.\u00a0 And then my daughters started calling me \"Precious,\" and then one day when I was complaining about something that I didn't want them to have to do, we read a devotional that a pastor who had a donkey that was a cantankerous critter, and so they named him \"Prune.\"\u00a0 So she said, \"Okay, Precious Prune, that's you.\"\u00a0 So that's my new name.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Well, you know what?\u00a0 You're headed to a place where you're going to get a new name, too, and you won't be fighting the one who gives you the new name.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0No, I know.\u00a0 That's going to be wonderful.\u00a0 I'm looking forward to it.\u00a0 Anytime \u2013 I'm ready.\u00a0 I told the Lord, I said, \"The sooner the better.\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Gladys, here is someone \u2013 I'm going to ask each person as they come forward to identify themselves, because there's somebody here that wants to say something to you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Okay.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHeather:\u00a0Gladys, it's Heather.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Oh, hi, Heather.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tHeather:\u00a0I just wanted to tell you how much I love you \u2013 I know you know that \u2013 and you're leaving a wonderful legacy for your family, and it was fun to meet your granddaughter and to see you two interact and to put the little cloth curlers in her hair, and all of our fun shopping days together.\u00a0 Those are priceless memories to me.\u00a0 So I'm praying for you and love you a lot.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Oh, you've been a special blessing to me, thank you, Heather.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMary:\u00a0Hey, Gladys, this is Mary.\u00a0 I just really appreciate what you've done for the ministry and others through the blood drive.\u00a0 You know I didn't want to give [laughter].\u00a0 Every time I give blood now I think of you and just the determined person you are, and I really think God may allow me to be giving the gift of life, and I think He's used you to give the gift of life spiritually to people, and we love you, and you've got a special place here.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Well, thank you so much.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0Hey, Gladys, this is Abe.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Hi, Abe.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0Thank you for having us over so many times and for just being like a mother, a grandmother and coming over and letting our dogs get all over you and for teaching me Liverpool Rummy.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Yeah, tell Dennis I never played bridge in my life.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0Yeah, that's not your game.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0No, that's not my game.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0No, but don't ever try to play Gladys in Liverpool Rummy.\u00a0 She can still beat me.\u00a0 So, anyway \u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Thank you so much for coming to see me, making a special trip here.\u00a0 That meant an awful lot to me.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0Well, you know, we may come that way again, okay?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Good.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAbe:\u00a0Love ya.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRonny:\u00a0Hey, Gladys, it's Ronny Gerard.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Oh, Ronny, hi.\u00a0 I've thought about you so much and wondered if you were still around and what was going on.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRonny:\u00a0Yeah, they let me stay.\u00a0 I'm excited.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Gladys, you are an amazing woman.\u00a0 One of the things I love most about you is your love for your own family and just your consistent prayers for your children and your grandchildren and the legacy that you're leaving and the love that you have shared with us and just to be able to see your heart for your family \u2013 it's been a real treasure \u2013 just your graciousness and your generosity there, and the ability to speak the truth in love.\u00a0 I'll always remember, I was at the food cube, and you said, \"Are you over here again?\"\u00a0 Well, I think it's about time for me to stop visiting that food cube again, Gladys, so in honor of you this week, I'll try to do that, all right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0I wish I was there to bring the food.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRonny:\u00a0I love you, Gladys.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Thank you so much, God bless you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRob:\u00a0Gladys, hello, this is Rob Smith.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Oh, Rob, hi.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRob:\u00a0I wanted to just tell you just what a woman of courage you have been for me.\u00a0 You just have so much courage, and I know that courage is grounded in your walk with the Lord.\u00a0 So I thank you for that picture, and I also wanted to just talk to you about that persistence and stubbornness.\u00a0 Theresa used to say going to the grocery store with you was always a treat because you didn't just go to one grocery store.\u00a0 If lettuce was 2 cents cheaper across town, she had to take you down there.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Yeah, I got a lot of flak on that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tRob:\u00a0So we miss you, and we love you, Gladys.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Well, thank you so much, Rob, I appreciate you guys.\u00a0 You're all just so special.\u00a0 I just thank you.\u00a0 You've been a special blessing to me, for sure.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tKevin:\u00a0Hi, Gladys, it's Kevin Kelly.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Hi, Kevin.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tKevin:\u00a0How are you?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Hey, buddy.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tKevin:\u00a0Happy Valentine's Day, we love you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Well, thank you.\u00a0 This is really a different Valentine's Day than I ever had.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tKevin:\u00a0You wouldn't believe the line it took me for me to get up here to day that.\u00a0 Hey, I just wanted to thank you for being a giver and not a taker all the way to the end of your life, and you're still giving, and it's a testimony as so many people come up here and talk about what you mean to them.\u00a0 You mean so much to us and our family, and I think back a couple of years ago, and you know how hard it is for me when all the ladies go off and have a retreat, and I've got the six kids at home, and you made that wonderful meal for us that time, and our kids still talk about it \u2013 \"Can't Miss Gladys make us another meal?\"\u00a0 So I just appreciate you so much and from all the Kellys and from everybody here, we just love you so much.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Love you, too.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMark:\u00a0Hello, Gladys, this is Mark Trover [sp].\u00a0 And I was listening to Dennis give a message before this memorial service, and he was talking about love, and I remembered a particular incident.\u00a0 Remember, you were having a real difficult time loving somebody\u2026\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tMark:\u00a0And we talked about that quite a bit.\u00a0 The thing that struck me most was that by the end of that evening, you had a strong vision not just for how can I manage and control this person who is driving me nuts, you had moved from that to \"How can I love this person?\"\u00a0 And it was incredible and wonderful to hear in the days and weeks that followed how God was using that in your life and in that other person's.\u00a0 And I just wanted to tell you that the doctors might think your heart's unhealthy, but one of the healthiest signs of a heart is teachability, and you're not old in heart, and you've got a healthy heart, and we really love you for your heart.\u00a0 Gladys, God bless you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Thank you so much.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Gladys, this is Dennis, and before I get the last word here, I wondered if there would be something you'd like to say to our team.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Well, there's no way I can express \u2013 I am so full \u2013 I think this is just the most wonderful thing that anybody has ever done.\u00a0 I have never heard of a memorial service before the person is gone, and I just think this is the greatest thing that could happen, and I just thank all of you so much because you really filled my life with what I needed for two years, and it's just been \u2013 it's made a big, big difference.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0As everybody was talking about you, I just was thinking of Proverbs 31, the last part of the chapter, where it says, \"Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.\u00a0 She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.\u00a0 She looks well to the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.\u00a0 Her children rise up and call her blessed.\u00a0 Her husband also he praises her.\u00a0 Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.\u00a0 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.\u00a0 Give her the fruit of her hands and let her works praise her in the gates.\" \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Heavenly Father, we join together of one accord, thanking you for our sister in Christ, Gladys.\u00a0 Thank You for her infectious smile, and her tenacious spirit her infectious love for people and for You.\u00a0 Thank you, Father, for just the brief times we have known her and been with her here in the days past and for the privilege of allowing our paths, Father, to cross.\u00a0 Indeed, she has shown many here, many of us how to finish well, and how to live out her days before You.\u00a0 And now, Father, we commend her to You to attend to her health.\u00a0 Allow her joy in these days that You have given her and on her coronation day, we pray that You, indeed, will be honored by her life.\u00a0 We love her, and we love You.\u00a0 In Christ's name, amen.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0Amen.\u00a0 Thank you, Dennis.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0Thank you, Gladys, we love you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tGladys:\u00a0God bless you and your work and thank you so much for this.\u00a0 I'm going to miss you, but I'll see you in glory.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[applause] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[musical transition] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0We've been listening to a living memorial service for our friend, Gladys Purkett, and I remember how many of the staff came up in the days following that staff meeting, and it was enriching for us, as a staff, to have the chance to speak words of honor like that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tDennis:\u00a0It really was.\u00a0 You know, it's good to go to a funeral.\u00a0 That sounds a little strange, maybe, to make that comment, but Ecclesiastes 7 talks about the mind of the wise is in the house of mourning.\u00a0 It talks about the living taking it to heart, and when you go to the end of the matter, death, and you start thinking about how life on this planet ends but how, if you Jesus Christ personally, if you've placed your faith in Him as your Lord and Master, death is but a doorway to a face-to-face greeting with Him, and it's a great reminder, Bob, just to have something occur like that memorial service.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0But, you know, a second thing I want to just apply out of this that I got, because people were coming up to me in the days that followed, as you said, and they were going, \"You know, it was so good.\u00a0 It was just so good to honor somebody while they're alive \u2013 to say it to them while they're still kickin'.\"\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0And, you know, I wonder if there's a listener right now who has something they need to say, whether it's to your spouse, to your parents, to a child, just honor them today.\u00a0 It was fun to honor Gladys.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0You know, life is short, it's a vapor, but we, as followers of Christ, we need to use these days strategically and make sure we're being obedient.\u00a0 It's just good to push back and listen to the life of someone who finished well and ask ourselves the question \u2013 am I finishing well?\u00a0 Am I going to end up at the same finish line?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBob:\u00a0You have encouraged all of us for years to speak words of honor to our parents, particularly, but to others while we still have that opportunity rather than waiting for their memorial service to do it now.\u00a0 You wrote a book a number of years ago called \"The Best Gift You Can Ever Give Your Parents,\" and it's a book that encourages us to honor our parents by writing a tribute of honor, something that we can read to them, we can present to them, have it framed, and have it where they can keep it in their home.\u00a0 And I can imagine that some of our listeners today who heard how Gladys responded to those words of encouragement she received from our staff \u2013 they may be moved to step out and write something for their parents.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0We'd love to send you a copy of the book, \"The Best Gift You Could Ever Give Your Parents.\"\u00a0 Go to our website, FamilyLife.com.\u00a0 In the middle of the screen you'll see a button that says \"Go,\" and if you click on that button, it will take you right to a page where you can get more information on the book, \"The Best Gift You Can Ever Give Your Parents,\" and particularly if someone is about to celebrate a significant anniversary or birthday, or if you just want to be ready with something very special this year at Christmas, contact us and get a copy of this book, \"The Best Gift You Can Ever Give Your Parents.\"\u00a0 Again, the website is FamilyLife.com.\u00a0 You can order online, if you'd like, or you can call 1-800-FLTODAY.\u00a0 That's 1-800-358-6329, and someone on our team can let you know how you can get a copy of this book sent to you.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Well, of course, today is Memorial Day here in the United States.\u00a0 It's a holiday for us, and that means that our offices are closed, and I don't have any fresh information about the matching gift opportunity that we've been talking about this month, but we just wanted to take the opportunity to say thank you to those of you who have contributed.\u00a0 Thanks for your support of FamilyLife Today and for helping us begin the summer strong.\u00a0 We appreciate your partnership with us, and we appreciate you listening to FamilyLife Today.\u00a0 Keep us in your prayers, if you will.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0Well, tomorrow Dr. Ron Jenson is going to be joining us, and we're going to talk about husbands and dads and men, in general, stepping up and taking the lead.\u00a0 He has some great thoughts for us on men and leadership, and I hope you can tune in for that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0I want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, and our entire broadcast production team.\u00a0 On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine.\u00a0 We'll see you back next time for another edition of FamilyLife Today. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t[musical transition] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t\u00a0FamilyLife Today is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas, a ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ.\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t________________________________________________________________\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe are so happy to provide these transcripts to you.\u00a0 However, there is a cost 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