{"id":300065,"date":"2019-02-25T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/%series%\/what-being-mentored-taught-us\/"},"modified":"2024-10-07T22:41:16","modified_gmt":"2024-10-08T02:41:16","slug":"what-being-mentored-taught-us","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/familylife-today\/what-being-mentored-taught-us\/","title":{"rendered":"What Being Mentored Taught Us"},"content":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dave and Ann Wilson talk to Dennis and Barbara Rainey about what they&#8217;ve learned about marriage through the years. 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Dave said the impact of that weekend was less about what Dennis said and more about what he modeled. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I had <em>never<\/em> seen a Christian man\u2014didn\u2019t grow up with one. You know, came from a divorced family\u2014alcoholic parents, adultery, the whole blow up of a family\u2014when families weren\u2019t really blowing up as much in the \u201860s. I didn\u2019t know Barbara, because you weren\u2019t there; but you talked about her all weekend\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes; you did. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u2014and loved her. I just remember thinking, \u201cThere\u2019s my first vision of what I\u2019m supposed to become\u2014is Dennis Rainey.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>This is <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> for Monday, February 25<sup>th<\/sup>. Our host is Dennis Rainey, and I'm Bob Lepine. Dave and Ann Wilson join us today to share with us some of the many lessons they have learned over almost three decades of knowing Dennis and Barbara Rainey. Stay with us.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tAnd welcome to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. Thanks for joining us on the Monday edition. This feels a little bittersweet this week.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It does.Somebody asked me, when they heard that Barbara and I would be stepping out as hosting the broadcast\u2014they asked me if it was okay to be sad. I said: \u201cYes; it\u2019s okay to be sad. Life\u2019s full of transitions that occur. I don\u2019t think we have to put a cheesy grin on our faces and say, \u2018Because I\u2019m a Christ-follower, I can\u2019t feel sad.\u2019\u201d I think that lacks honesty\/authenticity. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s okay to be sad. Barbara and I have been sad\u2014been some tears that have crossed our cheeks and some hugs\u2014but it\u2019s all good. God\u2019s will is good\u2014both looking forward to it and looking back, seeing what He\u2019s accomplished.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Barbara, it\u2019sa long way from 26-plus years ago when we stared at microphones for the first time and said, \u201cOkay; let\u2019s see where this takes us\u201d; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes; the old phrase, \u201cYou\u2019ve come a long way, Baby!\u201d is really true. [Laughter] We have come a long way. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That first studio that we started this in\u2014we\u2019ve affectionately referred to it as Bethlehem for many years. It really was a stable, of sorts, [Laughter] because it looked like one \/ it felt like one.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> It was a garage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> We were recording in what was a converted car garage, where they put up insulation on the walls; and they put egg cartons over the top of it. I think this was somebody who wanted to be a rock-n-roll guy, and he converted his parents\u2019 garage into a recording studio. [Laughter] Now, he was trying to make a little money doing recording. We got it at a bargain rate. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We did. We got it, I think, for half price\u2014and that was $12.50\u2014and that included the engineer! [Laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> That\u2019s right\u2014and the tape when we were done. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was the launch of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. It began a great journey that\u2019s been a tremendous privilege for Barbara and me. We\u2019re excited about the new hosts for FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson, who join us on the broadcast. Welcome back.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Thank you! Can I just say?\u2014I want to cry; I love you guys. There\u2019s a sadness to it, you know, and an overwhelming feeling of, \u201cWho in the world can fill those shoes?\u201d because there is no one quite like you guys. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Definitely not us. I mean, I\u2019m sitting here, listening to you guys, and I feel like we\u2019re standing on the shoulders of giants. I mean, you\u2019ve laid the groundwork we\u2019re walking into. We have no reason to be here except for God. God did it with you, and I\u2019m looking forward to seeing what He\u2019s going to do in the future. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> You talk about standing on the shoulders. That\u2019s a part of what we want to do this week\u2014is reflect on some of the things you\u2019ve learned; because you two, as couples, have known one another for almost 30 years now; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right. Dave and Ann joined our speaker team for the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>about three decades ago and have served marriages and families all over the country. They\u2019re also pastors of Kensington Church, in the Detroit area, and impact tens of thousands of lives through their outreaches in their church and have authored a book called <em>Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage<\/em>. You need to read this book\u2014if for no other reason than just to hear how Dave was humbled. [Laugher]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It was not a fun moment! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was not\u2014it was not a fun moment, but it\u2019s a great start to a great book.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Dave, you were telling me earlier that you and Ann first knew anything about Dennis and Barbara when you were engaged couples at a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we went to the Chicago <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>, 1979\u2014no; 1980. Only went because we were told, \u201cYou can\u2019t get married unless you go to this conference, because you need to know God\u2019s game plan for marriage.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We were both involved with Cru<sup>\u00ae<\/sup> on our campuses\u2014I was at the University of Kentucky, and Dave was at Ball State University in Indiana. Our disciplers were like, \u201cYou can\u2019t get married unless you go to this conference.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It worked\u2014we went. Didn\u2019t know you guys\u2014never heard of you guys. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Barbara wasn\u2019t speaking. It was just men\u2014they didn\u2019t have wives [speaking].\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We couldn\u2019t afford to take the wives. [Laughter] It was a great season for the men to give the talk on submission to the wives.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; I was happy about that. I was like\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> That was one of the high points of the\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cGo get them, Dennis.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I wasn\u2019t! I was like, \u201cWho is this guy up here, telling me to be submissive?\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Here\u2019s the amazing thing that <em>you<\/em> didn\u2019t know\u2014and we didn\u2019t even know what happened\u2014but you became our mentors. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes; and you didn\u2019t even know us! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we\u2019re sitting there\u2014and there was a couple of thousand; it was a <em>big<\/em> <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>\u2014we\u2019re just one of thousands sitting there, and we\u2019re not married yet. We honestly, most of the weekend, thought it didn\u2019t apply to us\u2014it applied to all those couples that are struggling. We were sort of surprised they were taking notes like crazy.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe just kept looking\u2014I don\u2019t even know if we took notes; I really don\u2019t! It was like: \u201cThis is good stuff, but we love each other. We love God. We\u2019re going into ministry. This won\u2019t be as hard as it is for those couples for us.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014\u201ceverybody else.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> But what I do remember, more than anything, is I had <em>never<\/em> seen\u2014it\u2019s one of my lessons learned. I had <em>never<\/em> seen a Christian man\u2014didn\u2019t grow up with one\u2014you know, came from a divorced family\u2014alcoholic parents, adultery, the whole blow up of a family\u2014when families weren\u2019t really blowing up as much in the \u201860s.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I was sort of an outcast even; but here I am, sitting at this conference with Ann, and that\u2019s what hit me is\u2014and I didn\u2019t know Barbara, because you weren\u2019t there; but you talked about her all weekend\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes; you did. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u2014and loved her. I just remember thinking, \u201cThere\u2019s my first vision of what I\u2019m supposed to become\u2014is Dennis Rainey.\u201d You became a mentor from a distance. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And you created some conflict, as well, because I had that same image of: \u201cThat is what you should become, Dave Wilson\u2014is Dennis Rainey.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Don\u2019t blame that on me, Ann Wilson. [Laughter] You\u2019re the one that created the conflict there. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I know. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Your finger was pointing at him as you said that, right there.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> It\u2019s so true; but I did have these expectations of, \u201cOh, this is what you should do.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat did create some conflict. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That did not go well, because I also sort of wanted to be you. You know, again, we don\u2019t know even each other; but I\u2019m like, \u201cYes; that\u2019s like my only real vision of what a Christian man is, so I need to be that.\u201d Yet, we\u2019re different\u2014you know, we have different personalities and different drives. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And we were young, spiritually. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I was brand-new in my faith\u2014probably a year-and-a-half\u2014so I knew <em>nothing<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> To the men, who are listening right now, I just say to you: \u201cIf that was true back in 1980, how much more is it true today because of the breakdown of the family?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> \u2014that men need a vision\/need a model.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> They need a man to look up to. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m telling you\u2014any man who\u2019s looking for an assignment\u2014you need to know there are dozens of men at your church\u2014younger men at your church\u2014that need you to make yourself available to become\u2014maybe in a formal setting\u2014a mentor, a coach, a manhood coach, a husband coach; and then if God blesses, coaching about fatherhood. What you\u2019re just describing is the hunger of man\u2019s heart to know what it looks like and how to love a woman. Sometimes, we need\u2014well, usually, we need a man to show us how to do that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> You said you\u2019d never had the concept that a husband should sacrificially serve his wife. That was not on your radar screen, anywhere, when you got married. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Oh, no. My dad\u2014and sort of a role model of men at that time\u2014were: \u201cWomen served you; women were <em>for<\/em> you.\u201d I mean, I literally watched my dad take me on vacations, as a five- and six-year-old, with girlfriends\u2014I mean, while he was married to my mom. Whether he said it or not, I saw that women are disposable to men\u2014you use them, abuse them, do whatever you want to bring pleasure to yourself\u2014no matter what the consequences are. That\u2019s what I saw. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSitting at the FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup><em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> is the first time I ever heard Ephesians 5 taught: \u201cHusbands love your wives as Christ loved the church.\u201d You explained it: \u201cHe died for the church; He gave up His life for the church. That\u2019s how we\u2019re supposed to serve our wives,\u201d\u2014like: \u201cThat\u2019s a new concept. I\u2019ve never heard that before.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> One of the things that you\u2019ve observed, Ann, over the years, is you\u2019ve watched how Barbara has watched Dennis. You\u2019ve learned from that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Very much so. Barbara, when you guys were on stage together\u2014or you were just communicating or even as friends\u2014I would watch your respect for Dennis. You didn\u2019t need to be bigger than him; you didn\u2019t need to be below him, but you were right by his side. I was watching that\u2014I think a lot of people have watched that very closely. For me, that\u2019s been inspiring; because I can be super strong.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; just a little bit\u2014just a little bit. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I can want to push Dave into that position and almost nag him to the point of, \u201cYou should be\u2026\u201d and that did nothing. How did you do that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> You know, it\u2019s interesting\u2014because Dennis used to say that to me, all the time\u2014the most important thing I\u2019ve ever done for him is to believe in him. I never could figure out why that really was that important. I mean, it just seemed obvious to me that that was what I was supposed to do; it\u2019s what I wanted to do. It wasn\u2019t fake; it wasn\u2019t pretend\u2014I really did believe in him. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think it was because of what you said earlier, Ann\u2014that Christ was at the center of our marriage. It\u2019s because I really believed that God brought us together. I really believed that He was the author of our relationship and of our marriage and that: \u201cThis is the man God gave me. Therefore, if I believe God and His Word, then I\u2019m to respect him, and follow him, and believe in him.\u201d It was kind of both\u2014I mean, it was because I did believe in him; but it was also because I knew I needed to believe in him and that he needed that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s altogether because of my following of Christ that I knew that\u2019s what God had for me to do\u2014that was His pattern for marriage and that was my part of the marriage. That was my piece that I brought to him and to us that God wanted to work together for our good and for the good of our kids too. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Talk to the young wives. These guys talked to the young men in the church or out there\u2014what about the young women? How would you encourage them? Would you encourage them to find mentors? How do they go about doing that to learn how to respect their husbands?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> I think they do need to find mentors\u2014I think it\u2019s really important. Just a couple of months ago, our youngest daughter was assigned a mentor through her church. It has been really fun to watch our daughter, Laura, meet with this woman, who is in her early 50\u2019s, who still has kids at home; but they meet together for coffee. Laura asks questions and her mentor answers questions; they have a great relationship. I am so encouraged to watch that. I think all young women would benefit from having an older woman in her life to do that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I also think the other piece is believing what God has called you to do. When you can\u2019t do it, knowing that God will give you what you need when you can\u2019t do it. I\u2019ve been thinking about this a lot lately\u2014that we all run into seasons in our marriage\u2014sometimes it\u2019s long seasons but sometimes it\u2019s just days when we\u2019re struggling with respect, or we have a hard time believing, or we don\u2019t even feel like loving our spouse\/loving our husbands. That\u2019s when I\u2019ve learned, over the years, to depend on what Christ has done for me, and what He\u2019s given me, and what He can supply that I don\u2019t have. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think it\u2019s both\u2014it\u2019s having someone\u2014a physical person in your life, who can encourage you\u2014but it\u2019s also, in those alone moments in your marriage, when you go: \u201cI\u2019m not really feeling love for him right now,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m not thinking I can respect him in this moment; but Jesus, will You help me believe in him? Will You give me what I don\u2019t have the capacity to produce on my own?\u201d because He is able when I\u2019m not able. That is the key, really, to being a wife in marriage\u2014is depending on Jesus to give you what you don\u2019t possess; because none of us have it all. None of us have it wired together.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Dennis isn\u2019t perfect? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Did you see how easily I laughed at that? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That was quick! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was too quick! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was very quick!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Way too quick.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> You know, it\u2019s interesting\u2014at the end of a significant chapter in Ephesians, Chapter 5, Paul instructs\u2014he actually gives a summary of the responsibilities of a husband and a wife. In the last verse, he says, \u201cHowever, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.\u201d If the husband is loving his wife as Christ loved the church\u2014denying himself, giving up his life for her, serving her, meeting her needs, asking how he can help her\u2014and that means getting off your easy seat, watching TV and football all the time, and helping put the kids to bed, helping clean the dishes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Preach it! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I mean, really, guys have to get it\u2014that this whole equation of the dance between a husband and a wife begins with their love. We are called, first and foremost, to love our wives as Christ loved the church. That makes a wife\u2019s respect possible.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Well, it does. I will readily admit that I am not always the easiest person to love. Husbands need to depend on what Christ can supply in their lives, too; because we\u2019re <em>both<\/em> imperfect\u2014we\u2019re both broken; we both have flaws; and we both have days when it\u2019s really hard to do what God has called us to do. In those days\/those moments of every day of every year of every marriage, that\u2019s when we discover what Christ has done for us. That\u2019s when we experience the power of God working in our lives, and that\u2019s what makes our marriage attractive to others\u2014is following what He\u2019s told us to do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> You know, as I\u2019m listening to you guys talk about that\u2014and how you\u2019ve modeled that for us\u2014I was going to say: \u201cBarbara, I\u2019m so glad you\u2019re in Ann\u2019s life; because she needed to respect me so bad.\u201d [Laughter] She had a model, you know: \u201cFinally, there\u2019s somebody to look to,\u201d\u2014but that\u2019s on a funny side; that\u2019s in our book\u2014we can talk about that some other time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI was just thinking: \u201cYou\u2019ve impacted our lives, and what you just talked about is impacted millions\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cnot thousands\u2014<em>millions<\/em> through FamilyLife and, even, through this radio program.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019ll tell you another thing that I\u2019ve learned from you. One of my learnings is\u2014I really always loved your laugh. Both of you\u2019ve laughed\u2014there\u2019s joy. I thought of the day that we did join that speaker team. You can tell the story, Dennis. That could have been a moment of \u201cWe don\u2019t make the team.\u201d Tell them what happened.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We haze the new speakers, who join the speaker team. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> This was the first year, by the way, that you did that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We do hazing to just humble them a little bit and let them introduce themselves in unique\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014creative,\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014spontaneous, fun ways.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Man, did we get it from the Wilsons\u2014I mean, they brought it!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> What did they do Barbara?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> They came out, dressed in black leather\u2014both of them; right? [Laughter] Am I remembering correctly? Was it black leather jacket and jeans or whatever?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We started out in farmer kind of outfits.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> I don\u2019t remember that part. I just remember the black leather.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And then we stripped it off. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We stripped it off to leather. We started with farm, because we grew up in a farm sort of town\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014in Ohio.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Got it.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> You know, we\u2019re from Findlay, Ohio\u2014it\u2019s sort of farm.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We did it with a rap.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes; I remember the whole thing was done to a rap.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Then we ripped it off; and yes, I had Michael Jackson\u2019s one glove. I had a tattoo on my arm.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I had a black leather skirt on. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We had music with our little jam box. You guys remember it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes; I remember it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We started this rap. I can still do it: \u201cMy name is Dave and\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cmy name is Ann.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cWe\u2019re gonna talk at you\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave and Ann:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cthe best we can.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cWe\u2019re from the Motor City, now that is true.\u201d We had this whole little rap going. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was so great! It was my all-time favorite of all of them. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We finished; and the group of speakers\u2014the veteran speakers\u2014just kind of sat there, with their mouths\u2014their mouths were just wide open.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Dennis, you can share your side; but I can share\u2014when I was doing it, I\u2019m looking\u2014you and Crawford were in the front row, and you\u2019re jaw was at your chest. It was like\u2014and I\u2019m like: \u201cOh my gosh! They\u2019re reconsidering firing us right now. [Laughter] We\u2019re not going to make it past this\u201d\u2014you know\u2014\u201cinterview! They are like\u201d\u2014I literally thought\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u201cWho are these two?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cThey think, \u2018This isn\u2019t even Christian\u2014what they\u2019re doing!\u2019\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u201cAre these guys\u2026?!\u201d This is why one of your first speaking assignments was inside the Artic Circle. [Laugher] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was fun.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was so much fun. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> What was it about their laugh that was infectious?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Well, here\u2019s the thing. I really did have this second thought; and again, we\u2019re not even done yet. I was in the middle of this thing, and I\u2019m like: \u201cOh, this was a bad idea,\u201d\u2014 [Laughter]\u2014you know\u2014\u201cThese people are a little more conservative than we are. We pushed the envelope a little too far.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes; yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I just really was having this thing: \u201cLike man\u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was a close vote. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014which, by the way, I was 29 and Dave was 32. We were young\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014yes; when we were doing this.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I had hair\u2014I had the whole thing going on back then. You know, at the end of the night\u2014because other speakers did their little skit\u2014and then, you guys came up and you just started laughing. That\u2019s when I was like: \u201cOh, they get us. They get what we did.\u201d You know, it was pushing the envelope a little bit; but there\u2019s a joy and a laugher like, \u201cYou know, life\u2019s going to be fun; and they\u2019re going to be fun on the speaker team.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I think that\u2019s the word\u2014you guys are fun. You always find the good in people; you find the best in life, and you laugh <em>hard<\/em>. You make that a point, I think.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That\u2019s one of the things that I think I\u2019ve loved about listening to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>\u2014is you and Bob\u2014and you guys laughing. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> There\u2019s always power moments in the show; and yet, there\u2019s joy. There should be joy\u2014I never saw joy in the church.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Here\u2019s the hint for the listeners: \u201cThis is what you\u2019re getting\u2014you\u2019re getting Dave and Ann with raps, dressed in black leather.\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Now, wait; they\u2019re coming to the studio dressed in black leather?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>No way! No way! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I don\u2019t know. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Everybody just turned off their radio. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I\u2019m only speaking, symbolically, here. The issue is\u2014they\u2019re going to push the boundaries in your life. You know what it\u2019s going to be?\u2014it\u2019s going to be pushing you and the boundaries toward Christ.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014always.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u2014always.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> They will always do that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u2014you know, somebody, who loosens you up. There\u2019s a lot of our listeners\u2014they need to laugh. A couple of laughs a week is not excessive. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> That\u2019s right. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> You know, you just need to have a good time and be found guilty of having too much fun rather than too little, because we know where we\u2019re going\u2014we\u2019re going to heaven!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Amen. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> A non-Christian can\u2019t afford laughter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we should have the joy. Our joy should be a magnet to people that don\u2019t know Christ. I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve ever seen this\u2014it\u2019s interesting\u2014there\u2019s a study done, years ago. Children laughed\u2014you know how many times a day?\u2014the average child?\u2014500 times a day. If you\u2019ve had kids, you go: \u201cYes; they do.\u201d It drives you crazy with laughing. Adults laugh 15 times a day. What\u2019s wrong with that picture?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> A lot is wrong with that picture.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It\u2019s like you say to your kids, \u201cGrow up and be an adult.\u201d Well, they did; and they stopped laughing. It\u2019s like: \u201cWait; joy! We know the end of the story\u2014He rose from the dead; there\u2019s eternity waiting for us.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We should have joy. Again, I\u2019m not saying you don\u2019t go through hard times and you work through those things; but man, there should be a sense of joy. You guys modeled that in your marriage and in your ministry, and you let us get on the team.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> I would think that our listeners, who would want to get to know the two of you\u2014Dave and Ann\u2014better, we\u2019ve got copies of your book, <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>, which lets us in on the interior of your relationship\u2014the lessons you\u2019ve learned and how you\u2019ve grown, as a couple, as a result of where God\u2019s had you. The book is called <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>. It really is a great book that points us to how marriage is designed to work. The way you guys said: \u201cIf you want your marriage relationship to work the way it\u2019s supposed to work, your relationship with God has to be what He has designed that to be.\u201d That\u2019s at the heart of the book, <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>. You can order a copy when you go to FamilyLifeToday.com; or call if you\u2019d like to get a copy: 1-800-FL-TODAY is the number. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m also thinking of listeners who\u2014you are new to FamilyLife and you\u2019re thinking: \u201cI\u2019d like to know a little more of the history. I\u2019d like to know about how God has been at work through this ministry in its first four decades\u2014some of the things that God has done through this ministry to impact lives, and generations, and legacies,\u201d\u2014because that\u2019s what we\u2019re all about here. We sat down\u2014Dennis and Barbara and I sat down, not long ago, and we reflected back on the first four decades of this ministry and some of the <em>amazing<\/em> things that we had a chance to see God do in those first 40 years. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe would love to send you two audio CDs that tell the story of the first four decades of the ministry of FamilyLife and let you live that with us. You can go to our website at FamilyLifeToday.com and just request those CDs\u2014they\u2019re our gift to you\u2014no cost. Just give us you name and address; we\u2019ll mail the CDs out to you\u2014or call and say, \u201cI\u2019d like the CDs they were talking about on the radio today,\u201d\u2014we\u2019ll send them out to you. Our phone number is 1-800-FL-TODAY\u2014that\u2019s 1-800-358-6329\u20141-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, before we\u2019re all done here today, the new President of FamilyLife, David Robbins has dropped by with some closing thoughts. Hi, David.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>David:<\/strong> Hi, Bob; thanks so much. Dave and Ann expressed the feeling of standing on the shoulders of the Raineys. Meg and I feel the exact same way. Dennis and Barbara have been so gracious to befriend and mentor us during this transition of becoming the President and have offered so much wisdom and support. As I stepped into this role 15 months ago, it was immediately clear that Dennis and Barbara\u2019s fingerprints are all over this place. They have, not only impacted Meg\u2019s and my life personally, but millions of people all over the world. As we enter into this new chapter, we will stay true to the core biblical principles that Dennis and Barbara have established. We are praying that God would allow us to steward what they have handed off to continue to impact as many marriages and families as possible.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Yes; that\u2019s right. We hope our listeners can join us back tomorrow. Dave and Ann Wilson are going to be here again. We\u2019re going to continue to talk about the lives and the legacies of Dennis and Barbara Rainey\u2014how we\u2019ve all been impacted through their ministry. I hope you can be with us for that tomorrow. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production\u00a0 team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. We will see you back tomorrow for another edition of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<em>FamilyLife Today<\/em> is a production of FamilyLife of Little Rock, Arkansas; a Cru<sup>\u00ae <\/sup>Ministry. Help for today. Hope for tomorrow.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe are so happy to provide these transcripts to you. However, there is a cost to produce them for our website. If you\u2019ve benefited from the broadcast transcripts, would you consider <a href=\"http:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/donate\">donating today<\/a> to help defray the costs?\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tCopyright <sup>\u00a9<\/sup> 2019 FamilyLife. 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This feels a little bittersweet this week.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis: <\/strong>It does.Somebody asked me, when they heard that Barbara and I would be stepping out as hosting the broadcast\u2014they asked me if it was okay to be sad. I said: \u201cYes; it\u2019s okay to be sad. Life\u2019s full of transitions that occur. I don\u2019t think we have to put a cheesy grin on our faces and say, \u2018Because I\u2019m a Christ-follower, I can\u2019t feel sad.\u2019\u201d I think that lacks honesty\/authenticity. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s okay to be sad. Barbara and I have been sad\u2014been some tears that have crossed our cheeks and some hugs\u2014but it\u2019s all good. God\u2019s will is good\u2014both looking forward to it and looking back, seeing what He\u2019s accomplished.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Barbara, it\u2019sa long way from 26-plus years ago when we stared at microphones for the first time and said, \u201cOkay; let\u2019s see where this takes us\u201d; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes; the old phrase, \u201cYou\u2019ve come a long way, Baby!\u201d is really true. [Laughter] We have come a long way. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>That first studio that we started this in\u2014we\u2019ve affectionately referred to it as Bethlehem for many years. It really was a stable, of sorts, [Laughter] because it looked like one \/ it felt like one.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> It was a garage. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> We were recording in what was a converted car garage, where they put up insulation on the walls; and they put egg cartons over the top of it. I think this was somebody who wanted to be a rock-n-roll guy, and he converted his parents\u2019 garage into a recording studio. [Laughter] Now, he was trying to make a little money doing recording. We got it at a bargain rate. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We did. We got it, I think, for half price\u2014and that was $12.50\u2014and that included the engineer! [Laughter] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> That\u2019s right\u2014and the tape when we were done. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was the launch of <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>. It began a great journey that\u2019s been a tremendous privilege for Barbara and me. We\u2019re excited about the new hosts for FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson, who join us on the broadcast. Welcome back.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Thank you! Can I just say?\u2014I want to cry; I love you guys. There\u2019s a sadness to it, you know, and an overwhelming feeling of, \u201cWho in the world can fill those shoes?\u201d because there is no one quite like you guys. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Definitely not us. I mean, I\u2019m sitting here, listening to you guys, and I feel like we\u2019re standing on the shoulders of giants. I mean, you\u2019ve laid the groundwork we\u2019re walking into. We have no reason to be here except for God. God did it with you, and I\u2019m looking forward to seeing what He\u2019s going to do in the future. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> You talk about standing on the shoulders. That\u2019s a part of what we want to do this week\u2014is reflect on some of the things you\u2019ve learned; because you two, as couples, have known one another for almost 30 years now; right?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right. Dave and Ann joined our speaker team for the <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>about three decades ago and have served marriages and families all over the country. They\u2019re also pastors of Kensington Church, in the Detroit area, and impact tens of thousands of lives through their outreaches in their church and have authored a book called <em>Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage<\/em>. You need to read this book\u2014if for no other reason than just to hear how Dave was humbled. [Laugher]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It was not a fun moment! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was not\u2014it was not a fun moment, but it\u2019s a great start to a great book.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Dave, you were telling me earlier that you and Ann first knew anything about Dennis and Barbara when you were engaged couples at a <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we went to the Chicago <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>, 1979\u2014no; 1980. Only went because we were told, \u201cYou can\u2019t get married unless you go to this conference, because you need to know God\u2019s game plan for marriage.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We were both involved with Cru<sup>\u00ae<\/sup> on our campuses\u2014I was at the University of Kentucky, and Dave was at Ball State University in Indiana. Our disciplers were like, \u201cYou can\u2019t get married unless you go to this conference.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It worked\u2014we went. Didn\u2019t know you guys\u2014never heard of you guys. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Barbara wasn\u2019t speaking. It was just men\u2014they didn\u2019t have wives [speaking].\u00a0 \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We couldn\u2019t afford to take the wives. [Laughter] It was a great season for the men to give the talk on submission to the wives.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; I was happy about that. I was like\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> That was one of the high points of the\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cGo get them, Dennis.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I wasn\u2019t! I was like, \u201cWho is this guy up here, telling me to be submissive?\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Here\u2019s the amazing thing that <em>you<\/em> didn\u2019t know\u2014and we didn\u2019t even know what happened\u2014but you became our mentors. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes; and you didn\u2019t even know us! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we\u2019re sitting there\u2014and there was a couple of thousand; it was a <em>big<\/em> <em>Weekend to Remember<\/em>\u2014we\u2019re just one of thousands sitting there, and we\u2019re not married yet. We honestly, most of the weekend, thought it didn\u2019t apply to us\u2014it applied to all those couples that are struggling. We were sort of surprised they were taking notes like crazy.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe just kept looking\u2014I don\u2019t even know if we took notes; I really don\u2019t! It was like: \u201cThis is good stuff, but we love each other. We love God. We\u2019re going into ministry. This won\u2019t be as hard as it is for those couples for us.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014\u201ceverybody else.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> But what I do remember, more than anything, is I had <em>never<\/em> seen\u2014it\u2019s one of my lessons learned. I had <em>never<\/em> seen a Christian man\u2014didn\u2019t grow up with one\u2014you know, came from a divorced family\u2014alcoholic parents, adultery, the whole blow up of a family\u2014when families weren\u2019t really blowing up as much in the \u201860s.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I was sort of an outcast even; but here I am, sitting at this conference with Ann, and that\u2019s what hit me is\u2014and I didn\u2019t know Barbara, because you weren\u2019t there; but you talked about her all weekend\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes; you did. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u2014and loved her. I just remember thinking, \u201cThere\u2019s my first vision of what I\u2019m supposed to become\u2014is Dennis Rainey.\u201d You became a mentor from a distance. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And you created some conflict, as well, because I had that same image of: \u201cThat is what you should become, Dave Wilson\u2014is Dennis Rainey.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Don\u2019t blame that on me, Ann Wilson. [Laughter] You\u2019re the one that created the conflict there. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I know. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Your finger was pointing at him as you said that, right there.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> It\u2019s so true; but I did have these expectations of, \u201cOh, this is what you should do.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tThat did create some conflict. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That did not go well, because I also sort of wanted to be you. You know, again, we don\u2019t know even each other; but I\u2019m like, \u201cYes; that\u2019s like my only real vision of what a Christian man is, so I need to be that.\u201d Yet, we\u2019re different\u2014you know, we have different personalities and different drives. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And we were young, spiritually. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I was brand-new in my faith\u2014probably a year-and-a-half\u2014so I knew <em>nothing<\/em>.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> To the men, who are listening right now, I just say to you: \u201cIf that was true back in 1980, how much more is it true today because of the breakdown of the family?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> \u2014that men need a vision\/need a model.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> They need a man to look up to. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m telling you\u2014any man who\u2019s looking for an assignment\u2014you need to know there are dozens of men at your church\u2014younger men at your church\u2014that need you to make yourself available to become\u2014maybe in a formal setting\u2014a mentor, a coach, a manhood coach, a husband coach; and then if God blesses, coaching about fatherhood. What you\u2019re just describing is the hunger of man\u2019s heart to know what it looks like and how to love a woman. Sometimes, we need\u2014well, usually, we need a man to show us how to do that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> You said you\u2019d never had the concept that a husband should sacrificially serve his wife. That was not on your radar screen, anywhere, when you got married. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Oh, no. My dad\u2014and sort of a role model of men at that time\u2014were: \u201cWomen served you; women were <em>for<\/em> you.\u201d I mean, I literally watched my dad take me on vacations, as a five- and six-year-old, with girlfriends\u2014I mean, while he was married to my mom. Whether he said it or not, I saw that women are disposable to men\u2014you use them, abuse them, do whatever you want to bring pleasure to yourself\u2014no matter what the consequences are. That\u2019s what I saw. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tSitting at the FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup><em>Weekend to Remember<\/em> is the first time I ever heard Ephesians 5 taught: \u201cHusbands love your wives as Christ loved the church.\u201d You explained it: \u201cHe died for the church; He gave up His life for the church. That\u2019s how we\u2019re supposed to serve our wives,\u201d\u2014like: \u201cThat\u2019s a new concept. I\u2019ve never heard that before.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> One of the things that you\u2019ve observed, Ann, over the years, is you\u2019ve watched how Barbara has watched Dennis. You\u2019ve learned from that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Very much so. Barbara, when you guys were on stage together\u2014or you were just communicating or even as friends\u2014I would watch your respect for Dennis. You didn\u2019t need to be bigger than him; you didn\u2019t need to be below him, but you were right by his side. I was watching that\u2014I think a lot of people have watched that very closely. For me, that\u2019s been inspiring; because I can be super strong.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; just a little bit\u2014just a little bit. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I can want to push Dave into that position and almost nag him to the point of, \u201cYou should be\u2026\u201d and that did nothing. How did you do that?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> You know, it\u2019s interesting\u2014because Dennis used to say that to me, all the time\u2014the most important thing I\u2019ve ever done for him is to believe in him. I never could figure out why that really was that important. I mean, it just seemed obvious to me that that was what I was supposed to do; it\u2019s what I wanted to do. It wasn\u2019t fake; it wasn\u2019t pretend\u2014I really did believe in him. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think it was because of what you said earlier, Ann\u2014that Christ was at the center of our marriage. It\u2019s because I really believed that God brought us together. I really believed that He was the author of our relationship and of our marriage and that: \u201cThis is the man God gave me. Therefore, if I believe God and His Word, then I\u2019m to respect him, and follow him, and believe in him.\u201d It was kind of both\u2014I mean, it was because I did believe in him; but it was also because I knew I needed to believe in him and that he needed that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tIt\u2019s altogether because of my following of Christ that I knew that\u2019s what God had for me to do\u2014that was His pattern for marriage and that was my part of the marriage. That was my piece that I brought to him and to us that God wanted to work together for our good and for the good of our kids too. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Talk to the young wives. These guys talked to the young men in the church or out there\u2014what about the young women? How would you encourage them? Would you encourage them to find mentors? How do they go about doing that to learn how to respect their husbands?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> I think they do need to find mentors\u2014I think it\u2019s really important. Just a couple of months ago, our youngest daughter was assigned a mentor through her church. It has been really fun to watch our daughter, Laura, meet with this woman, who is in her early 50\u2019s, who still has kids at home; but they meet together for coffee. Laura asks questions and her mentor answers questions; they have a great relationship. I am so encouraged to watch that. I think all young women would benefit from having an older woman in her life to do that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tBut I also think the other piece is believing what God has called you to do. When you can\u2019t do it, knowing that God will give you what you need when you can\u2019t do it. I\u2019ve been thinking about this a lot lately\u2014that we all run into seasons in our marriage\u2014sometimes it\u2019s long seasons but sometimes it\u2019s just days when we\u2019re struggling with respect, or we have a hard time believing, or we don\u2019t even feel like loving our spouse\/loving our husbands. That\u2019s when I\u2019ve learned, over the years, to depend on what Christ has done for me, and what He\u2019s given me, and what He can supply that I don\u2019t have. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI think it\u2019s both\u2014it\u2019s having someone\u2014a physical person in your life, who can encourage you\u2014but it\u2019s also, in those alone moments in your marriage, when you go: \u201cI\u2019m not really feeling love for him right now,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m not thinking I can respect him in this moment; but Jesus, will You help me believe in him? Will You give me what I don\u2019t have the capacity to produce on my own?\u201d because He is able when I\u2019m not able. That is the key, really, to being a wife in marriage\u2014is depending on Jesus to give you what you don\u2019t possess; because none of us have it all. None of us have it wired together.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Dennis isn\u2019t perfect? [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Did you see how easily I laughed at that? \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That was quick! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was too quick! [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was very quick!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Way too quick.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara: <\/strong>Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> You know, it\u2019s interesting\u2014at the end of a significant chapter in Ephesians, Chapter 5, Paul instructs\u2014he actually gives a summary of the responsibilities of a husband and a wife. In the last verse, he says, \u201cHowever, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.\u201d If the husband is loving his wife as Christ loved the church\u2014denying himself, giving up his life for her, serving her, meeting her needs, asking how he can help her\u2014and that means getting off your easy seat, watching TV and football all the time, and helping put the kids to bed, helping clean the dishes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Preach it! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I mean, really, guys have to get it\u2014that this whole equation of the dance between a husband and a wife begins with their love. We are called, first and foremost, to love our wives as Christ loved the church. That makes a wife\u2019s respect possible.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Well, it does. I will readily admit that I am not always the easiest person to love. Husbands need to depend on what Christ can supply in their lives, too; because we\u2019re <em>both<\/em> imperfect\u2014we\u2019re both broken; we both have flaws; and we both have days when it\u2019s really hard to do what God has called us to do. In those days\/those moments of every day of every year of every marriage, that\u2019s when we discover what Christ has done for us. That\u2019s when we experience the power of God working in our lives, and that\u2019s what makes our marriage attractive to others\u2014is following what He\u2019s told us to do. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> You know, as I\u2019m listening to you guys talk about that\u2014and how you\u2019ve modeled that for us\u2014I was going to say: \u201cBarbara, I\u2019m so glad you\u2019re in Ann\u2019s life; because she needed to respect me so bad.\u201d [Laughter] She had a model, you know: \u201cFinally, there\u2019s somebody to look to,\u201d\u2014but that\u2019s on a funny side; that\u2019s in our book\u2014we can talk about that some other time. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI was just thinking: \u201cYou\u2019ve impacted our lives, and what you just talked about is impacted millions\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cnot thousands\u2014<em>millions<\/em> through FamilyLife and, even, through this radio program.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019ll tell you another thing that I\u2019ve learned from you. One of my learnings is\u2014I really always loved your laugh. Both of you\u2019ve laughed\u2014there\u2019s joy. I thought of the day that we did join that speaker team. You can tell the story, Dennis. That could have been a moment of \u201cWe don\u2019t make the team.\u201d Tell them what happened.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We haze the new speakers, who join the speaker team. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> This was the first year, by the way, that you did that. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> We do hazing to just humble them a little bit and let them introduce themselves in unique\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014creative,\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014spontaneous, fun ways.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Man, did we get it from the Wilsons\u2014I mean, they brought it!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> What did they do Barbara?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> They came out, dressed in black leather\u2014both of them; right? [Laughter] Am I remembering correctly? Was it black leather jacket and jeans or whatever?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We started out in farmer kind of outfits.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> I don\u2019t remember that part. I just remember the black leather.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> And then we stripped it off. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We stripped it off to leather. We started with farm, because we grew up in a farm sort of town\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014in Ohio.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Got it.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> You know, we\u2019re from Findlay, Ohio\u2014it\u2019s sort of farm.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We did it with a rap.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes; I remember the whole thing was done to a rap.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Then we ripped it off; and yes, I had Michael Jackson\u2019s one glove. I had a tattoo on my arm.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I had a black leather skirt on. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We had music with our little jam box. You guys remember it?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes; I remember it. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We started this rap. I can still do it: \u201cMy name is Dave and\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cmy name is Ann.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cWe\u2019re gonna talk at you\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave and Ann:<\/strong> \u2014\u201cthe best we can.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cWe\u2019re from the Motor City, now that is true.\u201d We had this whole little rap going. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was so great! It was my all-time favorite of all of them. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> We finished; and the group of speakers\u2014the veteran speakers\u2014just kind of sat there, with their mouths\u2014their mouths were just wide open.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Dennis, you can share your side; but I can share\u2014when I was doing it, I\u2019m looking\u2014you and Crawford were in the front row, and you\u2019re jaw was at your chest. It was like\u2014and I\u2019m like: \u201cOh my gosh! They\u2019re reconsidering firing us right now. [Laughter] We\u2019re not going to make it past this\u201d\u2014you know\u2014\u201cinterview! They are like\u201d\u2014I literally thought\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u201cWho are these two?\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> \u201cThey think, \u2018This isn\u2019t even Christian\u2014what they\u2019re doing!\u2019\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u201cAre these guys\u2026?!\u201d This is why one of your first speaking assignments was inside the Artic Circle. [Laugher] \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; I agree.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was fun.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> It was so much fun. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> What was it about their laugh that was infectious?\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Well, here\u2019s the thing. I really did have this second thought; and again, we\u2019re not even done yet. I was in the middle of this thing, and I\u2019m like: \u201cOh, this was a bad idea,\u201d\u2014 [Laughter]\u2014you know\u2014\u201cThese people are a little more conservative than we are. We pushed the envelope a little too far.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Yes; yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>I just really was having this thing: \u201cLike man\u2026\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> It was a close vote. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014which, by the way, I was 29 and Dave was 32. We were young\u2014\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> \u2014yes; when we were doing this.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> I had hair\u2014I had the whole thing going on back then. You know, at the end of the night\u2014because other speakers did their little skit\u2014and then, you guys came up and you just started laughing. That\u2019s when I was like: \u201cOh, they get us. They get what we did.\u201d You know, it was pushing the envelope a little bit; but there\u2019s a joy and a laugher like, \u201cYou know, life\u2019s going to be fun; and they\u2019re going to be fun on the speaker team.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> I think that\u2019s the word\u2014you guys are fun. You always find the good in people; you find the best in life, and you laugh <em>hard<\/em>. You make that a point, I think.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> That\u2019s one of the things that I think I\u2019ve loved about listening to <em>FamilyLife Today<\/em>\u2014is you and Bob\u2014and you guys laughing. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Yes.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> There\u2019s always power moments in the show; and yet, there\u2019s joy. There should be joy\u2014I never saw joy in the church.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Here\u2019s the hint for the listeners: \u201cThis is what you\u2019re getting\u2014you\u2019re getting Dave and Ann with raps, dressed in black leather.\u201d [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Now, wait; they\u2019re coming to the studio dressed in black leather?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave: <\/strong>No way! No way! \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I don\u2019t know. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Ann:<\/strong> Everybody just turned off their radio. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> I\u2019m only speaking, symbolically, here. The issue is\u2014they\u2019re going to push the boundaries in your life. You know what it\u2019s going to be?\u2014it\u2019s going to be pushing you and the boundaries toward Christ.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> \u2014always.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u2014always.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> They will always do that.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> \u2014you know, somebody, who loosens you up. There\u2019s a lot of our listeners\u2014they need to laugh. A couple of laughs a week is not excessive. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> That\u2019s right. [Laughter]\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> You know, you just need to have a good time and be found guilty of having too much fun rather than too little, because we know where we\u2019re going\u2014we\u2019re going to heaven!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> Amen. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> A non-Christian can\u2019t afford laughter. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> Yes; we should have the joy. Our joy should be a magnet to people that don\u2019t know Christ. I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ve ever seen this\u2014it\u2019s interesting\u2014there\u2019s a study done, years ago. Children laughed\u2014you know how many times a day?\u2014the average child?\u2014500 times a day. If you\u2019ve had kids, you go: \u201cYes; they do.\u201d It drives you crazy with laughing. Adults laugh 15 times a day. What\u2019s wrong with that picture?!\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Barbara:<\/strong> A lot is wrong with that picture.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> It\u2019s like you say to your kids, \u201cGrow up and be an adult.\u201d Well, they did; and they stopped laughing. It\u2019s like: \u201cWait; joy! We know the end of the story\u2014He rose from the dead; there\u2019s eternity waiting for us.\u201d \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dennis:<\/strong> Right. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Dave:<\/strong> We should have joy. Again, I\u2019m not saying you don\u2019t go through hard times and you work through those things; but man, there should be a sense of joy. You guys modeled that in your marriage and in your ministry, and you let us get on the team.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> I would think that our listeners, who would want to get to know the two of you\u2014Dave and Ann\u2014better, we\u2019ve got copies of your book, <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>, which lets us in on the interior of your relationship\u2014the lessons you\u2019ve learned and how you\u2019ve grown, as a couple, as a result of where God\u2019s had you. The book is called <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>. It really is a great book that points us to how marriage is designed to work. The way you guys said: \u201cIf you want your marriage relationship to work the way it\u2019s supposed to work, your relationship with God has to be what He has designed that to be.\u201d That\u2019s at the heart of the book, <em>Vertical Marriage<\/em>. You can order a copy when you go to FamilyLifeToday.com; or call if you\u2019d like to get a copy: 1-800-FL-TODAY is the number. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI\u2019m also thinking of listeners who\u2014you are new to FamilyLife and you\u2019re thinking: \u201cI\u2019d like to know a little more of the history. I\u2019d like to know about how God has been at work through this ministry in its first four decades\u2014some of the things that God has done through this ministry to impact lives, and generations, and legacies,\u201d\u2014because that\u2019s what we\u2019re all about here. We sat down\u2014Dennis and Barbara and I sat down, not long ago, and we reflected back on the first four decades of this ministry and some of the <em>amazing<\/em> things that we had a chance to see God do in those first 40 years. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tWe would love to send you two audio CDs that tell the story of the first four decades of the ministry of FamilyLife and let you live that with us. You can go to our website at FamilyLifeToday.com and just request those CDs\u2014they\u2019re our gift to you\u2014no cost. Just give us you name and address; we\u2019ll mail the CDs out to you\u2014or call and say, \u201cI\u2019d like the CDs they were talking about on the radio today,\u201d\u2014we\u2019ll send them out to you. Our phone number is 1-800-FL-TODAY\u2014that\u2019s 1-800-358-6329\u20141-800-\u201cF\u201d as in family, \u201cL\u201d as in life, and then the word, \u201cTODAY.\u201d\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tNow, before we\u2019re all done here today, the new President of FamilyLife, David Robbins has dropped by with some closing thoughts. Hi, David.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>David:<\/strong> Hi, Bob; thanks so much. Dave and Ann expressed the feeling of standing on the shoulders of the Raineys. Meg and I feel the exact same way. Dennis and Barbara have been so gracious to befriend and mentor us during this transition of becoming the President and have offered so much wisdom and support. As I stepped into this role 15 months ago, it was immediately clear that Dennis and Barbara\u2019s fingerprints are all over this place. They have, not only impacted Meg\u2019s and my life personally, but millions of people all over the world. As we enter into this new chapter, we will stay true to the core biblical principles that Dennis and Barbara have established. We are praying that God would allow us to steward what they have handed off to continue to impact as many marriages and families as possible.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\t<strong>Bob:<\/strong> Yes; that\u2019s right. We hope our listeners can join us back tomorrow. Dave and Ann Wilson are going to be here again. We\u2019re going to continue to talk about the lives and the legacies of Dennis and Barbara Rainey\u2014how we\u2019ve all been impacted through their ministry. I hope you can be with us for that tomorrow. \n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t\t\tI want to thank our engineer today, Keith Lynch, along with our entire broadcast production\u00a0 team. On behalf of our host, Dennis Rainey, I'm Bob Lepine. 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