{"id":291348,"date":"2019-04-01T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-01T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/1-why-is-he-so-interested-in-sex\/"},"modified":"2024-10-16T11:32:59","modified_gmt":"2024-10-16T15:32:59","slug":"1-why-is-he-so-interested-in-sex","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/podcast\/married-with-benefits\/1-why-is-he-so-interested-in-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"1: Why Is He So Interested in Sex?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you long to make deep, heart-to-heart connections with your husband? You might be surprised to learn that he wants the same thing. But his efforts come in disguise. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explore the topic of sex and why this simple physical act carries such complex emotional weight for your husband. Understand the difference between assertive desire and receptive desire. Learn what to do when you&#8217;re tired. 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