{"id":283796,"date":"2024-07-18T15:58:02","date_gmt":"2024-07-18T19:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/?page_id=283796"},"modified":"2025-05-13T13:53:50","modified_gmt":"2025-05-13T17:53:50","slug":"preparing-to-blend","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/preparing-to-blend\/","title":{"rendered":"Preparing to Blend | FamilyLife\u00ae"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-230cc7c1 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\" fetchpriority=\"high\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-6ca721b9\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image aligncenter uagb-block-eb957596 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-center\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PTB_header-4.png ,https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PTB_header-4.png 780w, https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PTB_header-4.png 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PTB_header-4.png\" alt=\"Preparing to Blend | FamilyLife\u00ae | Title\" class=\"uag-image-283804\" width=\"678\" height=\"300\" title=\"PTB_header-4\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-80eff8b8\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">The Engaged Couples Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily<\/h2><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-e3ac235a alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The research is clear: premarital education works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can improve the quality of your relationship and lower your odds of divorce just by spending some focused time and energy preparing for marriage and life as a blended family after the wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The book&nbsp;<em>Preparing to Blend: The Couples Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily<\/em>&nbsp;gives engaged couples the guidance they need and includes practical Growing Activities to prepare children and adults for stepfamily living. Simultaneously, the book &nbsp;gives pastors\/premarital counselors a premarital preparation program they can immediately begin using with couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/shop.familylife.com\/p-6133-preparing-to-blend.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Get your copy today<\/a>&nbsp;and click on the tabs below for free bonus resources for couples, and a FREE Leader\u2019s Guide for pastors and premarital counselors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-btn__default-btn uagb-btn-tablet__default-btn uagb-btn-mobile__default-btn uagb-block-a2b961bf\"><div class=\"uagb-buttons__wrap uagb-buttons-layout-wrap \">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-buttons-child uagb-buttons__outer-wrap uagb-block-d066a82a spectra-gbs-button-medium-primary1717011480214 wp-block-button\"><div class=\"uagb-button__wrapper\"><a class=\"uagb-buttons-repeater wp-block-button__link\" aria-label=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/shop.familylife.com\/p-6133-preparing-to-blend.aspx\" rel=\"follow noopener\" target=\"_self\" role=\"button\"><div class=\"uagb-button__link\">Order Now<\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-bdfab75e alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-tabs uagb-block-a6d03679 uagb-tabs__wrap uagb-tabs__hstyle1-desktop uagb-tabs__hstyle3-tablet uagb-tabs__stack1-mobile\" data-tab-active=\"0\"><ul class=\"uagb-tabs__panel uagb-tabs__align-left\" role=\"tablist\"><li class=\"uagb-tab uagb-tabs__active\" role=\"none\"><a href=\"#uagb-tabs__tab0\" class=\"uagb-tabs-list uagb-tabs__icon-position-left\" data-tab=\"0\" role=\"tab\"><div>Engaged Couples<\/div><\/a><\/li><li class=\"uagb-tab \" role=\"none\"><a href=\"#uagb-tabs__tab1\" class=\"uagb-tabs-list uagb-tabs__icon-position-left\" data-tab=\"1\" role=\"tab\"><div>Pre-Marital Counselors<\/div><\/a><\/li><\/ul><div class=\"uagb-tabs__body-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-tabs-child uagb-tabs__body-container uagb-inner-tab-0\" aria-labelledby=\"uagb-tabs__tab0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-9674243f alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t just plan a wedding. Prepare for life as a couple and a blended family long after the ceremony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list uagb-block-f624a22d\"><div class=\"uagb-icon-list__wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-f62b6796\"><a target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"Read the first chapter of Preparing to Blend \" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/additional-pdfs.s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com\/preparing-to-blend_chapter-1.pdf\"> <\/a><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M438.6 278.6l-160 160C272.4 444.9 264.2 448 256 448s-16.38-3.125-22.62-9.375c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25L338.8 288H32C14.33 288 .0016 273.7 .0016 256S14.33 224 32 224h306.8l-105.4-105.4c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25s32.75-12.5 45.25 0l160 160C451.1 245.9 451.1 266.1 438.6 278.6z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Read the first chapter of Preparing to Blend <\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-bf1ba785\"><a target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"Planing Your Blended Family Wedding with Children (read an excerpt from the book) \" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/articles\/topics\/blended-family\/remarriage\/dating-and-preparing-for-marriage\/planning-your-blended-family-wedding-with-children\"> <\/a><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M438.6 278.6l-160 160C272.4 444.9 264.2 448 256 448s-16.38-3.125-22.62-9.375c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25L338.8 288H32C14.33 288 .0016 273.7 .0016 256S14.33 224 32 224h306.8l-105.4-105.4c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25s32.75-12.5 45.25 0l160 160C451.1 245.9 451.1 266.1 438.6 278.6z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Planing Your Blended Family Wedding with Children (read an excerpt from the book) <\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-e3cd8b58\"><a target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"Creative Blended Family Wedding Ideas for Your Ceremony \" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/articles\/topics\/blended-family\/remarriage\/dating-and-preparing-for-marriage\/creative-blended-family-wedding-ideas-for-your-ceremony\/\"> <\/a><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M438.6 278.6l-160 160C272.4 444.9 264.2 448 256 448s-16.38-3.125-22.62-9.375c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25L338.8 288H32C14.33 288 .0016 273.7 .0016 256S14.33 224 32 224h306.8l-105.4-105.4c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25s32.75-12.5 45.25 0l160 160C451.1 245.9 451.1 266.1 438.6 278.6z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Creative Blended Family Wedding Ideas for Your Ceremony <\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-f04e24b6\"><a target=\"_self\" aria-label=\"Preparing for Coupleness and Familyness in a Blended Home \" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/articles\/topics\/blended-family\/remarriage\/dating-and-preparing-for-marriage\/preparing-for-coupleness-and-familyness-in-a-blended-home\/\"> <\/a><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M438.6 278.6l-160 160C272.4 444.9 264.2 448 256 448s-16.38-3.125-22.62-9.375c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25L338.8 288H32C14.33 288 .0016 273.7 .0016 256S14.33 224 32 224h306.8l-105.4-105.4c-12.5-12.5-12.5-32.75 0-45.25s32.75-12.5 45.25 0l160 160C451.1 245.9 451.1 266.1 438.6 278.6z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Preparing for Coupleness and Familyness in a Blended Home <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-tabs-child uagb-tabs__body-container uagb-inner-tab-1\" aria-labelledby=\"uagb-tabs__tab1\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-f596fab4\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Get Equipped<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thank you for helping to close the gap in premarital counseling for blended family couples. You are setting them on the right path and proving to be a trusted friend who can support them over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The research is clear: premarital education works. In general the average couple sees a 30 percent increase in relationship quality and it lowers the annual odds of divorce by 31 percent<sup>1<\/sup>. That\u2019s the good news.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bad news for blended family couples is while 44 percent of all couples report receiving some form of premarital education (usually by a religious organization), fewer than 25 percent of pre-stepfamily couples received relationship education to discuss their upcoming blended family marriage<sup>2<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That creates a significant premarital counseling gap for blended families\u2014and means couples start their stepfamily journey without support and protection against re-divorce (which occurs at a rate 10-15% higher than first marriages).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Let\u2019s close that gap!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/additional-pdfs.s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com\/Preparing-to-blend_leaders-guide.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Get the Preparing to Blend Leader\u2019s Guide (PDF)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This download and the&nbsp;<em>Preparing to Blend<\/em>&nbsp;book by Ron Deal gives you a premarital program specifically designed for blended family couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Note:<\/strong>&nbsp;Some couples will want two copies of this book in order to individually highlight what speaks to them most; others will share a copy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022 Find out about our&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/familylifeblended\/events\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">upcoming leader training events<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;or email us at&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:blended@familylife.com\">blended@familylife.com<\/a>&nbsp;and ask to be put on a notification list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022 Read the article&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/articles\/topics\/blended-family\/remarriage\/dating-and-preparing-for-marriage\/planning-your-blended-family-wedding-with-children\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Planning Your Blended Family Wedding With Children&nbsp;<\/strong><strong>\uffeb<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022 Read the first chapter of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/additional-pdfs.s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com\/preparing-to-blend_chapter-1.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><em>Preparing to Blend<\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;<strong>\uffeb<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ministering to Blended Families After the Wedding<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">FamilyLife Blended has created many resources and strategies to help strengthen stepfamilies.&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/familylifeblended\/pastors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Visit our Pastor\u2019s Page<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;to learn more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><sup>1<\/sup>&nbsp;Jason S. Carroll and William J. Doherty, \u201cEvaluating the Effectiveness of Premarital Prevention Programs: A Meta-Analytic Review of Outcome Research,\u201d Family Relations 52, no. 2 (2003): 105-118; and Scott M. Stanley, et al., \u201cPremarital Education, Marital Quality, and Marital Stability: Findings from a Large, Random, Household Survey,\u201d Journal of Family Psychology 20, no. 1 (March 2006): 117-126.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><sup>2<\/sup>&nbsp;Lawrence Ganong and Marilyn Coleman, Stepfamily Relationships: Development, Dynamics, and Interventions (New York: Kluwer Academic, 2004), 68.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-34d53f45 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-ed7d8186\"><h6 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">Share this with your pastor, premarital counselor, or a couple you know.<\/h6><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-81876853\">      \n\t\t\t<div class=\"uagb-icon-wrapper uagb-block-5399b1e5      \"\n\t\t\tstyle=\"\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span 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150px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/P2B-Book_600x600.png\" alt=\"Preparing to Blend | FamilyLife\u00ae | Book\" class=\"uag-image-284113\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" title=\"P2B-Book_600x600\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-c3c22a8d\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-7c20f329\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">About the book<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to enter a blended family marriage well, this is just the book for you. Aimed at engaged or pre-engaged couples who have at least one child from a previous relationship,&nbsp;<em>Preparing to Blend<\/em>&nbsp;offers wise counsel on:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list uagb-block-e8da1fda\"><div class=\"uagb-icon-list__wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-6c55810b\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Parenting.<\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-c87ef2c1\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span 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with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list uagb-block-8ba75a1d\"><div class=\"uagb-icon-list__wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-bb441e0a\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Young or adult children.<\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-4ea3e3ad\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Insights to help you better understand each other.<\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div 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256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Exercises designed to accelerate family bonding.<\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-c0a6c21b\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">A full nest or an empty one.<\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-icon-list-child uagb-block-59b330c9\"><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__source-wrap\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M512 256C512 397.4 397.4 512 256 512C114.6 512 0 397.4 0 256C0 114.6 114.6 0 256 0C397.4 0 512 114.6 512 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"uagb-icon-list__label\">Guidance on planning \u00a0your wedding with your children in mind, so you can build 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Highly recommended!<\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__meta-inner\"><div class=\"uagb-testimonial-details\"><span class=\"uagb-tm__author-name\">Gary Thomas<\/span><span class=\"uagb-tm__company\">Author, Sacred Marriage and Sacred Parenting<\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uagb-testimonial__wrap  uagb-tm__imgicon-style-circle uagb-tm__image-position-bottom uagb-tm__bg-type-color \"><div class=\"uagb-tm__content\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__overlay\"><\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__text-wrap\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__desc\">As you contemplate creating a blended family, reading and discussing Preparing to Blend is one of the best ways to prepare for success in creating the blended family that you envision.<\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__meta-inner\"><div class=\"uagb-testimonial-details\"><span class=\"uagb-tm__author-name\">Gary Chapman <\/span><span class=\"uagb-tm__company\">PhD, author, The 5 Love Languages<\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uagb-testimonial__wrap  uagb-tm__imgicon-style-circle uagb-tm__image-position-bottom uagb-tm__bg-type-color \"><div class=\"uagb-tm__content\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__overlay\"><\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__text-wrap\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__desc\">Ron L. Deal has provided parents and family members with a Hope-filled, practical, timely, and insightful resource in <em>Preparing to Blend.<\/em><\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__meta-inner\"><div class=\"uagb-testimonial-details\"><span class=\"uagb-tm__author-name\">Dr. Tim Clinton <\/span><span class=\"uagb-tm__company\">President, American Association of Christian Counselors; executive director, James Dobson Family Institute<\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"uagb-testimonial__wrap  uagb-tm__imgicon-style-circle uagb-tm__image-position-bottom uagb-tm__bg-type-color \"><div class=\"uagb-tm__content\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__overlay\"><\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__text-wrap\"><div class=\"uagb-tm__desc\">I view Ron as the leading expert in the world of stepfamily issues. He brings his years of knowledge in the field to this most helpful book. I love it and will recommend it to anyone preparing to blend.<\/div><div class=\"uagb-tm__meta-inner\"><div class=\"uagb-testimonial-details\"><span class=\"uagb-tm__author-name\">Jim Burns<\/span><span class=\"uagb-tm__company\">PhD, President, HomeWord; author, <em>Getting Ready for Marriage<\/em> and <em>Doing Life with Your Adult Children<\/em><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-f175d9bc alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-15432963\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image aligncenter uagb-block-3377c2d0 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-center\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PreparingtoBlend-Ron-Deal_500x500.jpg ,https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PreparingtoBlend-Ron-Deal_500x500.jpg 780w, https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PreparingtoBlend-Ron-Deal_500x500.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1001\/2024\/07\/PreparingtoBlend-Ron-Deal_500x500.jpg\" alt=\"Preparing to Blend | FamilyLife\u00ae | Ron Deal\" class=\"uag-image-284203\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" title=\"PreparingtoBlend-Ron-Deal_500x500\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-9fb0b939\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-7bc6d893\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">About the Author<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f7d4ddb712ebf7fcdeed41bd504f028b wp-block-paragraph\">Ron is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is director of FamilyLife Blended\u00ae and president of Smart Stepfamilies\u2122.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-9074e64db0d0911c24c1bb02b94245ec wp-block-paragraph\">He is the author of more than a dozen books and resources including the bestselling&nbsp;<em>The Smart Stepfamily<\/em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>Building Love Together in Blended Families<\/em>&nbsp;(with Dr. Gary Chapman).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5aa6b084b106045000a7d326e0afe5b0 wp-block-paragraph\">Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and he and his wife, Nan, have been married since 1986 and have three boys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-120742466aeb81a68317f0b17a481ce2 wp-block-paragraph\">Find resources, podcasts, and conference information at&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/smartstepfamilies.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration:none; color:#ffffff;\"><u>SmartStepfamilies.com<\/u><\/span><\/a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-stage.familylife.com\/www\/familylifeblended\/blended-families\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration:none; color:#ffffff;\"><u>FamilyLife.com\/blended<\/u><\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"recommendations\" class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-77e74232 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-8241529a\"><h2 class=\"uagb-heading-text\"><em>Preparing to Blend<\/em>&nbsp;is highly recommended by numerous relationship experts.<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-6df9a37b\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>Preparing to Blend<\/em>&nbsp;is a kind and helpful guide for families who are merging two households into one. Ron Deal provides such valuable wisdom on this topic few are talking about, but many are&nbsp;in desperate need of.&nbsp;<em><strong>What a gift this book will be to all couples who want to navigate well and learn to thrive as a stepfamily.<\/strong>\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-bbb9123401683e94bc6b9509cb8a1346 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Lysa TerKeurst,&nbsp;<em>#1 New York Times bestselling author; president, Proverbs 31 Ministries.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-fd8bdccd\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAs you contemplate creating a blended family, reading and discussing Preparing to Blend is one of the&nbsp;<em><strong>best ways to prepare for success in creating the blended family that you envision.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eb30702b24e7e0d873ebf13bdfc4c4c1 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Gary Chapman,&nbsp;<em>PhD, author, The 5 Love Languages.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-a86ae7e7\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201cThere is absolutely no one better than Ron Deal to help blended families.<\/strong>&nbsp;No one. This resource is a critical tool in helping a couple prepare for their future together and the future of their blended family. &nbsp;<em><strong>Do the critical work now and your kids will thank you later.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f823919113cebcfcd93019e9a8ec4b03 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Dave and Ann Wilson,&nbsp;<em>co-hosts, FamilyLife Today.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-2b74aaa0\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cRon L. Deal has provided parents and family members with&nbsp;<strong><em>a Hope-filled, practical, timely, and insightful resource in<\/em>&nbsp;Preparing to Blend.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3b206c22a0ea27846af1740a45fd8d53 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Dr. Tim Clinton,&nbsp;<em>president, American Association of Christian Counselors; executive director, James Dobson Family Institute.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-b04e9470\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em><strong>This beautifully written book is an extraordinary gift to stepfamilies and to those who want to help them.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;Ron Deal brings decades of experience, deep compassion, profound wisdom, and step-by-step practical guidance to forging a unity of heart for stepcouples and children journeying through the complexities of becoming a \u2018blended family.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-57c0ef217a3ea4fe54fed1f25c9a832c wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Dr. Patricia L. Papernow,&nbsp;<em>author,<\/em>&nbsp;Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;The Stepfamily Handbook.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3136e71f\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em><strong>I view Ron as the leading expert in the world of stepfamily issues.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;He brings his years of knowledge in the field to this most helpful book. I love it and will recommend it to anyone preparing to blend.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7e0d6d50038f9d039df4ec35711f0a4b wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Jim Burns,&nbsp;<em>PhD, president, HomeWord; author,<\/em>&nbsp;Getting Ready for Marriage&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;Doing Life with Your Adult Children.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-c082860e\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMost premarital preparation doesn\u2019t foster the needed dialogue to prepare for blending families. But now,&nbsp;<em><strong>Preparing to Blend gives couples a roadmap they didn\u2019t know they wanted!<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/em>Ron gifts us with a one-of-a-kind resource from a deep, practical well of decades of focused work counseling blended families and biblical expertise.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4226cad837187a53bfa7380aaa0252f7 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013David Robbins,&nbsp;<em>president and CEO, FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-34d77bf7\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cRon Deal is a recognized expert on blended families;&nbsp;<em>Preparing to Blend<\/em>&nbsp;will equip you to face your future together and blend your family well.&nbsp;<em><strong>It\u2019s also a great guide for leaders wanting to offer effective pre-stepfamily counseling.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;I highly recommend it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6950ddfeb36c5d359fd46694d7095424 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Shaunti Feldhahn,&nbsp;<em>social researcher; bestselling author,<\/em>&nbsp;For Women Only, For Parents Only,&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;Thriving in Love &amp; Money.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-feb1dc1e\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat are the practices and considerations couples should prioritize as they prepare for remarriage?&nbsp;<em><strong>Ron Deal is a foremost authority on blended families, and he has written an indispensable manual for engaged couples who want to successfully blend their two families.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3155cd0c21620eb56a9d0f3f13234341 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Jim Daly,&nbsp;<em>president, Focus on the Family.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-ecb8c56f\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI thank God for Ron Deal!&nbsp;<em><strong>His advice is so practical, real to life, wise, and helpful.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;This will be my go-to book to give to couples who are about to blend their families.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-572a941b9e20a0c098754c86ad0d8763 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Gary Thomas,&nbsp;<em>author,<\/em>&nbsp;Sacred Marriage&nbsp;<em>and<\/em>&nbsp;Sacred Parenting.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3e83b879\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMany books on blended families focus more on helping parents and minimize children\u2019s needs.&nbsp;<em><strong>Preparing to Blend boldly dives deeper into the struggles of family members. This is a powerful, effective, and easy-to-follow roadmap for every blended family.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;If you want a healthy and strong blended family, Preparing to Blend is a must-read.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-56e3d5cb9f37a1a0ed23ab09ef0b04ff wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Meg Meeker,&nbsp;<em>MD, bestselling author,<\/em>&nbsp;Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-e5d703cd\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cRon Deal\u2019s expert voice and years of experience provide a travel guide of wisdom through the issues of blending a family, such as what to expect, why it\u2019s different, how to handle unhappy kids, setting boundaries, the former spouse, jealousy, discipline, bonding, loyalty, and other issues that can cause conflict.&nbsp;<strong><em>Preparing to Blend is a must-read for blending couples, extended family, pastors, and therapists.<\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;I highly recommend this resource.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f2a66774537a35e07fc038a50008dc75 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Laura Petherbridge,&nbsp;<em>speaker, co-author of<\/em>&nbsp;The Smart Stepmom.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3dfd0ca8\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cRon Deal has studied and assisted stepfamilies for decades and knows more about them than anyone ministering to them today.&nbsp;<em><strong>Preparing to Blend needs to be required reading for any two people wanting to marry and blend their families.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c9fe6108ae93570dc0f2ebe382912fa9 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Steve Arterburn,&nbsp;<em>bestselling author and founder of New Life Live.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-cd5dcfe5\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em><strong>If you want to prepare yourself adequately to blend a family, read this book.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;Ron Deal has identified relational dynamics and everyday scenarios of stepcouples that prepare you for the road ahead and how to navigate it. Whether your kids are young, teenagers, or adults, this book is for you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0e2fd240c8fdb92a61a072934bf5128f wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Gayla Grace,&nbsp;<em>staff writer for FamilyLife<sup>\u00ae<\/sup>; author,<\/em>&nbsp;Stepparenting with Grace.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-34dc2c5d\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPreparing to Blend is Ron Deal\u2019s crowning jewel! Packed with practical application for couples entering the stepfamily journey!&nbsp;<em><strong>You\u2019ll be delighted as a pastor, counselor, or one who is remarrying to heed the guidance in these pages.<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;Knowing how to navigate the pain one has come from increases the success of remarriage legacy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eb377fb1df12dceb32757b76dfbe0006 wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013Gil Stuart,&nbsp;<em>MA, LCHMC, and Brenda Stuart, CTC, coauthors,<\/em>&nbsp;Restored and Remarried.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-756f1206\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cEvery couple who is preparing for married life in the proverbial blender needs all the help they can get. 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